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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sponataneous combustion? Just their smoking shoes left on a rug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squished by Dorothy's house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly shot their load and having to clean up

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Same reason as men probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same reason as men probably "
I would never do that tho if I felt it wasnt going anywhere if at least say not just leave and not message back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sponataneous combustion? Just their smoking shoes left on a rug. "
I never thought of that I bet that is what's happening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something good on tv comes on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop "

Because maybe they're feeling the conversation isn't going anywhere and / or is hard work

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Found someone "better" to talk to?

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can normally tell within a few messages if we're going to get on or not. Don't see the point of longing it out. Also if I did say I can't see it going anywhere, that's when all the questions start.

Just my experience though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fell asleep.

Weren’t interested and haven’t the heart to tell you.

Got arrested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cos im funny as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fell asleep.

Weren’t interested and haven’t the heart to tell you.

Got arrested. "

Haven't the heart to tell is worse I personally appreciate honesty and the rejection is better than the wait the hope someone is interested to wait ages and nothing that's just cold in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something good on tv comes on. "

Knew it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Same reason as men probably "

This

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

They see something shinny and get distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop

Because maybe they're feeling the conversation isn't going anywhere and / or is hard work"

Always this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No cos im funny as fuck "

And also that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Because they find someone funnier & nicer than me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Someone with a bigger dick messaged them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Someone with a bigger dick messaged them "

Could also be a man you're talking to and he's not getting off on your sex chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They see something shinny and get distracted "

So me! Ooo squirrel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're probably flooded with messages and you were one of thirty men they were chatting with. Perhaps they're just bring friendly, and aren't expecting the conversation to continue or become a commitment.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Because they're just not that into you, the conversation is one sided, they feel you're not making an effort, they get a better offer, they have a life away from Fab, got distracted by a cat throwing up... So many reasons

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I can normally tell within a few messages if we're going to get on or not. Don't see the point of longing it out. Also if I did say I can't see it going anywhere, that's when all the questions start.

Just my experience though."

I agree, this is the same for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself to have some lovely friends.

They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.

For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.

I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.

Some need space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes there’s just nothing to talk about or in less your talking sex chat then yip dose nothing for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself to have some lovely friends.

They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.

For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.

I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.

Some need space"

Cooor I haven't heard wally for yonks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider myself to have some lovely friends.

They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.

For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.

I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.

Some need space

Cooor I haven't heard wally for yonks!"

Pillocks another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me, If they’re into you they will keep talking, if anything they will Instigate the conversation most of the time, if it feels one sided or it’s always you messaging first, just let it go they’re just not into you, it should never be hard work.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop "

It's any gender that will do this. Most people just aren't compatible with most other people. Bit by bit, with each message, it becomes clearer exactly who is and who isn't.

Fab rules state that no reply should be viewed as a lack of further interest. Forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe their fingers went blue from typing whole day.

More seriously. You can check on someone once, twice. Maybe three times if you were close, but if they don't communicate, just let go. Don't even try to think why. No need for that to occupy your head. And find those who treat you like a priority, not an option. Effort should be mutual and feel mostly effortless, as said above.

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