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How did you get in to swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simple question

Always love to hear peoples entrance in to this lifestyle (or peoples interest in it!)

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

An ex, he was in the lifestyle before we met, he spoke to me about the idea of trying it and I was intrigued... And never looked back

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Wouldn't class myself as a swinger I just quite like playing with different ladies vaginas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into it myself as i like sexuql fun qne to make new friends

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It was when i was quite little at the playground, the slide was being used so i had to go on the swing instead...

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

My vagina led me here

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By *luvpussy40Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I've been to a couple of swingers parties and really enjoyed them so I think I would check this out for a while

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

A friend of mine told me his wife fancied me! The conversation ended with him asking if i wanted to go to his house!! I said dont you need to ask her fist? He replied with "i have".

Not looked back since

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By *rabness92Man
over a year ago

Netherlands

My ex introduced me to this website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to actually "swing". I joined this site originally last year then Covid happened. I will attend a few clubs and events once everything reopens and the "fuck me now feeding frenzy" dies down.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"My vagina led me here"

Built in compass?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A guy at work told me about fabs back in 2011

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Went to bi day at Quest. Ended up fucking 3 women that day. I thought this is alright!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watched a documentary about it….. probably on channel 5 with my first girlfriend. We both liked the sound of it and tried it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex, he was in the lifestyle before we met, he spoke to me about the idea of trying it and I was intrigued... And never looked back"

I’m sure you look back occasionally for a bit of eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex-wife, her and her ex-husband dabbled and I met them in an old AOL chat room. My first experience was with her and he watched/joined in. Started seeing her on her own, we ended up together.

As a couple we only had a couple of meets, not through Fab, only found out about Fab after we'd split up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I were having dinner with a couple around 16 years ago - I’d always had my suspicions about them. K (the wife) opened discussion about swinging, which was very well handled by her (didn’t give too much away, was subtle). They’d obviously planned the evening. The next day we had an email from her suggesting that if we wanted to know more about their lifestyle, we ask. So we did and after several weeks and long discussion, we went to a club they frequented in London and played with another couple.

We swang for 2 years and enjoyed the most tremendous adventure with great people. None of it was “online”!

Just over 2 years ago I separated and was spending time with a FWB who wanted to be introduced to the lifestyle, so we found this place (advice from “that” couple from 16 years ago!) and swang as a couple of a few months, before I eventually made it here as a solo.

Now if only I could find another couple to play with, I’d call it swinging….

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We had a rep who called on us to move more product. He coped an eyeful of our pictures on my computer of my princess.

He flirted and she loved it, in the end I said if you've got an itch and want to scratch it we will do it together.

He introduced us to a local club and off we went, he finally got his reward on our first trip to Cap D!!

still a friend and best choice we've made great Chap Cheers Mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be a lot of Ex’s mention , funny that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex boyfriend who was experienced in the scene. He used to tell me the stories about the scene in Amsterdam and the clubs he visited, I was curious and he wanted to experience British clubs so we went and that was that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced by friends after I separated from my husband.

Apparently they always knew I was "Kinky little fucker" and thought this might be a good place to explore.

They were right on both counts

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Curiosity really. I was walking along one day in a public park and I seen what can only really be described as this kind of bench for one, suspended from above by chain. I thought to my self shall I sit on it? I walked over to it eventually plucked up the courage to sit on it. It wobbled and I jumped off. Yet I got a little frill from the danger. I was still curious and filled with the same deadly impulsion that saw Pandora lift the lid of that box. So I sat on it again it wobbled but I embraced the feel of the uncertainty of my safety, it was freeing. Then I lifted my legs from the floor. I don't know why this next bit happened, it was like some kind of inherent instinct. I started to push and pull the weight of my body and the seat started to swing forwards and backwards. The more I did it and higher I got the more it felt just right. And the rest now is just history I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was always meant to find me. Not the other way round

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I had a pretty shitty break-up with an old ex - then a friend of mine at the time (female) recommended me to here as it fitted my lifestyle more.

This was 5 years ago now, I still remember going to my first social night alone for the first time! Funny thing is, I messaged her 5 years later on here (as lost contact) & she blocked me, saying she didn’t know who I was loool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was introduced by friends after I separated from my husband.

Apparently they always knew I was "Kinky little fucker" and thought this might be a good place to explore.

They were right on both counts "

I can imagine how that conversation went.

“Hey sorry you’re in the pits of despair after separating. What you need is to get yourself the fuck on FAB and be overwhelmed with cock-selfies and sycophants!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was introduced by friends after I separated from my husband.

Apparently they always knew I was "Kinky little fucker" and thought this might be a good place to explore.

They were right on both counts

I can imagine how that conversation went.

“Hey sorry you’re in the pits of despair after separating. What you need is to get yourself the fuck on FAB and be overwhelmed with cock-selfies and sycophants!”

"

Thankfully there were no pits of despair, just a desire for some very kinky fuckery.

And I have met a couple of rather nice people so it's been worth sifting through the abundance of dick picks and fruitloops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was introduced by friends after I separated from my husband.

Apparently they always knew I was "Kinky little fucker" and thought this might be a good place to explore.

They were right on both counts

I can imagine how that conversation went.

“Hey sorry you’re in the pits of despair after separating. What you need is to get yourself the fuck on FAB and be overwhelmed with cock-selfies and sycophants!”

Thankfully there were no pits of despair, just a desire for some very kinky fuckery.

And I have met a couple of rather nice people so it's been worth sifting through the abundance of dick picks and fruitloops "

They’re a different breed on here, for sure!

But there are gems to be found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have been highly sexed, met people over the years who introduced me to the club scene and it went from there.

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

Went to a house party 28 years ago...was asked for my keys...never looked back lol

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Was invited by lovely couple and then many others,

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Female friends introduced me and I've never looked back

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

An ex.. Nearly 20 years ago..

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