FabSwingers.com forum: Heightism

By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Sorry this is more of a joking thread than anything. Even though it is a pain for people like myself being short.

Who here likes Short men/women?

Who wont 'touch' someone shorter than them?

Lets see the 'stats' on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly height is never a consideration, although I've had more shorter partners than tall ones.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

All the same night lying down

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Short women is my preference.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Short women is my preference. "

Are

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I drew the short straw.. I'm only 5'4...

It seems (from what i've seen) most women want taller men. So I must admit, I do find it harder to meet potential partners in crime. lol

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By *r G888Man
over a year ago

south Wales

Love short women

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"All the same night lying down

lol so the saying goes.. funny how it's never true... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall men is my preference, but not essential. I just don't like shorter than me or the same height.. Think it's a security thing with me.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

5’7/5’8 is my minimum. I’ve dated shorter men and I felt more butch and I didn’t like it.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Tall men is my preference, but not essential. I just don't like shorter than me or the same height.. Think it's a security thing with me. "

I think that's usually the case when it comes to a woman's preference (usually).

At least that's an opinion as for one of many reasons why.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Yeah..all the same height lying down doesn't really work when I prefer standing or doggy.

I have long legs...

I don't want to lie down ta

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Me. 5ft 11 or over x

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Yeah..all the same height lying down doesn't really work when I prefer standing or doggy.

I have long legs...

I don't want to lie down ta"

Bend over the side of the bed/sofa.. I'll make it work from there

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Yeah..all the same height lying down doesn't really work when I prefer standing or doggy.

I have long legs...

I don't want to lie down ta

Bend over the side of the bed/sofa.. I'll make it work from there

*or kneel would be even better..

I'll even get the step ladder out if i have to :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take a box to stand on . So not an issue. Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always take a box to stand on . So not an issue. Ha "

.. yes you are a short arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand a woman wanting someone taller (maybe a security feeling)

I prefer shorter women for that reason, I like to feel like the protector, as a man should do I feel. That's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand a woman wanting someone taller (maybe a security feeling)

I prefer shorter women for that reason, I like to feel like the protector, as a man should do I feel. That's just me"

Totally agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t touch someone shorter! I’m 5ft11

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I must admit that being 6'1" tall does come in very handy when a woman likes to turn up on a date in her 4" heels, and not need to be carrying a milk crate with her for me to stand on to kiss her. XXX

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No real preference here. Height is only a consideration for how much slack there needs to be when restraining them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm only 5'2

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I'm only 5'2

Yeay.. there is one good looking woman thats actually shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 5’5” and a half/5.6” and I certainly wouldn’t go for a guy shorter than me. Ideally I like my guys to be 6’1” and up but you know…

it’s just me being a picky bitch

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I’m 5’5” and a half/5.6” and I certainly wouldn’t go for a guy shorter than me. Ideally I like my guys to be 6’1” and up but you know…

it’s just me being a picky bitch "

well sadly i can't be so picky (if i was just looking to get some).. lol

For me it would almost be like.. this is whats on offer, take what you can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a smurf and while I like tall men my ex was two inches shorter than me hahaha

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I'm a smurf and while I like tall men my ex was two inches shorter than me hahaha"

Some of the attraction is personality though isn't it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry this is more of a joking thread than anything. Even though it is a pain for people like myself being short.

Who here likes Short men/women?

Who wont 'touch' someone shorter than them?

Lets see the 'stats' on this one

To be honest this really is a woman thing. If she's going to be taller than you in heels then you've no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men... I don't really care about height... Just faces and decent attitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a smurf and while I like tall men my ex was two inches shorter than me hahaha

Some of the attraction is personality though isn't it..

No fun if you don't have a spark

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We generally don’t meet people too much taller. Is that heightism or is it attraction? We all have our types, right?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I always take a box to stand on . So not an issue. Ha

.. yes you are a short arse

And yet I’ve seen this guy regularly in clubs - and he’s ALWAYS surrounded by women - so he must certainly have something going for him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I would go taller than me on preference. I am fairly short myself though

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I strongly favour men taller than I am in heels, so over 6ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shorter but still feel like a protector cause I'm hench??

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The taller the better for me. It just doesn't feel right if I'm looking down on a man, of course I have my heels on as I'm a little short myself!

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By *rowser79Man
over a year ago

Cork

Ideally a woman 5’ 7” or shorter is what I like. I find that height becomes an issue for women moreso than me when we’re the same height or the woman is taller.

If there’s an attraction there then height doesn’t bother me at all.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Height is really unimportant that is to me, chemistry is a must though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand a woman wanting someone taller (maybe a security feeling)

I prefer shorter women for that reason, I like to feel like the protector, as a man should do I feel. That's just me"

I totally understand that feeling of being a protector - I wouldn't say its how a man "should feel" though. A man is entitled to feel anyway he wants, demanding certain feelings/behavoirs based on a person's biological sex isn't helpful.

