FabSwingers.com forum: Have been looking at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But which one would suit a new couple?

I've looked at hellfire, abs and kestrels...as they are localish for us...we have not been to a club and are both obviously apprehensive for our first visit.

Questions are:

Which would best suit us as new people to the scene?

How approachable are regulars...I'm not saying we'd walk in and expect to mingle but is there an etiquette to approaching others?

What happens if you're not feeling the vibe from a prospective chat/meet? How would you manage a no thank you.

Sorry if this seems a typical thread however I would like some insightful feedback. Thanks x

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have been to loads of clubs and they're all really friendly.

So you don't need to worry about that.

Check out their websites and choose the one you like the sound of most. The website will also tell you prices and any rules on membership.

Make sure you check the dress code too.

When you get there, tell them it's your first times, and you should get a tour and information on etiquette.

If someone expresses an interest and you're not interested, just say that you have enjoyed chatting but they aren't for you. If you feel uncomfortable being so upfront, you could say you're new to clubs and just being social. Most new to clubs don't have sex with others on their first visit.

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Oh and any problems speak to staff straight away. It's rare but it can happen and in my experience staff deal with problem people quickly and effectively.

By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Hi OP - read the club websites, decide if you want a dress up club or a dress down club.

Personally we would recommend Chameleons in Darlaston, that's was our first and is our favourite club.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much to both of you.

We have looked at the club websites I haven't seen chameleons site...so will have a look.x