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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon

Hey everyone

So this is my first post on the forum.

We have been enjoying the lifestyle for a few months now and I don't want to go back to the norm ever again!

I love the thrill of it all.

So I guess this is just a general chat to ask people what brought them to Fab, how did it all start for you?

Did you go for experience or smell fresh meat for the taking?

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Lost 6 family members and a friend in the space of a few months..didnt want to look back and wished we had so after awful months ....here we are 4yrs later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heh, welcome to the Forum, fellow Essex Fabbers.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually went to a swingers club first. People there were asking me if I were on Fab. I had never heard about Fab before and refused to join for a good few months but then gave into temptation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came for the hot casual sex, and stayed around for the fish puns on Forum. It's cod, really.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I went on a date with someone we quickly realised it was more of a friendship and he told me about fab, I thought little of it at the time but a few months later my curiosity peaked and I joined, I’ve had a couple of profiles in the few years since then, some very memorable experiences and made some long term friends along the way, it has been eye opening in many ways x

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

I joined because I thought it was a group to talk about playground equipment

Just never left because everyone seemed so nice

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone mentioned the site on fb, so I thought I'd take a look so I could have some fun when lock down finally ended.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I can’t remember it was 10+ years ago and I was either d*unk or horny (oh who am I kidding, those two things go hand in hand)

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon

I had a car crash in September and had my car flipped over 3 times.

I was lucky to walk out of it but it made me realise I want alot more out of life rather than the normal expectations.

It's certainly been an eye opener and I have alot to experience still but I'm on the right path now.

Certainly alot happier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found fab as my partner (now ex) was on here.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I met someone through the CL ads of old, they suggested that it might be worth a look because they knew my sexuality predicament, joined and very shortly after met someone who is still a very close friend to this day.

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


" Lost 6 family members and a friend in the space of a few months..didnt want to look back and wished we had so after awful months ....here we are 4yrs later"

Wow,that's unfortunate.

Sounds like you took it as a wake up call thou and grabbed on with both hands

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"Heh, welcome to the Forum, fellow Essex Fabbers. "

Hello there

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"I joined because I thought it was a group to talk about playground equipment

Just never left because everyone seemed so nice "

Haha I love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I met told me about it, because he thought I’d enjoy it 9 months later I’ve met my fwb from here and had a few naughty experiences, not as many as I’d like but still time to make it happen

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"I joined because I thought it was a group to talk about playground equipment

Just never left because everyone seemed so nice

Haha I love this! "

Just find it a bit strange that everyone keeps taking their clothes off or just wants to talk about sex

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"I joined because I thought it was a group to talk about playground equipment

Just never left because everyone seemed so nice

Haha I love this!

Just find it a bit strange that everyone keeps taking their clothes off or just wants to talk about sex "

Ah but atleast sometimes people are naked and on a sex swing... That's got to make it all alright?

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"I met someone through the CL ads of old, they suggested that it might be worth a look because they knew my sexuality predicament, joined and very shortly after met someone who is still a very close friend to this day. "

This is exactly what it's about for us.

To make some amazing friends which we can keep for ever!

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"I joined because I thought it was a group to talk about playground equipment

Just never left because everyone seemed so nice

Haha I love this!

Just find it a bit strange that everyone keeps taking their clothes off or just wants to talk about sex

Ah but atleast sometimes people are naked and on a sex swing... That's got to make it all alright? "

It's the only reason I put up with all the other nakedness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a kiss, never thought it would come to this Short story really wanted an extra penis, ended up here and now I can't get out

Welcome OP, hope you find what your looking for

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"It started with a kiss, never thought it would come to this Short story really wanted an extra penis, ended up here and now I can't get out

Welcome OP, hope you find what your looking for "

Extra penis you say

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

I was watching some amateur porn.

The couple had a link to their fab profile in the comments section.

I had a quick look and was hooked.

That was 2014 and a couple of profiles later I’m with the love of my life and enjoying the total honesty.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of us lads were taking the piss out of a mate for putting his cock pictures online...

Then not surprisingly, we all ended up on here weeks later too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone through the CL ads of old, they suggested that it might be worth a look because they knew my sexuality predicament, joined and very shortly after met someone who is still a very close friend to this day. "

Similar here, started with CL and someone mentioned fab , i joined but left it for months for whatever reason. I wasn’t impressed at first, then I started actually putting some effort and got some amazing meets here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few of us lads were taking the piss out of a mate for putting his cock pictures online...

Then not surprisingly, we all ended up on here weeks later too "

Haha boys will be boys aye

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"It started with a kiss, never thought it would come to this Short story really wanted an extra penis, ended up here and now I can't get out

Welcome OP, hope you find what your looking for "

Thank you!

Oh I'm pretty sure I've found more then I anticipated already

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"A few of us lads were taking the piss out of a mate for putting his cock pictures online...

Then not surprisingly, we all ended up on here weeks later too "

I think you need to buy this friend a pint to say thank you!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hello and welcome, LinkandLola

A d*unken conversation with a couple who we're friends with led to them telling us they were on here. We'd swing before via AFF but it had been a looooooong time ago. Joined up two and a half years ago and we've never looked back! Fab has led us to places we never expected, including a club, which we adored. Prioritise communication with your partner, and enjoy

Mrs TMN x

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By *inkandLola OP   Couple
over a year ago

Basildon


"Hello and welcome, LinkandLola

A d*unken conversation with a couple who we're friends with led to them telling us they were on here. We'd swing before via AFF but it had been a looooooong time ago. Joined up two and a half years ago and we've never looked back! Fab has led us to places we never expected, including a club, which we adored. Prioritise communication with your partner, and enjoy

Mrs TMN x"

Thank you for the response!

It is definitely making us be more open with each other which is great!

Can I ask what is AFF

I also need to know what CL is!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Hello and welcome, LinkandLola

A d*unken conversation with a couple who we're friends with led to them telling us they were on here. We'd swing before via AFF but it had been a looooooong time ago. Joined up two and a half years ago and we've never looked back! Fab has led us to places we never expected, including a club, which we adored. Prioritise communication with your partner, and enjoy

Mrs TMN x

Thank you for the response!

It is definitely making us be more open with each other which is great!

Can I ask what is AFF

I also need to know what CL is! "

Ah sorry, adultfriendfinder, was a site similar to fab. CL I think is Craigslist. X

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

I met a wonderful lady through twitter she mentioned it to me and I've never looked back. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello welcome to the party

Started off splitting ex fiancée guy at work was a swinger and we were on a brake from work told me I should get my self on fab

So joined as a single guy poterd around a bit for a month or so to no luck was young at the time 23

Seen there was tv/ts on here had done some dress in my younger years

Though do you know what this is the perfect time to explore this side off me and never looked back going on 10 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone

So this is my first post on the forum.

We have been enjoying the lifestyle for a few months now and I don't want to go back to the norm ever again!

I love the thrill of it all.

So I guess this is just a general chat to ask people what brought them to Fab, how did it all start for you?

Did you go for experience or smell fresh meat for the taking? "

I started swinging 6 years ago on another site had a lot of fantastic meets there ,been trying to make Fab work for me (best part of 2years) but as a single bloke it can be hard to get a first meet still living in hope

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