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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So life is not going so good for me atm..how do you cope? Left alone or someone to cheer you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both at first leave me alone an then come snap me out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit of both at first leave me alone an then come snap me out of it"
does it do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So life is not going so good for me atm..how do you cope? Left alone or someone to cheer you up?"

I usually have a drink and listen to music hopefully get some of the bad vibes out of my system then try to focus my mind on the positives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put the Cha Cha slide on and get funky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear things are tough.

I usually withdraw and do stuff that I love to do like a long roadtrip or a walk in the mountains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of both at first leave me alone an then come snap me out of itdoes it do the trick "
most times tbh depends how much i trust the snapper or whats actually affecting me how deep an issue may take a couple attempts if that fails i go for a drive and rant at idiot drivers until its gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely someone to cheer me up

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to write out what my pain points are, and then set out a series of things that are in my control, as well as those things that aren’t in my control. Against each of those I can control, I put a plan of what I will do to mitigate/manage as best I can.

I also keep my goals/ambitious - even very small and seemingly insignificant things - up to date , with a similar plan against each. Steps to success. It makes me feel alike I’m keeping moving and making progress (which, of course, is true, even when it doesn’t feel like it).

And I eat chocolate.

And come on FAB to get pilloried as a single guy and cheer myself right up

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP. Personally if it’s a general low mood I like to be alone and rest, eat some good food, maybe a walk. If something specific is pulling me down then I try and find a friend to talk it through with, and share the problem.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon "

This always tends to help too, some self love

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d also add that I wouldn’t place responsibility for being cheered up with someone else. Better off doing it yourself, although it’s nice to be cheered up my someone unexpectedly!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I think I need to be alone but really I do need a cuddle.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A cuddle often works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d also add that I wouldn’t place responsibility for being cheered up with someone else. Better off doing it yourself, although it’s nice to be cheered up my someone unexpectedly!

x

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I get that but when u try to cheer yourself up and fail

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon

This always tends to help too, some self love

Miss S x"

Definitely beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put the Cha Cha slide on and get funky."
lol I will try this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon "
I do this thanks beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon

This always tends to help too, some self love

Miss S x

Definitely beautiful "

You beautiful human

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cuddle often works "
indeed but no one to cuddle with fml!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Misery loves company, but failing that, Tai Chi or Kata refocuses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play Call of Duty. Killing kids always cheers me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave hubby alone.. If he's down or annoyed, the first thing he does is apologise and takes himself off to bed. I went through phased of trying to help, but experience says just to leave him to it.

When I'm feeling that way out he knows a string arm round me and a shoulder to cry on works.. That and kfc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it out on my self in the gym leave it all in there

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

If people do not understand the situation, I want to be left alone. If people understand, sometimes I want them to cheer me up.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Reflect on your own as only you can mend the problem. Once solved share with another that helps

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Listen to music

Have a bubble bath and a pamper

Go for a nice long walk

Hope you are feeling better soon

This always tends to help too, some self love

Miss S x

Definitely beautiful

You beautiful human

Miss S x"

As are you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Left alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shut down and need space and to be alone, going to the gym usually lifts me up too though

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