Op, there is a general preference for taller men but I've found shorter guys seem to find other ways of making themselves stand out - a fantastic physique or bubbly engaging personality and often bags of self confidence. Also, there are shorter ladies too, my ex wife was only 4'10", quite possible for you to find a lady who likes a taller man and still fit that criteria.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is about attraction, isn't it? And for some people, possibly women more so than men, height is part of the attraction.

In the same way as for some people hair colour/ length, body shape etc are part of the attraction. It is not something we choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah..all the same height lying down doesn't really work when I prefer standing or doggy.

I have long legs...

I don't want to lie down ta"

Guess that's why step Ladders exist haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m 5’5” and a half/5.6” and I certainly wouldn’t go for a guy shorter than me. Ideally I like my guys to be 6’1” and up but you know…

it’s just me being a picky bitch

well sadly i can't be so picky (if i was just looking to get some).. lol

For me it would almost be like.. this is whats on offer, take what you can get

Haha! I mean, I’d take a shorter guy over a tall arsehole just to clarify

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Height for me is simply about logistics...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

To be honest I don't tend to notice unless someone is a good ft taller or shorter than me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I like men... I don't really care about height... Just faces and decent attitudes

This for me too. And I like men to be secure in their height too, whatever height that may be. Just own it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Height isnt an issue for me, im taller than Dick in some of my heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5ft 10 so i definitely feel happier with men my own height and taller. I have met and had sex with folks shorter than myself. When it comes to single men though height is one of the first things I look at.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Taller than me is my preference

5ft10 and up preferable

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm out then.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I’m 6ft 1 & have never dated someone taller than me, not as a preference, it just hasn’t happened as there probably aren’t too many ladies that height and above.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think i would struggle with being attracted to a man 5 inches or more shorter than me. But a bit shorter is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 5'8 I am overlooked quiet a bit even from 5ft women as they want a guy that towers over them for whatever reason. Get a step ladder to kiss him then haha.

End of the day I couldn't care less now. It used to bother me but then I realized that I can't change anything about myself height wise so why stress about it. Thats just what happens when your mum is 5ft and your dad was 6'3 haha. Yes I'm gonna be over looked by a lot of women but they're not worth my time to think about so who cares. If they can't see me for me and not my height then that's on them. Yes that is there preference and that is fine and I accept that. Don't shoot me in the foot. Don't need to be any shorter now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5’7/5’8 is my minimum. I’ve dated shorter men and I felt more butch and I didn’t like it. "

*note to self; 'dig out the Elton John platforms'

Jokes aside, doesn't bother me if a woman was a foot shorter or a foot taller, as long as I fancied them for what they brought, height wouldn't be a factor.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I can understand a woman wanting someone taller (maybe a security feeling)

I prefer shorter women for that reason, I like to feel like the protector, as a man should do I feel. That's just me

Mr"

Yeah I get that. It's normal.. Lol I've had this height problem all my life.. I have other.. Attributes that can make up for my height.. Lol

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I’m 5’5” and a half/5.6” and I certainly wouldn’t go for a guy shorter than me. Ideally I like my guys to be 6’1” and up but you know…

it’s just me being a picky bitch

well sadly i can't be so picky (if i was just looking to get some).. lol

For me it would almost be like.. this is whats on offer, take what you can get

Haha! I mean, I’d take a shorter guy over a tall arsehole just to clarify

Well that's always good to hear/read. Personality is always priority to me..

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

"I drew the short straw.. I'm only 5'4...

It seems (from what i've seen) most women want taller men. So I must admit, I do find it harder to meet potential partners in crime. lol"

I think you might be right..a lot of women like taller than themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'problem' with sites like this is that they allow us to tick boxes

We make so much judgement based on stats presented and a selection of 2D images on a phone screen

It really isn't real life, for me at least

If you start using how those on Fab view you (especially forumites) to determine your attractiveness, I think it's a sticky slope

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"5’7/5’8 is my minimum. I’ve dated shorter men and I felt more butch and I didn’t like it.

*note to self; 'dig out the Elton John platforms'

Jokes aside, doesn't bother me if a woman was a foot shorter or a foot taller, as long as I fancied them for what they brought, height wouldn't be a factor."

I married a 5’7 guy and never considered height then. Went on a date with a 5’5 guy and realised I have a cut off. I felt huge!!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"5’7/5’8 is my minimum. I’ve dated shorter men and I felt more butch and I didn’t like it.

*note to self; 'dig out the Elton John platforms'

Jokes aside, doesn't bother me if a woman was a foot shorter or a foot taller, as long as I fancied them for what they brought, height wouldn't be a factor.

I married a 5’7 guy and never considered height then. Went on a date with a 5’5 guy and realised I have a cut off. I felt huge!! "

I'm in with a shot then

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Prefer the male half on the taller side. The female half height doesn't matter to Alex.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I’m unable to fancy anyone under 5’9”. And they have to be something special at that.

Over 6’ is my preference as I like feeling small.

I think body types we are, or are not, drawn to is something we cannot help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May sounds horrible but I’m just not attracted to men shorter than myself, call me shallow but that’s how I am , but having said that I would never snub him and would probably enjoy a nice conversation with him x

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"May sounds horrible but I’m just not attracted to men shorter than myself, call me shallow but that’s how I am , but having said that I would never snub him and would probably enjoy a nice conversation with him x"

I'll be off then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be off then.

