FabSwingers.com forum: How do you cope

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do women cope on here.

Reading forum after forum the oversaturated male community has bombarded every woman on here.

So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males and how do you usually like to be approached.

Maybe some of the men will learn something from this.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

They cope because they have me here it even things out a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing? "

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me "

All his personal opinion you don't have to agree with it.

It just feels at the moment no one can say anything against any man on fab without being called a man bashar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me "

Oh and FYI they do exist.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me "

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?"

Torso Tuesday.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?"

That is an exceptionally popular threas and has been running for years and loads of women participate so I don't think the women that participate in it see it that way do you?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The women who cope best have really tight mail filters on, use the report function and the block button.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

All his personal opinion you don't have to agree with it.

It just feels at the moment no one can say anything against any man on fab without being called a man bashar. "

This

I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for the Men of Fab, but occasionally criticising the ones who don’t help themselves, isn’t bashing every man on the site.

The majority of messages I get a polite and respectful but occasionally I get a rude or nasty one. I don’t blame every guy, just those that do it.

Last week I was accused of ‘man bashing’ on a thread when I gave an example of rudeness I’d received. But I’ve always been a supporter of the guys who are decent and kind as they certainly (in my opinion) outnumber the wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag."

That makes two of us cynical old gits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag."

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't say I encounter many egotistical alpha males to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexy guys I make friend with the ones I'm not interested in I don't.

It's pretty simple if you don't take things so seriously.

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By *incskittenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

An alpha male ! Oooooh yes please .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I do niche nice gentleman .. ladies are always happy to chat with me

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing? "

I thought the OP was being sarcastic. But, it's a great question for all Fab users,how do we cope with the lows and, the highs of Fab life?

I cope by deleting my messages when I send them so that I have no idea wether they've been read and ignored or just ignored. Also, I try to remain chilled about it all and not see it as something of high importance but just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do niche nice gentleman .. ladies are always happy to chat with me

Agreed.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him. "

Ah but does it look at all the white Knight threads that get started and they are usually unverified males.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The sexy guys I make friend with the ones I'm not interested in I don't.

It's pretty simple if you don't take things so seriously."

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag."

There isn't a ROFL emoji or I would fill the page with them, bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him.

Ah but does it look at all the white Knight threads that get started and they are usually unverified males."

So are you saying that unverified males are not allowed an opinion on the forums? because that's how it's coming across.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

That’s fine tho as it’s women asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned respect and consideration for others as a child, so I'm good thanks OP.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really. "

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sexy guys I make friend with the ones I'm not interested in I don't.

It's pretty simple if you don't take things so seriously."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter if your a man or a woman, everyone has to deal with arseholes on here. Part and parcel of fab unfortunately

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him.

Ah but does it look at all the white Knight threads that get started and they are usually unverified males."

If this is coming from the man of the couple then it's always sad to see when men in couples have attitudes like this about single men on here. It's much easier for you because you have a partner.

If this is coming from the woman of the couple, please don't paint us all to be clueless airheads that fall at the feet of any man who has positive things to say about women.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I cope by pretty much ignoring my inbox, there are very few unsolicited messages that I will respond to...when I was looking to meet I always preferred to do the searching myself.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter if your a man or a woman, everyone has to deal with arseholes on here. Part and parcel of fab unfortunately

Part and parcel of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

You don’t like anal? You obviously haven’t done it with the right person.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

Don't forget we are masters of motorboating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

You don’t like anal? You obviously haven’t done it with the right person.

That's another classic line Nora

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!"
I blame 50 shades of grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

Don't forget we are masters of motorboating.

Knew you had that line coming Chunky

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!I blame 50 shades of grey

Haha yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare us women stand up and say no, that's not on.

Man bashing is an easy comeback to shut someone down, to dismiss and minimalise. It's up there with it's just banter, your sensitive humorless. Easier to say these things rather than correct and adjust their behaviour.

And yet the language used by men in the forums somehow has become acceptable, a culture has been created.

My thoughts when I joined here have changed.

20% of the forums I like, 80 is all minge clunge get your tits out ass out, lets start a topic where really I just want some wank material.

The language used is archaic, I mean just look at some of the Male user names.

Men as parents to girls are super important. You are teaching and showing them what treatment to accept tolerate.

How would you feel if your daughter mother sister was treated,spoken to, objectified in this way.

