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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That turned out to be a bery surreal odd day!

I wonder how long it will take for it to dawn on me and I begin to process it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's process together...

Odd how?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dead body police cid odd

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Bloody hell OP! That sounds grim. Hoping it’s nobody you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn..... that's heavy shit.

Hope your ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find "

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Damn..... that's heavy shit.

Hope your ok"

Not sure yet lol last lot of police have only recently left. I'm good in a crisis. Like i said not sure yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok? "

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

Only in Plymouth

Hope your OK x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only in Plymouth

Hope your OK x"

Haha! More like it could only happen to me!

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

I've had my fair share of Plymouth strangeness lol x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I hope you didn’t get burnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find "
Whyyyy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things will be more clear by sunrise..

Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.

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By *rettytiedupWoman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Your prob in shock, just take it easy now and try to get some rest. Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you're doing OK xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope you didn’t get burnt

Eh?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "

How can you do that ?

Hope you are ok OP, quite a shock to the system. Do you have someone with you ?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "

There’s something very wrong there

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "

Oh god. How awful!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "

What kind of person would do that ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find Whyyyy?"

I suspect many reasons and I'd rather not think of others. Lets just say positioning and location of her was standard shall we say.

I'll be checking in on him tomorrow, either way it would have been traumatic for him and he also needs my support.

The police have spent a lot of time with him today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Things will be more clear by sunrise..

Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though. "

Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your prob in shock, just take it easy now and try to get some rest. Xxxxxx"

Thanks sweets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take a bit of processing, everyone’s different.

Don’t be scared to talk and if you find it’s causing difficulties (sleeping, eating, depression etc..) then please seek assistance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things will be more clear by sunrise..

Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.

Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not"

You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...

Surely been there for some time.

Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Are you ok OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope you're doing OK xx"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!

well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope you're doing OK xx"

Thanks

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!

well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!

Is it buggery!

it’s an offloading kinda post. Everyone needs that sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.

How can you do that ?

Hope you are ok OP, quite a shock to the system. Do you have someone with you ? "

Nope, but it's cool

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!

well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!

It’s allowed! You probably need the support!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.

There’s something very wrong there

Yes well that's my next task, but I'll leave that to tomorrow's I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to talk about it.. get it off your chest..

In person, or on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.

What kind of person would do that ffs

I kind of get it, and can only begin to imagine what its been like for him. Then knowing when I asked for the key it was all about to become very real

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find

That’s horrific. Are you ok?

Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.

Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.

The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.

Oh god. How awful!"

For him too i suspect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It can take a bit of processing, everyone’s different.

Don’t be scared to talk and if you find it’s causing difficulties (sleeping, eating, depression etc..) then please seek assistance. "

I will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Things will be more clear by sunrise..

Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.

Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not

You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...

Surely been there for some time.

Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x "

Well there are things I regret but it could have been worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Things will be more clear by sunrise..

Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.

Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not

You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...

Surely been there for some time.

Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x "

No I did do right there, I think if I had tonight would be a different story. Not going into detals

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you ok OP x"

Yea, bit numb, more importantly whats this tuesday scrabble I've heard on the grapevine!

joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!

well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!

Is it buggery!

it’s an offloading kinda post. Everyone needs that sometimes. "

Haha! O that's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's Tuesday Scrabble... I'm intreagued

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!

well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!

It’s allowed! You probably need the support!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's good to talk about it.. get it off your chest..

In person, or on here... "

For as much as I talk... I'm not a big talker when it comes to me, o the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's Tuesday Scrabble... I'm intreagued

Me too!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

How terrible for you, hope youve got people to turn to if needed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How terrible for you, hope youve got people to turn to if needed x"

Thanks

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Are you ok OP x

Yea, bit numb, more importantly whats this tuesday scrabble I've heard on the grapevine!

joke"

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By *righton bigMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Dead body police cid odd"

Savage, hope you're OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it

It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dead body police cid odd

Savage, hope you're OK "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it

It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x"

Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.

I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's a horrible situation to be in. Hope you are ok (stupid to say really) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it

It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x

Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.

I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea"

Very, I have never seen one under those circumstances....

Yeah it is a job I would like to do, not so much dealing with the dead but more so supporting the families. A friend of mine owns a funeral parlour and he says the industry is so short of women funeral directors...they get a few requests off family for a female to deal with their loved one as very often their deceased has never had a man see her naked, I have stepped in in the past under those circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a horrible situation to be in. Hope you are ok (stupid to say really) xx"

Not stupid at all. Appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it

It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x

Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.

I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea

Very, I have never seen one under those circumstances....

Yea it was the family side and helping with arrangments and the processing, not the processing of the body so much.

Well maybe, i dont know. But am interested in the afore mentioned

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Well done you...you kept your head and dealt with the situation admirably...my heartfelt sympathy to you and all those involved...you certainly earned your blue Peter badge today xx hugs

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Sending hugs OP.

What a day you had. Take some time to talk to someone thats close to you.

Him x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well done you...you kept your head and dealt with the situation admirably...my heartfelt sympathy to you and all those involved...you certainly earned your blue Peter badge today xx hugs

Haha!

I definitely did!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sending hugs OP.

What a day you had. Take some time to talk to someone thats close to you.

Him x"

I think I will

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sending hugs OP.

What a day you had. Take some time to talk to someone thats close to you.

Him x"

I think I will

Thanks

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

What an awful situation to put in. Be kind to yourself for the next few days and don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed xxx

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What an awful situation to put in. Be kind to yourself for the next few days and don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed xxx

J x "

Thank you

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