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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone watches you get dressed after sex?

I really really dislike it when you need to get dressed after sex and the person you have just had sex with kinda watches you get dressed. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have on occasions said I’m going to use the bathroom and took my clothing with me and shut the door.

I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.

Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of. It’s better when you both get dressed at the same time. Not watching eachother. Just chatting while it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?

I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.

Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus"

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Thank you Jesus , I'm not weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they incorporated it into “post play” and they dressed you sensually with body kissing as they disappear back into their clothing. Obviously not in a get your shit back in ASAP and sod off kinda way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it's never bothered me. Perhaps I'm the weird one.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have a frozen shoulder so i often need a bit of help doing up a bra or a tie up belt. Therefore i can't really afford to get too embarrassed.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually quite like it but unsure why.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have tended to get dressed at the same time, although it is nice sometimes to have a little kiss as you do it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Make them.leave first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually quite like it but unsure why."

Exhibitionism, possibly?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I actually quite like it but unsure why.

Exhibitionism, possibly?"

Probably

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It can be slightly less provocative putting knickers on than shimmying out of them, especially if you do the one leg in the knicker hop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

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i have to get them off the floor first

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you Jesus , I'm not weird. "

You really believe that Granny don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually quite like it but unsure why.

Exhibitionism, possibly?

Probably

I'll keep my eyes on you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually quite like it but unsure why."

Second this

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, cause then I can hop around on one foot with an audience.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

i have to get them off the floor first

Do a slut drop?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It doesn’t bother me, I quite like it and sometimes that look they give you makes me stop, not quite time to depart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make them.leave first "

I can’t. It’s normally the blokes house. I’m the one that’s got to leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a frozen shoulder so i often need a bit of help doing up a bra or a tie up belt. Therefore i can't really afford to get too embarrassed. "

That’s fair enough.

I sometimes take ‘post sex’ clothing.

Something that’s super easy to put on and really quick like a over sized jumper and looser jeans/legging.

Go in sexy, leave very casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

Hypocrisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

i have to get them off the floor first

Do a slut drop? "
old knees

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’m totally guilty of this , I tend to meet at home so I’m usually sprawled on the bed chatting as they dress …

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if they incorporated it into “post play” and they dressed you sensually with body kissing as they disappear back into their clothing. Obviously not in a get your shit back in ASAP and sod off kinda way lol "

Iv thought about it and I’m unsure. I don’t think I’d like that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m totally guilty of this , I tend to meet at home so I’m usually sprawled on the bed chatting as they dress …

Sorry

Ha ha shut your eyes next time

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By *aveed74Man
over a year ago

a round and a bout Midlands

"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?

I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.

Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.

I can't remember if I do or not. Would anyone help jog my memory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I totally get you on this.

The moments gone, the sexual energy and lust has been used up and let's be honest watching me put on my bra is not nearly as sexy as watching me take it off... I can’t do that cute way of putting it on and reaching around to clip it...oh no! I put it on backwards to clip it then twist it around my waist and then hoist my boobs in with each hand. For the love of all things its NOT sexy

If he still has the will power then he can watch me attempt to reattach my hold ups back on to the suspenders...oh its like a single person game of twister, throwing in to the mix a hot flush caused by stress of not being able to get the effing clips to attach.

Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

Hypocrisy

Mr"

Oh yes! I know

Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too

yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.

Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus"

I thought I was alone!! The anus gazing fear is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I thought I was alone!! The anus gazing fear is real.

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i was kidding i dont care if they can see my bum hole winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I go for a shower take my clothes with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being viewed naked fullstop, so i just grimace and bear it, but i am much more relaxed and comfortable when I'm clothed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick clothes easy to get on at speed or go in the bathroom. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses. "

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I go for a shower take my clothes with me "

I don’t even like it if they watch me walk naked from the bed to their bathroom

I take a shower when I get home though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP I totally get you on this.

Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?

NBVN x"

I thought all women put bras on like that? Ha. I do.

I never put the stocking or lingerie back on. I Chuck it all in my get away bag

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I have a frozen shoulder so i often need a bit of help doing up a bra or a tie up belt. Therefore i can't really afford to get too embarrassed.

That’s fair enough.

I sometimes take ‘post sex’ clothing.

Something that’s super easy to put on and really quick like a over sized jumper and looser jeans/legging.

Go in sexy, leave very casual

This.... Or I like a wrap dress, easily take off and put onable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?

I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.

Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.

I only get this at clubs. Voyeur's paradise, the changing room lol

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

As I know I do it.

Im actually admiring you as I look at you.

Im looking at your skin your beautiful curves and shape of your body.

Your loverly hair flowing over your skin.

Watching you dress yourself slowly memorising each moment.

Seeing you slide your underwear up and on, Wiggerling your loverly bum as you fit it into place.

