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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " I only come on the forums to read them tbh. I've got popcorn and everything | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " I totally agree  | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " Forum as you want to forum, but trying to belittle others doesn’t make you shine brighter. Why don’t you take the time to reach out to those “babies” and try and be more supportive? | |||
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"Do you think your post is more appropriate? "I think it’s fair to point out that some people need to be more self reflective | |||
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"Ooh I say" What ya sayin' Yassy?  | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " Fair play - you’ve one telephone verification, your opinion and experiences deserve to be heard | |||
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"Just let them cry. Don't contribute to the negativity. This forum needs alot more positivity. " Start a thread x | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. Forum as you want to forum, but trying to belittle others doesn’t make you shine brighter. Why don’t you take the time to reach out to those “babies” and try and be more supportive?" They don’t want support they want to attack others and blame them for their own shortcomings | |||
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"Do you think your post is more appropriate?
I think it’s fair to point out that some people need to be more self reflective "See. That’s eloquent. Your post is not. | |||
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"I think a huge orgy in a massive field is called for, last man with his boner still boning wins King of all fab " Gladiator style I like it | |||
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"Just let them cry. Don't contribute to the negativity. This forum needs alot more positivity. Start a thread x" I like threads | |||
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"Do you think your post is more appropriate?
I think it’s fair to point out that some people need to be more self reflective
See. That’s eloquent. Your post is not. "If I said I didn’t mean the headline to be divisive I would be lying | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. Forum as you want to forum, but trying to belittle others doesn’t make you shine brighter. Why don’t you take the time to reach out to those “babies” and try and be more supportive? They don’t want support they want to attack others and blame them for their own shortcomings " That’s the name of my penis, Short Cummings. | |||
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"Decent enough message with elements of truth in it. Approach and execution needs a little work though. 6/10 "I’ll take that and work on it for next time | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose "I can never really get my head round the profile advice Being yourself is a lie when it's said ? | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose "i think the problem is that alot of men on here dont understand what swinging is all about, if women arent dropping thier knickers in seconds for them, well it must be the fault of the site | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. Forum as you want to forum, but trying to belittle others doesn’t make you shine brighter. Why don’t you take the time to reach out to those “babies” and try and be more supportive? They don’t want support they want to attack others and blame them for their own shortcomings That’s the name of my penis, Short Cummings."  | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
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I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put. "It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
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I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put. "Hi I'm littlebigcock and another forumite said it's best of I act like this to get into your knickers, if it's wrong say and I will seek advice from another forumite It's fucked up I'd rather go without than ask another bloke what should I do | |||
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"Decent enough message with elements of truth in it. Approach and execution needs a little work though. 6/10 " | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " Hang on...is this, could this, no not possibly...a man bashing post! *gasps!* | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
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I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put.
It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile."Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? | |||
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"Men crying about other men is funnier "The irony is real…. | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " Like you You mean????? | |||
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"Check out Daft Punk’s new single ‘Get Lucky’ if you get the chance. Sound of the summer. "I'm off to do this now | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write?" You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help. | |||
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"Check out Daft Punk’s new single ‘Get Lucky’ if you get the chance. Sound of the summer. "Not sure its new, but a good little wiggle track | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness." I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness." Pickiness isnt really the right word. | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
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I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put.
Hi I'm littlebigcock and another forumite said it's best of I act like this to get into your knickers, if it's wrong say and I will seek advice from another forumite
It's fucked up
I'd rather go without than ask another bloke what should I do "Exactly, but the point is, some of these guys have had some excellent advice off the very same women that they're trying to charm the knickers off, but they take no heed, then come back again with almost exactly the same post moaning again. Surely they could take some positives out of all the advice they've been given, and construct at least a half decent profile | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help." I'm a proud bloke, if I genuinely ever require help and there's times I could actually do with some but as far as pulling women goes not a chance, if I ain't accomplished it from my own steam it's not for me | |||
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I'm off to do this now " | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! " I shouldn’t just lose the weight just to get the approval of others, so I wasn’t listing that as an option. | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help." If they can't be arsed to get past first paragraph I can't be arsed past first message | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. Pickiness isnt really the right word. " Sorry, but it is. | |||
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"I think a huge orgy in a massive field is called for, last man with his boner still boning wins King of all fab " Lmfao | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
Being yourself is a lie when it's said ?
