FabSwingers.com forum: Monetising sex

By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I seem to be noticing this trend of “onlyfans” type websites where you can subscribe to see someone one doing whatever they do. I have no wish to colour anyone’s opinions but what are your feelings about these sites and those that use sites like this to promote pay for content type websites?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Don’t really know much about them but if it’s legal and someone is willing to pay then good on them I say!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Good for them, if I was brave enough I'd do it!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No one forces you to subscribe.

If people can monetise something they have, fair play. I know I would if I felt it would be worth it.

There is still a wealth of free porn out there if all you want is to get your rocks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve heard some people manage to earn like 3K a month from OF. Like not talking about the professionals who have got millions of followers…

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t really know much about them but if it’s legal and someone is willing to pay then good on them I say!"

This

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

If I was female and fit I would be right on there and earn a few quid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it"

The only kinda downside to it is that porn stays on the web so it might be an easy money now but maybe not the best idea for the future.

Then again if you can buy a house being on OF for a few years, why the heck not lol

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

It’s paid for a few things for us! Hah

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Sex work is work.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I had the body I’d get my tits out anywhere that would have them, and if folk wanted to pay for that then

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think that sex work can be empowering in some circumstances.

I think Fab is not appropriate as a place to promote it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex has been monitised since the invention of money; in the primate world there has been observations of female chimps exchanging sex for food. This is nothing new, only the vehicular for it has changed.

If people want to earn money from sex/sexual services/sexual content then what is the difference between that and earning money from any other service?

As _dwalu2 said - sex work is work.

Go into it with your eyes open and and understanding that the images/footage etc will be online forever but if you are good with that then rock on.

Mr HH

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s a terrible move for young women and I can image we will see the effects in the next 10-15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pay for Megan fox but I wouldn't pay for Claire from down the street....no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's legal and someone is doing it of their own freewill then I don't see anything wrong with it.

There are some articles about OnlyFans which are complimentary as it allows the content creators to control their own content and monetise it (OnlyFans takes 20% of revenue thus giving the performer 80%). It is effectively a paywall for porn.

There also seems to be a growing trend for more mainstream celebrities to be using the site.

Website: Yourstory

Article: OnlyFans: the rise of a multibillion dollar creator-based empire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than the offer I got this morning of partaking in a gangbang and leaving a £20 "donation" once I'd completed my bit

Needless to say I declined, but with regards to OF etc I'd say fill your boots. It's an industry with a huge market and if you can use it to your advantage then good on you.

It has it's struggles on your life and mental health but what job doesn't? My last job had a massive negative impact on me and I didn't have to get my dick out once for it. The more time goes on the more I feel like this type of work is being normalised. Not necessarily mainstream but I don't think it will be long before you can tell someone you do it and no one will bat an eyelid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a few people are aware who Chelsea Ferguson is. She's done an interview telling her story and her life through the industry if anyone's interested.

https://youtu.be/6h57ThtO8iM

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I personally believe it is each to their own and raising funds can be extremely difficult it this day and age. I would not could not begrudge anybody trying to sell their talents. My only concern would be the potential regret some years down the road.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"It’s a terrible move for young women and I can image we will see the effects in the next 10-15 years "

Such a small minded view.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's a much safer way than the real world alternatives so i am glad for that.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I seem to be noticing this trend of “onlyfans” type websites where you can subscribe to see someone one doing whatever they do. I have no wish to colour anyone’s opinions but what are your feelings about these sites and those that use sites like this to promote pay for content type websites?"

At least the (predominantly) girls that do it are getting most/more of the money when compared to traditional porn.

If that’s what they want to do, more power to them. I don’t see the sites like OF as being exploitative. No one forces anyone to join and start posting explicit pictures in return for money.

Plenty of people here actively enjoy posting explicit content, and do it for free. If some of those people also decide they want to make some money out of it, why not? There’s no higher moral path to doing it for free vs being paid for it, in my opinion

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I think that sex work can be empowering in some circumstances.

I think Fab is not appropriate as a place to promote it."

