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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies. What is your number 1 complaint when having sex with a man?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "

This ^

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By *r MisbehaviourMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "

I see this mentioned a lot, on both fronts, the first is just selfishness, but I find it so hard to believe that people don’t turn up fresh as a daisy for meet, it’s shocking.

Sorry people have to deal with that, gross

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Being rough with my pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrr easy with them fingers, I got sore more from fingering than fucking

Also, please don’t cum too quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strumming my clit like a DJ and washing machine tongue.. slow and steady wins the race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being rough with my pussy"

I’ve had that, it’s like my clit is attached please try not to rip it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strumming my clit like a DJ and washing machine tongue.. slow and steady wins the race "

Washing machine tonguing should be banned…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course. "

Haha hope you get back to them within 72 hours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

This ^"

Also this ^

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Being rough with my pussy"

I never understood why some many fellas go for the finger blasting approach without even asking if it’s liked. Especially when it’s early on in the meet.

For me, a lady’s sweet spot is to be gently nurtured into floods of appreciation with (as the mood and mutual need arises) the occasional bout of frenetic activity!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course. "

Hope you have a compliments box too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene. Just shower right before you meet me, it's not that hard!!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Poor hygiene. Just shower right before you meet me, it's not that hard!!"

Or shower with you

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course.

Hope you have a compliments box too "

Do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being rough with my pussy

I never understood why some many fellas go for the finger blasting approach without even asking if it’s liked. Especially when it’s early on in the meet.

For me, a lady’s sweet spot is to be gently nurtured into floods of appreciation with (as the mood and mutual need arises) the occasional bout of frenetic activity!!"

I think it’s too much porn… but yeah finger blasting can be super painful especially if not lubricated enough

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Poor hygiene. Just shower right before you meet me, it's not that hard!!"

And during too if you’ll join me!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Expecting a blow job but not giving me oral

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

poor hygiene

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

just want them to cum without pleasuring you properly

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Expecting a blow job but not giving me oral"

Well that’s just rude!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies. What is your number 1 complaint when having sex with a man?"

It's all over far too quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor hygiene. Just shower right before you meet me, it's not that hard!!

Or shower with you "

No, do it before I arrive. I don't want to be greeted at the door by a smelly unwashed man who then asks me to shower with him. I'll have only just had a shower (manners) and then I'll have done my hair and make up nicely for him.

If we get sweaty during a meet, that's different of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My number one complaint for women is them neglecting the balls, my balls are very sensitive and if they don’t get a look in, then I’m the one who has to deal with the tears afterwards.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Poor hygiene is grim.

Finger blasting is horrible for me.

So maybe the inability to listen to the other, whether that's through audio clues (as in "fucking ow") or visual ones (like I'm looking bored, fallen asleep, glaring...).

That can apply to anyone, not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of foreplay. And I think porn is to blame, giving a bj is not foreplay for her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course.

Hope you have a compliments box too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course.

Hope you have a compliments box too "

Some people don't need a compliments box my ladies are shaking too much after to write lol

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Poor hygiene. Just shower right before you meet me, it's not that hard!!

Or shower with you

No, do it before I arrive. I don't want to be greeted at the door by a smelly unwashed man who then asks me to shower with him. I'll have only just had a shower (manners) and then I'll have done my hair and make up nicely for him.

If we get sweaty during a meet, that's different of course."

Sorry I wasn’t suggesting to turn up dirty and without showering. More that I find sharing a shower very sexy, but that isn’t what this thread is about so can see ya point. Especially after making all that effort to get ready

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

To eager he comes in 1 seconds

And smelly unhygienic

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Expecting a blow job but not giving me oral"

That’s a poor show!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Fingers inside pussy. We always say not too much fingering, and no fingers inside. Within seconds, fingers inside. How hard can it be?

Smokers give me thrush, finger jabbing dose nothing for me. I don't squirt and have been cut by finger nails. I have tits and ass to cum over, mouth for bj, pussy for fucking sometimes licking. Options, we give options, just keep the fingers out.

And higene obv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To eager he comes in 1 seconds

And smelly unhygienic "

Haha gone in 20 seconds

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"To eager he comes in 1 seconds

And smelly unhygienic

Haha gone in 20 seconds "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fingers inside pussy. We always say not too much fingering, and no fingers inside. Within seconds, fingers inside. How hard can it be?

Smokers give me thrush, finger jabbing dose nothing for me. I don't squirt and have been cut by finger nails. I have tits and ass to cum over, mouth for bj, pussy for fucking sometimes licking. Options, we give options, just keep the fingers out.

