FabSwingers.com forum: Suits - with or without a tie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having been recently promoted I now have to wear a suit to work. Whilst speaking to a friend he commented that their place although still suit wearers ditched the ties a while ago.

Now I find that strange, it's like wearing shorts with brogues!!

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waits for Mr Sartorial Elegance View to appear here .......

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

most are business casual these days...

congratulations and enjoy your new role.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having been recently promoted I now have to wear a suit to work. Whilst speaking to a friend he commented that their place although still suit wearers ditched the ties a while ago.

Now I find that strange, it's like wearing shorts with brogues!!

What do you think?"

It depends what job you do / what the organisation does that you work for I think.

I dress casually for work, but always keep a suit and a tie in the office in case I have to go and see a client without a previous appointment.

If we are inter_iewing I will always wear a shirt and trousers, though usually opened necked and with a v-neck sweater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i drool at men in suits, i love either look.

get some pics up and give us the vote

(cant blame a girl for trying)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would wear a suit with a very fine crew neck jumper.

John Smedley do great ones... sea island cotton for the summer and merino wool for the winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waits for Mr Sartorial Elegance View to appear here .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would wear a suit with a very fine crew neck jumper.

John Smedley do great ones... sea island cotton for the summer and merino wool for the winter"

That can only be carried off by those with a well-defined neck, IMHO.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It depends on the circumstance.

I love to see a man in full suit and tie. I also love to see the casino shot, with the open neck, bow tie undone and hanging loose (anyone sends me that photo, I can almost guarantee I'll have sex with them).

I like to see the grandad collar shirts under a suit too.

Hell, I just love a guy in a suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, it depends on the shirt.

With buttoned downs, it should be worn without a tie, IMHO.

I do love the look of a well-dressed gent in nicely tailored and fitted suit, collar and tie.

An ill-fitted suit, even when new, does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the circumstance.

I like to see the grandad collar shirts under a suit too.

Hell, I just love a guy in a suit. "

check out 'Obiguy4couples' that shot is his avatar.. nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a man in a suit and tie, classey as

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"It depends on the circumstance.

I like to see the grandad collar shirts under a suit too.

Hell, I just love a guy in a suit.

check out 'Obiguy4couples' that shot is his avatar.. nom nom

Oh my!!!! And the barefoot approach too!!! *Swoon*

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Wear a tie, that way of you het a bit of lunch time fun you have something handy to do some kinky bondage

Then when you are sat in a boring meeting you just look at your tie and remember the fun it brought you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the circumstance.

I like to see the grandad collar shirts under a suit too.

Hell, I just love a guy in a suit.

check out 'Obiguy4couples' that shot is his avatar.. nom nom

Oh wow!! Yum, yum and yum again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear a tie, that way of you het a bit of lunch time fun you have something handy to do some kinky bondage

Then when you are sat in a boring meeting you just look at your tie and remember the fun it brought you

One of the best things about my partner having to wear a suit and tie to work every day ..... taking them off again later.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don't feel dressed if I wear a suit without a tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a tie for sure.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ditched ties with my suit about 6 months ago although I love to wear a tux and bowtie for functions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ditched ties with my suit about 6 months ago although I love to wear a tux and bowtie for functions..."

o0o0o westy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Jay wears a white silk scarf with his tux and he looks very dapper, he looks like something out the 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm in my suit at work then that includes a tie. More often than not though it's an open neck shirt and trousers with the suit a tie available if needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the pics of gents in properly fitted morning suits, as seen on important horse racing events and grand weddings.

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

Times change but standards never do, so it's always a tie with a suit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The thought that will go through my head tomorrow at lunchtime now

"Wear a tie, that way of you het a bit of lunch time fun you have something handy to do some kinky bondage

Then when you are sat in a boring meeting you just look at your tie and remember the fun it brought you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a tie is a good way to drag somebody up the stairs to bed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a tie is a good way to drag somebody up the stairs to bed x

Or into a house, or a room, or a car, etc. etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wear a full suit much these days as I work in the creative industry and most clients expect something a bit more casual (suit jacket and jeans) but I do enjoy the occasions where I do put on a full suit, feels quite powerful.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If I'm in my suit at work then that includes a tie. More often than not though it's an open neck shirt and trousers with the suit a tie available if needed."

oh its needed

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We love a guy in a suit

Love undoing his shirt & tie to expose a beautiful hairy chest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I certainly have the hairy chest xx

"We love a guy in a suit

Love undoing his shirt & tie to expose a beautiful hairy chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, it depends on the shirt.

With buttoned downs, it should be worn without a tie, IMHO.

I do love the look of a well-dressed gent in nicely tailored and fitted suit, collar and tie.

An ill-fitted suit, even when new, does nothing for me.

