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You're a FUCKING PERVERT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting conversation with a friend on here this morning sparked this question;

Is there such a thing as a 'good' pervert and a 'bad' pervert? and more so, where is the line drawn?

In this environment, pervert is oft used as a jovial compliment or praise, but in more real world scenarios it's more likely connected to negative news of sexual deviance. Is the divide just as simple as that, or is there more to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here pervert is used as a light hearted word and let's face it we all like a good perve!

It usually depends on if people find others attractive or not. If they fancy a person it's called flattery. If they don't, they are a pervert. Amazing how the same behaviour is changed through people's eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, scales and spectrums seem to be recurrent theme in human behaviour....Opposites and a varying degree in between

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Non consensual or harmful perving = bad

Consensual or solo perving = good

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By *wing-a-LingCouple
over a year ago

London

Yep, I reckon the line is drawn at the consent (and therefore legal) point.

A good pervert would enjoy the lovely pics/videos posted online by its respective uploaders. Maybe have a cheeky wank or ten in the privacy of their own home.

A bad pervert would stroll down Oxford Street with a camera hidden in his shoe to take upskirt pictures of unaware women. Or have a wank while scrolling through Fab's Hot Pics in a public park.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Does a double take count as consensual or non?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"On here pervert is used as a light hearted word and let's face it we all like a good perve!

It usually depends on if people find others attractive or not. If they fancy a person it's called flattery. If they don't, they are a pervert. Amazing how the same behaviour is changed through people's eyes."

Absolutely.

Oh this hot guy came and chatted to me in the bar.

Ugh, this absolute creep tried to talk to me in the bar.

The same scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, I reckon the line is drawn at the consent (and therefore legal) point.

A good pervert would enjoy the lovely pics/videos posted online by its respective uploaders. Maybe have a cheeky wank or ten in the privacy of their own home.

A bad pervert would stroll down Oxford Street with a camera hidden in his shoe to take upskirt pictures of unaware women. Or have a wank while scrolling through Fab's Hot Pics in a public park.

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Now I never thought of camera on my shoes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"On here pervert is used as a light hearted word and let's face it we all like a good perve!

It usually depends on if people find others attractive or not. If they fancy a person it's called flattery. If they don't, they are a pervert. Amazing how the same behaviour is changed through people's eyes."

Yep.

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By *wing-a-LingCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep, I reckon the line is drawn at the consent (and therefore legal) point.

A good pervert would enjoy the lovely pics/videos posted online by its respective uploaders. Maybe have a cheeky wank or ten in the privacy of their own home.

A bad pervert would stroll down Oxford Street with a camera hidden in his shoe to take upskirt pictures of unaware women. Or have a wank while scrolling through Fab's Hot Pics in a public park.

Now I never thought of camera on my shoes "

Make sure the flash is switched off!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like the word pervert applied to healthy, consensual sexual behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how it's used on Fab, a little tongue in cheek and friendly. A good example of how the meaning of words flexes in different contexts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As other have said, it’s about consent.

I put pics up, so I expect people to perve them, compliments are lovely, but when people message to tell me what they are going to do to me, with no consultation from me, I find that pervy, and not in a good way.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s about perspective.

One person’s perverted behaviour is another person’s quiet Tuesday. The key as others have said is consent, and to find people who match or enhance your desires.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Consent is the obvious factor here from everyone's commments, but the one that interested me was;
"It usually depends on if people find others attractive or not. If they fancy a person it's called flattery. If they don't, they are a pervert. Amazing how the same behaviour is changed through people's eyes.

Absolutely.

Oh this hot guy came and chatted to me in the bar.

Ugh, this absolute creep tried to talk to me in the bar.

The same scenario. "

So, the same act can be perceived as good pervert, or bad pervert depending on our perception of the individual?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"As other have said, it’s about consent.

I put pics up, so I expect people to perve them, compliments are lovely, but when people message to tell me what they are going to do to me, with no consultation from me, I find that pervy, and not in a good way. "

This! The I've just done this to your pic

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