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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theory goes that when there’s a group of people in a room and one is scared of cats, the cat will 9/10 make a beeline for the scared person and ignore the cat lovers.

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My friend and I were discussing how guys always seem to make a beeline for the part of your body that you hate/try to hide.

Eg. “Someone” doesn’t like their bum hole. Avoids doggy or “bum hole on show” positions and avoids oral with legs up and rimming but finds that guys home in on the bum hole all the time! Like all the time!!

Another hates her left boob (don’t ask) but finds that that’s the one that guys like to grope, suck on, hold during sex.

Is there a sexual “cat in the room” phenomenon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a phantom pussy type of thing?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Theory goes that when there’s a group of people in a room and one is scared of cats, the cat will 9/10 make a beeline for the scared person and ignore the cat lovers.

Stay with me here...

My friend and I were discussing how guys always seem to make a beeline for the part of your body that you hate/try to hide.

Eg. “Someone” doesn’t like their bum hole. Avoids doggy or “bum hole on show” positions and avoids oral with legs up and rimming but finds that guys home in on the bum hole all the time! Like all the time!!

Another hates her left boob (don’t ask) but finds that that’s the one that guys like to grope, suck on, hold during sex.

Is there a sexual “cat in the room” phenomenon? "
you & your mate have the best conversations - how do I get an invite?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i dont think i have found this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like a phantom pussy type of thing?"

Hmm not quite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theory goes that when there’s a group of people in a room and one is scared of cats, the cat will 9/10 make a beeline for the scared person and ignore the cat lovers.

Stay with me here...

My friend and I were discussing how guys always seem to make a beeline for the part of your body that you hate/try to hide.

Eg. “Someone” doesn’t like their bum hole. Avoids doggy or “bum hole on show” positions and avoids oral with legs up and rimming but finds that guys home in on the bum hole all the time! Like all the time!!

Another hates her left boob (don’t ask) but finds that that’s the one that guys like to grope, suck on, hold during sex.

Is there a sexual “cat in the room” phenomenon? you & your mate have the best conversations - how do I get an invite? "

You wouldn’t want to, it’s seriously fucked I’m haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No i dont think i have found this. "

You’re lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cats do that because those who like cats will look at them and make eye contact. The cat is naturally curious about those who avoid eye contact so will go to check them out. I'm at a loss as to how to equate this with men looking at the wrong bits

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Totally true. About cats and body parts. That’s why Ladies always make a beeline for my cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cats do that because those who like cats will look at them and make eye contact. The cat is naturally curious about those who avoid eye contact so will go to check them out. I'm at a loss as to how to equate this with men looking at the wrong bits "

Correct.

The two are similar not due to the mechanics behind the theory but the outcome itself. The person doesn’t like the cat, the cat approaches. The lady doesn’t like the bum hole, men want to touch it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally true. About cats and body parts. That’s why Ladies always make a beeline for my cock. "

You don’t like your cock?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the guys don't see anything wrong with those body parts, it's just our own insecurities that make us think these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like the forbidden theory. When you're told not to do something or you can’t have something. Some people in life won’t be bound by you can’t do it or can’t have it and will make a point of achieving or having that thing.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Totally true. About cats and body parts. That’s why Ladies always make a beeline for my cock.

You don’t like your cock? "

(I love my cock. But it’s about projecting a negative opinion of it as it arouses interest. Just like it did with you )

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Some people just like what they can’t, or shouldn’t have!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit like the forbidden theory. When you're told not to do something or you can’t have something. Some people in life won’t be bound by you can’t do it or can’t have it and will make a point of achieving or having that thing. "

But these guys haven’t been told no - that’s the strange thing about it! They have no awareness of the discomfort or embarrassment around those body parts yet seem to be attracted to the bits you don’t like more than any other! That’s why it’s weird!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally true. About cats and body parts. That’s why Ladies always make a beeline for my cock.

You don’t like your cock?

(I love my cock. But it’s about projecting a negative opinion of it as it arouses interest. Just like it did with you )"

Well played

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No idea... But I hate it when they slide their hand round over my stomach. I usually move it so they're holding a boob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No idea... But I hate it when they slide their hand round over my stomach. I usually move it so they're holding a boob "

That’s it! Their hand ALWAYS seems to find the bit you don’t like! It’s like men have a sixth sense!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think most men go for the left boob first.

Not sure about the bumhole though.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"No idea... But I hate it when they slide their hand round over my stomach. I usually move it so they're holding a boob "

I like it when my buddy squeezes my flab. He does it so sensually it turns me on

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its just boundary pushing and trying to get something others don’t/haven’t all done in a jovial joking manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's perception. When a cat goes up to a cat lover it gets a fuss and no one notices, I'm barely aware that it's there. When it comes and climbs on my lap, turns around in circles digging its claws in before settling into that comfy stance with its tail up and it's ring 2 inches from my nose I will complain and thus reinforce the stereotype that cats always go to the person who doesn't like them.

Similarly, when a man is paying attention to the bits of your body you don't have an issue with you are relaxed and enjoying the moment, when they pay attention to the bits you don't like you become self conscious, hyper aware of what they are doing so this behavior looms larger in your memory many it appear more common than it is?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's perception. When a cat goes up to a cat lover it gets a fuss and no one notices, I'm barely aware that it's there. When it comes and climbs on my lap, turns around in circles digging its claws in before settling into that comfy stance with its tail up and it's ring 2 inches from my nose I will complain and thus reinforce the stereotype that cats always go to the person who doesn't like them.

Similarly, when a man is paying attention to the bits of your body you don't have an issue with you are relaxed and enjoying the moment, when they pay attention to the bits you don't like you become self conscious, hyper aware of what they are doing so this behavior looms larger in your memory many it appear more common than it is?

Mr"

Hmm perhaps you’re right. That must be it.

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