FabSwingers.com forum: I wish we were closer …?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you feel when this is said to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

In distance I mean

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

As in distance? Or feelings?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

In distance I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As in distance? Or feelings?"

Distance

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

In some cases it's a I would love to shag you but I can't be arsed traveling all that way

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I think ‘oh fuck’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I feel like it's a message which was pointless to send and clogs up my inbox, but I still appreciate the sentiment behind it

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Meet in the middle?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Usually I feel like it's a message which was pointless to send and clogs up my inbox, but I still appreciate the sentiment behind it"

Interesting. I kind of see it as, because then I would shag you, without consulting me on whether I want to

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think it’s rather “throwaway” if I’m honest. Living down here in Devon, most of the time you are looking at a 70 mile round trip for the majority of your meets, and meeting someone from the same or close-by village is normally undesired because of small population sizes. distance is never really a problem down in this part of the world.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think fair enough, don't blame them, I'm pretty hot.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If a frog had wings, it wouldn’t bump its ass when it hops…

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

happens all the time as i love Scottish and Irish men

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

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Wish you were closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think fair enough, don't blame them, I'm pretty hot."

Me too, I’m positively sweaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually I feel like it's a message which was pointless to send and clogs up my inbox, but I still appreciate the sentiment behind it

Interesting. I kind of see it as, because then I would shag you, without consulting me on whether I want to

True, even if they were closer it still doesn't mean they'd get a shag lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a frog had wings, it wouldn’t bump its ass when it hops…

Ummm, what?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's a harmless comment but it can be taken as a very shallow interest in someone......

as in e.g. I only travel for 10 minute shags....

you are not worth a long journey etc etc...

It's just a throw away comment that's not deserving of time or thought really

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

Wish you were closer

. I will be next weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a harmless comment but it can be taken as a very shallow interest in someone......

as in e.g. I only travel for 10 minute shags....

you are not worth a long journey etc etc...

It's just a throw away comment that's not deserving of time or thought really"

I don’t generally, but I’m a bit bored today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think its a get out clause when said by new people.

Unless its me saying it in desperation at having to do more motorway miles

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Totally depends on the person...complete stranger then I'm rather moot about it, someone I've connected to then a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s rather “throwaway” if I’m honest. Living down here in Devon, most of the time you are looking at a 70 mile round trip for the majority of your meets, and meeting someone from the same or close-by village is normally undesired because of small population sizes. distance is never really a problem down in this part of the world.

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I'm in West Cornwall and totally agree ... I'm 100 miles from the closest motorway, 70 miles from nearest city so I travel for everything!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Happens me all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happens me all the time

Well, if you will live across the water

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s the presumption that if we were closer we would meet, is what I dislike about it. There may be a number of reasons why we won’t meet, not just the distance.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

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Snap x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

Wish you were closer

. I will be next weekend

God help you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s quite nice especially to friends that live miles away

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

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I'm in West Cornwall and totally agree ... I'm 100 miles from the closest motorway, 70 miles from nearest city so I travel for everything! "

Im telling Truro that you don’t think it’s a city, you’re in trouble

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I say this quite a lot as it’s not possible for me to regularly travel and everyone I like seems to be a million miles away

Wish you were closer

. I will be next weekend

God help you!!!

And god help The North West

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

Particularly relevant in N Ireland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the presumption that if we were closer we would meet, is what I dislike about it. There may be a number of reasons why we won’t meet, not just the distance. "

This is what I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it’s quite nice especially to friends that live miles away

To friends and someone you’ve been chatting with, absolutely yes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I think it’s quite nice especially to friends that live miles away

To friends and someone you’ve been chatting with, absolutely yes. "

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I've said it as it can be the case but rather than a throw away comment, I'd only say it in context of a full message... I'd willingly travel but if someone is a two or three hour drive away and wanting to meet sooner, then it's applicable. I'd always hope to be honest that it was taken for what it was meant and that when some of say it, it does have depth and as a minimum, how it's taken as a compliment and that maybe some other point, things could be arranged. X

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Meet in the middle?

