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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many woman complain that men don't last long enough. What is the ideal length of time?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Long enough to bring her to orgasm a few times, but not so long that she gets bored.

Ultimately, if you're measuring your performance with a stopwatch, then you're probably not going to be creating the result that you want.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your into each other, you shouldn't be clock watching. As long as it takes for you both to be drained of every last drop!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

This is another stereotype about women that is really problematic for me, just like the one about repeat orgasms.

I always feel like something is wrong with me because I have to explain every time that I cannot meet those expectations.

I much rather have shorter sessions, have a drink and a wash, and go again later.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"This is another stereotype about women that is really problematic for me, just like the one about repeat orgasms.

I always feel like something is wrong with me because I have to explain every time that I cannot meet those expectations.

I much rather have shorter sessions, have a drink and a wash, and go again later."

I absolutely understand that, there is also a lot of negative pressure on guys to be the one to perform and that all of the expectation rests with them.

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By *lanor the FairWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This is another stereotype about women that is really problematic for me, just like the one about repeat orgasms.

I always feel like something is wrong with me because I have to explain every time that I cannot meet those expectations.

I much rather have shorter sessions, have a drink and a wash, and go again later."

Agree

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't tend to time it but at a guess I'd say 10-20 mins for the penetrative sex part of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the ideal length of time? "

Nothing like performance anxiety to get into a man’s head and make him perform even less or a non-starter :-/

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's why us gingers with our copper coloured tops are so successful on here.

Other brands are also available

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Many woman complain that men don't last long enough. What is the ideal length of time? "

The longer the better for me as I have loads and never tire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the woman looks like she's working out what to cook for dinner you've probably gone too far!

I am a long stayer. Love a nice slow build up, lots of flirting, suggestiveness, teasing, foreplay, then sex in a variety of positions. Can hold off cumming until she's had all the fun she wants before ending with giving the cat the cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's why us gingers with our copper coloured tops are so successful on here.

Other brands are also available"

I bet you go like a rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping trim can help a man’s stamina

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Twelve 3 minute rounds - if it’s a championship bout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twelve 3 minute rounds - if it’s a championship bout"

Or 5 rounds at 5 minutes if you're in the cage and fancy taking her down for some ground and pound.

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