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Do you ever surprise yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On here, in real life, wherever?

I’ve surprised myself, throughout my journey on fab, by waving goodbye to previous firm boundaries.

Over to you….

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Hell yes!

I've surprised myself with all sorts..... the flinging away of boundaries being one.

And I'm constantly surprised at my sweetness and innocence

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh, yes!

I thought I knew myself pretty well. This past year or so has brought up a bunch of stuff which has really surprised me!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have... and it was fun I have to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s all sounding good so far. I have to say, I’m very much enjoying the developments shall we say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell yes!

I've surprised myself with all sorts..... the flinging away of boundaries being one.

And I'm constantly surprised at my sweetness and innocence "

Oh yes, me too. So very sweet and innocent

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yea definitely! Very much so x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea definitely! Very much so x"

In normal life, or fab life?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I surprise myself I’m still here 10 years later pretty regularly!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve surprised myself because sometimes I can take things seriously and hopefully show at least some emotional intelligence.

Not often mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 'real' world I've probably surprised myself during lockdown how much I enjoyed having quiet, simple time at home. A less complicated life ?

On Fab I've surprised myself how much I've shared with a small number of people, and mostly non sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a fart the other day that lasted close to 10 seconds. That was a surprise

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

the people i have met have all opened my eyes to something new.From a kiss to ... well be rude to say lol. Every meet has its lovely surprises. The meets i have had just opened my eyes to what a wonderful and diverse species we are. Love you all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the 'real' world I've probably surprised myself during lockdown how much I enjoyed having quiet, simple time at home. A less complicated life ?

On Fab I've surprised myself how much I've shared with a small number of people, and mostly non sexual."

It’s funny how fab gets you to a place you don’t expect isn’t it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did a fart the other day that lasted close to 10 seconds. That was a surprise "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yea definitely! Very much so x

In normal life, or fab life?"

Oh sorry. I was talking about fab xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I did some DIY yesterday and didn't injure myself. I did go to the barbers and fall over the seat next to though, so swings and roundabouts.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Aye that’s the joy of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my outstanding humour, yes. I don't realise i could get funnier but every so often i still surprise myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea definitely! Very much so x

In normal life, or fab life?

Oh sorry. I was talking about fab xx"

It’s fun though isn’t it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yea definitely! Very much so x

In normal life, or fab life?

Oh sorry. I was talking about fab xx

It’s fun though isn’t it "

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did some DIY yesterday and didn't injure myself. I did go to the barbers and fall over the seat next to though, so swings and roundabouts. "

This made me giggle a bit, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aye that’s the joy of life"

Isn’t it though . New experiences are just so great aren’t they.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With my outstanding humour, yes. I don't realise i could get funnier but every so often i still surprise myself."

If you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With my outstanding humour, yes. I don't realise i could get funnier but every so often i still surprise myself.

If you say so "

You know so. It's cummin gnome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With my outstanding humour, yes. I don't realise i could get funnier but every so often i still surprise myself.

If you say so

You know so. It's cummin gnome "

Omg, where’s that facepalm emoji when you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With my outstanding humour, yes. I don't realise i could get funnier but every so often i still surprise myself.

If you say so

You know so. It's cummin gnome

Omg, where’s that facepalm emoji when you need it "

I'm just come slap your on the chops to save you looking for it, you cheeky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% Yes. To say this has been a voyage of discovery would be a glaring understatement!

With some of the things I've done and the things I have learned about myself; I can't remember the old vanilla me

...If he met me now, he'd look at me like I was some sort of deviant sex addict! *(insert your own joke here)

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Surprise myself everyday I look in the mirror like really am I that handsome hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have surprised myself so much since the weekend… found out I’m not immortal (gutted) and that I do break. Found out I’m more scared of talking to a stranger about my feelings than I am about putting my life on the line working!

But found out I do have amazing friends… especially one on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I surprised myself at how much I loved watching the wife getting fucked

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm surprised at how stupid I can be at believing some men's lies, thought I was much better than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been surprised by how my sexual tastes have grown and changed in the last … erm … 10 odd years of being on Fab. I wasn’t so much shy and innocent before I joined Fab, but I was certainly shyer and innocenter

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I did a fart the other day that lasted close to 10 seconds. That was a surprise "

What fuel are you using? I'd love to break the 10 second record.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"On here, in real life, wherever?

I’ve surprised myself, throughout my journey on fab, by waving goodbye to previous firm boundaries.

