FabSwingers.com forum: Do we look for ourselves

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening fabbers & fabbettes

When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?

Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope"

That's this thread killed lol

See you all tomorrow for fab a fattie fella Friday lol x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.

Two introverts would be a bit awkward!

I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Thinking about it, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought about it but I think I do. Someone laid back, similar sense of humour and to paraphrase Luna "someone filthy because I'm a bit of a goer on the sly".

Looks wise I'd like them to look a bit different to me though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.

Two introverts would be a bit awkward!

I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "

If its inside of you it doesn't need bringing out....its probably already out but you dont notice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not physically no, otherwise I'd only have the 7 dwarfs to choose from. Someone with the same humour, communication and interests though yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get women contact me I never expect to hear from.

Sometimes I feel I'm way way out of their league So I may have viewed them which is why they ask why I didn't message.

If I develop something with them then great, if not we move on.

I do stay away from women I see complaining about men on the forum as I don't need that miserable crap and she's always going to find fault with something.

But in the whole, my experiences are good, I don't meet all the time but the choices I've made have been good ones.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We look for people that we would hopefully get on with before and after the sexual antics.

We like making friends and being able to talk.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Not physically no, otherwise I'd only have the 7 dwarfs to choose from. Someone with the same humour, communication and interests though yes

I'm the 8th dwarf - Horny.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"We look for people that we would hopefully get on with before and after the sexual antics.

We like making friends and being able to talk. "

Yes this exactly

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Not me - I like 'em masculine and athletic, I'm neither

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I try to look for people that show a sense of humour.

And

Wears blue undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no as we are fugly to the max and seeing as we are only on here for my wife she doesn’t really want a mini me to be fair and I don’t blame her !!!!

Tony

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not exactly but we do look for people on the same wavelength, interests etc.

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Opposites attract in my opinion. I'm very reserved and super chill but usually attract ladies who are very outgoing and very talkative. I have a very open and calming effect on them apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening fabbers & fabbettes

When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?

Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"

Nope…

I love tall, muscly, tatts on arms with a cheeky look to them. So basically the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for a variety of things.

I wouldn’t say they are similar to myself though.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

No. I want a lady with bigger tits than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract in my opinion. I'm very reserved and super chill but usually attract ladies who are very outgoing and very talkative. I have a very open and calming effect on them apparently.

Do you become less reserved the more you know someone or generally stay the same?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noochie you knobhead...another thread no one agrees with you....get back to that drawing board....sorry guys x

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Most definitely, it's only natural to open up more when you're comfortable with someone, things tend to get a lot kinkier too

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I think a head connection is very very important. But you have to get over the physicality/looks hurdle first. And I don’t want anyone that looks like me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! I wouldn’t wanna meet me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm pretty quiet and reserved when I first meet people .I really wish I wasn't so reserved .I tend to attract people who are more outgoing and who encourage me to do things I'd like to try but never have the guts to in normal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!

*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!

*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!

How do you feel about a woman with a beard? Just asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!

But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes???

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!

Phew, that'll save some money on waxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!

But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes???"

I think it was clear that you meant like someone who’s very similar but a female or male version of ourselves obvs x

So if someone was edgy looking , to go with a similar version of that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.

Invite me round and i help you find one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.

Can hang around Trafalgar square I'm sure theres someone there talking to pigeons

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Mentally yes. Physically no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mentally yes. Physically no. "

Why not physically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.

Invite me round and i help you find one.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Mentally yes. Physically no.

Why not physically?"

I have zero type. I’m attracted to the oddities in folk. That can look like anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.

Can hang around Trafalgar square I'm sure theres someone there talking to pigeons"

In a grubby mac? That'll be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes???

I think it was clear that you meant like someone who’s very similar but a female or male version of ourselves obvs x

So if someone was edgy looking , to go with a similar version of that "

yes, it was clear, and that's how I answered; no, I don't specifically go for someone with similar attributes, I go for someone with attributes I like. If they happen to be similar to mine then, lucky coincidence.

But mentally, same page please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really…. Kind eyes, chilled attitude, can give as good as they get….. so on reflection, yes haha

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

With a pulse for sure

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.