As a parent of 2 males I equally have the responsibility of how to treat listen value and respect women.

Marital 'G'rape did not become illegal until 1992. 1992 people! Therefore the blueprint of women being subservient is still current!

This is something I am mindful of when raising children. Down to the smallest of thinga such as a woman working and still is expected although it's not blatantly thought to pick up the household parenting load.

The emergance of 50% pr is fairly new as is challenging the culture of for example the school phoneing mum first.

It is entrenched although covertly in our society.

It can only change by acting small and locally.

Clearly not every man behaves or conscouisly/sub in this way. But you don't have to look hard at all to see the qaulitve and qauntative evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

This thread delivers I'm in tears here

...fingers up the shitter

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

This thread delivers I'm in tears here

...fingers up the shitter

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!"

Fun fact;

The zoologist who posited the theory of ‘alphas’ retracted their findings and the concept has been soundly debunked. Anthropologists also agree that there’s no such thing as alphas in human society.

Perhaps I’m playing fast and loose with the term ‘fun’ here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

Because 'you can't handle the truth!'...movie qoute

(Not you Lorna)

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

There really isn't anything to "cope" with.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!

Fun fact;

Perhaps I’m playing fast and loose with the term ‘fun’ here "

I’ve never been a fan of the term except in wildlife programmes.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've come across very few arseholes on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

That is an exceptionally popular threas and has been running for years and loads of women participate so I don't think the women that participate in it see it that way do you?"

That's up to them. And maybe they don't see it for other reasons. People who hunt don't see hunting the same way as anti hunters do.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him.

Ah but does it look at all the white Knight threads that get started and they are usually unverified males.

So are you saying that unverified males are not allowed an opinion on the forums? because that's how it's coming across."

Not at all we all are entitled to opinions but the oh how do women cope threads all seem very cynical.

Remember all generalisations are false, including this one

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"How dare us women stand up and say no, that's not on.

And yet the language used by men in the forums somehow has become acceptable, a culture has been created.

My thoughts when I joined here have changed.

20% of the forums I like, 80 is all minge clunge get your tits out ass out, lets start a topic where really I just want some wank material.

The language used is archaic, I mean just look at some of the Male user names.

Men as parents to girls are super important. You are teaching and showing them what treatment to accept tolerate.

How would you feel if your daughter mother sister was treated,spoken to, objectified in this way.

As a parent of 2 males I equally have the responsibility of how to treat listen value and respect women.

Marital 'G'rape did not become illegal until 1992. 1992 people! Therefore the blueprint of women being subservient is still current!

The emergance of 50% pr is fairly new as is challenging the culture of for example the school phoneing mum first.

It is entrenched although covertly in our society.

It can only change by acting small and locally.

Clearly not every man behaves or conscouisly/sub in this way. But you don't have to look hard at all to see the qaulitve and qauntative evidence. "

*applause*

It’s not ‘man bashing’ it’s calling out shitty behaviour. If you don’t do it, it’s not about you and it’s nothing to do with gender.

The issue is formed when people start to defend or dismiss behaviours based around the basis of having the same genitalia.

I take no guilt for the behaviour of other people and I don’t need anyone to defend me based solely on gender.

Getting defensive about ‘man bashing’ is just #NotAllMen by another name as is just as derailing.

Let’s talk about the actual issues and problematic behaviour, not fragile male egos feeling attacked for having a penis

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag.

And so what if it is? If if works then good for him.

Ah but does it look at all the white Knight threads that get started and they are usually unverified males.

If this is coming from the man of the couple then it's always sad to see when men in couples have attitudes like this about single men on here. It's much easier for you because you have a partner.

If this is coming from the woman of the couple, please don't paint us all to be clueless airheads that fall at the feet of any man who has positive things to say about women."

It the male half. To clarify your point i appreciate single guys and am always polite and respectful to them when they message us even if it is a no thank you. It was this type of thread that I was referring to. I have equally 'had a go' for want of a better phrase at some of the single ladies who have in the past posted man bashing threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to laugh my way through some of the messages I get, which some men see as a huge turn on to us women, when they really do nothing for us.

Only so many times you can be "ruined"

Have your Clitarius played with.

Licked Layabia until you gushed like all over the bed.

And numerous fingers up the shitter.