Absolutely this.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If I was female and fit I would be right on there and earn a few quid

I often think this too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

They only work of people are willing to pay the subscriptions.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it"

You would make a fortune right now tbh

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also. Only fans isn't just for rudey business although I think it's becoming the new adult work and taken over by sex work accounts.

Certainly whenever I hear someone talk about only fans it's a sex work account.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

More power to the people making money out of it

I've got no problem with people doing it but it does irk me when it's being rammed down your throat every way you look, especially on here with the odd profile

LvM

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I say good luck to them

No one forces anyone to subscribe

& it takes time & money to find nice outfits to wear and post, if people want to see the images why shouldn't they contribute towards the costs involved

Many offer chat services which I think is a great idea, because I genuinely believe many people on here are only on here for the chat and fantasy, which is why I won't engage in drawn out conversations, if you want to w@no & chat, go & pay one of the only fans girls, don't waste my time

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

If you don’t mind sex work then that’s great. I do worry that some young women might get into this without realising the long term affects to their futures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to them well done nothing against it

Just don’t premote it here

No problem with people have them here as long as they not use this as a premonition tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd pay for Megan fox but I wouldn't pay for Claire from down the street....no chance"

See that right there is the market in the whole thing

These days no one wants to see pros stars that they wouldn’t have a chance with

But Claire down the street she hot looking wouldn’t mind a night with her

Mmmm ok I sub to her

3-4 weeks down the line Claire need a hand with a video Claire checks her fallows

Ooo there John he’s not to far away hello John want to come help make make a video if your consernd with your face being showing or such I can blur it don’t worry about privacy

Johns in there score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set up a few accounts for women and done one website.

If a woman is attractive and can pull in more money from sad lonely men sitting in their mums front room with trousers around the ankles good luck to them.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s more openness now than before, people willing to express themselves or their sexuality more publicly. So rather than condemning their neighbour Claire who’s just bought a Land Rover, their neighbours will most likely want to know how they can make some money themselves.

The days of having to justify your actions by doing this type of work is fading and being seen as entrepreneurship more than exploitation.

Good luck to them

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about."

What’s the going rate for a pair of your used (preferably stained and scented) frillies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done some amateur porn in the past. It's an honest income for those that are willing xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It irritates me when I come across a high volume of promotional listings to draw you in, as I'm not looking for them. It does also surprise me who gets into it, though it may not mean that they are earning much. It's great that people have the choice.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Personally I think it presents a bit of a feminist dilemma in that

a) it’s great it’s your body, be proud of it and you show it how and to who you want and if you can generate an income from it, brilliant, it can be empowering. and

b) I believe it encourages the objectification of women amongst men and gives a false narrative that women can be “purchased” like an object (the fact that all of us who have jobs are also “purchased” to a degree notwithstanding)

Now I know that’s a very simple take on things and hardly nuanced, but I always think that when we put a price on people we actually “devalue” people. People should be priceless. And that the simple act of putting a price on yourself can have a knock-on negative impact to others of your gender because of the generalisation of social beliefs.

((I know that men and others also have these sites, but I think it’s predominantly women))

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it

You would make a fortune right now tbh

Where do I sign

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I know very little about them but I see no harm as long as the content is legal.

What could be the problem ?

It's just like pay per view as far as im concerned.

T.V. has long been on the way out as have magazines.

Where are people supposed to make connections ?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it

You would make a fortune right now tbh

Where do I sign

If you’re in need of a critical content reviewer do let us know

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I know very little about them but I see no harm as long as the content is legal.

What could be the problem ?

It's just like pay per view as far as im concerned.

T.V. has long been on the way out as have magazines.

Where are people supposed to make connections ?

Down the bingo granny. Down the bingo.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about.

What’s the going rate for a pair of your used (preferably stained and scented) frillies?

A toblerone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It’s a terrible move for young women and I can image we will see the effects in the next 10-15 years "

Why is it a terrible move ?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about.

What’s the going rate for a pair of your used (preferably stained and scented) frillies?

A toblerone

I’ll bring two

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I know very little about them but I see no harm as long as the content is legal.

What could be the problem ?

