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"£3k per month? ...... " Probably get PIP for the child with autism. That can be quite a bit. UC includes rent money. | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... " That was my first thought! | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! " Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working. | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working." It is but I don’t think it can be right. It can’t be. Nobody would work! | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." Nobody gets 48k a year for popping out a few kids and that’s a pretty harsh prejudged statement, a child has issues and a parent has to sacrifice their profession why shouldn’t they be supported ? It could be because of lots of different reasons they need support. I do agree plenty take advantage of our very generous system but I tend to be the type of person to look for the good not the bad. | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." She's not being paid 48k | |||
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"Can we please not turn this into a benefit bashing thread. " I agree, people are very quick to prejudge without knowing facts. OP I think it’s great your helping somebody and just by creating this thread it’s clear you care and are a decent guy, well done you | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." 12 x 3 is 36... And you don't know her full circumstances. She also has a "disabled" child. I'm quite sure she'd prefer for them to be healthy and live a "normal" life (I know there's a whole spectrum and people can live with it before anyone starts) you don't know the extra costs that been incur and the fact that she probably can't work. | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids. Nobody gets 48k a year for popping out a few kids and that’s a pretty harsh prejudged statement, a child has issues and a parent has to sacrifice their profession why shouldn’t they be supported ? It could be because of lots of different reasons they need support. I do agree plenty take advantage of our very generous system but I tend to be the type of person to look for the good not the bad." I can have an opinion. I am in the same boat but I am self employed. There’s no such thing as PIP. It’s DLA and even the highest rate is nowhere near contributing to that. So I would be interested to know how someone gets 3 grand a month. I saw this earlier and wasn’t going to comment as that’s not what it’s about but I noticed other people had and yes I’d be interested to know how and why someone gets that much if anyone would care to enlighten me. | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids. 12 x 3 is 36... And you don't know her full circumstances. She also has a "disabled" child. I'm quite sure she'd prefer for them to be healthy and live a "normal" life (I know there's a whole spectrum and people can live with it before anyone starts) you don't know the extra costs that been incur and the fact that she probably can't work. " I do | |||
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"She's not being paid 48k" If you earned £3k a month through a normal job that is equivalent £48k. | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids. Nobody gets 48k a year for popping out a few kids and that’s a pretty harsh prejudged statement, a child has issues and a parent has to sacrifice their profession why shouldn’t they be supported ? It could be because of lots of different reasons they need support. I do agree plenty take advantage of our very generous system but I tend to be the type of person to look for the good not the bad. I can have an opinion. I am in the same boat but I am self employed. There’s no such thing as PIP. It’s DLA and even the highest rate is nowhere near contributing to that. So I would be interested to know how someone gets 3 grand a month. I saw this earlier and wasn’t going to comment as that’s not what it’s about but I noticed other people had and yes I’d be interested to know how and why someone gets that much if anyone would care to enlighten me. " Sorry, yes DLA for up until they're 16? | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working." Rent. Bills. Council tax. Clothes. Transport. Food. A full time carer. How about you swap lives with her and deal with all of that. | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working. Rent. Bills. Council tax. Clothes. Transport. Food. A full time carer. How about you swap lives with her and deal with all of that. " No thanks. I chose not to have kids. | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working. Rent. Bills. Council tax. Clothes. Transport. Food. A full time carer. How about you swap lives with her and deal with all of that. No thanks. I chose not to have kids. " Great idea | |||
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"It's easy enough to look up the rates that are paid on the gov UK site. There is also a cap in some places/situations. For instance, now people don't get money after they've had more than 2 children. That's a recent rule change. So if her children are all older, that might explain the amounts. She'll get UC money for her, money per child, child benefit per child, possibly DLA (for care and mobility) for disabled child, rent money. She'll possibly have to top up the rent as they don't always cover the whole amount. " I was just surprised at the amount. I know how much DLA is etc. I know nothing about universal credit so to me that’s a bloody big top up that’s all. | |||
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"Can people stop speculating and doing the Daily Fail's usual thing of ripping to shreds based on assumption, no one knows this ladys circumstances." No one did. It's all just virtue signalling. | |||
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"Can people stop speculating and doing the Daily Fail's usual thing of ripping to shreds based on assumption, no one knows this ladys circumstances." No. I want to know how she gets that amount if someone knows. | |||