Perhaps you might dislike me less in real life then

lol

I do the button downs and no tue by the way, tailored mohair suits all the way. A cheap suit is a nasty item

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I`m well known for wearing a tie to the functions run by the other swinger`s forum I frequent. If there`s another certain lady there, I know I`m in for some good clean fun followed by a lovely snog as she loves to undo my tie and retie it in a certain way! At one do I attended she spotted another guy wearing a tie and frightened the life out him when she started doing the same to him!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month"

feel free to send photos to my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only person that dosan't like suits? Too formal for me, hate all that dressing up for weddings and stuff too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only person that dosan't like suits? Too formal for me, hate all that dressing up for weddings and stuff too.

it's not only you waynetta

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month"

For a reason or just to feel special?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

depends if you can carry it off, not all guys can...a nice double cuffed shirt needs a tie..IMHO

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Both as long as appropriately worn, a good cut and clean! I hate it when I see men wearing suits over and over again that have not been cleaned. Or with their pockets stuffed to overflowing, ruining the line and hang of the suit.

I have been known to go weak at the knees for a really good silk lining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends if you can carry it off, not all guys can...a nice double cuffed shirt needs a tie..IMHO

Hmmm, I beg to differ if it has a buttoned down collar, for the more casual look, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only person that dosan't like suits? Too formal for me, hate all that dressing up for weddings and stuff too.

it's not only you waynetta

Gimme a nice shiny shellsuit any day. Open at the neck to reveal a forest of hair. And crocs. Purrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a suit with open neck shirt for work around the office. If i got for a meeting with clients i wear a tie.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

As I've spent my career predominantly in the Hotel business, my "working clothes" have usually been very formal!

That would include the Morning Suit (black jacket, grey/black striped trousers, black waistcoat, silver tie and silver breast pocket handkerchief) allied to a crisp white shirt and formal black shoes. Dinner Suits were the norm for Evening Functions or major events.

for my present job, I wear a company provided suit, completed with shirt and tie and formal black shoes. I have a senior managerial position and what I wear affords me a style as befits my role.

I'm of the opinion that a suit and tie is a must for business; it commands respect and confidence for all. Yes, I am of a generation that considers an open necked shirt with a suit is an absolute horror!! The wearer is slovenly dressed!

In contrast, how is it many days you notice a couple out in the evening; she is dressed up to the nines and has taken her time to look nice; he on the other hand, is in jeans (if she is lucky, he has washed and pressed them!) but invariably, he looks a slob! Come on guys, smarten up!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Both as long as appropriately worn, a good cut and clean! I hate it when I see men wearing suits over and over again that have not been cleaned. Or with their pockets stuffed to overflowing, ruining the line and hang of the suit.

I have been known to go weak at the knees for a really good silk lining."

Are you referring to Mr Trebus?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month

For a reason or just to feel special?

I am speshial

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been known to go weak at the knees for a really good silk lining.

Are you referring to Mr Trebus?"

I don't think I ever went weak at the knees at Mr Trebus.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month

For a reason or just to feel special?

I am speshial needs"

Yes you are

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month

For a reason or just to feel special?

I am speshial needs

Yes you are hot

Did you Doctor my post there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tie adds class but not a clip on one

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

In certain jobs or businesses, a clip on tie is mandatory, for example, in the Security industry, especially in front line roles, in dealing with the public!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

In certain jobs or businesses, a clip on tie is mandatory, for example, in the Security industry, especially in front line roles, in dealing with the public!"

They may be necessary but one could never say classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

In certain jobs or businesses, a clip on tie is mandatory, for example, in the Security industry, especially in front line roles, in dealing with the public!"

I know that but them aren't managerial roles and the tie is there as a symbol of authority and not as an aesthetic visual to make the suit complete as in the op's original question. A clip on tie doesn't say swerve or sophisticated it says fat fingers or grunt with tie.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

In certain jobs or businesses, a clip on tie is mandatory, for example, in the Security industry, especially in front line roles, in dealing with the public!

Sorry, but I know of managers in the Security Industry who wear clip on ties, due to the respective nature of the job; I was one of them!

Fat fingers or grunt with a tie? Don't stereotype. Maybe it does refer to some in that business, but not everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

In certain jobs or businesses, a clip on tie is mandatory, for example, in the Security industry, especially in front line roles, in dealing with the public!

Sorry, but I know of managers in the Security Industry who wear clip on ties, due to the respective nature of the job; I was one of them!"

Yeh but they are not real managers just suckers who were given a title and a three stripes and not the dosh a manager gets. Besides its not a suit its a UNIFORM so you are off topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a tie, on your first day, if nobody else is wearing one, you will stand out if that isn't a comfortable position the tie can slip into your pocket, and jacket can be hung up.

In my last office I banned ties as there was no build room and we worked with open computers all around us most of the time, the static from a tie is a motherboard killer, though all my team kept one or more in the office in case we needed to go see a formal customer etc.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Did you also ban nylon Y fronts

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

Sorry, but I know of managers in the Security Industry who wear clip on ties, due to the respective nature of the job; I was one of them!

Yeh but they are not real managers just suckers who were given a title and a three stripes and not the dosh a manager gets. Besides its not a suit its a UNIFORM so you are off topic.

Ahem! There you go again! Stereotyping. If you knew me, you'd know I was Security Operations Manager of a company, turning over £12m per annum.