I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put.
Hi I'm littlebigcock and another forumite said it's best of I act like this to get into your knickers, if it's wrong say and I will seek advice from another forumite
It's fucked up
I'd rather go without than ask another bloke what should I do
Exactly, but the point is, some of these guys have had some excellent advice off the very same women that they're trying to charm the knickers off, but they take no heed, then come back again with almost exactly the same post moaning again.
Surely they could take some positives out of all the advice they've been given, and construct at least a half decent profile "What is a half decent profile though ? Professional photos ? Not 1 spelling mistake ? Photos that are clearly altered by angles ? What is a decent profile ? | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help." Fair enough. Puts me off though if people can’t even think of what to put in their own profile. . | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " I disagree with you, men are not always the problem. Completely wrong | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! I shouldn’t just lose the weight just to get the approval of others, so I wasn’t listing that as an option. " No you’re right you shouldn’t. In which case you just need to find those that like you how you are. | |||
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"Check out Daft Punk’s new single ‘Get Lucky’ if you get the chance. Sound of the summer.
I'm off to do this now
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. I disagree with you, men are not always the problem. Completely wrong "I would say 9/10 times they are | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! I shouldn’t just lose the weight just to get the approval of others, so I wasn’t listing that as an option. No you’re right you shouldn’t. In which case you just need to find those that like you how you are. " Which isn’t possible on here, other sites yes, but no couples here. | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help. Fair enough. Puts me off though if people can’t even think of what to put in their own profile. . "I do think daily what to put in my own, I'm always undecided so duck it , folk can think for themselves | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. No dude, not being attracted to someone is not being picky. Pickiness isnt really the right word. Sorry, but it is." | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help. Fair enough. Puts me off though if people can’t even think of what to put in their own profile. .
I do think daily what to put in my own, I'm always undecided so duck it , folk can think for themselves "I can see you’ve put a lot of thought into it | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. No dude, not being attracted to someone is not being picky. Pickiness isnt really the right word. Sorry, but it is." Fine. | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! " Ok... As a lot of people in my area have no Asians on their profile and I am English Indian but, was brought up English with an English family. How do you suggest I get around that one? Do a Micheal Jackson and bleach my skin? | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness." I’m confused by this reply, how would your weight NOT be your fault? Are you suggesting women are too picky because they don’t ignore their own levels of attraction? If you were a millionaire it probably wouldn’t be a problem but I’m guessing you’re not and therefore have to try that little bit harder to get in shape and become more desirable, not blame women because you don’t want to not eat chippy | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
Being yourself is a lie when it's said ?
I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put. "
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m confused by this reply, how would your weight NOT be your fault? Are you suggesting women are too picky because they don’t ignore their own levels of attraction? If you were a millionaire it probably wouldn’t be a problem but I’m guessing you’re not and therefore have to try that little bit harder to get in shape and become more desirable, not blame women because you don’t want to not eat chippy "Yes, because everyone who’s chubby is the same massive size. | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. I disagree with you, men are not always the problem. Completely wrong "Women can be cry babies too!  | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
Being yourself is a lie when it's said ?
I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put.
Feels really quite grotty that people give tips on how to con someone into shagging them!"Yes. That’s exactly how I look at it. It’s a no from me for sure. | |||
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m confused by this reply, how would your weight NOT be your fault? Are you suggesting women are too picky because they don’t ignore their own levels of attraction? If you were a millionaire it probably wouldn’t be a problem but I’m guessing you’re not and therefore have to try that little bit harder to get in shape and become more desirable, not blame women because you don’t want to not eat chippy
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m confused by this reply, how would your weight NOT be your fault? Are you suggesting women are too picky because they don’t ignore their own levels of attraction? If you were a millionaire it probably wouldn’t be a problem but I’m guessing you’re not and therefore have to try that little bit harder to get in shape and become more desirable, not blame women because you don’t want to not eat chippy
Yes, because everyone who’s chubby is the same massive size."Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation | |||
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"It's because there's more to people than their ability to write a good profile. Sorry what do you mean? So you think it’s good that people write on their profile what other people have advised they write? You're assuming the only advice that can be given is telling someone what to write. Someone could write a great profile, but it's too long, or a bit needs moving to the top because most people won't read past the first paragraph... Asking for a few hints and letting other people tell you what to do are not the same in my book. Never asking for help is as bad as always needing help. Fair enough. Puts me off though if people can’t even think of what to put in their own profile. .
