FabSwingers.com forum: Black Sheep

By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Feeling a little like the black sheep of FAB atm (probably partially due to underlying issues).

So as to not cause any issues, I'm actually wondering if i'm doing anything wrong?

I'm sending messages or winks, and I'm active on forums, usually in most games (not so much chat).

I do understand not everyone is for everyone, and the ladies (or couples) aren't obliged to make contact nor do they all want to put several notches in their bed posts.

In general i'm having a little rant to get it off my chest, but at the same time. I am genuinely asking if the general consensus is not looking good for me.

Please don't start with the typical guy doesn't get a hello etc... it's not even that, it's more so the complete dismissal of myself that's seeming to get me.

Any hints or tip to do better?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Join in more

If that doesn't work

Barge in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is full of black sheep

It's the white ones that are in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chill dude ... don't be too.pushy, chat, be social and approachable with a positive outlook and good things will come to you..

There's someone for everyone or more

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

cheers, i join in most of the game threads, or comment in threads that i can actually have an honest say in.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"cheers, i join in most of the game threads, or comment in threads that i can actually have an honest say in."

Be your self are you ok xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure you’re in a flock of black sheep so you’re not alone.

That perhaps doesn’t make you feel better but be patient. It really is a tough gig on here for lots of single guys x

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Just chill dude ... don't be too.pushy, chat, be social and approachable with a positive outlook and good things will come to you..

There's someone for everyone or more"

cheers, trying to chill, as i noted it could just be some of my underlying issues coming out...again.. either way I'm hoping that anything here i can take away to help all the same. :D

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"cheers, i join in most of the game threads, or comment in threads that i can actually have an honest say in.

Be your self are you ok xxx"

Yeah I be myself... i think... lol I'm fine in the long run.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I’m pretty sure you’re in a flock of black sheep so you’re not alone.

That perhaps doesn’t make you feel better but be patient. It really is a tough gig on here for lots of single guys x"

yeah sadly i know that. but thank you it's nice to read that i'm not alone sometimes... as bad as that may sound.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"cheers, i join in most of the game threads, or comment in threads that i can actually have an honest say in.

Be your self are you ok xxx

Yeah I be myself... i think... lol I'm fine in the long run."

Xxxxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You seem like a nice bloke op from what I’ve seen on forums. I think a lot of people are still not meeting at the moment anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be because you're Australian

They think you are a researcher for Sydney University

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"You seem like a nice bloke op from what I’ve seen on forums. I think a lot of people are still not meeting at the moment anyway x"

Thank you Nora. yea I've actually been noticed lol. But i do get what you're saying. hopefully that doesn't stop people talking and getting to know each other. I don't feel this is just a sex site but a site to make friends etc as well.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's the sheep in wolves clothing you have to watch out for x

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"It could be because you're Australian

They think you are a researcher for Sydney University

Lol, hadn't thought of that.. but Sydney is a shithole in my opinion.. plus there is too many nasty spiders in Australia.. lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Feeling a little like the black sheep of FAB atm (probably partially due to underlying issues).

So as to not cause any issues, I'm actually wondering if i'm doing anything wrong?

I'm sending messages or winks, and I'm active on forums, usually in most games (not so much chat).

I do understand not everyone is for everyone, and the ladies (or couples) aren't obliged to make contact nor do they all want to put several notches in their bed posts.

In general i'm having a little rant to get it off my chest, but at the same time. I am genuinely asking if the general consensus is not looking good for me.

Please don't start with the typical guy doesn't get a hello etc... it's not even that, it's more so the complete dismissal of myself that's seeming to get me.

Any hints or tip to do better?

I suspect people like being around fun positive individuals.

Needy and intensity we find are very unattractive.

Chill, have fun and smile,

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"It's the sheep in wolves clothing you have to watch out for x"

well.. I hope im not one of those that you end up watching out for..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You seem like a nice bloke op from what I’ve seen on forums. I think a lot of people are still not meeting at the moment anyway x

It definitely can be that

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Feeling a little like the black sheep of FAB atm (probably partially due to underlying issues).

So as to not cause any issues, I'm actually wondering if i'm doing anything wrong?

I'm sending messages or winks, and I'm active on forums, usually in most games (not so much chat).

I do understand not everyone is for everyone, and the ladies (or couples) aren't obliged to make contact nor do they all want to put several notches in their bed posts.

In general i'm having a little rant to get it off my chest, but at the same time. I am genuinely asking if the general consensus is not looking good for me.

Please don't start with the typical guy doesn't get a hello etc... it's not even that, it's more so the complete dismissal of myself that's seeming to get me.

Any hints or tip to do better?

I suspect people like being around fun positive individuals.

Needy and intensity we find are very unattractive.

Chill, have fun and smile,

Thank you for the advice. I'm not normally like this, thus i thought it could be other things getting to me as well.

Either way, i appreciate the help

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