I wore a suit, with a clip on tie. There are many managers in a similar capacity, who don't wear uniforms.

Yes, there are those in the Front line who do wear uniforms and I would agree with you there, but please at least consider there are professional levels of management who are not suckers and certainly are not defined as "not real managers" as you unkindly put it!

What line of business are you in, by the way?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Come on chaps I've only just been released for good behaviour don't let the 1st thread I post to go tits up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you also ban nylon Y fronts

Damn yes.... silk only,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tie adds class but not a clip on one

Sorry, but I know of managers in the Security Industry who wear clip on ties, due to the respective nature of the job; I was one of them!

Yeh but they are not real managers just suckers who were given a title and a three stripes and not the dosh a manager gets. Besides its not a suit its a UNIFORM so you are off topic.

Ahem! There you go again! Stereotyping. If you knew me, you'd know I was Security Operations Manager of a company, turning over £12m per annum.

I wore a suit, with a clip on tie. There are many managers in a similar capacity, who don't wear uniforms.

What line of business are you in, by the way? "

Yeh yeh yeh this SUIT had a badge on didn't it and a cap to go with it and everyone wore the same suit didn't they with the same clip on tie.

Oh santa isn't real the easter bunny is a man in a costume and quan sausages aint sausages and there is no relation between turnover to what they pay the guy who opens the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a long time choosing my ties for each suit so I don't feel the outfit is complete without the tie. I sometimes wear a hanky in the top pocket too, but I'm a bit eccentric.

My clients expect me to wear a tie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend a long time choosing my ties for each suit so I don't feel the outfit is complete without the tie. I sometimes wear a hanky in the top pocket too, but I'm a bit eccentric.

My clients expect me to wear a tie. "

I bet you look sharp in one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think all men should change avatars to suit pictures for inspection x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I spend a long time choosing my ties for each suit so I don't feel the outfit is complete without the tie. I sometimes wear a hanky in the top pocket too, but I'm a bit eccentric.

My clients expect me to wear a tie.

I bet you look sharp in one.

He looks sharp out of one if that avatar is anything to go by. Must be time for bed... Night night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend a long time choosing my ties for each suit so I don't feel the outfit is complete without the tie. I sometimes wear a hanky in the top pocket too, but I'm a bit eccentric.

My clients expect me to wear a tie. "

Thats the way it should be and it shows you have a bit of style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth, when I was a few sizes smaller, I would wear ties, bow ties, or silk hankies tied as ties with collared shirts.

Then my neck grew thicker, and closed collar shirts became unflattering for me.

So I switched to open neck shirts, with or without button downs, and wear my now trademarked pearl necklaces instead.

For very formal business outings, I would wear a black or grey suit, with a colourful shirt. Otherwise I would team a colourful shirt with a colourful jacket.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

These days a well fitting suit with an open necked shirt is the nom de riguer!

I wear suits to work with an open necked shirt. I do have ties in my drawer for meetings. But three things.

1. Suit has to be well fitted. There's nothing bad than an ill fitting suit

2. For shirts, stick to white or blue and preferably one with a Windsor collar.

3. Finish the look with a good pair of Oxford shoes. Might cost a bit more but so worth it. Try a pair of Loake shoes..

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Does this work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear a tie with a suit, no matter what, and always have a Windsor knot....or half Windsor if in the city of London.

Shirts without ties should only be worn with sports blazers, and then only on weekends ect.

And remember the golden rule - nothing ruins a good suit quicker than a bad belt ! Waist adjusters are much more smarter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the circumstance.

I like to see the grandad collar shirts under a suit too.

Hell, I just love a guy in a suit.

check out 'Obiguy4couples' that shot is his avatar.. nom nom

You called???

Personally - I wear suits almost daily - but rarely ties. Smart but relaxed, rather than casual - and as I meet people in all kinds of businesses I have to take into account their corporate image and philosophy. But I've noticed that particularly in the higher education and finance sectors - unless you are 'customer facing' staff - ties these days are rarely worn!

Just head to canary wharf during the day - suits all round but barely a tie in sight!!

I doo keep half a dozen in the car at all times though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suit with open neck shirt for me if internal or with a tie when with a customer. I also used to wear DJ and Dickie once a month

feel free to send photos to my inbox

+1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you can get away without having a tie if you have the rite shirt or collar.

its when i see people in a nice suit and shirt but havnt got a belt.. looks half dressed to me with belt loops sticking out lol. i feel under dressed without a belt.

is it just me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the shirt I say

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Tie all the way

The look on a lady whilst you undo the tie in front of her is priceless. Imagine you got a meet just after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a tie is a good way to drag somebody up the stairs to bed x

Or into a house, or a room, or a car, etc. etc...

How strong are your Pearls?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think all men should change avatars to suit pictures for inspection x "

As requested Madame ....

I have a nice 'Black Tie' Dinner Suit as well as the Tux. Although a lady friend did tie my big burgundy Dickie to my todger and called it her 'Bow Job'!

Bike Leathers also seem to have the same effect as a nice suit for some reason ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I put my leathers back on please ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the Jame Bond look mmmmmmmm x

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