Men have such a way with words sometimes

This thread delivers I'm in tears here

...fingers up the shitter

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!

Fun fact;

Perhaps I’m playing fast and loose with the term ‘fun’ here "

Thank you! That was going to be my next post! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!

Fun fact;

Perhaps I’m playing fast and loose with the term ‘fun’ here "

The dude actually said he'd got it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do women cope on here.

Reading forum after forum the oversaturated male community has bombarded every woman on here.

So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males and how do you usually like to be approached.

Maybe some of the men will learn something from this."

In short, resilience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not interested in anyone who describes themselves as alpha/Dom/Dominant etc so it’s easy really.

I may change my name to 'the Omega Man'.

. Anyone who calls themselves alpha usually isn’t and I hate the word. As for dominant men. Yeah right

. Noooooo thanks!

Fun fact;

Perhaps I’m playing fast and loose with the term ‘fun’ here

The dude actually said he'd got it wrong"

"Man" you can't use the word dude in case they take offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

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over a year ago

I cope perfectly fine.. in the time I’ve been on here I have only had one not nice message. Many are uninspiring but easy to ignore and don’t offend me.

I chat to and have met with some amazing guys… there are definitely plenty out there.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You just block all the numpties straight away.

If I think they've got potential, I'll tell them how they can improve.

Other times they get told where to go

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over a year ago

"You just block all the numpties straight away.

If I think they've got potential, I'll tell them how they can improve.

Other times they get told where to go

And in the forums? Their a lot more passive

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe."

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Blimey people will be scared to start threads!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today "

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!"

You should be ashamee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ashamed!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Women are sex pests

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!"

Never, I applaud those posts Nora and the people that want to join in do, funny that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was noble of the OP to log off straight after starting this thread. Listening and learning.

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!"

Yes, it will ne riveting.

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Bone me in the square!"

Easy tiger, I don't think this is the type of thread to be asking for that

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

I read it as look at me I so wonderfully caring and by showing how much I empathise with woman it will get me a shag."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cope by laughing at the sheer stupidity of some of the male species on here, some shouldn’t be allowed access to the internet

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Bone me in the square!

Easy tiger, I don't think this is the type of thread to be asking for that

. Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are sex pests "

Why thank you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Women are sex pests

Why thank you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Women are sex pests "

Hush and get ya cock out for the lasses

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I blame 50 shades of grey

In my opinion blaming a popular book is short sighted, but each to their own.

As for the OP, the best way to cope is to treat this as a childrens playground and not take it too seriously. Everyone here has an agenda, so go in eyes wide open.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"How do women cope on here.

Reading forum after forum the oversaturated male community has bombarded every woman on here.

So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males and how do you usually like to be approached.

Maybe some of the men will learn something from this."

Worst “Look at me, I’m not like those guys” post ever

In all seriousness though, seen this thread numerous times before. The user base here changes with the wind, and the majority of men messaging don’t even come to the forum.

Would be easier to adopt mechanisms used in dating apps, like mutual interest/matching and only allowing messaging after that.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required. "

Is there filters?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I cope perfectly fine.. in the time I’ve been on here I have only had one not nice message. Many are uninspiring but easy to ignore and don’t offend me.

I chat to and have met with some amazing guys… there are definitely plenty out there."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

clearly!!

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today "

I don't. Tell me have you seen me in those threads?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"How do women cope on here.

Reading forum after forum the oversaturated male community has bombarded every woman on here.

So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males and how do you usually like to be approached.

Maybe some of the men will learn something from this."

delete 90% of my mail unopened is the only way I cope

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

wish there were cock and body size filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv have no need for lessons on how to get my wang polished dude

but its the thought that counts

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong "

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are sex pests "
couldnt agree more so demanding too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

Or "Arse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

have a snickers

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over a year ago

What would the site even be though without these men ? Bankrupt is whatnot would likely be

Thanks is not needed

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London

To be fair it’s not that bad…..

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over a year ago

"What would the site even be though without these men ? Bankrupt is whatnot would likely be

Thanks is not needed

Not forgetting what the site would be like without you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt it, but one can hope.

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

have a snickers"

Or a Mars Bar, less nuts stuck in your teeth then

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

So personally for you on fab then, you’d like to see all those types of threads gone? Tits out, torso, wiggle Wednesday, tightey whiteys, all those kind because they objectify the opposite sex is that what you’re saying? Or am I misunderstanding.