I do think daily what to put in my own, I'm always undecided so duck it , folk can think for themselves "If your thinking daily about what to put in your profile you might consider a hobbie | |||
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"Seriously though, what I find funny is the amount of guys who come on here looking for profile advice, then when given some brilliant tips, take no notice whatsoever
Some do, but quite a lot don't, each to their own I suppose
I can never really get my head round the profile advice
Being yourself is a lie when it's said ?
I can’t either. I want to know about them not what someone told them to put.
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I do think daily what to put in my own, I'm always undecided so duck it , folk can think for themselves
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I do think daily what to put in my own, I'm always undecided so duck it , folk can think for themselves
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"But at the same time, if it’s a problem due to my weight, how is that my fault? I can’t do anything about their opinion and pickiness. I’m not sure if this is serious but you can either lose weight, If that’s possible of course could be medical, or you can find members who like you for you and there will be those that do! Ok... As a lot of people in my area have no Asians on their profile and I am English Indian but, was brought up English with an English family. How do you suggest I get around that one? Do a Micheal Jackson and bleach my skin?
No. If they say that you've dodged a bullet!"Definitely. That is literally at the top of my profile. Have a read if you like. Been told it's decent by a long time user of this site | |||
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No. If they say that you've dodged a bullet!
Definitely. That is literally at the top of my profile. Have a read if you like. Been told it's decent by a long time user of this site "That is shitty and they’re definitely the ones with the problem. | |||
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No. If they say that you've dodged a bullet!
Definitely. That is literally at the top of my profile. Have a read if you like. Been told it's decent by a long time user of this site
That is shitty and they’re definitely the ones with the problem."Couldn't agree more but that's just the way the world is. Plus they aren't gonna do great where in Bradford every other person is brown | |||
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No. If they say that you've dodged a bullet!
Definitely. That is literally at the top of my profile. Have a read if you like. Been told it's decent by a long time user of this site "I'll take your word for it | |||
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Cause the Mods are probably laughing at all of the comments like me haha
So if it was a woman saying the type of comments in this thread, it would be seen as a valid, and not something to laugh at?"There are women commenting in this thread. I'm laughing at some of them too. I'm laughing at a good amount of these posts cause they're just irrelevant as the actual answer is. Everyone likes what they like. Guys are a massive population on this site and have women and couples outnumbered 2:1. So they have the ability to be as picky as they like cause they're gonna get 100s if not 1000s of messages a day. This site is just like any dating app. Tinder for example. It's an attraction thing and women know that they can swipe a few left and they'll get a decent looking guy a few after that. | |||
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"How come this thread stays open when mine was "man-bashing" and got shut down faster than a pub with covid!
Cause the Mods are probably laughing at all of the comments like me haha
So if it was a woman saying the type of comments in this thread, it would be seen as a valid, and not something to laugh at?
There are women commenting in this thread. I'm laughing at some of them too. I'm laughing at a good amount of these posts cause they're just irrelevant as the actual answer is. Everyone likes what they like. Guys are a massive population on this site and have women and couples outnumbered 2:1. So they have the ability to be as picky as they like cause they're gonna get 100s if not 1000s of messages a day. This site is just like any dating app. Tinder for example. It's an attraction thing and women know that they can swipe a few left and they'll get a decent looking guy a few after that."
