FabSwingers.com forum: Name your biggest turn off

By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

We all have them and probably more than one. Name your biggest turn off, for me it's rude people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with OF

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"We all have them and probably more than one. Name your biggest turn off, for me it's rude people."

rudeness and disrespect which can show in disregarding a person's wishes, interrupting them, ignoring them - just a few examples.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"People with OF "

With what??

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude and disrespectful people for sure, they are the worst

Also I pretty much get turned off/uncomfortable if they ask me about my original part downstairs. Literally I treat it like a skin tag (I hate it) so please don’t ask me about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with OF

With what??"

Only FanZzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that start the same type of themed threads all the time knowing full well it just starts off heated debates.

What is the point in wanting to make people argue?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"People that start the same type of themed threads all the time knowing full well it just starts off heated debates.

What is the point in wanting to make people argue? "

Because they thrive of the drama x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unable to have a conversation.. interest lost and fanny closed

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Arrogance and ignorance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with OF

With what??

Only FanZzz"

Yeah that, puts me off immediately

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staggering arrogance, the type of arrogance that’s almost funny because of the lack of self awareness.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think that maybe the biggest turn off for me are people who are probably indecisive. At least I think it is but I am not too sure about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that don't get just how awesome I am.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Stu k up people who think they are the dogs bollocks and.look down.their nose at everyone else

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Ignorance, arrogance and lack of intelligent attitude.

Also, people who don't listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Argumentative feckers

Miss

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are turned off by my arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest turn off is thinking they call the shots

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

[Removed by poster at 13/07/21 18:28:43]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest turn off is thinking they call the shots

50/50 or be gone

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Bad hygiene/bad breath.

Or someone thats too loud, gossips a lot or argues a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stu k up people who think they are the dogs bollocks and.look down.their nose at everyone else"

I actually often find this a bit of a turn on, walk in fuck shit up and walk out

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Lack of emotions

Disrespectful

Poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a kiss that has no passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the types that ram their beliefs down your throat, im all for having my beliefs in life and respect others but really dislike the preachy type.

Oh and bad breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a kiss that has no pissin

Yeah, love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persistent and argumentative guys..

Someone that says there an amazing kisser and they are totally shit...

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds

On here? A bad dick pic.

I don't like being sent them unsolicited, but being sent/seeing a well taken, well lit picture of an erect dick can be hot and make me wanna talk to them.

A picture that's any of the following is an instant turn off and probable block. Definite block if it's more than one of these things:

- too zoomed in

- showing them shrivelled, soft or semi-erect

- positioned next to a remote or equivalent to show how 'big' it is

- so dark you can barely see it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Bad hygiene.

Very hairy bodies.

Bad attitude.

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

[Removed by poster at 13/07/21 18:49:00]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unclean people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucking my balls or sharing with another guy

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Agree its about respect, people would enjoy themselves more if they listened and where more aware of others.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Most standard male profile pics on here

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"People with OF

With what??"

I was about to say the same but see someone has already answered. The whole only fans stuff is a bit of a mystery to me.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Rudeness and disrespect before a meeting.

Bad personal hygiene on a meet.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of humour

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Time wasters. My time is too precious to be wasted.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Time wasters and arrogance

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Rude and disrespectful people for sure, they are the worst

Also I pretty much get turned off/uncomfortable if they ask me about my original part downstairs. Literally I treat it like a skin tag (I hate it) so please don’t ask me about it..

Sorry to hear this, you'd think the world had moved on a bit more.

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"People that start the same type of themed threads all the time knowing full well it just starts off heated debates.

What is the point in wanting to make people argue?

Because they thrive of the drama x"

Lol people love some drama

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"On here? A bad dick pic.

I don't like being sent them unsolicited, but being sent/seeing a well taken, well lit picture of an erect dick can be hot and make me wanna talk to them.

A picture that's any of the following is an instant turn off and probable block. Definite block if it's more than one of these things:

- too zoomed in

- showing them shrivelled, soft or semi-erect

- positioned next to a remote or equivalent to show how 'big' it is

- so dark you can barely see it"

Agree it seems to be a bit of an obsession for people to show of everything in public. Let's be honest there are some things people should keep private or for friends.

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Persistent and argumentative guys..

Someone that says there an amazing kisser and they are totally shit..."

I wouldnt even know how to rate my kissing, is there some sort of scale

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Smoking !

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Lack of emotions

Disrespectful

Poor hygiene "

All things you'd think were standard

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Drama hunters!

Banter vacuums, sucking the life out of you and having zero sense of humour

Bad shoes

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Time wasters and arrogance

I've heard a lot of people mention timewasters and find it a suprise.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

Being invisible

And when the woman in a couples profile tries to push her man to sleep with me

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Ooooh an argument thread - popular answer - Arrogance - What is Arrogance? Define what people define as Arrogance?

