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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get more regular meets or one offs?

I find it a bit annoying when meeting guys u clearly get on sexually, regularly for 3-4-5 times, then it starts fading a bit.

Have you managed to find people who you kept meeting regularly for a very long time? If so, how long was that for?

I think the so many options you can find online make it more difficult to find true regulars…

What do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more regular meets or one offs?

I find it a bit annoying when meeting guys u clearly get on sexually, regularly for 3-4-5 times, then it starts fading a bit.

Have you managed to find people who you kept meeting regularly for a very long time? If so, how long was that for?

I think the so many options you can find online make it more difficult to find true regulars…

What do you guys think?

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Generally men need a bit of change. Then they come back for the regular ones as they know what to expect.

If sex get into routine then it’s kind of bland. Almost medical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with the same man only last for a few weeks then its gone.

Usually guilty feelings sends them running.

Sex with a guy I see every 2 months is always exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you get more regular meets or one offs?

I find it a bit annoying when meeting guys u clearly get on sexually, regularly for 3-4-5 times, then it starts fading a bit.

Have you managed to find people who you kept meeting regularly for a very long time? If so, how long was that for?

I think the so many options you can find online make it more difficult to find true regulars…

What do you guys think?

Generally men need a bit of change. Then they come back for the regular ones as they know what to expect.

If sex get into routine then it’s kind of bland. Almost medical "

For sure that’s what I was also thinking. I mean I like change too and rotating around regulars

But it’s kinda sad when some fall out the radar if it makes sense ha

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm about a year with my longest running fwb.

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By *nNylonCouple
over a year ago

stay now

Not met anyone yet, so no idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a meet? Lol "

Hahaha!! X let me Google that for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have more repeats than one offs. My longest Fab friendship (plus benefits) stands at 3.5 years.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I know what you mean girl

I have built connections with guys etc but time doesn't allow regular at times x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm about a year with my longest running fwb. "

How regularly do u guys meet? X

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Only ever interested in regular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to say I also have more repeats than one/offs but repeats tend to say go from once every few weeks for a bit, to every month or 6-7 weeks then time dilates even more.

I guess variety is a spice of life. I still consider some as repeats obviously (maybe not true regulars) if they come back after months x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get bored easily so don't tend to meet regular people that often. That suits me as I don't have a great deal of time for meeting and that way I get the best of both... meeting with people I know and trust without it getting too samey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to get bored easily so don't tend to meet regular people that often. That suits me as I don't have a great deal of time for meeting and that way I get the best of both... meeting with people I know and trust without it getting too samey. "

I kind of agree with you there with all you said. It’s good to meet people u trust but leaving enough time so it doesn’t get too too Samey and not exciting. Totally agree x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Its nice meeting new folk

But comfortable meeting regulars

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine seem to be all repeats x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I also have more repeats than one/offs but repeats tend to say go from once every few weeks for a bit, to every month or 6-7 weeks then time dilates even more.

I guess variety is a spice of life. I still consider some as repeats obviously (maybe not true regulars) if they come back after months x "

Have you considered setting up a loyalty card scheme?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say I also have more repeats than one/offs but repeats tend to say go from once every few weeks for a bit, to every month or 6-7 weeks then time dilates even more.

I guess variety is a spice of life. I still consider some as repeats obviously (maybe not true regulars) if they come back after months x

Have you considered setting up a loyalty card scheme? "

Hahaha like giving out little stamps? Good idea

I’ve got quite a few loyalty cards to hand out haha

I still feel like the whole internet thing definitely is making people have more variety that’s for sure

How often do repeats tend to come back?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I'm about a year with my longest running fwb.

How regularly do u guys meet? X"

Once a month or so.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like regular with a couple of fwb’s but don’t mind the occasional one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was a 3.5 year regular meet we were a weekend couple as such.

I get lots of one off offers mainly 'hot wives' discreet meets, oh and lots of blokes asking me to 'knob' his wife "out front in't caravan"

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

2 years 4 months with my main fwb... not that I am counting

And it just gets better and better! I’ve had several meets with other people, but nowhere as regular. A few one offs if I am tempted enough... but I prefer regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My longest was a 3.5 year regular meet we were a weekend couple as such.

I get lots of one off offers mainly 'hot wives' discreet meets, oh and lots of blokes asking me to 'knob' his wife "out front in't caravan" "

That last bit got me

Miss S x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

For me a regular would be the ultimate greatness

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