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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't seem to get a meet for some reason, is it my profile? my looks or just to many fellas to compete with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of fellas

I’m sure you will have some success though bud, you’re tall and from what I can see not a bad looking fella. You’ll tick more than a few boxes on here.

Get rid of the pointless Sydney University rubbish from your profile though, it isn’t helping you.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Tall, good looking, if you got a big cock too your top 1% of fav you just gotta be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not you, it’s them

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A lot of people's success is down to how they present themselves and what their messages are like. It's a lot more than just what a guy looks like. You have to stand out. Average will hardly ever cut it. There are a million average guys out there who present themselves in exactly the same way.

Look at the profiles of some random guys and ask yourself if you are saying anything about yourself that would lead somebody to choose to meet you over them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The people who have success on here tend to use their own pictures especially their own face pics .So that is most likely the main issue

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

The Meghan Markle comment might put some off.

Get photo verified. Get verified in a chat room.

Go to a club, but don’t expect to have sex. Feel lucky if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who have success on here tend to use their own pictures especially their own face pics .So that is most likely the main issue "

busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Meghan Markle comment might put some off.

Get photo verified. Get verified in a chat room.

Go to a club, but don’t expect to have sex. Feel lucky if it happens "

This I think if you have verified u might have it easier as well, some people would never give you the time of day without the verification as so many catfishes and all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your one and only photo is from 2008

So you were on first dates yes...

Julian Fiano is your name I believe OP

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Your one and only photo is from 2008

So you were on first dates yes...

Julian Fiano is your name I believe OP "

Dying! Busted

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Your one and only photo is from 2008

So you were on first dates yes...

Julian Fiano is your name I believe OP

Dying! Busted "

Yes about half an hour ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not you, it’s them "

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Your one and only photo is from 2008

So you were on first dates yes...

Julian Fiano is your name I believe OP "

I am presuming as photos have been found to be a falsehoodthat this has now been report to the FAB admin and the forum mods would look to remove this topic post from the lounge.

Would this not be the correct course of action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've reported him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey after a Google search.....

Famous guy had cancer last year!

Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Referring to women as females is never going to go down well.

Are you being pro-active messaging people, or are you expecting them to come to you - as that's the impression I get from your profile.

You have to realise that fab is just like the real world. Not everyone is going to fancy you. Just because people are on fab doesn't mean they will want to fuck anyone and everyone that asks.

Think about what your expectations are of the site - and then realign them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey after a Google search.....

Famous guy had cancer last year!

Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!

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Oh wow!!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Crikey after a Google search.....

Famous guy had cancer last year!

Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!

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Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Crikey after a Google search.....

Famous guy had cancer last year!

Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!

Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues. "

Has the pic changed ? I did a google and a tineye but 0 results

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Crikey after a Google search.....

Famous guy had cancer last year!

Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!

Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues.

Has the pic changed ? I did a google and a tineye but 0 results"

It still comes up on mine it's the same picture.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I think it's a legitimate picture if we are talking about the one that's there now ..... baseball cap back to front....

There are 0 results each time I check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always miss the good stuff

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"I think it's a legitimate picture if we are talking about the one that's there now ..... baseball cap back to front....

There are 0 results each time I check. "

I take that back for now. I need to try sommat else.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Definitely turned up this time. Fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Julian Giano was on first dates but pulled out because he has terminal cancer (according to google)

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I wonder what pictures he'll use on his next profile?

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how long do we reckon until UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t realise he’s a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Referring to women as females is never going to go down well."

Yep, pet peeve of mine too. Using female rather than woman makes one sound as if your interest is purely anthopological. It hints at an inability to speak directly, as if you're scared to or something.

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