Quality not qauntity,I'm pretty anti swipe
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest " How do you know it’s not cause your ugly? Not saying you are, but you assume it’s race related | |||
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"I think people forget that 90% of guys on here just aren’t anyone’s top pick. 90% of guts, no matter what they do, no matter what they send in their message, they just won’t get picked. I see women really struggling to realise this. They have this idea that if you just put some effort into your messages the meets with some flooding in. I don’t agree with angry outbursts from guys, but I can completely see where the frustration comes from. To be absolutely without choice, no matter how hard you try. And everyone just says “work on your bio, read their profile and send better first messages”. " 100% agree with this. This site reminds me of tinder a lot. Like they look at the pics first and forget the bio. From what I can tell maybe 25% of people on here actually bother about the profile and the rest couldn't care less if you're a billionaire with his own island. Your bio is still not gonna be read | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest " Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour? | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest How do you know it’s not cause your ugly? Not saying you are, but you assume it’s race related " Because loads of people in real life have said that I wouldn't struggle getting a lass. They aren't the people to bullshit me either tbh. If I was ugly they'd say that. Yes I'm probably not gonna be the next Zach Efron but I'm definitely not looking like I've been slapped by a train either | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour?" Never said it was it's just an indication I get from the convo is all. All their pics also have no coloured dick in it and their veris are all white. So does 1 + 1 = 2? | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest How do you know it’s not cause your ugly? Not saying you are, but you assume it’s race related Because loads of people in real life have said that I wouldn't struggle getting a lass. They aren't the people to bullshit me either tbh. If I was ugly they'd say that. Yes I'm probably not gonna be the next Zach Efron but I'm definitely not looking like I've been slapped by a train either "How do you know they just didn’t wanna call you ugly to your face? Sorry but o don’t fall for this instant “it’s coz I’m not white”. | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest well if they dont find you attractive, then i dont see the problem, we have tried to let people down gently before to be met by abuse, so now we just block, saves alot of messing about,its in the site rules, have a read" And that is what is wrong with this site. People don't report the abuse and just let someone else get it and then guys like me that can take criticism and couldn't care less if you like me or not get thrown in the same group. If it was reported and the mods actually removed them from the site then we wouldn't have the need for threads like this as the single guy number would be drastically lower. | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour? Never said it was it's just an indication I get from the convo is all. All their pics also have no coloured dick in it and their veris are all white. So does 1 + 1 = 2?" Sorry but you did say it was. So they have all white veris and they don’t fancy you so they must be racist. | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest How do you know it’s not cause your ugly? Not saying you are, but you assume it’s race related Because loads of people in real life have said that I wouldn't struggle getting a lass. They aren't the people to bullshit me either tbh. If I was ugly they'd say that. Yes I'm probably not gonna be the next Zach Efron but I'm definitely not looking like I've been slapped by a train either
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest well if they dont find you attractive, then i dont see the problem, we have tried to let people down gently before to be met by abuse, so now we just block, saves alot of messing about,its in the site rules, have a read And that is what is wrong with this site. People don't report the abuse and just let someone else get it and then guys like me that can take criticism and couldn't care less if you like me or not get thrown in the same group. If it was reported and the mods actually removed them from the site then we wouldn't have the need for threads like this as the single guy number would be drastically lower. " we always report the abuse when it happens, but now days we just block before it happens. oh and this site works just fine for us, we go to socials and parties, meet people more that way tbh, that way you can really get to know people, we very rarely meet just from on here, we dont get time to meet often and dont want noshows etc, and weve had our share, if you already know someone weve found that not to happen | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour? Never said it was it's just an indication I get from the convo is all. All their pics also have no coloured dick in it and their veris are all white. So does 1 + 1 = 2? Sorry but you did say it was. So they have all white veris and they don’t fancy you so they must be racist. " Where did racism come into this? If they don't have no Asians, brown, black etc in their bio and the convo is flowing great and they're interested in meeting and stuff and then you send a pic when they ask and they just ignore all together. What else could it be? Yes they may not be attracted to me. But have the decency to say I'm not their type. Seems like some people on here put themselves on this pedestal like they are some super model that people should be lucky to even look at | |||