Two introverts would be a bit awkward!

I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "

On the quiet!!?? We all knew that anyway!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes I prefer women with a similar figure to me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Interesting one, OP!

Mentally we have to spark, to get on, to laugh together. But physically I really don't have a type so it's not something I've ever considered. They must have a twinkle in their eye, though, which is something I've also been told I have...

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i want a princess

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I often find people look for complimentary attributes (opposites) or those of their parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s physical and then emotional… physically no I don’t look for someone who mirrors me, but emotionally probably has to have similar values, passions etc.. but not all attributes, as some things I dislike about myself and like in others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening fabbers & fabbettes

When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?

Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"

Nope. Opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no op! I wouldn't want another version on me, definitely opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God no op! I wouldn't want another version on me, definitely opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass"

And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest."

We stand out alright

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I look for quirky and tall so in that respect yes I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any bearded, bald ladies with a slightly hairy chest on here? Been searching for ages..

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Any bearded, bald ladies with a slightly hairy chest on here? Been searching for ages.. "

Yeah that way____

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I do go for people with similar personalities, similar worldviews, similar values. Hopefully he'd have a higher tolerance for bullshit than I do, because otherwise he'd never put up with me.

Physically though, while I like blokes of many shapes and sizes if I went for someone as fat as I am we'd never get the right bits into contact, it would be like two weebles getting it on.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

We stand out alright

Like two nuns at a gangbang

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I look for someone that challenges me, someone that pushes me, someone that doesn’t say “what do you like to do” but rather says “this is what I like to do” and expects the same.

I look for someone that is mischievous, daring, yet kind. Someone that understands their value as a person but knowing this doesn’t lead them to arrogance.

I haven’t had a meet in 2 years

Is the above me? Probably not, but Delusional_Devon doesn’t have the same ring….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for someone where I feel totally out of my depth intellectually and visually, only then will I feel truly content.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Physically no, personality they all tend to be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.

Two introverts would be a bit awkward!

I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "

Shazam!!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Nope, I look for women of all kinds and I know they're very different to me.

For a start their boobs don't tend to fall off unlike mine and when I look inside my knickers I have a sticky out bit where they mostly don't

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nope, I look for women of all kinds and I know they're very different to me.

For a start their boobs don't tend to fall off unlike mine and when I look inside my knickers I have a sticky out bit where they mostly don't

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

We stand out alright

Like two nuns at a gangbang

We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

We stand out alright

Like two nuns at a gangbang

We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first

I can actually picture that

Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

We stand out alright

Like two nuns at a gangbang

We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first

I can actually picture that

Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing

After a few drink I’ll show you mine

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I look for someone with great boobs. So, not like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between

Make that 2 crazy fools

If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.

We stand out alright

Like two nuns at a gangbang

We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first

I can actually picture that

Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing

After a few drink I’ll show you mine

After a few I might even play George for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening fabbers & fabbettes

When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?

Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"

I'm a fat, middle aged woman looking for skinny, young men. Looking but not finding ;-p

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No, I definitely don’t

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I look for someone with great boobs. So, not like me. "

You do have a nice chest to be fair

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

FFS , there couldn't be a female version of me out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass

And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid

How the fuck do you know I’m

Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!

I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass

And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid

How the fuck do you know I’m

Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!

I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’"

Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass

And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid

How the fuck do you know I’m

Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!

I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’

Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission

Hehe. I had a dream once about such a thing. Woke up feeling weird!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass

And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid

How the fuck do you know I’m

Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!

I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’

Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission

Hehe. I had a dream once about such a thing. Woke up feeling weird!"

Yes we monitored it .. I mean did you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess so - or at least people who are likep I believe myself to be. I met her ladyship on here and the biggest attraction of her profile was that she described herself as kind - and she genuinely is the kindest person I have ever met.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Hell no, if we met a lady just like me, she’d annoy the tits off me very quickly! Miss PC

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ish.

People with the same values as me as that shit rates extremely highly on my "must have" list.

Problem is many say one thing and do another so my whatsit was highly flawed.

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