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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever see someone on the forums or on updates/recent pictures go to message them and you're out of there requirements or live 100s of miles away ??

Don't get me wrong I always respect people's preferences.

But I've seen a couple people whom I'd love to message and talk maybe if lucky arrange something but out of respect don't.

So basically does anyone else get fab jealous??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not really - but then I've never messaged "blind" or with the primary intent being meeting - is usually off the back of forum interaction and if things develop from there then it's an added bonus.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I wouldn't say jealous but sometimes feel a little frustrated when they aren't anywhere near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distances can be overcome if you both want to. No harm in trying OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I sometimes feel a little envy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes feel a little envy "

I think that might of been the word I was looking for, because I wouldn't say I'm jealous haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Distances can be overcome if you both want to. No harm in trying OP"

Distance isn't an issue for me, I LOVE driving so no issue for me, but some won't even reply if you're more than 50 miles away. Which I can't argue with.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

All the time but then you have to accept their preferences and move on. Is it not the same in real life there is always somebody with the better car or house etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can happily live with not being in someones criteria, and poor geography just means I can hide behind that as the reason it would never happen, rather than the dozen actual reasons I'd be given if they lived round the corner!

But I do kick myself over those who MAY be compatible, have shown so many similarities in character in the forums and their profile, but we just haven't connected. That's where time and patience come in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes sigh when a perfect profile stops by

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes feel a little envy

I think that might of been the word I was looking for, because I wouldn't say I'm jealous haha."

Yeah it's not a negative thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes feel a little envy

I think that might of been the word I was looking for, because I wouldn't say I'm jealous haha.

Yeah it's not a negative thing "

Ohh yea I don't think it is, just that moment you go to click a profile and see there age preference or only meet mf couples or females.

I ALWAYS respect these.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

All the time I still message though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the time I still message though "

Think it's more acceptable for a woman to message outside of someone's preferences.

Might be wrong. (I certainly wouldn't be annoyed if you sent me a message)

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I sometimes envy people who live in a nice area by the sea.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes feel a little envy

I think that might of been the word I was looking for, because I wouldn't say I'm jealous haha.

Yeah it's not a negative thing

Ohh yea I don't think it is, just that moment you go to click a profile and see there age preference or only meet mf couples or females.

I ALWAYS respect these."

Quite right too

Although we get messages acknowledging that we won't meet them but asking if we'd like to exchange messages. Sometimes we do, sometimes we don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sometimes envy people who live in a nice area by the sea."

Ooo ooo ooo me, miss, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its annoying when your 1 year out of there age range lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distances can be overcome if you both want to. No harm in trying OP

Distance isn't an issue for me, I LOVE driving so no issue for me, but some won't even reply if you're more than 50 miles away. Which I can't argue with."

If the profile says that, it's just one of those things. There will be plenty of others that don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time I still message though "

not often enough!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I don't really message anyone, it's all abit time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, whether it’s distance that makes me think… bummer

Or the fact that I try wink and I get the “user blocked your category” freaking urghhhh

I’ve got like 3-4 guys I really really get fab jealous and think… I freaking wish I could…

(Insert the clown face and the one with the little tear and smile)

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

If I feel the need to message someone I will, no matter how far away they are or what their profile says - although this only applies to comments about a picture, etc and not with the expectation of meeting x

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Not really. If I’m really keen, maybe I’ll slap the bishop over it, but more than likely, I’ll just make my post and forget about it.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"All the time I still message though

not often enough! "

Oopsie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really annoying. Find someone who could be worth chatting to. Wait a minute, stipulations and filters. Nooooooooooooo.

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