I've done this before

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I think it’s quite nice especially to friends that live miles away

That's how I feel, if you've a connection with then to know they feel that way is nice x

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"How do you feel when this is said to you?

There's usually wishful thinking behind it, but isn't that something we've all been guilty of? If a woman takes the time to write a nice message with that sentiment included I take it as a compliment, more so if it involves country hopping.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I feel like saying this all the time...so many people quite close to me... unfortunately there's the small matter of the river Thames getting in the way

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance...."

Wish you were closer

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

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Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance...."

You’re oooop north posh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like saying this all the time...so many people quite close to me... unfortunately there's the small matter of the river Thames getting in the way

There must be a little ferry man who will punt you over the water

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Trouble is they are normally 100-150 miles away

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

There is a ferry actually... must have a go on it someday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's for someone that you feel a genuine connection with on a depper level, it can be quite heartbreaking to hear, as it's usually mutual feeling.

I've felt that more than ever, recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like saying this all the time...so many people quite close to me... unfortunately there's the small matter of the river Thames getting in the way

There must be a little ferry man who will punt you over the water

Only if you pay him one obol.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

There are people on here I wish lived closer because I’d love to meet them and give them a hug or just tell them in person how awesome they are.

I trust that I’ll get a chance at some point with all the socials likely to happen over the coming 18 months

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance....

You’re oooop north posh!"

This is why i hide my profile whenever I meet anyone. Bunch of nosey gits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like saying this all the time...so many people quite close to me... unfortunately there's the small matter of the river Thames getting in the way

There must be a little ferry man who will punt you over the water

Only if you pay him one obol."

One way ticket to the underworld

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I'm in West Cornwall and totally agree ... I'm 100 miles from the closest motorway, 70 miles from nearest city so I travel for everything!

Im telling Truro that you don’t think it’s a city, you’re in trouble

Hahahahahahahaha it's sooooo not

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If a frog had wings, it wouldn’t bump its ass when it hops…

Ummm, what?"

It’s a pointless wish statement. Things aren’t like that, so what’s the point in saying it?

If someone was closer, it doesn’t mean that anything would happen. Convenience is a poor way to select partners

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

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I'm in West Cornwall and totally agree ... I'm 100 miles from the closest motorway, 70 miles from nearest city so I travel for everything!

Im telling Truro that you don’t think it’s a city, you’re in trouble

Hahahahahahahaha it's sooooo not

You’ll get your tyres let down in Pydar Street car park because you said that! Telling!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When this is said in an initial message - who says I’d meet you if you were nearer?? Like they feel the only thing stopping them meeting me is the distance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's saying it, if its like Charles Manson or somebody then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When this is said in an initial message - who says I’d meet you if you were nearer?? Like they feel the only thing stopping them meeting me is the distance! "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends who's saying it, if its like Charles Manson or somebody then

Good point

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"It’s the presumption that if we were closer we would meet, is what I dislike about it. There may be a number of reasons why we won’t meet, not just the distance. "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the presumption that if we were closer we would meet, is what I dislike about it. There may be a number of reasons why we won’t meet, not just the distance.

Exactly this.

I’m glad it’s not just me. It’s not a big thing, just a bit

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Not had this one personally, I've fel that way about a few of the gorgeous women on here, and still do..

.. But I usually leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

We get this all the time , not so much as a problem as we do enjoy a road trip & the majority of time we meet half way

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I get this a lot from guys, as soon as I mention I've been in Edinburgh twice this year and quite like a trip away for fun they pull back

, sometimes people just use it as an excuse to keep others dangling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who says it. If it's someone I've only just started chatting to then it puts me off as I take it that meeting is going to be an effort. If it's someone I've met and we want to meet more often but can't because of distance then that's cool.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"It’s the presumption that if we were closer we would meet, is what I dislike about it. There may be a number of reasons why we won’t meet, not just the distance.

