FabSwingers.com forum: How loud is too loud?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering, how loud is too loud in bed?

I love moaning and making lots of sexual noises (and that includes the noises from slapping, slurping and headboard banging or ass cheek clapping) and I’m not shy about it to be fair, but I just am baffled when in some amateur vids (not exclusive to porn) SOME girls are able to scream so loud it sounds like they are getting chased by a guy with an axe.

Is there a too loud? I get headaches just listening at some vids..

How intense do you like the noise to be?

From 1 being silent to 10 screaming at 400hrz waking up the neighbours

I’d rate myself a 6, as I like making noise and even dirty talk but i wouldn’t say it’s proper loud.

I LOVE my guys to dirty talk and grunt and moan in pleasure for sure. But they are like deeper frequencies so

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't scream, but I am loud enough to be embarrassed by the noise and to spend a bit of energy trying to keep it down for my neighbours' sakes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Quiet as a mouse me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like panting and groans and grunts from a fella. I tend to breathe heavy but that’s mainly because I’m a big lass and sex is an aerobic activity

I did shag a fella who used to shout out, very loudly, when he came. It was very disconcerting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love to be vocal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy off Fab and right when we were in the throes he said “do you always make so much noise”? I honestly was just enjoying myself and definitely just moaning rather than screaming. It really knocked me and my confidence.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"SOME girls are able to scream so loud it sounds like they are getting chased by a guy with an axe.

Is there a too loud? "

Some people are just loud, but watched a program years ago, and it showed the majority of Porn screams were dubbed by Marge and others sitting in a sound booth with her G & T and ciggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't class myself as loud but you will definitely here me moaning and grunting especially when I'm almost ready to cum.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Oh I love to be vocal..

Best time after being vocal when we go down to breakfast in hotel with smile and seeing all the faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very vocal when nobody is around.

I have a daughter and neighbours so I've learnt to be quiet to show some respect to those who are around me.

I love when nobody is around and we don't have to hold back. I love vocal men too, listening to them talking filth and moaning. I wouldn't say I enjoy screaming though. I used to have a neighbour who wouldn't shut up screaming OH YES OH YES and it just makes me cringe. But if that's what floats your boat then fine.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I met a guy off Fab and right when we were in the throes he said “do you always make so much noise”? I honestly was just enjoying myself and definitely just moaning rather than screaming. It really knocked me and my confidence.

Some people are just clueless, what a thoughtless thing to say.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Vocal is great, but OTT (fake) zoo noises are a turn off for me.

Last time I was in a club two women were making noises last heard on Attenborough when the walruses were mating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife's loud. Even more so when we're away and can let loose so when we go to hotels she's a complete slut with her moans and groans. I've heard numerous people pace back and forth Infront of our door before while we've fucked in hotel rooms lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We were at a party once and a woman was making a hell of a racket. It eventually tipped from having a good time territory into doing it for effect territory

Don't wake the neighbours is all I ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just clueless, what a thoughtless thing to say."

Yeah, it took me while before I met anyone again. Thankfully he seems like a one off.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"We were at a party once and a woman was making a hell of a racket. It eventually tipped from having a good time territory into doing it for effect territory

Don't wake the neighbours is all I ask

A lot of people do make a lot of noise for effect, especially in clubs and amateur vids. But you can tell if the noise is genuine pleasure or not. The argument of women faking orgasm, highlighted in the famous scene from "When Harry Met Sally" - It is easy to know

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am very vocal! A big turn on for me is talking through it e.g. How much we want each other, how good it feels etc... There's been a few people in my past who have told me to be quiet or laughed about how vocal I am but doesn't bother me! It's just my reaction to good sex!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

A friend of mine can’t stay at the same hotel twice because his wife is so loud in bed. They’ve had loads of complaints, knocks on the door, knocks on the wall, phone calls from front desk but it has no effect on her, she wants to climb on board and get shouting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do quiet wanking. Sex is more of a challenge.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

THIS LOUD IS TOO LOUD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One hotel I was in I'm sure they have a pack of lama's next room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Vocal is great, but OTT (fake) zoo noises are a turn off for me.

Last time I was in a club two women were making noises last heard on Attenborough when the walruses were mating."

Lol that’s exactly what I mean. I hate loud over the top noises/screams ( I mean I get headaches from my dogs yapping, or kids screaming - I’m very sensitive when it comes to sounds lol ) and I was just wondering if people actually enjoy those screaming OTT sounds… lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cant hear the engines on the plane your being too loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm building up to a big squirting orgasm I can be loud but probably 8 at max

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

No such thing as too loud. Too fake, yes. Too loud, no. big difference.

There is no bigger turn off then quiet partners. Even in porn if the woman isn't making any noise its like she's not having fun, may as well watch a cooking video haha. So yep, we both love noise. More the better so long as its not fake like put on pro porn fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A friend of mine can’t stay at the same hotel twice because his wife is so loud in bed. They’ve had loads of complaints, knocks on the door, knocks on the wall, phone calls from front desk but it has no effect on her, she wants to climb on board and get shouting. "

Haha jeez. No I think that’s kinda too much when that happens. I read an article online about a couple who would get complaints every time…

In hotel the best ones are the ones who, if you are silent and turn the tv off you can clearly tell they are having sex with moans and all.

I’d be annoyed if it was a full on screaming match that goes on for hours and not even the TV can drown the noise..