Over to you…."

Surprise, not so much but I do find it delightful when I discover something new about myself. I tend to be quite methodical in my approach to most things which is borne out by my learning style preferences being reflector theorist and pragmatist activist.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

On fab, yes probably didn't expect to make friends with people the way I have.

Outside of fab not really I'm really quite consistent in the way I deal with things.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

On here ( mainly in the last year ) I've really surprised myself as I've given in to my kinky side , got braver , and what has surprised me more is I actually realise that maybe I am OK

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I feel like I’ve been given a new lease of life…the boundaries that are being pushed; the ideas of pics, scenarios, positions, toys…it’s like an inner sex god has been released and it’s just enjoying every moment presented.

I’m living a life that is just so far removed than what my path was set for a couple of years ago.

I don’t tell my friends anything of FAB but if I did they wouldn’t believe me anyway…I don’t believe some of things I’ve experienced the last year. Long may it last

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes tbc...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I surprise myself with the confidence I have on Fab as in reality I am reserved and a little shy.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Oh here yes, in real life I'm a complete wallflower, the things I've experienced through here I would never have dreamed I'd do, they were all just a fantasy

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I once hid in a cupboard and jumped out and shouted "Boo!" at me, but it didn't really have the surprise effect I was looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah when I look back definitely have surprised myself in a good way, with different experiences

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Oooooo yes!

14 years ago I was a fat, bloated mess so I changed that. Now every time I catch an unaware glimpse of myself in a shop window, I'm both surprised and impressed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% Yes. To say this has been a voyage of discovery would be a glaring understatement!

With some of the things I've done and the things I have learned about myself; I can't remember the old vanilla me

...If he met me now, he'd look at me like I was some sort of deviant sex addict! *(insert your own joke here)"

I can totally relate to this, it’s so much fun isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been surprised by how my sexual tastes have grown and changed in the last … erm … 10 odd years of being on Fab. I wasn’t so much shy and innocent before I joined Fab, but I was certainly shyer and innocenter "

I’m sitting on my hands to avoid commenting, for fear of earning myself a spanking , wait, what am I thinking

You can call yourself innocent if you like, I know the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! In terms of Fab, it's becoming more body confident in taking pictures of myself and also being able to speak to and be flirty with other women when I'm usually very shy.

Outside of Fab, it's definitely been my exercise and diet. My first was awful and slow changes over the past few years means I'm finally happy with what I'm eating and understanding how it helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On fab, yes probably didn't expect to make friends with people the way I have.

Outside of fab not really I'm really quite consistent in the way I deal with things. "

This surprised me too, far more lovely friends, something I never even considered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here ( mainly in the last year ) I've really surprised myself as I've given in to my kinky side , got braver , and what has surprised me more is I actually realise that maybe I am OK "

Love it! Yes, you’re more than ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel like I’ve been given a new lease of life…the boundaries that are being pushed; the ideas of pics, scenarios, positions, toys…it’s like an inner sex god has been released and it’s just enjoying every moment presented.

I’m living a life that is just so far removed than what my path was set for a couple of years ago.

I don’t tell my friends anything of FAB but if I did they wouldn’t believe me anyway…I don’t believe some of things I’ve experienced the last year. Long may it last

K

"

Love this . Same, on what people wouldn’t believe about me

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Fab for me has come after a decade of experimentation and exploration. I've not surprised myself yet on here as most of the major surprises happened years ago.

In real life I frequently surprise myself. In many areas of my life I have very little faith in myself, so almost every time I achieve something it surprises me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab for me has come after a decade of experimentation and exploration. I've not surprised myself yet on here as most of the major surprises happened years ago.

In real life I frequently surprise myself. In many areas of my life I have very little faith in myself, so almost every time I achieve something it surprises me."

Maybe you should change that surprise into rewarding yourself

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Everytime I bake something and it comes out good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every morning when I look in the mirror and it's not a 29 year old looking back at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everytime I bake something and it comes out good"

That’s good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every morning when I look in the mirror and it's not a 29 year old looking back at me. "

Oh I hear you!

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Between wisbech & Kings lynn

The very fact I'm on here and going to clubs post lockdown.

Never would've had the confidence a few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really but I think that's because I have a positive outlook on myself and life in general whereby I believe in myself and my ability to achieve. I go into most things thinking I will achieve them and, if I don't, I'd try and analyse why. If it's important to me I'll try to do it again and succeed. If not, I let it go.

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