Exactly this.

I’m glad it’s not just me. It’s not a big thing, just a bit

I’ve said the’ if we was closer line ‘ a few times not to suggest that if we lived closer I’d definitely try and play with the lady ....

but that if we was closer id definitely intend to meet at least for a social and to show off my Yorkshire charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

It hurt cause she lives two doors down, plus she said it shouting out her bedroom window and the bloke with her waving is the bloke that lives 4 doors down.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It makes me feel as if I am obviously not worth travelling for.

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By *mTheMrJMan
over a year ago

Barry

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

I think that for the right person, something can be arranged and it will be worth the drive.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

just had to tell this very hot sub guy he lives too far from me

its a constant struggle the best looking men are from up north

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had that message and have met if he is what I'm looking for.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Depends at what point it's said. As an opener I'd not like it as it appears to assume I'd meet them.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Having a message from someone that doesn't really know me or know if I'm attracted to them and they say they wish were closer is a bit odd and presumptuous.

I'd travel for someone I really wanted to meet and there's always the meet half way if it's really far to travel.

Having said all this, it's just nice to feel wanted

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Totally depends on the person...complete stranger then I'm rather moot about it, someone I've connected to then a little bit

Yeah, I’ve only been told this by my close fwbs and it is sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve considered but had to rethink sadly, setting a distance limit now do feel a big risk when meeting someone first time need escape plan if needed, plus when you have family time is limited and needs planning properly too

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I often think "why?"

"Are you wanting to stalk me as I pop to the shop? I'd not shag ya if you were at the end of my driveway so distance has zero baring unless it's for peeping purposes"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Unless we've agreed there's a mutual attraction I don't see the point.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

If only you lived closer....... because I've sent a FaF message and cock pic to everyone in a 75 mile radius and no one's said yes yet....

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend from here who I've met up with a couple of times and we both wish we lived closer

He's 2 hours away, if he was any closer I have no doubt we'd be seeing a lot more of each other!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I often think "why?"

"Are you wanting to stalk me as I pop to the shop? I'd not shag ya if you were at the end of my driveway so distance has zero baring unless it's for peeping purposes" "

And I was going to stand there with a sign saying "I have cream for your peach"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I often think "why?"

"Are you wanting to stalk me as I pop to the shop? I'd not shag ya if you were at the end of my driveway so distance has zero baring unless it's for peeping purposes"

And I was going to stand there with a sign saying "I have cream for your peach"

pouring not squirty, I don't do squirty

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I often think "why?"

"Are you wanting to stalk me as I pop to the shop? I'd not shag ya if you were at the end of my driveway so distance has zero baring unless it's for peeping purposes"

And I was going to stand there with a sign saying "I have cream for your peach"

pouring not squirty, I don't do squirty

I can control the flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unless we've agreed there's a mutual attraction I don't see the point. "

This is what I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

That is also true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance....

You’re oooop north posh!"

Actually she's in Marmiteville you bunch of stalkers x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I often think "why?"

"Are you wanting to stalk me as I pop to the shop? I'd not shag ya if you were at the end of my driveway so distance has zero baring unless it's for peeping purposes"

And I was going to stand there with a sign saying "I have cream for your peach"

pouring not squirty, I don't do squirty

How about cool whhip?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

Totally. I often wished Lexi lived further away

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Unless we've agreed there's a mutual attraction I don't see the point.

This is what I think.

In fact I think it's a bit of a cheek

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally never had it said to me but if it did get said my answer would be simply I like to travel so distance doesn't put me off

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

Totally. I often wished Lexi lived further away

You can't say that about Lexi!

Mind you it's not like she could punish you for saying that with a flogger as she can't put any power behind it, it's like being hit with a bunch of feathers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it quite often, but then I do live in buttfuck nowhere

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

Totally. I often wished Lexi lived further away

You can't say that about Lexi!