And higene obv. "

I’m so glad I’m not the only girl who actually complains about the (terrible) fingering… like x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"My number one complaint for women is them neglecting the balls, my balls are very sensitive and if they don’t get a look in, then I’m the one who has to deal with the tears afterwards. "

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Being rough with my pussy

I never understood why some many fellas go for the finger blasting approach without even asking if it’s liked. Especially when it’s early on in the meet.

For me, a lady’s sweet spot is to be gently nurtured into floods of appreciation with (as the mood and mutual need arises) the occasional bout of frenetic activity!!

I think it’s too much porn… but yeah finger blasting can be super painful especially if not lubricated enough "

Yes, it's a standard in porn, isn't it, so it gets copied.

I think it's really painful and uncomfortable. I don't want to have to heal my pussy before I can have sex again. It's just really mean.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Where do you start......Toilet seat maybe.....

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Another complaint for finger blasting here, it can hurt. When you’re REALLY enjoying something and they stop…gah!

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By *ark RumMan
over a year ago

Bucks


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "

For the love of God, come on gents, we don't live in the cavemen era! Scrub up lol

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i can see how poor hygeine, smelly is a big issue. its the same for me i hate going down and thinking oh gawd...fish!! real turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being rough with my pussy

I never understood why some many fellas go for the finger blasting approach without even asking if it’s liked. Especially when it’s early on in the meet.

For me, a lady’s sweet spot is to be gently nurtured into floods of appreciation with (as the mood and mutual need arises) the occasional bout of frenetic activity!!

I think it’s too much porn… but yeah finger blasting can be super painful especially if not lubricated enough

Yes, it's a standard in porn, isn't it, so it gets copied.

I think it's really painful and uncomfortable. I don't want to have to heal my pussy before I can have sex again. It's just really mean."

Haha exactly x I got more abrasion from that then a hard fucking… not sure if it’s also to do with nails even if well kept.

Without going into too much details, I’ve literally had to guide some with their finger and my finger to set the pace and how to…

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"i can see how poor hygeine, smelly is a big issue. its the same for me i hate going down and thinking oh gawd...fish!! real turn off"

That's not poor hygiene, that's a bacterial infection usually caused by using too harsh soaps or scented feminine hygiene products that disrupt the natural ph of the vagina. I woman with poor personal hygiene will smell of urine or sweat, not fish.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ladies. What is your number 1 complaint when having sex with a man?"

I'm a lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "

THE FOREPLAY IS THE BEST BIT!!!!

Sorry..shouted at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being rough, biting, putting a thumb in (why does that feel horrible compared to a finger?) and when you can tell they’ve learnt everything they know from porn!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys "

I thought that at first but it's possible for someone to appear clean and it's not until they open up their nooks and crannies that you discover they are not so fastidious.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

THE FOREPLAY IS THE BEST BIT!!!!

Sorry..shouted at that. "

You like you're fourplay ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay definitely needed and kissing too, not dive in full on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can see how poor hygeine, smelly is a big issue. its the same for me i hate going down and thinking oh gawd...fish!! real turn off

That's not poor hygiene, that's a bacterial infection usually caused by using too harsh soaps or scented feminine hygiene products that disrupt the natural ph of the vagina. I woman with poor personal hygiene will smell of urine or sweat, not fish."

..thanks..i'm going to skip breakfast now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My number one complaint for women is them neglecting the balls, my balls are very sensitive and if they don’t get a look in, then I’m the one who has to deal with the tears afterwards. "

When your balks cry, how does it manifest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

THE FOREPLAY IS THE BEST BIT!!!!

Sorry..shouted at that.

You like you're fourplay ?"

Your gramma stalking me, arent u?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to shower twice a day when i was younger. I'd also wash my dreadlocks everyday. (I'm not quite that OCD about it anymore). But yeah bad hygeine for me too is a total turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No complains, i just wish it didn't end

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Expecting a blow job but not giving me oral"

It’s always Ladies first

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

THE FOREPLAY IS THE BEST BIT!!!!

Sorry..shouted at that.

You like you're fourplay ?

Your gramma stalking me, arent u?"

just the onse

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Thinking they need to apply more pressure whether it be with their cock or with their fingers. If I want it harder I'll push back harder. If I'm pulling away it's coz you're hurting me!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Liquid refreshment is often a bit thin on the ground between bouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

THE FOREPLAY IS THE BEST BIT!!!!

Sorry..shouted at that.