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"I'm a Landlord and have rented a house to great tenants for the last 13 years however due to inheritance they've now acquired their own property which is fabulous for them and I'm really pleased for them as they've been no trouble whatsoever for me. After refreshing the house I now have an empty property ready. I want to do something a little different and offer the property to a family who wouldn't normally get the chance of a private rental. I've found a lovely single mum with four children and she is sole carer for one of her children as he is verbally autistic and has ADHD. They survive on Universal Credit (over £3k per month) and as terms of rental the rent would be paid direct to me. My Landlord Insurance are insisting on a guarantor but her parents have a CCJ so cannot be used. Does anyone on here have any experience of this type of scenario or have I just been lucky having great tenants for 13 years. I just want to help change somebodies life and prove there are kind people on this planet. " . I think it’s good that you want to help someone.But I wouldn’t use the words survive on £3K a month.If your figures are correct that the person you want to help is currently on £3K a month then how much more financial help do they need.I appreciate that a large chunk of the UC payment goes towards rent and how much is left over for necessities or luxuries. | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." Benefits are not handed out on silver platters, they are damn hard to qualify for. Those who care for those with disabilities, especially those who do it 24/7 without pay, have one of the most demanding jobs I can imagine. I have the utmost respect for them and am happy to contribute to their costs. There but for the grace of god go I. | |||
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"£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! " ...and mine. | |||
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"The local council sometimes offer a guarantee scheme - I had to access this when I was fleeing violence 16 years ago but I believe a lot still offer it. It’s worth her ringing up and checking " This is partly why I recommended checking with his local authority - many are screaming out for private landlords to help them with their housing issues so are happy to cover everything theirselves. | |||
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"Ok I take it back. I’ve just done the calculator as if I wasn’t working and didn’t own a house. £2850. I need to rethink my life clearly!" How many children if you don't mind me asking? | |||
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"Ok I take it back. I’ve just done the calculator as if I wasn’t working and didn’t own a house. £2850. I need to rethink my life clearly! How many children if you don't mind me asking?" That’s with just one under 16 | |||
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"Ok I take it back. I’ve just done the calculator as if I wasn’t working and didn’t own a house. £2850. I need to rethink my life clearly! How many children if you don't mind me asking? That’s with just one under 16" That does include DLA though. And carers allowance and child benefit which I don’t get now as they’re both means tested. | |||
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"Highest rate PIP care and mobility is £150 a week, UC could be between £950-1300 a month depending on what elements she gets. Rent a council tax allowance on top. Those knocking people knocking her for claiming benefits have obviously never raised a severely disabled child/children. It's not easy and there is little help out there. Disability support is massively underfunded and parents often spend their lives looking after their child or children with no prospect of being able to have a job." | |||
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"Highest rate PIP care and mobility is £150 a week, UC could be between £950-1300 a month depending on what elements she gets. Rent a council tax allowance on top. Those knocking people knocking her for claiming benefits have obviously never raised a severely disabled child/children. It's not easy and there is little help out there. Disability support is massively underfunded and parents often spend their lives looking after their child or children with no prospect of being able to have a job." Monkey nobody is knocking her for claiming benefits. I do all that and work too. People are just surprised at the amount. I’m surprised at the amount. I’ve never even thought to look into it before. Now I know. | |||
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"Ok I take it back. I’ve just done the calculator as if I wasn’t working and didn’t own a house. £2850. I need to rethink my life clearly! How many children if you don't mind me asking? That’s with just one under 16 That does include DLA though. And carers allowance and child benefit which I don’t get now as they’re both means tested. " Hands notice in heads off to dole seriously didn't think you would get that much know wonder some people don't want to work | |||
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"I'm a Landlord and have rented a house to great tenants for the last 13 years however due to inheritance they've now acquired their own property which is fabulous for them and I'm really pleased for them as they've been no trouble whatsoever for me. After refreshing the house I now have an empty property ready. I want to do something a little different and offer the property to a family who wouldn't normally get the chance of a private rental. I've found a lovely single mum with four children and she is sole carer for one of her children as he is verbally autistic and has ADHD. They survive on Universal Credit (over £3k per month) and as terms of rental the rent would be paid direct to me. My Landlord Insurance are insisting on a guarantor but her parents have a CCJ so cannot be used. Does anyone on here have any experience of this type of scenario or have I just been lucky having great tenants for 13 years. I just want to help change somebodies life and prove there are kind people on this planet. " I don't get this Are you looking for a tenant of here Or you want praise for your good samaritan act??? | |||
