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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahah! I don’t mind briefs on guys who have the right physique for it… if u are ripped then they are okay in my opinion

I absolutely hate boxers with funny prints on them. Like not sexy at all. I prefer plain ones. Calvin kleins… u can’t go wrong …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White granny knickers

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Men in women's underwear

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

As long as they are clean that’s all that matters

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Hahah! I don’t mind briefs on guys who have the right physique for it… if u are ripped then they are okay in my opinion

I absolutely hate boxers with funny prints on them. Like not sexy at all. I prefer plain ones. Calvin kleins… u can’t go wrong … "

This guy was a body builder . I honestly can’t look they freak me out.

Oh yes plain ones are better but pizza slices on them would be better than briefs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y front briefs, nope.

Briefs that are shorts shaped, yes!

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"As long as they are clean that’s all that matters "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Men in women's underwear "

They're not a woman's though, they're mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else? "

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"White granny knickers "

Black granny knickers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahah! I don’t mind briefs on guys who have the right physique for it… if u are ripped then they are okay in my opinion

I absolutely hate boxers with funny prints on them. Like not sexy at all. I prefer plain ones. Calvin kleins… u can’t go wrong … "

Calvin's all the way for me! I can prove it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men in women's underwear "

This...

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

"

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm more interested in the person wearing the underwear than the underwear itself - and after all if it's really not to your taste it takes seconds to remove.

To be honest if I thought someone had feigned something just because they didn't like my choice of underwear I'd be thankful to them for giving me a lucky escape.

About the only possible scenario where I can see something like that being justified would be if it was ladies knickers the bloke was wearing and he'd not mentioned it being a kink/fetish prior to meeting - and even then it would be a judgement call based on how much of a connection I had with them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t "

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

[Removed by poster at 14/07/21 19:34:22]

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I'm more interested in the person wearing the underwear than the underwear itself - and after all if it's really not to your taste it takes seconds to remove.

To be honest if I thought someone had feigned something just because they didn't like my choice of underwear I'd be thankful to them for giving me a lucky escape.

About the only possible scenario where I can see something like that being justified would be if it was ladies knickers the bloke was wearing and he'd not mentioned it being a kink/fetish prior to meeting - and even then it would be a judgement call based on how much of a connection I had with them etc "

Well to be fair it was easier to pretend I was d*unk than upsetting him about his choice of underwear. I was young at the time so wasn’t very vocal and pretty shy. Is it my fault I have an irrational thing about them no.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not really. Most men I’ve shagged tend to take their pants down with their trousers so I never get to see them in their pants.

When it’s time for the pants to go back on I’m usually wrestling with my bra or in the loo.

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?"

I was about 18 years old and did want to upset the guy. Would I tell him now absolutely.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?"

Harsh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else? "

Beige tights / stockings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more interested in the person wearing the underwear than the underwear itself - and after all if it's really not to your taste it takes seconds to remove.

To be honest if I thought someone had feigned something just because they didn't like my choice of underwear I'd be thankful to them for giving me a lucky escape.

About the only possible scenario where I can see something like that being justified would be if it was ladies knickers the bloke was wearing and he'd not mentioned it being a kink/fetish prior to meeting - and even then it would be a judgement call based on how much of a connection I had with them etc

Well to be fair it was easier to pretend I was d*unk than upsetting him about his choice of underwear. I was young at the time so wasn’t very vocal and pretty shy. Is it my fault I have an irrational thing about them no.

"

It’s not your FAULT, it’s just the way you are. Personally I can’t stand suspenders, I feel like they make a woman’s thighs look robotic as if the straps look like pistons or rods

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I'm more interested in the person wearing the underwear than the underwear itself - and after all if it's really not to your taste it takes seconds to remove.

To be honest if I thought someone had feigned something just because they didn't like my choice of underwear I'd be thankful to them for giving me a lucky escape.

About the only possible scenario where I can see something like that being justified would be if it was ladies knickers the bloke was wearing and he'd not mentioned it being a kink/fetish prior to meeting - and even then it would be a judgement call based on how much of a connection I had with them etc

Well to be fair it was easier to pretend I was d*unk than upsetting him about his choice of underwear. I was young at the time so wasn’t very vocal and pretty shy. Is it my fault I have an irrational thing about them no.

It’s not your FAULT, it’s just the way you are. Personally I can’t stand suspenders, I feel like they make a woman’s thighs look robotic as if the straps look like pistons or rods "

that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it doesn't matter too much as they do disappear eventually, although heavily soiled underwear would definitely have me running for the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?"

You’re being a bit over the top. There’s no need to be so unkind to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahah! I don’t mind briefs on guys who have the right physique for it… if u are ripped then they are okay in my opinion

I absolutely hate boxers with funny prints on them. Like not sexy at all. I prefer plain ones. Calvin kleins… u can’t go wrong … "

especially white ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?

You’re being a bit over the top. There’s no need to be so unkind to her. "

We are talking about somone who pretended to be d*unk and cried to get out of something because somone wore some pants

And im being ott?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Briefs and thongs on a man. Not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Briefs and thongs on a man. Not a fan. "

You'll lurve my mankini then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?

You’re being a bit over the top. There’s no need to be so unkind to her.

We are talking about somone who pretended to be d*unk and cried to get out of something because somone wore some pants

And im being ott?"

She has quite clearly said she was young and shy. Some people struggle to voice things, I was in the last .

What are you achieving by shaming her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else?

You did that all because of the pants he was wearing....

Horrified...about pants

I honestly have an irrational thing about them. The feel of them, the look of them. I just can’t

Horrified, pretended to be d*unk and cried. Over the fact he wore briefs.