Mind you it's not like she could punish you for saying that with a flogger as she can't put any power behind it, it's like being hit with a bunch of feathers

I wouldn’t bloody mess with her!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

Totally. I often wished Lexi lived further away

You can't say that about Lexi!

Mind you it's not like she could punish you for saying that with a flogger as she can't put any power behind it, it's like being hit with a bunch of feathers

I wouldn’t bloody mess with her!

She's a pussy cat, she wouldn't dare mess with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody wish someone would say this, atleast there would be an indication of so.e interest haha

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

((Note this is a personal opinion, other people in Devon may disagree, your statutory rights are unaffected, vouchers will be offered in replacement if you are dissatisfied with your purchase))

Completely agree. And once you're in the car distance doesn't really make a massive distance....

Wish you were closer

A lot of people we wish were

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Sometimes it's a blessing, others I really wish we were closer too

Totally. I often wished Lexi lived further away

You can't say that about Lexi!

Mind you it's not like she could punish you for saying that with a flogger as she can't put any power behind it, it's like being hit with a bunch of feathers

I wouldn’t bloody mess with her!

Pahhhhh she’s a pussycat!!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

I often think "it's a bit presumptuous that distance is the only thing stopping us having sex"

Cal

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

There's a few people I'd like to live closer too. Just because we have bonded with them and feel that we would benefit from being in each others life's more. I think that is different from what you mean though.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does my nut in. Especially when your willing to travel x

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Road trip!

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I usually agree and feel a little gggrrrr as life isn't fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get the wish... just get told your too far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually agree and feel a little gggrrrr as life isn't fair "

If life was fair we'd all be local...but on a tiny island, nowhere isn't out of reach...OK, maybe Plymouth!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

My initial reaction is “I drive. My FWB is 160 miles away so travel isn’t an issue”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who fancy’s a meet

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I wish i could just get this bloody teleportation machine to work. Pfffft

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a few people I'd like to live closer too. Just because we have bonded with them and feel that we would benefit from being in each others life's more. I think that is different from what you mean though.

Jo.Xx "

I agree, there are people I wish I was closer to, in terms of them being amazing friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who fancy’s a meet"

Oi, get your own thread

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You mean you can't even be bothered to make a special trip to see this fine specimen?!

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

Why does distance matter, the internet delivers the messages, and if the messaging heads towards a meet then the distance issue can be resolved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who fancy’s a meet

Oi, get your own thread

Lol my bad

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"How do you feel when this is said to you?

If we're genuinely fond of each but live 300 miles apart, it's nice to hear.

If it's a polite reason I've given for not meeting someone I'm not attracted to & they bang on about it every time they see me post, then it pissed me off. X

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Usually I feel like it's a message which was pointless to send and clogs up my inbox, but I still appreciate the sentiment behind it

Interesting. I kind of see it as, because then I would shag you, without consulting me on whether I want to

Exactly this!!!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I say wishing never makes anything happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a message from someone who you care about then it stings because distance can be such a bitch, especially with Covid, having a family and little money.

But if it's just from random people I couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's a message from someone who you care about then it stings because distance can be such a bitch, especially with Covid, having a family and little money.

But if it's just from random people I couldn't care less.

It doesn’t bother me, but in a first message form a random stranger I’m a bit

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

"If it's a message from someone who you care about then it stings because distance can be such a bitch, especially with Covid, having a family and little money.

But if it's just from random people I couldn't care less.

It doesn’t bother me, but in a first message form a random stranger I’m a bit

Good job we are close then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very much par for the course for me, I’m

next county down from Cornwall, so I have to travel over 100 miles just to get into Devon and if you’re cycling on a Brompton it can take upwards of 3 weeks to meet for a coffee, and by then I’ve usually been ghosted.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I wish I could say I was a proclaimer that’d walk 500 miles na nana na

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We take it as a compliment! X

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I like it and I take it as a complement. I have noticed that the demographics of interest seems to be from mid england to scotland

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