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"Anyone else fed up of the constant posts on here from men crying about how women are this, women are that, nobody will fuck me wah wah wah Fellas if nobody responds to any of your messages or reaches out to you or they won’t meet, chances are you are the problem. " Nah I can never get enough tbh. Makes for great entertainment | |||
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"Anyone seen Alanis Morissette in here? " No. But some idiot left 10,000 spoons laying around and they have stuck to my magnetic personality | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour? Never said it was it's just an indication I get from the convo is all. All their pics also have no coloured dick in it and their veris are all white. So does 1 + 1 = 2? Sorry but you did say it was. So they have all white veris and they don’t fancy you so they must be racist. Where did racism come into this? If they don't have no Asians, brown, black etc in their bio and the convo is flowing great and they're interested in meeting and stuff and then you send a pic when they ask and they just ignore all together. What else could it be? Yes they may not be attracted to me. But have the decency to say I'm not their type. Seems like some people on here put themselves on this pedestal like they are some super model that people should be lucky to even look at "You’re contradicting yourself. I’m lost with what you’re trying to say now. I don’t think I can be bothered x | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest well if they dont find you attractive, then i dont see the problem, we have tried to let people down gently before to be met by abuse, so now we just block, saves alot of messing about,its in the site rules, have a read And that is what is wrong with this site. People don't report the abuse and just let someone else get it and then guys like me that can take criticism and couldn't care less if you like me or not get thrown in the same group. If it was reported and the mods actually removed them from the site then we wouldn't have the need for threads like this as the single guy number would be drastically lower. we always report the abuse when it happens, but now days we just block before it happens. oh and this site works just fine for us, we go to socials and parties, meet people more that way tbh, that way you can really get to know people, we very rarely meet just from on here, we dont get time to meet often and dont want noshows etc, and weve had our share, if you already know someone weve found that not to happen" Yes I understand that. But then they should be reported as a time waster if they don't give a reason. I too have been to a couple of socials and I am on the reserve list for going to the Leeds social as there are 7 single guys max allowed to go from what I've seen on the list they listed of people attending. But I do also feel like socials are partially hand picked by the organisers | |||
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"I had a friend who was convinced that people didn't like her because she black. People didn't like her because she was a bitch" Even bitches get a good shagging. There a quote that I saw... Women fuck who they want and men fuck who they can. | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest well if they dont find you attractive, then i dont see the problem, we have tried to let people down gently before to be met by abuse, so now we just block, saves alot of messing about,its in the site rules, have a read And that is what is wrong with this site. People don't report the abuse and just let someone else get it and then guys like me that can take criticism and couldn't care less if you like me or not get thrown in the same group. If it was reported and the mods actually removed them from the site then we wouldn't have the need for threads like this as the single guy number would be drastically lower. we always report the abuse when it happens, but now days we just block before it happens. oh and this site works just fine for us, we go to socials and parties, meet people more that way tbh, that way you can really get to know people, we very rarely meet just from on here, we dont get time to meet often and dont want noshows etc, and weve had our share, if you already know someone weve found that not to happen Yes I understand that. But then they should be reported as a time waster if they don't give a reason. I too have been to a couple of socials and I am on the reserve list for going to the Leeds social as there are 7 single guys max allowed to go from what I've seen on the list they listed of people attending. But I do also feel like socials are partially hand picked by the organisers" agree that socials can be clicky, but not all are | |||
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"I had a friend who was convinced that people didn't like her because she black. People didn't like her because she was a bitch Even bitches get a good shagging. There a quote that I saw... Women fuck who they want and men fuck who they can. " Some of us men think like women | |||
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"Men should me made to read the forums for a month before being allowed to PM They'd soon piss off
And then pissing off would increase your chances lol
Oh I know my chances here would be pretty non-existent if I was actively using this site to meet
That's why I started shagging men as well as women - to double my chances of being knocked back "Fancy a shag? | |||
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" Surely they could take some positives out of all the advice they've been given, and construct at least a half decent profile
What is a half decent profile though ?
Professional photos ?
Not 1 spelling mistake ?
Photos that are clearly altered by angles ?
