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By *ikerdude2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Notice the Messaging Turns off what about what people like to hear.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

That they've read my profile

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Read my profile and made conversation from it. No mention of sex, no expectation of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just like a message

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t really get turned on by messages. That only comes when I’ve known them a bit longer.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

That they have read my profile and message with humour and not all this over the top compliment stuff

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Read my profile and made conversation from it. No mention of sex, no expectation of meeting."

Damn. That's where I went wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lucky if we get one message a day then its still hopeless message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who can manage more than one sentence.. damn they make me wet!

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

Just a message would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who can manage more than one sentence.. damn they make me wet!"

Standby for a lot of two sentence messages. Like this one

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By *wantfun1875Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Any message would be nice

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If they quote Shakespeare.

Or.....

Include pics of them in blue undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message addressed to both of us, that shows they have read out profile and that has something interesting/funny to say (Hippy is a sucker for Dad jokes).

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I try out a message on anyone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message sent to me from someone I have had no previous conversation or connection with will never come across as a turn on to me no matter how hard they try.

I am only going to get turned on by messages from people who I have built up a connection with, whether from flirtatious forum threads or DM chats that have progressed to flirtation over time.

As a recipient of those types of messages I am thinking oh its another PPI claim or accident in the last 3 years type of message.

Yet once a connection is built up I can get instantly turned on by the slightest message. There are some people where we may not chat for a few weeks but when we reconnect sparks fly instantly.

So my advice OP is to invest your time in getting to know people, people watch on the forums, interact and participate well on the forums because when you move the chats to DM your messages stand a better chance of turning the recipient on.

NBVN x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"A message sent to me from someone I have had no previous conversation or connection with will never come across as a turn on to me no matter how hard they try.

I am only going to get turned on by messages from people who I have built up a connection with, whether from flirtatious forum threads or DM chats that have progressed to flirtation over time.

As a recipient of those types of messages I am thinking oh its another PPI claim or accident in the last 3 years type of message.

Yet once a connection is built up I can get instantly turned on by the slightest message. There are some people where we may not chat for a few weeks but when we reconnect sparks fly instantly.

So my advice OP is to invest your time in getting to know people, people watch on the forums, interact and participate well on the forums because when you move the chats to DM your messages stand a better chance of turning the recipient on.

NBVN x"

I wanted to write something similar to this.

It’s always those that you have built up some kind of connection that gets me turned on to someone. Especially if they’ve actually read my profile and something within it, also resonates with themselves. Shared fantasies are always more of a turn on than ‘what are you into’ messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message sent to me from someone I have had no previous conversation or connection with will never come across as a turn on to me no matter how hard they try.

I am only going to get turned on by messages from people who I have built up a connection with, whether from flirtatious forum threads or DM chats that have progressed to flirtation over time.

As a recipient of those types of messages I am thinking oh its another PPI claim or accident in the last 3 years type of message.

Yet once a connection is built up I can get instantly turned on by the slightest message. There are some people where we may not chat for a few weeks but when we reconnect sparks fly instantly.

So my advice OP is to invest your time in getting to know people, people watch on the forums, interact and participate well on the forums because when you move the chats to DM your messages stand a better chance of turning the recipient on.

NBVN x

I wanted to write something similar to this.

It’s always those that you have built up some kind of connection that gets me turned on to someone. Especially if they’ve actually read my profile and something within it, also resonates with themselves. Shared fantasies are always more of a turn on than ‘what are you into’ messages. "

x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not a turn on as such but a bit of a sense of humour or something quirky will catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I yet to receive one that turns me on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Not a turn on as such but a bit of a sense of humour or something quirky will catch my eye "

You still need some blue undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually nice conversation, no swears or being rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I yet to receive one that turns me on "

Hows your inbox?

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Hello you gorgeous beast of a man , hasn't happened yet , but when it does it will be a turn on

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