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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How good are you at paying someone a compliment?

If you're with someone and you think they look nice, would you tell them so?

Would you compliment someone on who and how they are?

Or do you just think it and not voice it?

Is there a difference between the sexes on compliments?

Do men or women compliment more or is there a stigma that compliments come across like there's a ulterior notice behind them?

I'm finding men quite often don't get compliments and I think it's such a shame. And no this isn't a woman bashing thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*motive not notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty good at paying genuine compliments.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm terrible. The word gorgeous just don't seem to leave my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm all for giving compliments where due...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am awesome at paying compliments

can be as suttle as very lovely dress or nails or something

To full blown charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I compliment women regularly (and genuinely), but I only compliment men that I feel safe with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliments should always be offered with total honesty....its part of life's feel good factor

Got no time for haters

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I will always compliment someone, it might just make their day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m good with compliments, and I only give them if I genuinely feel it. There’s nothing worse than trying to say something you don’t believe. I don’t think I took my eyes off the keratin I met last time… every smile and compliment was genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once complimented a friend of mine, she’s a lesbian and there was no motive behind it….

Unfortunately I finished the sentence with ‘today’

You look great… today! She tore me a new one

I’ve seen a lot of things recently on social media about saying someone looks beautiful, and women don’t like it, so I tend to stick with compliments who I know well enough to know my intent.

I don’t do well with compliments and deflect them faster than they left the mouth haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good with them for sure. But I do feel like I'm being a bit creepy sometimes. Don't know why just do. The compliments aren't even creepy like haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont bother anymore, you can't do right for doing wrong most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am better IRL with compliments

On here, a lot assume they are used (by men) purely as an attempt to get nearer to the knickers being dropped

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

I like to give compliments, but will only do so if it's genuine...I probably compliment men more than I do women, especially at work (probably because I work in a male dominated field, but also because I generally feel more comfortable around men)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will always compliment someone, it might just make their day!"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ,always say if someone looks good etc I like to see someone smile

Fox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to compliment. I always do x

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Ive given plenty of comments to ladies in shops. When there trying clothes on and then looking in the mirror at themselves.

Ive pipped up often when they ask the shop owner if they ok in this outfit.

Ive asked if they would like a mans point of view and asked if they want an honest opinion.

The last person i said looked really loverly with the coat and she really did do.

It showed her hips off and down her legs, it also enhanced her bust line really well as she had a loverly hour glass figure to her.

She was also looking at what I was saying, As I was still searching for stuff in the shop.

I always ask if you want the truth as you will be told it if you want an honest opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m good with compliments, and I give them if I genuinely feel it. But I’ll always say nice things to nice people. I don’t think I took my eyes off the lady I met last time… every smile and compliment was genuine. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone looks great/is good at something/is just a real good person I tell them, I've been accused of being a flirt over it tho... Perish the thought

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I only compliment if I genuinely mean it and do so regardless of gender, both here and in real life.

I rarely join the "compliment the poster above" type threads because unless it's someone I know, it seems fairly shallow to pay a compliment based on a picture or text and therefore somewhat "false flattery".

If I'm out or with someone I know though I'll tell them they look nice, or how they've done their hair etc but only if I really think it

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Compliments that come for the right place are always welcome those that come with a undertone of the possibility of gaining something for your own benefit I’ve no time for, you can see right through those ones.

I’ll happily compliment men and woman when I notice a characteristic or physical feature I like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heartfelt compliments are so rare in this cynical age that some folks do not respond well, and exhibit a frisson of irritation at an attempted manipulation.

But Covid-19 has changed a lot of people; they enjoy genuine human contact, and smile reciprocatively.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I will compliment people if there is reason too…. Nice dress, smart suit, shoes etc. It gives people a feel good factor to know someone has noticed and made the effort to say so.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

If they deserve it, they get a compliment. I don’t say things that aren’t true, just to boost someone’s feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been better at complimenting guys for some reason because I'll genuinely think they're wearing something cool or their haircut looks decent.

I've alway been afraid of complimenting women first as I don't want to come across as flirty so wait for them to do it first

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