What is a decent profile ?"One where there's more about what they can offer, and what they're looking for, rather than a two liner which tells everybody absolutely Jack after they've been on here for over a year. Sometimes the incredibly useful Sidney Uni warning is about 10 times longer than the bio itself | |||
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" Some women and couples like bigger guys and some don't. Just like me being brown. Some like it and some can't see past a colour due to a races reputation or maybe its as simple as some other people dont find asian or black people attractive, nothing peosonal just choice, try not to take it personaly, not everyone is attracted to the same, personaly we nither find coloured people attractive, our choice, have plenty of black and asian friends, even lived in capetown for a while, so have no problem with coloured people, some are amounst my best friends, but i dont find them attractive, simple as that And that is fine. As attraction is a thing. But the fact that I'll be having a convo with someone and as soon as I send them a pic and realise that I'm not white and get ignored. It's a bit rude I'll be honest Do they say it’s because you’re not white though? Maybe they’re just not attracted to you? 99% of my conversations don’t go any further because I haven’t liked someone’s pic. Why would it be because of your colour? Never said it was it's just an indication I get from the convo is all. All their pics also have no coloured dick in it and their veris are all white. So does 1 + 1 = 2? Sorry but you did say it was. So they have all white veris and they don’t fancy you so they must be racist. Where did racism come into this? If they don't have no Asians, brown, black etc in their bio and the convo is flowing great and they're interested in meeting and stuff and then you send a pic when they ask and they just ignore all together. What else could it be? Yes they may not be attracted to me. But have the decency to say I'm not their type. Seems like some people on here put themselves on this pedestal like they are some super model that people should be lucky to even look at
You’re contradicting yourself. I’m lost with what you’re trying to say now. I don’t think I can be bothered x"I wouldn't call a person racist cause they don't like me. That is just ridiculous is what I was saying. And I was also saying that some people put their standards so high that there are only maybe 1% (if that) of people on here that they may actually be attracted to. Then cry that they don't get a meet or whatever. And to be honest, I actually forget I'm coloured sometimes cause of the way I've been brought up English around an English heritage so I wouldn't even call myself Asian or whatever. Cause I am literally as English as every white English person but just have a tan cause of a deadbeat dad. Sorry for the confusion | |||
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" Surely they could take some positives out of all the advice they've been given, and construct at least a half decent profile
What is a half decent profile though ?
Professional photos ?
Not 1 spelling mistake ?
Photos that are clearly altered by angles ?
What is a decent profile ?
One where there's more about what they can offer, and what they're looking for, rather than a two liner which tells everybody absolutely Jack after they've been on here for over a year.
Sometimes the incredibly useful Sidney Uni warning is about 10 times longer than the bio itself "But from what I can tell a bio means basically nothing on here as most don't even care for it unless they like your pictures. This site is essentially tinder but for older people and people with kinks. Not many younger people on here afterall. | |||
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" Surely they could take some positives out of all the advice they've been given, and construct at least a half decent profile
What is a half decent profile though ?
Professional photos ?
Not 1 spelling mistake ?
Photos that are clearly altered by angles ?
What is a decent profile ?
One where there's more about what they can offer, and what they're looking for, rather than a two liner which tells everybody absolutely Jack after they've been on here for over a year.
Sometimes the incredibly useful Sidney Uni warning is about 10 times longer than the bio itself "I'm seeking a woman that's able to use her imagination, for now my profile will remain a one liner | |||
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"I think people forget that 90% of guys on here just aren’t anyone’s top pick. 90% of guts, no matter what they do, no matter what they send in their message, they just won’t get picked. I see women really struggling to realise this. They have this idea that if you just put some effort into your messages the meets with some flooding in. I don’t agree with angry outbursts from guys, but I can completely see where the frustration comes from. To be absolutely without choice, no matter how hard you try. And everyone just says “work on your bio, read their profile and send better first messages”. I'm going to say this and I don't really care who it upsets Women have themselves in an undeserving pedastool and majority enjoy fucking with men's heads, simply because they can, they know this is 1 cocky head that they fail with "Im not upset. And I dont care if this upsets you. Takes a lot for me to speak in this way. if you truly beleive this then you really are bitter and have clearly been emotionally damaged. If you derive some form of pleasure from these statements your damaged and twisted. If this is the only way you get the attention you so deeply desire, your emotionally damaged. It is blaringly obvious see a therapist would help you. Im sure you'll spit some toxic monologue back but trust me when I say it will fall on deaf ears. I wish you all the best, you need it. | |||
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Whilst I agree that a lot of guys don't help themselves, calling them cry babies is a bit much.
Simple fact of the matter is a large chunk of men don't "get" the site and how it works, they arrive expecting streets paved with meets, and then go from disappointment to frustration and eventually that spills out into some of the threads we see about not getting meets etc
It's actually possible for most guys to find meets on here, if only they take the time to work out how best to use the site and I'd argue that if you take out those that don't work it out that the number imbalance is a lot more even between men and women.
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