You like you're fourplay ?

Your gramma stalking me, arent u?

just the onse"

Don't make me come back there...unless of course that's what you want...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I thought that at first but it's possible for someone to appear clean and it's not until they open up their nooks and crannies that you discover they are not so fastidious."

oh lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys "

I know right. I got to ask what do you ladies do when a stinky git turns up? Still go ahead regardless?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Selfishness and think I'll cum after bashing my clit for a few seconds

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I thought that at first but it's possible for someone to appear clean and it's not until they open up their nooks and crannies that you discover they are not so fastidious.

oh lord"

I'd like to think 'he' was spotless!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And lack of foreplay

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I know right. I got to ask what do you ladies do when a stinky git turns up? Still go ahead regardless? "

I think, if they're otherwise alright, the best is to get out a flannel because washing them can be sensual and sexy and won't necessarily ruin the mood.

Never had to so not sure how I'd react.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"And lack of foreplay"

Exactly

Some of us guys like lots of foreplay too

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Too much tongue where they don't take their time like just like they are licking a lolly pop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never rest on my laurels and have a complaints box at the end of the bed, if she starts moaning at me that I’m doing it wrong, I point to the complaints box, I tell her to put it in writing and I will deal with it in due course.

Hope you have a compliments box too

Do you "

Yes! Got anything I need to add

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Pushing something after i have said no.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Pushing something after i have said no. "

That's straight up r*pey behaviour

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Didn’t see this. I did same thread. I’ve asked for it to be deleted.

I’ll get back to you when I’ve thought of my list

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys? "

Where? I counted one and one response to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what happened when women set up age limit to 35/40. Either they don’t have any experience or only had one partner in their life. Porn learning skills.

As for the ones who turned unwashed and stinky that’s disrespectful!! Just slammed to door on them!

Not sure one complaint about rough sex? For sure just agree about it before meeting! If he bites you during sex then stop, get dressed and bye.

The tongue down there is a tough one! After a while either we start to suffocate and get a mouth cramp! You can’t expect a man carry on for hours licking your kitty until you cum ladies. It’s has to be a few stop and carry on….

I cum usually within ten minutes on my first shot, but after it could last longer until I feel her squirting on my cock

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

Where? I counted one and one response to it. "

Look again.

This isn’t the only thread where these kind of sentiments are expressed. It takes two people to have good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pushing something after i have said no. "

Pushing what? I guess his finger up your bum ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

If you say something feels good and they then change how they are doing it

I’m sure the same can be said if the ladies though, don’t want to upset anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their mind clears too quickly once they've cum. The vulnerable doe eyes of needing something are gone and they just want to get back to fixing an engine or something.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I know right. I got to ask what do you ladies do when a stinky git turns up? Still go ahead regardless? "

It's a cup of tea, maximum. Having had a shower just about within living memory isn't enough. And having spent hours getting ready, I'd expect someone to have had a full shower within the hour. It's not appealing to hug and kiss a stranger who is not fresh, before he expects to shower, when you are already ready.

A sportsman used to come around after training, to shower and show off, so I made an exception for him - I'm not inflexible, just that it seems thoughtless to turn up without being thoroughly clean.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

Where? I counted one and one response to it.

Look again.

This isn’t the only thread where these kind of sentiments are expressed. It takes two people to have good sex"

Ok I missed one . That's still a massive minority compared to all the other comments. The majority mention poor hygeine and being rough with our lady parts.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Pushing something after i have said no.

Pushing what? I guess his finger up your bum ? "

Oh go on, you'll love it.

I think you should let me *insert whatever the act may be*

*Does it anyway* "I thought you'd enjoy it" "I thought you were playing hard to get as far as that goes"

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Do women complain after sex? . I never hang around long enough to find out, this is new information.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

Where? I counted one and one response to it.

Look again.

This isn’t the only thread where these kind of sentiments are expressed. It takes two people to have good sex

Ok I missed one . That's still a massive minority compared to all the other comments. The majority mention poor hygeine and being rough with our lady parts. "

Oh well that’s fine then

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They don't take their time/not gentle enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not that hard don't even bother coming

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Strumming my clit like a DJ and washing machine tongue.. slow and steady wins the race "

I hear ya!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

Where? I counted one and one response to it.

Look again.

This isn’t the only thread where these kind of sentiments are expressed. It takes two people to have good sex

Ok I missed one . That's still a massive minority compared to all the other comments. The majority mention poor hygeine and being rough with our lady parts.