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over a year ago

"What would the site even be though without these men ? Bankrupt is whatnot would likely be

Thanks is not needed

Not forgetting what the site would be like without you too

That's a daunting thought for the fab masses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very true and it don't take newtons equations to work it out of

Without single horny blokes your entire site would be mediocre boring and downright miserable

Respect to all the single blokes

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

I want a Disney face

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

I want a Disney face

Bugger off Nora. Your actual face is lovely!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

I want a Disney face

Bugger off Nora. Your actual face is lovely!

Haha. Cruella De fuckin Ville!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

I want a Disney face

Bugger off Nora. Your actual face is lovely!

Awww cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take it all with a massive pinch of salt, I block very few people, only the really pushy persistent ones, the rest of the bad ones make me laugh to be honest. Never realised how awful some men are at talking to women.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I have been told a 12 bore is good

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

I think I must be unoffendable (is that even a word?!). Nothing bothers me. Just delete, block, take it with a ton of salt, let it go over your head etc etc. Maybe I just don’t take it all seriously enough. Who knows!

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over a year ago

OP you stand out like a beacon of goodness in the gloom, show us the way, light our path so we may follow you, so we may rescue these damsels.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"OP you stand out like a beacon of goodness in the gloom, show us the way, light our path so we may follow you, so we may rescue these damsels. "

Can you come on a white horse when you rescue me please. And lift me up

. (May need two of you)

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over a year ago

"OP you stand out like a beacon of goodness in the gloom, show us the way, light our path so we may follow you, so we may rescue these damsels.

Can you come on a white horse when you rescue me please. And lift me up

. (May need two of you) "

I’ll get a horse with a tail lift on the back, think you can hire them at Jewsons.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Nice try OP.

Women here aren’t daft. We can filter, delete or ignore if we choose. No rescuing required.

Is there filters?

A lot of face ones yes

That’s where I’m going wrong

Ha ha behave!!! Nobody needs to see a Disney mugshot on a meeting place!

Haha

I want a Disney face

Bugger off Nora. Your actual face is lovely!

Haha. Cruella De fuckin Ville!"

Sod off that’s mine!! Even got the grey stripe

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"How do women cope on here.

Reading forum after forum the oversaturated male community has bombarded every woman on here.

So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males and how do you usually like to be approached.

Maybe some of the men will learn something from this."

Haven't bombarded woman here I'm not an egotistical alpha male I'm just Despicable Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing? "

Nooooo, say it ain’t so ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you stand out like a beacon of goodness in the gloom, show us the way, light our path so we may follow you, so we may rescue these damsels.

Can you come on a white horse when you rescue me please. And lift me up

. (May need two of you)

I’ll get a horse with a tail lift on the back, think you can hire them at Jewsons.

You can

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"OP you stand out like a beacon of goodness in the gloom, show us the way, light our path so we may follow you, so we may rescue these damsels.

Can you come on a white horse when you rescue me please. And lift me up

. (May need two of you)

I’ll get a horse with a tail lift on the back, think you can hire them at Jewsons.

. That could work

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over a year ago

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

It's called zerofucksgiven Nora

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over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

It's called zerofucksgiven Nora

Yeah I need some fucks! That’s the problem!

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over a year ago

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

It's called zerofucksgiven Nora

Yeah I need some fucks! That’s the problem!

Don't we all....

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

It's called zerofucksgiven Nora

Yeah I need some fucks! That’s the problem!

Don't we all....

Nope! #Not All

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over a year ago

"Wow first off no it's not a bash at men as I dont know if you can see Im a man lol.

Second thing I'm overwhelmed of how many people responded.

Thirdly there's a lot of people on the defence line which does come across exactly what I'm getting up.

Ladies I absolutely feel sorry for most you for the abuse, harassment and degrading towards you.

Yes its a swing/perv site but it's nobodys right to think it is acceptable to speak to people like this.

Unfortunately who we think are adults come across a just a spoilt little teenager who has just found out what sex is about after they have just watched 6000 hours of porn.

It's called zerofucksgiven Nora

Yeah I need some fucks! That’s the problem!

Don't we all....

Nope! #Not All

Well i was just trying to make Nora feel better

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?"

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

. You’re all heart you are!