Easy to say but what does it mean ? Context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drugs references on profiles

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Drama hunters!

Banter vacuums, sucking the life out of you and having zero sense of humour

Bad shoes

Bad shoes, i nees to hear more about what constitutes bad shoes

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

A smelly bum

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Ooooh an argument thread - popular answer - Arrogance - What is Arrogance? Define what people define as Arrogance?

Easy to say but what does it mean ? Context?"

Intresting but tend to agree

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Getting rejected!

I'm too good for her anyway...

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Being invisible

And when the woman in a couples profile tries to push her man to sleep with me "

Do you think the women exist in the couples profile when you get this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Getting rejected!

I'm too good for her anyway...

Sorry

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Getting rejected!

I'm too good for her anyway...

Everyone gets rejected at some point, i was rejected by a friends older sister when i was 15. She broke my heart

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Most standard male profile pics on here

Go on i'll ask whats a standard male profile pic lol

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Sucking my balls or sharing with another guy "

Lol men sucking your balls or women as well

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sucking my balls hard. It just hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B.O.

Too many / unkempt pubes

Sexual Arrogance

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Stu k up people who think they are the dogs bollocks and.look down.their nose at everyone else"

Yeah and there are a few of them on FAB don't understand it myself

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Sucking my balls hard. It just hurts. "

I'm sort of with you but it's when teeth start to come into it i find it hurts

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Unable to have a conversation.. interest lost and fanny closed

Lmao love this

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"People that don't get just how awesome I am."

Lmao i'm sure there are some who know so you'll be fine

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Has never been rejected - Arrogance or paradox?

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"I think that maybe the biggest turn off for me are people who are probably indecisive. At least I think it is but I am not too sure about that."

Lol well played sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inconsistent ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loose boxers. 3 sizes too small please!

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Has never been rejected - Arrogance or paradox?"

Intresting the first question i would ask is "are you a monk"

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Loose boxers. 3 sizes too small please!

Budgie smugglers all the way for you

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Inconsistent ppl"

In what way? Like one red sock and one blue sock

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

People who think they're better than others.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Has never been rejected - Arrogance or paradox?

Intresting the first question i would ask is "are you a monk""

Could be or just awesome and irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy women

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Faf

Married men, sorry not for me unless other half is included.

Text speak, and yes I know I used faf.

Rude messages when I delete or don't reply to messages. This is a hobby, not a full time job...

Saying safe sex then asking for bb or 'forgetting' condoms.

I have more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with 168 pictures on their profile and 166 of them are close ups of their road kill

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Has never been rejected - Arrogance or paradox?

Intresting the first question i would ask is "are you a monk"

Could be or just awesome and irresistible

Fair enough all the other guys on FAB may as well delete their accounts

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"People with 168 pictures on their profile and 166 of them are close ups of their road kill

Eww yes it's like a study of willys or fannys sometimes

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By *elltravelledman OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Faf

Married men, sorry not for me unless other half is included.

Text speak, and yes I know I used faf.

Rude messages when I delete or don't reply to messages. This is a hobby, not a full time job...

Saying safe sex then asking for bb or 'forgetting' condoms.

I have more...

Sounds like a long list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bald heads

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Bruised tits and bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with OF

With what??

I was about to say the same but see someone has already answered. The whole only fans stuff is a bit of a mystery to me."

It’s porn not rocket science

. Think of it as the new wave of solo membership sites from porn models. The old membership site model dropped off with tubes and stolen content. This is just a new skin on the beast that is easy accessible via social media interaction.

I am all for people working in adult but just not on spamming it on a casual hook up / sex / swing site

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My turn offs - pushy selfish people in sex meets , or the typical guy that thinks they are doing you a favour by trying to bang you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People with OF

With what??

I was about to say the same but see someone has already answered. The whole only fans stuff is a bit of a mystery to me.

It’s porn not rocket science

I am all for people working in adult but just not on spamming it on a casual hook up / sex / swing site

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My turn offs - pushy selfish people in sex meets , or the typical guy that thinks they are doing you a favour by trying to bang you

Interesting.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

Using daddy/baby girl, slut written over themselves, bad manners to name a few. Each to their own but any of that would have me leaving very fast

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Judgemental people

Hairy pussy

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Hmmm.

Bad breath

Smoking

Bad hygiene

Rudeness

Zero manners

Ignoring one side of us as a couple.

Bigoted attitude.

Thankfully there are lots of people that don’t fall into those categories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually my biggest turn off is probably

Size don't matter but you too thin

Size don't matter but your too fat

Size matters stop lying

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