It's just like pay per view as far as im concerned.

T.V. has long been on the way out as have magazines.

Where are people supposed to make connections ?

Down the bingo granny. Down the bingo. "

One hundred and eightyyyyyyyyyyy !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh ......that's the darts sos...

Housey Houseyyyyyyyyyyyy

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I know very little about them but I see no harm as long as the content is legal.

What could be the problem ?

It's just like pay per view as far as im concerned.

T.V. has long been on the way out as have magazines.

Where are people supposed to make connections ?

Down the bingo granny. Down the bingo.

One hundred and eightyyyyyyyyyyy !"

Oh granny.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I know very little about them but I see no harm as long as the content is legal.

What could be the problem ?

It's just like pay per view as far as im concerned.

T.V. has long been on the way out as have magazines.

Where are people supposed to make connections ?

Down the bingo granny. Down the bingo.

One hundred and eightyyyyyyyyyyy !

Oh granny. "

I am but a fooool

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about.

What’s the going rate for a pair of your used (preferably stained and scented) frillies?

A toblerone

I’ll bring two

One of those refillable ones?

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Personally I think it presents a bit of a feminist dilemma in that

a) it’s great it’s your body, be proud of it and you show it how and to who you want and if you can generate an income from it, brilliant, it can be empowering. and

((I know that men and others also have these sites, but I think it’s predominantly women)) "

I agree that for a lot of females and males. Objected to the Page 3 etc on newspapers. Yes part because “ children “ could see. Those females really where doing what OF females are doing now. I have seen in here about programs “ Love Island “ and others only have physically fit females / males. So for a very large percentage of younger people this distorts views about their body . ?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Sex work is work. I've no issues with the sites, those who use them or those who make content , provided everything is lawful and consensual.

Advertising them here would be against site rules and ethos.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s fine, innovative publishers are always looking for new ways and new experiences to monetise content and IP and it opens up new possibilities.

I’ve no need to pay but I’ve tried a few out for free as I was interested in certain ideas of experience , I think it’s good to be creative and push and challenge the boundaries of digital experience. I was sceptical at first and still think only fans is t a great company but I think they have started something that has a lot more possibilities to be realised when more creatives and entrepreneurs get into it

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Feelings about those sites.... rock on and fill your boots.

If I thought I'd make anything from it then who knows, I might give it a bash even (doubtful.... no one needs to be seeing that shiz)

Promoting it on sites like this..... hell no. Not what this is about.

What’s the going rate for a pair of your used (preferably stained and scented) frillies?

A toblerone

I’ll bring two

One of those refillable ones?

Yes, with my refillable squirty creame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had some good boobies to shake about, I'd be up for it! Good for them I say!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Good luck to them if I was thirty years younger I would of done it

You would make a fortune right now tbh

Where do I sign

I have the contract waiting for you in my hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told by several people I should have my own onlyfans page, which is a nice compliment i guess.

However it's not really a road I want to go down personally speaking - not judging anyone that does, good for them.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Physically fit people on TV do not distort people’s minds. We aren’t gym fit but it takes nothing more than good food and exercise to ensure you have a ‘fit’ body. Huge amounts of people here have one and they work to ensure they do. I think it’s ludicrous that body positivity movement (which was good to begin with) is now - even in the mainstream - trying to suggest it’s completely fine to not be healthy. This is damaging far more than suggesting people should be fit. There’s zero wrong with it. Not everyone chooses or should have to choose to be physically toned but it is in the realm of every single human being to have the body of a model. We aren’t anything near that and don’t expect anyone to be, but that’s choice. It’s gone from size zero girls to Tess Holiday on the cover of Cosmo and if anything, neither of those is a good image to promote to young people. Average body, good diet, plenty of movement and anyone can grow up with a fit and healthy frame. Aside from rare medical reasons (which are rare!).

"Personally I think it presents a bit of a feminist dilemma in that

a) it’s great it’s your body, be proud of it and you show it how and to who you want and if you can generate an income from it, brilliant, it can be empowering. and

((I know that men and others also have these sites, but I think it’s predominantly women))

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