Is there a foreskin Friday?! I only know ones with foreskin. Never experienced one without

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over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

Thanks …..just don’t bombard me with minge pics and one liners, that would horrific and I’d ask the OP and his horse to intervene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you folks pause for a moment while I go for a pee and get some more popcorn. I don’t want to miss anything.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Could you folks pause for a moment while I go for a pee and get some more popcorn. I don’t want to miss anything. "

Optimistic thinking might miss something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone said something about fucks.......

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

Thanks …..just don’t bombard me with minge pics and one liners, that would horrific and I’d ask the OP and his horse to intervene

I don't send "minge" pictures I have some class.....

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Tbh think most of us have a much better experience here than u men xx

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

. You’re all heart you are!

Is there a foreskin Friday?! I only know ones with foreskin. Never experienced one without

I'm kind me....

Nora's now on a mission to meet one

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

. You’re all heart you are!

Is there a foreskin Friday?! I only know ones with foreskin. Never experienced one without

I'm kind me....

Nora's now on a mission to meet one

You could do two threads side by side:

Foreskin Friday

Foreskinless Friday

....and watch them grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bashed a man. But he liked it.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

The women cope because they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore nearly everything unless it is forum related and I don't like being approached. Simple

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

. You’re all heart you are!

Is there a foreskin Friday?! I only know ones with foreskin. Never experienced one without

I'm kind me....

Nora's now on a mission to meet one

You could do two threads side by side:

Foreskin Friday

Foreskinless Friday

....and watch them grow

Foreskinless

. You’re worse than me for making up words! I’ll stick that in the Nora dictionary!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

What about foreskin Friday or whatever it’s called ? it’s just as bad, we are people with feelings (and in some cases foreskin)

I can offer to rub your foreskin better if it takes offense in future

. You’re all heart you are!

Is there a foreskin Friday?! I only know ones with foreskin. Never experienced one without

I'm kind me....

Nora's now on a mission to meet one

You could do two threads side by side:

Foreskin Friday

Foreskinless Friday

....and watch them grow

I would join both but, but I’m quite attached to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cope very well because I run my profile smartly by ignoring pretty much all of my messages and only chatting to those I'm interested in.

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over a year ago

"Is this a bit of man bashing in sheeps clothing?

I think you are reading a bit to much into this!

I don't understand why people can't make a comment without being accused of bashing someone!

'egotistical alpha males' - sounds like a bit of bashing to me

And tits out tuesday ect isn't objectifying women?

presenting women as mere resources 'eye candy' for male sexual gratification?

Torso Tuesday.....?

Which is also started by a man. Altrerior motives? Boasting bragging attention and crooning? Maybe.

How about tease the ladies Monday - started by a woman

Let’s see your boing videos - started by a woman

A thread recently about wanting to see more torsos - started by a woman

You can’t pick and choose to fit whatever agenda you’ve turned up with today

I’ll hold my hand up to the boings, the balls, the unbuttoned jeans, the tightey whiteys, the bulges! Stone me in the square!

You should be ashamee

It will stop people from doing it though if this sort of thing carries on. Fab will be a bundle of laughs then!

Yes, it will ne riveting.

Fun is subjective. If your happy to reinforce a stereotypical view go ahead.

My view is just different to yours *shrugs shoulders*.

Lie I say, opinions are like arese holes, we all have one.

You are misunderstanding.

The question was how do we cope... Conditioning.

The responses have been very interesting. More interesting , and not for the first time, are the messages recieved by those who read but don't speak out.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males"

I keep looking but I just can't find them /sigh

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over a year ago

"So let's hear what you women do to cope with the egotistical alpha males

I keep looking but I just can't find them /sigh

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over a year ago

You are misunderstanding.

The question was how do we cope... Conditioning.

The responses have been very interesting. More interesting , and not for the first time, are the messages recieved by those who read but don't speak out. "

Finally somebody using common sense.

The point of this was because the amount of times I read on forums and people statuses about the amount of dick heads that are messaging with no/lack of respect.

Yes there is a few women who do the same but let's be honest guys this is predominantly males on this site.

Thank you all for being part of this topic it's been a very interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the post op. I love it when people show you who they really are

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Thanks for the post op. I love it when people show you who they really are

I know right. Questions like this you actually find out who bites and who doesn't who understands and who doesn't.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Thanks for the post op. I love it when people show you who they really are

Absolutely

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

They secretly love it

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