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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Any one wanna chat I’m feeling rather down the self esteem had taking a bit a hit

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Come chat to ya boy

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Come chat to ya boy"
yeah just feeling crap

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always here if you want to vent xx

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here if you want to vent xx"
thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away "

Sorry to hear that OP. If you mean chat on here then please sound off and I'm sure you'll find support and sympathy.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x"
thank you and im just tried of been tossed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one wanna chat I’m feeling rather down the self esteem had taking a bit a hit "

Really sorry to hear you're not in a great place. Don't beat yourself up too much though. It's OK to be down, it really is. It's not weakness, it shows you are human.

I'm happy to listen if you want to vent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x thank you and im just tried of been tossed away "

Big Hug.

Be You! A man has to respect you and earn his place at your side.

We will experience downs, but I have learnt these people were not right for me and I am worth far more.

It is just frustrating.

When you are down the only way is UP!

Take care!

X

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Any one wanna chat I’m feeling rather down the self esteem had taking a bit a hit

Really sorry to hear you're not in a great place. Don't beat yourself up too much though. It's OK to be down, it really is. It's not weakness, it shows you are human.

I'm happy to listen if you want to vent.

"

I’m just tried of being me and then when they don’t like some thing oh it’s a. Red flag tossed away I go again

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Keep your head up. Tomorrow's a new day

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away "

I know it can be disheartening at times but try not to let it get you down. Obviously those guys weren't right for you, you know your worth, don't ever drop that for anyone. There are some really lovely guys on here who are willing to put the effort in. Don't give up xxx

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x thank you and im just tried of been tossed away

Big Hug.

Be You! A man has to respect you and earn his place at your side.

And thank you the encouraging words and yes it really is frustrating

We will experience downs, but I have learnt these people were not right for me and I am worth far more.

It is just frustrating.

When you are down the only way is UP!

Take care!

X"

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away

I know it can be disheartening at times but try not to let it get you down. Obviously those guys weren't right for you, you know your worth, don't ever drop that for anyone. There are some really lovely guys on here who are willing to put the effort in. Don't give up xxx"

I don’t know any more

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Keep your head up. Tomorrow's a new day"
thanks

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away

I know it can be disheartening at times but try not to let it get you down. Obviously those guys weren't right for you, you know your worth, don't ever drop that for anyone. There are some really lovely guys on here who are willing to put the effort in. Don't give up xxx I don’t know any more "

Usually if I'm feeling unsure, I'll hide my profile for a while and take a step back. Sometimes it's good to have a break and take time to refocus xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x thank you and im just tried of been tossed away "

Sweetheart, your worth more than what they are offering. You are not needy, anyone who says this or says your senitve has their own attachment issues, emotional availabilityand maturity.

You are preciuos as is your body, do not give it away to anyone undeserving.

I think a question here is why do you feel you have to give it?

Is it connection you are looking for? Maybe your blue print is one where this is how you feel you can.

Hey not judging I've been there. Valueing ourselves is super hard, finding and setting out what is or isn't acceptable treatment/behaviour. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds demoralising op and sorry you’re going through this. It’s hard not to feel your confidence being knocked when you clearly deserve better. Try to keep faith in yourself and remember that you’ve probably dodged a couple of bullets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to find happiness through others. Don't settle.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away "

Good for you for holding to your standards. You should be proud of yourself for that.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here for a chat or a reassuring cuddle for any of our fellow fabbers x thank you and im just tried of been tossed away

Sweetheart, your worth more than what they are offering. You are not needy, anyone who says this or says your senitve has their own attachment issues, emotional availabilityand maturity.

You are preciuos as is your body, do not give it away to anyone undeserving.

I think a question here is why do you feel you have to give it?

Is it connection you are looking for? Maybe your blue print is one where this is how you feel you can.

Hey not judging I've been there. Valueing ourselves is super hard, finding and setting out what is or isn't acceptable treatment/behaviour. X"

thank you very much taking for time to message me and yeah I guess I’m looking for a connection and I’m gonna stop giving it away as I’m not getting it back

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Try not to find happiness through others. Don't settle.

"

definitely not Settling

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away

Good for you for holding to your standards. You should be proud of yourself for that. "

thank you

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Sounds demoralising op and sorry you’re going through this. It’s hard not to feel your confidence being knocked when you clearly deserve better. Try to keep faith in yourself and remember that you’ve probably dodged a couple of bullets xx"
oh I have definitely dogged a couple of bullets indeed xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you ever want to PM me, my inbox is always open xx

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Always here if you want to vent xx thank you and yeah the self esteem ain’t doing so well Been tossed away twice this week all because I wanted some effort as I’m tried of giving mine away

I know it can be disheartening at times but try not to let it get you down. Obviously those guys weren't right for you, you know your worth, don't ever drop that for anyone. There are some really lovely guys on here who are willing to put the effort in. Don't give up xxx I don’t know any more

Usually if I'm feeling unsure, I'll hide my profile for a while and take a step back. Sometimes it's good to have a break and take time to refocus xx"

yeah that’s what I’m doing as I’m not getting any thing for it now

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