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

We have only had one knock on the door and was some woman wanting what she had.

then I realised wasn't talking to me. Good job bar was open to residents 24hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal me I would say is a 3 not getting away from it there’s going to be some levels off noise

Depending on how the person reponcd can crank up to a 10

Yes I do play on it a bit but why not if the person likes that sort off thing why not give them it

I will do tests like I start off at my normal level and as we get going I increase and see the reponce I get is if they start bang harder or start going wild and I keep increasing till I find the point thay start to slow down

To get me to stop then I ton it back a little and leve it there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the neighbours haven't said anything, so I guess its not too loud!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Well the neighbours haven't said anything, so I guess its not too loud!"

My neighbours complained last time you had sex! Yours are clearly hard of hearing.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Anything above 11 on the telly is too loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the neighbours haven't said anything, so I guess its not too loud!

My neighbours complained last time you had sex! Yours are clearly hard of hearing."

You shoyld get that bloody phone fixed so its not permanently on speaker, and stop ringing me mid sesh to listen for tips then!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

If there’s sonically induced, structural damage to ones property or else if the noise registers on a Richter Magnitude Scale…it may be a tad too much…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If there’s sonically induced, structural damage to ones property or else if the noise registers on a Richter Magnitude Scale…it may be a tad too much…

Like level 100 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love noise during sex, whether that be gasps, moans, groans, dirty talk, slurping, spanking, arse clapping whilst doing doggy etc, it’s all good. It has to be real though, none of this fake screaming nonsense.

I quite like leaving the window slightly open so passers by hear. Similarly, I’ve been fortunate to overhear some over zealous sessions which is horny as fuck in my opinion .

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Grunt is he a boar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 1 on my own and a 3-4 maybe during sex. But I'm a 10 when I orgasm. Everyone in the house can clearly hear, and so have detached neighbours xx

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

It depends on the type of sex and if Lily is getting close to having an orgasm or not, but she can end up nearer the top of the scale.

We’ve had hosts have to pause and close windows so the whole street doesn’t get Jealous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grunt is he a boar

Spat my coffeee!!!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Grunt is he a boar

Spat my coffeee!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a 1 on my own and a 3-4 maybe during sex. But I'm a 10 when I orgasm. Everyone in the house can clearly hear, and so have detached neighbours xx"

I think for orgasms it’s only fair x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too loud is off putting isnt it. Im used to having to be pretty quiet, and can cum quite silently if needed. Being hard fucked is difficult not to let a bit of a groan out

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

When your next door neighbour throws a building brick through your window!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a quiet fucker. Usually a slighy exhale of breath on cumming.

Had an ex- who used to laugh when cumming (that's what she told me anyway).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recon I'm about a 6. When I have to be quiet it's off-putting because I'm trying to be quiet

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I'm relatively noisy & say "fuck you" when I orgasm

I don't know why, it's super cringe

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By *acksLamentMan
over a year ago

Wales

"I'm relatively noisy & say "fuck you" when I orgasm

I don't know why, it's super cringe "

....love that!

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Too loud is off putting isnt it. Im used to having to be pretty quiet, and can cum quite silently if needed. Being hard fucked is difficult not to let a bit of a groan out

Depends on the the situation really I think a loud orgasm is hugely existing if it is genuine and not fake and not at all offputting. But I do not like talk, pet hate is dirty talk during sex puts me off more, will kill the mood and the passion in an instant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm relatively noisy & say "fuck you" when I orgasm

I don't know why, it's super cringe "

Ha why the you? Does it always happen?

I tend to just say fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a quiet fucker. Usually a slighy exhale of breath on cumming.

Had an ex- who used to laugh when cumming (that's what she told me anyway)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The louder my partner is, the better for me

It adds an extra dimension to proceedings. I like dirty talking/ being vocal (in a lower, growly kind of register) but as far as hearing my partner goes then don't hold back

However, having to be quiet (if you're engaging in a bit of risqué fun) does come with it's own allure

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

When you can turn it up to 11...

So, one extra! Don't you just love Spinal Tap.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I am curious to know if people who are hard if hearing have the loudest sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the fast show.

'dint mind us,we just having sex'

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

you watch porn with the sound on?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Depends on a few things.

If the noises are genuine not put on trying to sound like a porno.

That's just off putting and frankly a turn off.

Also location.

In a club or a place where it's unlikely to cause offence or embarrassment to others.

Example we have young children next door to us and their bedroom is directly adjacent to ours I imagine loud sex noise's coming through the wall would be embarrassing for the parents and children.

If it's forced it's off putting.

Grunting, slurping,moans of pleasure yes.

Fake screams no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on a few things.

If the noises are genuine not put on trying to sound like a porno.

That's just off putting and frankly a turn off.

Also location.

In a club or a place where it's unlikely to cause offence or embarrassment to others.

Example we have young children next door to us and their bedroom is directly adjacent to ours I imagine loud sex noise's coming through the wall would be embarrassing for the parents and children.

If it's forced it's off putting.

Grunting, slurping,moans of pleasure yes.

Fake screams no thanks.

I think really loud screams are kinda fake anyway, I mean unless someone is getting penetrated by a knife I don’t seem to understand why scream like ur getting knifed ha

Surely people can be loud without having to scream like chimpanzees

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I'm relatively noisy & say "fuck you" when I orgasm

I don't know why, it's super cringe

Ha why the you? Does it always happen?

I tend to just say fuck

I don't know

I find myself apologising (

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