FabSwingers.com forum: No consideration

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

What has happened to consideration of others. After an incident I witnessed yesterday, it seems a few lack it!!!!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Totally agree

There's many I'm alright Jack's about sadly.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to let others behaviour dictate mine in future though.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

I was actually speechless at what I witnessed and that is not like me!

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

I go completely the other way..... Always having consideration for others before myself

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

People seem to go out of their way to be inconsiderate these days

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it"

Not in 100% of cases

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it"
I can't do that, but then that is me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I try not to let others behaviour dictate mine in future though."

Spot on!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it I can't do that, but then that is me"

I couldn't either, I'm to much of a softie x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it I can't do that, but then that is me

I couldn't either, I'm to much of a softie x"
you already know I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember coming home from work in the car. I saw a cyclist get hit by a car. Head bleeding . The driver completely shaken just looking at the cyclist. Everyone else just went their merry way. I had all my medical equipment in my car from my work, I pushed my car in the middle of road to divert traffic and told the driver to call ambulance. Literally just me on my own helping the man, recovery position etc all the bells and whistles till the ambulance came. Over 50 cars drove past. Even if I didn't have any medical experience I still would have stopped.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I tend not to say ***** it . I tend to help if I can.

What happened?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I always take other people's feelings into consideration, maybe the trend is now to think...f*ck it"

I'd hate to think that was the trend

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a worrying trend

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"I tend not to say ***** it . I tend to help if I can.

What happened?"

Bit long winded to go into but it happened while I was in the hospital x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the modern world.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"the modern world.

If that's what is coming too I'd rather not be part of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the modern world.

If that's what is coming too I'd rather not be part of it x"

be part of another you create for yourself

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

This feels like a Facebook "PM me hun" moment.....

But people can be arseholes. This is not a new thing and shouldn't really come as a surprise to you or anyone.

Did you or anyone step in to make sure no one was hurt? Because that's the thing to focus on. Any positive reaction.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"This feels like a Facebook "PM me hun" moment.....

But people can be arseholes. This is not a new thing and shouldn't really come as a surprise to you or anyone.

Did you or anyone step in to make sure no one was hurt? Because that's the thing to focus on. Any positive reaction."

Certainly not a FB pm moment.

I did voice my opinion as did a couple of the nurses and a doctor who had to step in because of the inconsiderate behaviour of these individuals.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t believe anyone is considerate all of the time. Some people are just lacking consideration most of the time, which is sad.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"This feels like a Facebook "PM me hun" moment.....

But people can be arseholes. This is not a new thing and shouldn't really come as a surprise to you or anyone.

Did you or anyone step in to make sure no one was hurt? Because that's the thing to focus on. Any positive reaction.

Certainly not a FB pm moment.

I did voice my opinion as did a couple of the nurses and a doctor who had to step in because of the inconsiderate behaviour of these individuals."

Good. Well done.

I don't understand why you're surprised that people are inconsiderate. Especially in hospitals where you spend most of your time as a nurse and know that it's a stressful environment for most people.

I'd have thought the actions of those stepping in would have been more surprising. And in a good way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I do find that on ocassion people don't consider the so called inconsiderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What has happened to consideration of others. After an incident I witnessed yesterday, it seems a few lack it!!!!"

Many dont get involved anymore. They don't want the hassle. Doing the right thing can cause you problems .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What has happened to consideration of others. After an incident I witnessed yesterday, it seems a few lack it!!!!

Many dont get involved anymore. They don't want the hassle. Doing the right thing can cause you problems ."

This is very true. Although without knowing what actually happened it’s difficult to give an opinion.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

What happened yesterday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped to help in quite a few situations even violent ones, can't help it. We are all one

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"What has happened to consideration of others. After an incident I witnessed yesterday, it seems a few lack it!!!!

Many dont get involved anymore. They don't want the hassle. Doing the right thing can cause you problems ."

I think it was the lack of respect more between the patients that just made me think "wow"

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"What happened yesterday?"

Bit long winded..I'll try and keep it short.

2 patients started on another for constantly being on her phone (during the day) they way they were going on at this poor woman was vile and disgusting. The patient being harrased was in tears and begging the nurses to get her out of bed so she could use her phone elsewhere even though she was not allowed out off bed. The nurses said to these 2 that in times like this consideration is they key.

I just couldn't believe the lack of it!!

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

"What happened yesterday?

Bit long winded..I'll try and keep it short.

I just couldn't believe the lack of it!!

The trouble is that nowadays there's too many people that think the world revolves around them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's a sad reflection on society these days

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"What happened yesterday?

Bit long winded..I'll try and keep it short.

I just couldn't believe the lack of it!!

Does she not have to consider them ?

Genuine question ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Unfortunately it's a sad reflection on society these days"

What is ?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"What happened yesterday?

Bit long winded..I'll try and keep it short.

I just couldn't believe the lack of it!!

Does she not have to consider them ?

Genuine question ?

She was trying to be as quiet as possible bless her. As the nurses pointed out to the 2 kicking off was that it was during the middle of the day and unfortunately this poor woman could not or was not allowed out of bed.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

Had it been during the night then maybe these 2 would have had a reason to say something but it was their whole attitude was just plain nasty.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"What happened yesterday?

Bit long winded..I'll try and keep it short.

I just couldn't believe the lack of it!!

Does she not have to consider them ?

Genuine question ?

That's what I was thinking. If she was just on her phone quietly, then they were out of order. If she was constantly talking at a more audible volume it would piss me right off. I've been there too much.

But they could have been pleasant about it.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Did ye aye...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Maybe they weren't getting any peace.

I'd hate to share a room where someone talked non stop.....

I'd not object in hospital though as it's not forever.

If they are ill themselves they may not have been as patient as usual.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"Did ye aye..."

OK Kev calm doon mate

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Did ye aye..."

I could hear your accent as clear as a bell .......

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"Maybe they weren't getting any peace.

I'd hate to share a room where someone talked non stop.....

I'd not object in hospital though as it's not forever.

If they are ill themselves they may not have been as patient as usual. "

The ward is usually used for day care only but because the hospital was full we were all put on this particular ward.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I never like to see two on one in any case......

( not comments about this being a sex site pls )

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"I never like to see two on one in any case......

( not comments about this being a sex site pls )"

It was just disgusting. The 2 were probably just jealous because the woman was talking to her family

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I guess it’s a environment where anxiety runs high but there are polite ways to ask other patients to be considerate .

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"I guess it’s a environment where anxiety runs high but there are polite ways to ask other patients to be considerate . "

Exactly

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Roughly what age were they all ?

I find the 30 - 40 age bracket to be the worst.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Worst for thinking a 'slanging' match is appropriate and makes them right.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"Roughly what age were they all ?

I find the 30 - 40 age bracket to be the worst. "

All in the 40-50 range which made it seem worse, weren't like they were youngsters.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Roughly what age were they all ?

I find the 30 - 40 age bracket to be the worst.

All in the 40-50 range which made it seem worse, weren't like they were youngsters."

Are to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this in a hospital?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"And this in a hospital?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hospitals use to be quiet places

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

"hospitals use to be quiet places

I couldn't believe what I was hearing, properly shocked at it all.

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