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"I'm a Landlord and have rented a house to great tenants for the last 13 years however due to inheritance they've now acquired their own property which is fabulous for them and I'm really pleased for them as they've been no trouble whatsoever for me. After refreshing the house I now have an empty property ready. I want to do something a little different and offer the property to a family who wouldn't normally get the chance of a private rental. I've found a lovely single mum with four children and she is sole carer for one of her children as he is verbally autistic and has ADHD. They survive on Universal Credit (over £3k per month) and as terms of rental the rent would be paid direct to me. My Landlord Insurance are insisting on a guarantor but her parents have a CCJ so cannot be used. Does anyone on here have any experience of this type of scenario or have I just been lucky having great tenants for 13 years. I just want to help change somebodies life and prove there are kind people on this planet. " Have you spoken to your local council? Many areas have a scheme where they will pay the deposit and guarantee the rent if you offer a 1 year rental agreement to a family on their list. It’s very hard for families to afford private rentals, particularly with the ceiling on rooms/no of tenants. I have a 3 bed I rent out and was going to use the scheme but it meant that single parents needed lots of kids to afford the rent. Instead I rented it to a very nice couple with a toddler and dog. They both work for the council but earn just above the level to get any help with the rent. I also allowed them to pay the deposit over 4 months. They are a lovely family and really enjoying being able to have moved out of a one bed flat. I found the best place to advertise was on Facebook’s Marketplace. | |||
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"I get £1528.84 per month in total. And that's for 2 of us. So 3k for 5 people is probably right. 700 rent (my rent is incredibly cheap for where I live and this is the first time in 10 years it's been fully covered by HB) 282.79 child tax credit 91.65 child benefit 452.40 ESA So there you go. " . If you could work in order to earn that sort of money you receive in benefits you would have to work 160 hours a month at 9.50 a hour net pay.National Minimum Wage is £8.91 a hour gross. I am not sure how many would choose to work if they could get the same sort of money on benefits | |||
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"I get £1528.84 per month in total. And that's for 2 of us. So 3k for 5 people is probably right. 700 rent (my rent is incredibly cheap for where I live and this is the first time in 10 years it's been fully covered by HB) 282.79 child tax credit 91.65 child benefit 452.40 ESA So there you go. . If you could work in order to earn that sort of money you receive in benefits you would have to work 160 hours a month at 9.50 a hour net pay.National Minimum Wage is £8.91 a hour gross. I am not sure how many would choose to work if they could get the same sort of money on benefits " But then you have to factor in bills and child care, so it wouldn't work out. | |||
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"I get £1528.84 per month in total. And that's for 2 of us. So 3k for 5 people is probably right. 700 rent (my rent is incredibly cheap for where I live and this is the first time in 10 years it's been fully covered by HB) 282.79 child tax credit 91.65 child benefit 452.40 ESA So there you go. . If you could work in order to earn that sort of money you receive in benefits you would have to work 160 hours a month at 9.50 a hour net pay.National Minimum Wage is £8.91 a hour gross. I am not sure how many would choose to work if they could get the same sort of money on benefits But then you have to factor in bills and child care, so it wouldn't work out." . You are right it’s just not practical for some people to work especially if there is a illness or a lone parent | |||
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"No experience around the gaurantor part. But the fact it's the council.paying the rent. Is that not good enough? Good on you for doing so. Hope it woeks out. " Thankyou | |||
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"https://www.preston.gov.uk/article/918/Housing-Advice-Service-for-landlords" Wrong council | |||
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"Have you tried your local council? Many of them are searching for landlords to house people who normally can't get housing and will cover pretty much everything for you. As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." £3k X 12 = £36k. Not £48k | |||
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"Are we reading different threads? No one was knocking anyone. A few hit nevres and a hell of a lot of virtue signalling here." "As an aside - £3k a month of universal credit?! No one should be paid £48k a year just for popping out a few kids." ""£3k per month? ...... That was my first thought! " Outrageous. Dunno why ai bother working." Sounds like benefit bashing and knocking people to me. And the virtue signalling comment is pretty dismissive. In my experience comments like that tend to shut down debate rather than encourage it. I hope you find a way to help your prospective tenant while retaining your insurance, OP. It's a great thing to do. | |||
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