Oh well that’s fine then "

I never said that. It's just hardly "so many".

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Number 1 complaint?? Funny thread OP

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It’s sad that so many women on this thread are talking about a guys sexual stamina.

Why is the pressure to perform solely laid on guys?

Where? I counted one and one response to it.

Look again.

This isn’t the only thread where these kind of sentiments are expressed. It takes two people to have good sex

Ok I missed one . That's still a massive minority compared to all the other comments. The majority mention poor hygeine and being rough with our lady parts.

Oh well that’s fine then

I never said that. It's just hardly "so many". "

There's like 2? And there's nothing a woman can do to control that... Purely down to the guy.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

One of the problems men have is so many things can go wrong.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Men who don't understand that every woman is different and that they can't just follow the same set routine with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I thought that at first but it's possible for someone to appear clean and it's not until they open up their nooks and crannies that you discover they are not so fastidious."

'nooks and crannies'

Now there is a terminology I haven't heard in ages

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've only one.....would love more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strumming my clit like a DJ and washing machine tongue.. slow and steady wins the race "

This

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I can't believe people actually meet without actually having a good scrubdown first ! Guess I've been lucky except for that one time in the vanilla world

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "

Not going to skimp on foreplay.. I enjoy giving oral.. So I'll stay there as long as you want me too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh"

Lend him some tampons to stick up his nostrils!

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

They don't always pre-heat the oven to the desired temperature

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Pushing something after i have said no.

Pushing what? I guess his finger up your bum ? "

Yes that's a major one but anything i say no to. Pester power is a toddler thing not a lover thing.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Pushing something after i have said no.

Pushing what? I guess his finger up your bum ?

Yes that's a major one but anything i say no to. Pester power is a toddler thing not a lover thing. "

It's not even a toddler thing, it's an abuse thing. Coercion is not OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who don't understand that every woman is different and that they can't just follow the same set routine with everyone. "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Expecting me to be good to go as soon as you arrive. I am not your personal porn star! (Clearly, judging by my full body pics!)

Need lots of foreplay. Oh, and include my nipples. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh"

I rather it smells Tuna than soap tbh! It’s not that bad and it’s actually made me hornier. Especially during period… I know I got too far

Men who complain about the odour should use blow up dolls!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Meeting at mine and guys needing a poo!

Do it at home!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"They don't always pre-heat the oven to the desired temperature "

This!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh

I rather it smells Tuna than soap tbh! It’s not that bad and it’s actually made me hornier. Especially during period… I know I got too far

Men who complain about the odour should use blow up dolls! "

Ohhh no they smell to rubbery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men that don't like help on what you like and don't listen and get majorly offended instead in a nanosecond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh

I rather it smells Tuna than soap tbh! It’s not that bad and it’s actually made me hornier. Especially during period… I know I got too far

Men who complain about the odour should use blow up dolls! "

You're right! If they can't handle a fishy fanny they can go on LoveHoney and buy a fake one instead. Thanks for your support and I'm happy to know you'd love my scent. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh

I rather it smells Tuna than soap tbh! It’s not that bad and it’s actually made me hornier. Especially during period… I know I got too far

Men who complain about the odour should use blow up dolls!

You're right! If they can't handle a fishy fanny they can go on LoveHoney and buy a fake one instead. Thanks for your support and I'm happy to know you'd love my scent. X"

Your welcome beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does he always have to insult the smell of my vagina? I've gave you my warm hole and fair enough I might smell like tuna but is that really such an issue that you have to point it out and make me feel bad? Just put some earplugs up your nose or something smh

I rather it smells Tuna than soap tbh! It’s not that bad and it’s actually made me hornier. Especially during period… I know I got too far

Men who complain about the odour should use blow up dolls!

Ohhh no they smell to rubbery "

They could spray some celebrities perfume on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be in the minority here and quite like a finger blasting

Mine is closing their eyes. We had one guy that had his eyes squeezed shut the entire time, was really weird

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By *ark RumMan
over a year ago

Bucks

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I seem to be in the minority here and quite like a finger blasting

Mine is closing their eyes. We had one guy that had his eyes squeezed shut the entire time, was really weird "

Maybe you shouldn't have cable tied his nuts so tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t believe the number of fit sexy women on here are saying they actually meet guys have poor personal hygiene

This thread is great can someone start the same for us guys

I thought that at first but it's possible for someone to appear clean and it's not until they open up their nooks and crannies that you discover they are not so fastidious.

oh lord"

I would have thought a revelation of poor hygiene at any stage is an instant 'game over'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their mind clears too quickly once they've cum. The vulnerable doe eyes of needing something are gone and they just want to get back to fixing an engine or something. "

Hey, engines don't fix themselves you know..

