FabSwingers.com forum: Caught cheating

By *illybigballs 555 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Has anyone?

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

No,don’t believe in it

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I caught my partner, now my ex on here, I recognised the pm page on her phone, this was before I cane back onto fab I will point out

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone? "

Caught cold last year.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I caught my partner, now my ex on here, I recognised the pm page on her phone, this was before I cane back onto fab I will point out"

That's sucks

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

Ah, but did anyone catch you doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I caught my partner, now my ex on here, I recognised the pm page on her phone, this was before I cane back onto fab I will point out"

Same on another site looking to meet women. She did end up on here actually.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, never have done ad its the lowest of the low.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

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that's not cheating it's banker's privilege

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

This is the most disgusting thing I've ever read.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

Remind me never to play monopoly with you.... unless you're open to back handers

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By *wingingGuy79Man
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Has anyone? "

Nope, never been caught...

Thanks to an open relationship. Besides the stories of what happened are best shared and sometimes laughed about.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me "

I do hope you are joking,?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?"

I wish I was.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

Remind me never to play monopoly with you.... unless you're open to back handers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me "

I suppose you have your reasons but in all honesty that is just cruel.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

Remind me never to play monopoly with you.... unless you're open to back handers

I'll take as you are totally corrupt and open to back handers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was. "

Wow life really must have pissed on you , it's a bad way to start a relationship knowing that you intend to cheat on them.

Not everyone is going to cheat mate, I think you have been very unlucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was. "

So you cheat on potentially loyal partners to save the pain of potential pain from them, if they cheated on you?

I would never punish someone potentially innocent, because of past experiences, but to each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was the banker in monopoly. I was losing and slipped a few notes in my pile

typical banker

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I suppose you have your reasons but in all honesty that is just cruel."

Is it though if they never find out? And if it gives me peace of mind and allows me to be a better partner because I’m not worried about the eventual heart break when they cheat on me?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I suppose you have your reasons but in all honesty that is just cruel.

Is it though if they never find out? And if it gives me peace of mind and allows me to be a better partner because I’m not worried about the eventual heart break when they cheat on me? "

Just because they never find out makes no difference. For me personally I need that tryst element in a relationship, without it, it means nothing

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was.

Wow life really must have pissed on you , it's a bad way to start a relationship knowing that you intend to cheat on them.

Not everyone is going to cheat mate, I think you have been very unlucky."

Not everyone, but most do in my experience, especially these days with tinder and just a generally less loyal attitude to dating.

To each their own I guess. I find I’m a better partner because of it. They never find out and I can be a better partner because I’m not as worried about the eventual heart break

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I suppose you have your reasons but in all honesty that is just cruel.

Is it though if they never find out? And if it gives me peace of mind and allows me to be a better partner because I’m not worried about the eventual heart break when they cheat on me?

Just because they never find out makes no difference. For me personally I need that tryst element in a relationship, without it, it means nothing "

I guess I live by the old “what you don’t know won’t hurt you” mantra.

Especially if it helps me be a better partner

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Caught my first husband cheating with my so called friend! Long ago in my 20s long story but was beginning of the end! But did me a favour in long run! It ended in me meeting the love of my life! As I say long story but started with the cheating ! Everything happens for a reason as the saying goes! X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was.

Wow life really must have pissed on you , it's a bad way to start a relationship knowing that you intend to cheat on them.

Not everyone is going to cheat mate, I think you have been very unlucky.

Not everyone, but most do in my experience, especially these days with tinder and just a generally less loyal attitude to dating.

To each their own I guess. I find I’m a better partner because of it. They never find out and I can be a better partner because I’m not as worried about the eventual heart break "

I'm sorry to say but being a cheater does not make you a better partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone?

Nope, never been caught...

Thanks to an open relationship. Besides the stories of what happened are best shared and sometimes laughed about."

That's exactly why I won't meet one half of a Swinger couple alone. No clue about privacy.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was.

Wow life really must have pissed on you , it's a bad way to start a relationship knowing that you intend to cheat on them.

Not everyone is going to cheat mate, I think you have been very unlucky.

Not everyone, but most do in my experience, especially these days with tinder and just a generally less loyal attitude to dating.

To each their own I guess. I find I’m a better partner because of it. They never find out and I can be a better partner because I’m not as worried about the eventual heart break

I'm sorry to say but being a cheater does not make you a better partner "

Your entitled to your opinion

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I suppose you have your reasons but in all honesty that is just cruel.

Is it though if they never find out? And if it gives me peace of mind and allows me to be a better partner because I’m not worried about the eventual heart break when they cheat on me? "

You can never guarantee you won't be found out. Maybe your exes were doing the same thing? I do hope you warn your potential partners. I have never cheated on anyone.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Never had to. Met my hubby in school 44 years ago and we can both meet whoever we want so there is no reason to cheat

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No..never...but I don't cheat

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Never had to. Met my hubby in school 44 years ago and we can both meet whoever we want so there is no reason to cheat"

I love this

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My ex did. Then he joined here with the woman he left me for…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband isn't fussed so I do as I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was.

So you cheat on potentially loyal partners to save the pain of potential pain from them, if they cheated on you?

I would never punish someone potentially innocent, because of past experiences, but to each their own. "

is it just me that finds this a very sad attitude, two wrongs dont make a right, especialy as you know how bad you felt when you found out your partners were cheating on you, and it doesnt make you a better partner, a good partner is honest , very very sad, i pity you that you feel this way, and i pity your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex cheated and gave me an STI. That's how I found out.

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

No need - open relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex cheated and gave me an STI. That's how I found out.

ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheated on hard by my first 2 girlfriends, caught both of them, wasn’t just a little cheat either. Ruined me.

I now cheat on all my partners as a kinda defence mechanism. I call it “preemptive cheating”. Just means it won’t hurt as bad when they eventually cheat on me

I do hope you are joking,?

I wish I was. "

It’s sad that you feel like that.

Can I ask though.... how would you feel if they did find out? Take away the fact you are probably thinking but they won’t find out ... but If they did...

How would you feel knowing and seeing the devastation you have done to them. You know the feeling as it’s The exact pain you said ‘ruined you’... You have purposely inflicted on someone else through no fault of their own and your reasoning is well someone cheated on me.

Genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex cheated and gave me an STI. That's how I found out.

ouch

Yep. Luckily it was cleared up easily with antibiotics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger, I received a message from a girl on my boyfriend's phone warning me to stay away from her man. No idea which of us was the Other Woman and didn't care enough to fight. I've always tried to keep people at arms length for my own protection anyway.

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