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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Mostly just venting.

You know when you are finally starting to feel in a good place, happy with things. Especially after having dealt with something for so long.

But then, it starts happening all over again. Pretty much the exact same as it did before. And while you are more experienced in dealing with the frustration and emotions from it, it still feels like somebody gut punched you while going past on a train at full speed.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

That sounds sucky

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Without any context, it's hard to comment really. Hope you're okay OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, we know that feeling

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear OP.

Just remind yourself you got through it before and you can get through it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*nods*

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I hope you're ok.

Jo.Xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Sorry to hear OP.

Just remind yourself you got through it before and you can get through it again."

Jo.Xx

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Oh I'm fine. Dealing with things much better than the previous time.

But the memory and hint of how things felt the first time still sting and invade the mind.

It is just so shit that things are repeating in very similar fashion (almost but not quite identical)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! I hear you, been there seems like history repeating it’s self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get it. It freaking sucks especially if you thought you were in a good place and this thick literally sucker punches you … yet again

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Good Kietonel. Never harden. Just remember that all events are transient.....

May life have more love n laughter for you soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep got that last night just when you think your getting there and totally unintended it triggers a hit of guilt a twist of regret and a shake of despair its not nice not having control over yourself i feel your pain mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep got that last night just when you think your getting there and totally unintended it triggers a hit of guilt a twist of regret and a shake of despair its not nice not having control over yourself i feel your pain mate"
i just hope these things are repairable cos 18 months in im not so sure they are damn emotions i used to be immune

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Oh I'm fine. Dealing with things much better than the previous time.

But the memory and hint of how things felt the first time still sting and invade the mind.

It is just so shit that things are repeating in very similar fashion (almost but not quite identical) "

Not sure if this will cheer you up or not, but give this a listen, I think it's a cracking tune

Propellerheads ft. Miss Shirley Bassey - History Repeating

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzLT6_TQmq8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep got that last night just when you think your getting there and totally unintended it triggers a hit of guilt a twist of regret and a shake of despair its not nice not having control over yourself i feel your pain matei just hope these things are repairable cos 18 months in im not so sure they are damn emotions i used to be immune "
ignore and overide only way to go

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