Anyway, I offer a service level agreement of at least three orgasms, plus cuddles and spooning in between. In the event that cannot be achieved, further sessions are available until service levels are met..

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Meeting at mine and guys needing a poo!

Do it at home! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to be in the minority here and quite like a finger blasting

Mine is closing their eyes. We had one guy that had his eyes squeezed shut the entire time, was really weird

Maybe you shouldn't have cable tied his nuts so tight. "

Damn it, wondered what I was doing wrong

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

They can't get enough of me and don't like to share so I have been told

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ladies. What is your number 1 complaint when having sex with a man?"

That they're not as adorable as Chunky Gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by recent threads on here I'd say "it's not with Jack Grealish"

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene. "
see the hygiene bit I get but I dont so foreplay anyway.. I don't really have a per hate as I'm good at making sure I get what I want.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Im so relieved that no woman has mentioned guys bringing a kitchen whisk to bed !! I’d be lost without it !!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Is it in yet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm quite surprised at the number of woman saying that vigorous fingering is their number one complaint. After years of clit licking where I was often left wondering if the woman had numb clit, I have recently discovered fingering, specifically of the G-spot, and it seems that it drives the woman I've been with into total orgasmic ecstasy. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping their socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite surprised at the number of woman saying that vigorous fingering is their number one complaint. After years of clit licking where I was often left wondering if the woman had numb clit, I have recently discovered fingering, specifically of the G-spot, and it seems that it drives the woman I've been with into total orgasmic ecstasy. ??"

I would like to think they'd let you know if their clit was numb. If you can find the G-spot, you're doing better than most men. Pair that with clit licking and sucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He runs out of orgasms before I do!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm quite surprised at the number of woman saying that vigorous fingering is their number one complaint. After years of clit licking where I was often left wondering if the woman had numb clit, I have recently discovered fingering, specifically of the G-spot, and it seems that it drives the woman I've been with into total orgasmic ecstasy. ??"

There's a big difference between good fingering and attacking my bits like you're trying to make meringue in there.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

This ^

Also this ^"

ladies if this is #1 complaint you really need to be more picky , that’s just gross

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

This ^

Also this ^

ladies if this is #1 complaint you really need to be more picky , that’s just gross "

Sorry we're not psychic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skimps on the foreplay or poor personal hygiene.

This ^

Also this ^

ladies if this is #1 complaint you really need to be more picky , that’s just gross

Sorry we're not psychic "

It would be helpful if we were sometimes

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm quite surprised at the number of woman saying that vigorous fingering is their number one complaint. After years of clit licking where I was often left wondering if the woman had numb clit, I have recently discovered fingering, specifically of the G-spot, and it seems that it drives the woman I've been with into total orgasmic ecstasy. ??

There's a big difference between good fingering and attacking my bits like you're trying to make meringue in there. "

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ladies. What is your number 1 complaint when having sex with a man?"

I do not have any complaints - any sex I have is wonderful (by the way, it is all sex to me, I don't understand the concepts of "foreplay" or "mainplay" - it is all sex to me).

I have had some experiences that were not ideal in the past when I was still vanilla and much younger. Lo and behold, my life has changed in many ways since then. Bad or inferior sex is not acceptable to me and I refuse to have it. Yes, it does lead to quite a bit of frustration because I do not get to have as much sex as I would like (although safety concerns are probably a bigger reason why) and all the work of vetting the partners is quite tiresome. Still, the sex I do have is fabulous and this is how I like it.

Sometimes things are not perfect but I do not expect them to be perfect - my partners and I simply talk about things and make it better if something did not quite work etc.

Also, my toy collection has recently increased due to some incredible luck of getting my hands on a bunch of demo toys. I already had some really good ones but this whirlwind has only encouraged me to keep to the excellent motto of "an orgasm a day keeps the doctor at bay"

I may not have as much sex as I would like but I do have lots and lots of orgasms

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood


"I'm quite surprised at the number of woman saying that vigorous fingering is their number one complaint. After years of clit licking where I was often left wondering if the woman had numb clit, I have recently discovered fingering, specifically of the G-spot, and it seems that it drives the woman I've been with into total orgasmic ecstasy. ??

There's a big difference between good fingering and attacking my bits like you're trying to make meringue in there. "

This made me lol xx. Never made a meringue but I have caused localised flooding xx

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