Do you not think, you know, thats just a bit sad? Certainly doesnt put you in a very good light imo

But whatever

Could you imagine the shit men would get if this was the other way round?

You’re being a bit over the top. There’s no need to be so unkind to her.

We are talking about somone who pretended to be d*unk and cried to get out of something because somone wore some pants

And im being ott?

She has quite clearly said she was young and shy. Some people struggle to voice things, I was in the last .

What are you achieving by shaming her?"

*past not last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahah! I don’t mind briefs on guys who have the right physique for it… if u are ripped then they are okay in my opinion

I absolutely hate boxers with funny prints on them. Like not sexy at all. I prefer plain ones. Calvin kleins… u can’t go wrong … "

Don't let 'Oddballs' hear you say that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinkylips is a lovely lady and always dresses to impress, why shouldnt she expect the same in return...if someone is wearing an unpopular item that behaves as a turn off then thsts his problem, not hers..he should of done his groundwork over her preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubber pants.

She's a gusher alright!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

We are talking about somone who pretended to be d*unk and cried to get out of something because somone wore some pants

And im being ott?

She has quite clearly said she was young and shy. Some people struggle to voice things, I was in the last .

her?"

To be fair the "young and shy" bit was only mentioned after Chloe's original post - so whilst I can understand that makes a difference, as it was originally presented I can understand others' (including mine) reaction too.

And Chloe is absolutely right - if a guy had posted that he'd made an excuse because he didn't like the underwear a woman was wearing he would have been crucified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinkylips is a lovely lady and always dresses to impress, why shouldnt she expect the same in return...if someone is wearing an unpopular item that behaves as a turn off then thsts his problem, not hers..he should of done his groundwork over her preferences "

Dude, it was 20 years ago, before fab was invented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. Most men I’ve shagged tend to take their pants down with their trousers so I never get to see them in their pants.

When it’s time for the pants to go back on I’m usually wrestling with my bra or in the loo. "

Please everyone, listen to this voice of reason.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Kinkylips is a lovely lady and always dresses to impress, why shouldnt she expect the same in return...if someone is wearing an unpopular item that behaves as a turn off then thsts his problem, not hers..he should of done his groundwork over her preferences

Dude, it was 20 years ago, before fab was invented. "

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm whipping them off anyway, so don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinkylips is a lovely lady and always dresses to impress, why shouldnt she expect the same in return...if someone is wearing an unpopular item that behaves as a turn off then thsts his problem, not hers..he should of done his groundwork over her preferences

Dude, it was 20 years ago, before fab was invented. "

Oops, my bad!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Kinkylips is a lovely lady and always dresses to impress, why shouldnt she expect the same in return...if someone is wearing an unpopular item that behaves as a turn off then thsts his problem, not hers..he should of done his groundwork over her preferences "

Putting aside the fact excusable fact that she was young and shy at the time it happened, and he probably was too, so just as excusable, and take this into a Fab scenario...

*He* should have done *his* groundwork over *her* preferences?

How about they *both* should have discussed and expressed preferences before meeting? With an emphasis on the onus being on the person with such a strong preference against a particular, and quite common, type of underwear that someone wearing it made them feign d*unkeness? Rather than blaming the guy for not asking.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I used to go commando with jeans that had a pocket with no innards ..for easy rummaging in public

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Can I just say. If I ever meet anyone from this thread. Tightey Whiteys please.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just say. If I ever meet anyone from this thread. Tightey Whiteys please.

Thank you. "

Nope, mankini or nowt

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Can I just say. If I ever meet anyone from this thread. Tightey Whiteys please.

Thank you. "

How about Slacky Blackies?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

As long as they're not worn out and stained

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Can I just say. If I ever meet anyone from this thread. Tightey Whiteys please.

Thank you.

How about Slacky Blackies? "

. Nope

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Not really. Most men I’ve shagged tend to take their pants down with their trousers so I never get to see them in their pants.

When it’s time for the pants to go back on I’m usually wrestling with my bra or in the loo.

Please everyone, listen to this voice of reason."

Being blindfolded and waiting on all fours also helps with this predicament

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Underwear that was once white but is now a shade of grey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Underwear that was once white but is now a shade of grey! "

Boil wash before returning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Underwear that was once white but is now a shade of grey! "

Visage underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they clean and look respectble ie not got holes in them or look like a rag then ware what you like and feel comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they clean and look respectble ie not got holes in them or look like a rag then ware what you like and feel comfortable in "

Given the state of jeans these day's, some would find that trendy

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Women have never been in their underwear long enough for me to complain.....

Women in big knickers though - "PHWOAAAAAAAAARRR!!!"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Underwear that was once white but is now a shade of grey!

Visage underwear. "

Very (Steve) Strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red underwear, pvc, fishnets guaranteed to run away

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Not really. Most men I’ve shagged tend to take their pants down with their trousers so I never get to see them in their pants.

When it’s time for the pants to go back on I’m usually wrestling with my bra or in the loo. "

Spot on, although if I could see they were filthy that would be a very different issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there underwear that really puts you off wanting to have sex with someone?

Now I’m not a fan of men’s briefs or thongs…. Boxers or commando will do just fine. Once though I was getting frisky with this guy and he was wearing briefs, I could go no further and made myself cry and pretended to be d*unk to get out of it as I was totally horrified. Anyone else? "

Anything stained!

So long as underwear is clean, the person in them feels sexy and they come off (or can be slipped to the side ) then it doesn’t matter what style or colour the underwear is x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Women in Y-fronts, unless they're Blue.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Men in women's underwear

They're not a woman's though, they're mine "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pants either men or womens with slogans on!

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