I do make exceptions every now & again

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

My preference is tall guys,5'10" + even though I'm barely 5'4".

Recently, I've met a lovely chap who is 5'8 & that's rather pleasant - less cricks in the neck!

But I'm sorry, OP. I won't meet anyone shorter than 5'6". It just makes me feel weird when I'm taller than them in heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be off then.

But you know I do like you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer taller, but have made exceptions for exceptional people.

Its more about my wanting to feel smaller than my partner, than any disrespect to them x

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

wow.. as much as i knew this was a preference for women.

I didn't realise it was this prevalent.

I know there are ladies that are shorter than me, that would like my height etc. Thats not the issue (non of this is actually)

I was just wondering, at least at the start of this, what sorta ratio i was looking at when it comes to height, that was unbothered to it's a pretty important preference.

It's not to say anyone is shallow, sorry if it sounded that way, was not my intention.

I get everyone has a preference, I know I have preferences. It was more of an educational question, and a laugh at my misfortune.. LOL

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Op, Check this guy who plays for the "Harlem Globe Trotters.

Jahmani "Hot Shot" Swanson 4ft 5inch's - his motto:-

"Believe the hype, not the height!"

It doesn't stop him putting his balls in a ring!!!! Op, you just have to find your Fab "U.S.P." Cuban heels?... I dunno? You do stand out compared to most guys so you're 1/2 way there!!!!

Here is the link for proof:-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSGhVlWUUrQ

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"To be honest I don't tend to notice unless someone is a good ft taller or shorter than me."

Well I fit into the ft or more shorter than you.. Damn.. And your fit too..

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I like men... I don't really care about height... Just faces and decent attitudes

This for me too. And I like men to be secure in their height too, whatever height that may be. Just own it."

My height isn't an actual issue.. Just becomes problematic at times.. Like when I can't reach the shelves at tesco/asda.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad news, I like someone taller than me , part of my subby thing I like to look up at someone.

Good news is I'm 5ft so pretty much everyone is taller than me

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Op, Check this guy who plays for the "Harlem Globe Trotters.

Jahmani "Hot Shot" Swanson 4ft 5inch's - his motto:-

"Believe the hype, not the height!"

It doesn't stop him putting his balls in a ring!!!! Op, you just have to find your Fab "U.S.P." Cuban heels?... I dunno? You do stand out compared to most guys so you're 1/2 way there!!!!

Here is the link for proof:-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSGhVlWUUrQ

Cheers man. I'll have to have a peek.. Didn't know there was a 4ft5 basketball player out there to be honest.. Fair play to him.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Bad news, I like someone taller than me , part of my subby thing I like to look up at someone.

Good news is I'm 5ft so pretty much everyone is taller than me

Woohoo another good looking woman that's shorter than me..

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I’m 5ft6 so I know you pain OP. If a woman has a list of requirements I never make the cut.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I’m 5ft6 so I know you pain OP. If a woman has a list of requirements I never make the cut."

almost brothers in arms aint we mate

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"I’m 5ft6 so I know you pain OP. If a woman has a list of requirements I never make the cut.

almost brothers in arms aint we mate

I’m sure we both make up for it with our winning personalities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 6ft 2 most women are shorter than me so I don't really have a preference one way or the other.

The shortest woman I've been out with was about a 5ft 2 and the tallest about 5ft 6.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"To be honest I don't tend to notice unless someone is a good ft taller or shorter than me.

Well I fit into the ft or more shorter than you.. Damn.. And your fit too..

You're under 4ft 7?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I prefer taller, but have made exceptions for exceptional people.

Its more about my wanting to feel smaller than my partner, than any disrespect to them x"

Exactly this. It’s my issue not theirs. So many people get the arse about it!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I’m 5ft6 so I know you pain OP. If a woman has a list of requirements I never make the cut.

almost brothers in arms aint we mate

Get in I'm taller than you, 5ft 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like really tall and really short. One of my favourite fabbers is 5'4, skinny as a rake and as sexy as sin.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"To be honest I don't tend to notice unless someone is a good ft taller or shorter than me.

Well I fit into the ft or more shorter than you.. Damn.. And your fit too..

You're under 4ft 7?"

damn bad math...

i'm 5ft 4..

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I like really tall and really short. One of my favourite fabbers is 5'4, skinny as a rake and as sexy as sin. "

Lucky guys.. no one is out for the count just yet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll admit it. I can’t imagine being with a shorter guy. Just wouldn’t feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone smaller than me would have to be either a borrower or an action man so I guess I prefer men who are taller than me.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I've been with men similar in height to me and taller, totally depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5'3 so there aren't many men shorter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 5'3 so there aren't many men shorter

Hobbits

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"To be honest I don't tend to notice unless someone is a good ft taller or shorter than me."

Oh hai!

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By *huddahatMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

So I'm 6'8". I love a short/ petite woman. It's a great feeling of power. And I find that a lot of little women get very turned on by my height. But it's all down to preference.

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