Watching you slide those tights/stockings onto your beautiful skin, Stroking it gently into place.

Fitting into that loverly skirt and fastening that bra up before cupping each breast into its cups.

Before sliding into that top of yours as it truly is a loverly sight to behold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

Hypocrisy

Oh yes! I know

Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too

yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.

Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat

ha "

You need to change the language you think of yourself in. No one wants a drowned rat in their bathroom but a sexy woman with skin flowing from the heat of the shower and glistening with water, hair wet and sleek down her back ....

Same scene, different words. Watching a woman shower s sexy - a middle aged man not so much.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yep. Can never get my left foot in.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It doesn't bother me.

I don't even mind if they follow me to the bathroom for my after sex pee.

If we've been fucking then he's seen all of me, and I have no shyness..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I totally get you on this.

Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?

NBVN x"

Given that our first meet included a break for condom fishing I'd have thought getting dressed after wouldn't be too traumatic

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses.

Her x"

After every time we played… to be fair she usually just slipped my T shirt on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses.

Her x

After every time we played… to be fair she usually just slipped my T shirt on

It's the cheeky smiles and kisses part that got me, cuteeeee!

Her x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

No I enjoy it, like the cheeky smiles when I walk around in his T-shirt, bum cheeks slightly peering out below it, it’s playful and flirtatious and I like just flinging on his T-shirt or sweater and sitting chatting/kissing after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I enjoy it, like the cheeky smiles when I walk around in his T-shirt, bum cheeks slightly peering out below it, it’s playful and flirtatious and I like just flinging on his T-shirt or sweater and sitting chatting/kissing after x"

You do look amazing in a t shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I totally get you on this.

Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?

NBVN x

Given that our first meet included a break for condom fishing I'd have thought getting dressed after wouldn't be too traumatic

xxx

Mr"

Oh babe that was a moment wasn't it

I have never felt so sexy as I was sat on the loo practically fisting myself to fish a lost condom out.... and you had a go too! Although I am sure you were getting amorous rather than helping

NBVN x

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I be actually find it a turn on ..maybe I’m just weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I know I do it.

Im actually admiring you as I look at you.

Im looking at your skin your beautiful curves and shape of your body.

Your loverly hair flowing over your skin.

Watching you dress yourself slowly memorising each moment.

Seeing you slide your underwear up and on, Wiggerling your loverly bum as you fit it into place.

Watching you slide those tights/stockings onto your beautiful skin, Stroking it gently into place.

Fitting into that loverly skirt and fastening that bra up before cupping each breast into its cups.

Before sliding into that top of yours as it truly is a loverly sight to behold."

I have no doubt the person isn’t thinking negative things but there’s always that doubt I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus

I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around

Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.

Hypocrisy

Oh yes! I know

Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too

yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.

Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat

Same scene, different words. Watching a woman shower s sexy - a middle aged man not so much.

Mr"

Your version does sound a lot nicer then my rat version

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Make them.leave first

I can’t. It’s normally the blokes house. I’m the one that’s got to leave

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

If you've got that post sex glow, feeling of contentment and you're into the girl them logically she's going to have the guys attention. As well as that a woman putting her knickers and jeans on is sexy af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make them.leave first

I can’t. It’s normally the blokes house. I’m the one that’s got to leave

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can get dressed bloody fast too and be rattling at the door wanting to escape before I have adjusted my knicker elastic and found both socks.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Men can get dressed bloody fast too and be rattling at the door wanting to escape before I have adjusted my knicker elastic and found both socks. "

There’s always one sock that goes awol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men can get dressed bloody fast too and be rattling at the door wanting to escape before I have adjusted my knicker elastic and found both socks.

There’s always one sock that goes awol

Hanging out the back of your skirt as you stride out the door

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Weirdly it doesn't bother me at all. Me putting clothes on is far sexier than taking them off, because the more clothes I have on the better I look!

I figure by then they've already seen everything there is to see, so I've lost the self-conscious embarrassment I have when undressing.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I quite like it. Sometimes they lie there watching you with a slight smile on their face. I often catch one of my partners watching me as I put my make up on at his. I think it's sweet. We're all different though.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For me, that would put a pleasant end to the meeting.

Seeing you put your clothes back, I could admire you in a different light, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not even thought about it till reading this post. Its never bothered me at all.

Maybe I'm weird.... Thats going to bug me now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus"

This made me giggle.

I guess is women that keep the lingerie on can snap it back into place quick to save that trouble.

It's when a man's bent over and his balls are dangling I have try not to laugh or say anything.

Though I have taken a pic before and then shown them it so they can see what they don't.

I clearly have a warped sense of humour.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never thought about it before reading this so guess I’m ok with it

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah, I love being watched while I bunch up my hair and clipping it up carelessly... The I've-just-been-fucked hair do...

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