FabSwingers.com forum: It's messed up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seeing a person's ex being slated on social media by the other party but that other party is also messaging the ex wishing they'd give a fuck

Friends

What are friends

Folk that have your back when you feel like slagging your ex off on social media and your likely not telling said friend your actually still messaging said ex wishing they'd give a fuck? And sending photos of yourself crying

This is what I mean

Fucked up manipulation

I'd no time in my life for fucking nutters

This ain't about me before any assumptioned conclusions are drawn up

But I did need to sort this out as it was very personal to me

Women hold the power because majority love to manipulate

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm in no doubt that there's bound to be a few good eggs in among you ladies but I think that's a very rare quality to find

Almost as rare as rocking horse shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women. "

I'm not on here looking for blokes

I do know some men are manipulators as well

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.

I'm not on here looking for blokes

I do know some men are manipulators as well

She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.

I'm not on here looking for blokes

I do know some men are manipulators as well

She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here."

What's your point ?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.

I'm not on here looking for blokes

I do know some men are manipulators as well

She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here.

What's your point ?"

What's yours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.

I'm not on here looking for blokes

I do know some men are manipulators as well

She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here.

What's your point ?

What's yours ?"

My point is I'm not really interested in the blokes manipulating me as I don't trust a single 1, and it's not a bloke I'm looking for, I'm no idiot and if course I know there's lots of manipulating blokes, the amount of female manipulators I've come across though is mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get it "

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?

If its not you, why so stressy?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next "

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off."

I was about to say the same thing.

You seem very angry OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?

If its not you, why so stressy?"

Someone whom I care a lot for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off."

It's not and that was just figure of speech

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.

I was about to say the same thing.

You seem very angry OP

Anger is a biproduct of pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I'd associate with someone who is the kind of person to be gobby on social media to begin with. There's the main mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next "
people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure I'd associate with someone who is the kind of person to be gobby on social media to begin with. There's the main mistake."

And anyone that gets involved in the "he said" "she said" nonsense can do one too.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.

It's not and that was just figure of speech

It is difficult at times to answer your posts. If we generalise, you take it as being aimed at you. Then you refer to 'you', then say it was a figure of speech.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm not sure I'd associate with someone who is the kind of person to be gobby on social media to begin with. There's the main mistake.

And anyone that gets involved in the "he said" "she said" nonsense can do one too."

Damn right!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication "

I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one. "

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get it

When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next

Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.

It's not and that was just figure of speech

It is difficult at times to answer your posts. If we generalise, you take it as being aimed at you. Then you refer to 'you', then say it was a figure of speech."

Pretty much

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You seem to dislike women why???

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By *armar61Man
over a year ago

redditch

Your talking out of your arse there… none of it makes any real sense….. do you ever read back what you initially post???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I couldn't give a fuck who my ex slags me off to.

I know the truth and that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont get it

I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation

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then i think a conversation is probably needed rather than getting wound up over it clear honest chat adk thst person what there playing at directly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seem to dislike women why???"

I love women

Not all of them but there is a few I do adore and respect

But they've earnt that from me

By keeping it real

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Dont get it

I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation

Sounds like a bit of a nutjob to me.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate "

I have never manipulated anyone in my life, never needed to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn't give a fuck who my ex slags me off to.

I know the truth and that's all that matters"

There's normally 3 versions

There's

And the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?

If its not you, why so stressy?

Someone whom I care a lot for "

It all sounds a bit childish to me, step away and come back to it with a clear head tomorrow?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate

I have never manipulated anyone in my life, never needed to."

That's good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?

If its not you, why so stressy?

Someone whom I care a lot for

It all sounds a bit childish to me, step away and come back to it with a clear head tomorrow?"

It's sorted

He's told her to never try contacting him again

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times

That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get where he’s coming from just letting steam out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times

That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet

Cuntwaffle

. Who’s called you that in the passed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And for the decent ladies that don't do this shit, you are very few, kick him in the nuts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?"

It's needed

Please don't be like the majority though nora

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times

That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet

Cuntwaffle

. Who’s called you that in the passed"

It’s just a term of affection.. for a loveable arsehole. I know a fair few.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?

It's needed

Please don't be like the majority though nora

I have never been like the majority Mr Thrills

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.

Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat

Hell no I use it liberally

I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times

That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet

Cuntwaffle

. Who’s called you that in the passed

It’s just a term of affection.. for a loveable arsehole. I know a fair few."

I'm an arse hole

But I'm not an average arse hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?

It's needed

Please don't be like the majority though nora

I have never been like the majority Mr Thrills "

I'm not myself

I like to think folk notice that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,

Respect yourselves

Take no shit

I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?"

That's grand

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?"

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them"

I have

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

Does he mean it though???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

And if she don't then I myself shall be telling her

He's practically my son but we shared the same birth canal

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

And if she don't then I myself shall be telling her

He's practically my son but we shared the same birth canal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

Does he mean it though???"

He's about to go meet a very pretty young woman so I guess so

I'm

I bloody well hope so

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I don't get it, sorry.

Why do you or your friend give a fuck?

Maybe cut ties with arseholes?

Sm I missing something?

I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart

So discuss it with them

I have

The outcome???

He's told her to get to fuck

Does he mean it though???

He's about to go meet a very pretty young woman so I guess so

I'm

I bloody well hope so"

Then it's all good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it"

If your not liking what you read then don't

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By *heKinkExplorerMan
over a year ago

leicester

I do miss jeremy kyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it

If your not liking what you read then don't

Don't what?

Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it

If your not liking what you read then don't

Don't what?

Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion

It's nothing but a simple suggestion as you are now no different to what you've just called me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do miss jeremy kyle

He's missed alright pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it

If your not liking what you read then don't

Don't what?

Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion

It's nothing but a simple suggestion as you are now no different to what you've just called me lol "

Didn't call you anything. I said "this reads like"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you keep it to the thread abd out of my inbox please OP. Thanks

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Sadly it’s just the dark side of social media! Anyone can write anything they like about anyone else, whether it’s true or not, it p’s People off, and then they chose to write about it on another social platform, like this, and so it continues!! Re women being manipulative, of course ‘some’ women are, as are ‘some’ men. Putting that label on women due to a handful of experiences, means you haven’t learned and moved on, it’s text book! I hope your friend is ok and all of this gets sorted soon!

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