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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I put on some Simon and Garfunkel

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I close my eyes and enjoy.

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By *inge1969Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

Not a fan of silence I even listen to an audio book to fall asleep to !

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

bloody love it granny I just breathe it in!

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Shhhh!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I put on some Simon and Garfunkel "

Hello darkness my old friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it and need it ! Just like 'doing nothing' or 'resting' the space that silence allows is crucial to clear thinking and recovery of energy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, can't stand it. I have the TV on in the front room and radio in the kitchen. Need to keep my head occupied.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"bloody love it granny I just breathe it in!"

Me too, so beautiful to give time to thought and float away ......

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Shhhh!!"

It's oh so quiet

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes love it

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Handle it? Crave it more like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I crave it. Sometimes it's painful.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Shhhh!!

It's oh so quiet "

So peaceful until ........

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh I love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence helps you contemplate your deepest desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence is utterly gorgeous. I can sit in a silent room quite happily for hours. It never gets boring.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Not a fan, gives my.brain too much time to think

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ll ask that guy who’s handcuffed in my cellar, how he’s doing

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Handle it? Crave it more like..."

Such loud undercrackers for a silence craver....... I can hear them from here.

I do love them ...... sooooo much.

Noisy tho

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love silence. I live alone and if I get lonely then I ask Alexa to play music. Sometimes I even put on the TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, don't get much of it though but when I do it's my time to think some more op

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

It's golden

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Total silence no, but nature silence where all you can hear is the birds and maybe a breeze rustling the leaves, absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

Shhhhh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

I embrace it

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"I put on some Simon and Garfunkel

Hello darkness my old friend "

Someone got it

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Love it and need it ! Just like 'doing nothing' or 'resting' the space that silence allows is crucial to clear thinking and recovery of energy. "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Sometimes I crave it. Sometimes it's painful. "

This x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Complete silence is something I love unfortunately I suffer from tinnitus so silence is a thing of the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I crave it. Sometimes it's painful.

This x"

Ouch eh? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally cool with it.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I have constant tinitus so there is no such thing as silence for me ever!!

I miss it. I know when it's quiet and I try to connect with the peace.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?

Not a fan of silence I even listen to an audio book to fall asleep to !"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where I am. If I'm somewhere beautiful, like in a meadow or looking out at a lake, then I love it. If I'm alone in my house, I'm less keen and usually put some music on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. Between tinnitus and my own thoughts it's a no no. I've always got something on to listen too or background noise, just anything to occupy my ears

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

My mind's never silent, but I'm comfortable with silence, I enjoy and appreciate it and get a bit annoyed when I can hear next doors television or voices through the connecting wall

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Silence in the house I can't stand it, have to put music on or something. Silence outside is a totally different thing and I love it. Happily sit or lie and drink it in

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over a year ago

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like it. I also like total blackness where’s there’s no light pollution and you cannot see your hands even ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it! My day to day life is very noisy and it makes me appreciate those silent times so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, i always have a 'trip hop' downtempo playlist playing in the background if im alone

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I love it. Especially after the family have been visiting.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I love silence. I get grumpy if I don't have enough peace in my day.

As to what I do with it: I revel in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love silence. I get grumpy if I don't have enough peace in my day.

As to what I do with it: I revel in it."

I need more reasons to use word "revel" in my life, thanks.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Silence is golden........

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Revel in it….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I can take the silence. I sometimes read or just sit there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sitting the last five minutes at work today alone and in glorious silence. I almost considered just sitting there for rest of the afternoon rather than do all the other things that needed doing. Quite partial to a radio though. Unless I am trying to sleep and then its silence, or the rain.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I love silence. I get grumpy if I don't have enough peace in my day.

As to what I do with it: I revel in it.

I need more reasons to use word "revel" in my life, thanks. "

I do like revels.

Revels are brilliant until you get a coffee cream

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like it

Work is crazy and noisy so once I get home I lock the door behind me and just be quiet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love silence. I get grumpy if I don't have enough peace in my day.

As to what I do with it: I revel in it.

I need more reasons to use word "revel" in my life, thanks.

I do like revels.

Revels are brilliant until you get a coffee cream "

My favourites. We could co exist.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was sitting the last five minutes at work today alone and in glorious silence. I almost considered just sitting there for rest of the afternoon rather than do all the other things that needed doing. Quite partial to a radio though. Unless I am trying to sleep and then its silence, or the rain. "

I love the sound of rain on windows, and the noise of waves breaking on pebbles. Or even better than pebbles, Dead Horse Bay, where the waves lapping against all the broken bottles sounded like eerie windchimes. Madly soothing.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I turn up all the speakers and play john cages 4'33

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I love silence. I get grumpy if I don't have enough peace in my day.

As to what I do with it: I revel in it.

I need more reasons to use word "revel" in my life, thanks.

I do like revels.

Revels are brilliant until you get a coffee cream

My favourites. We could co exist."

You're always welcome to my coffee creams but I will probably judge you hard for liking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was sitting the last five minutes at work today alone and in glorious silence. I almost considered just sitting there for rest of the afternoon rather than do all the other things that needed doing. Quite partial to a radio though. Unless I am trying to sleep and then its silence, or the rain.

I love the sound of rain on windows, and the noise of waves breaking on pebbles. Or even better than pebbles, Dead Horse Bay, where the waves lapping against all the broken bottles sounded like eerie windchimes. Madly soothing."

That sounds amazing, where is that, I may need to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

We often decompress in an evening

No TV on, No radio on

Just me faffing on here and the OH on his mac

It's quite common for us not to talk for a couple of hours most nights

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"bloody love it granny I just breathe it in!"

Oh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

I love silence …… I clear the cobwebs from my head and fill it with positive thoughts ….. sometimes silence is what I need then other times it can be deafening, enjoy it xxxx

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Total silence no, but nature silence where all you can hear is the birds and maybe a breeze rustling the leaves, absolutely."

Oh so much this

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was sitting the last five minutes at work today alone and in glorious silence. I almost considered just sitting there for rest of the afternoon rather than do all the other things that needed doing. Quite partial to a radio though. Unless I am trying to sleep and then its silence, or the rain.

I love the sound of rain on windows, and the noise of waves breaking on pebbles. Or even better than pebbles, Dead Horse Bay, where the waves lapping against all the broken bottles sounded like eerie windchimes. Madly soothing.

That sounds amazing, where is that, I may need to go. "

It's in Brooklyn, but if you're ever there for any length of time I'd definitely take a morning out to visit it. It's a slog to get to from Manhattan but is one of the most interesting places I've been to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my absolute favourite, I can't get my head around people who can't be on there own for to long and have to try fill every silence, I'd quite happily spend a week of everymonth without seeing or speaking to anyone lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I love the sound of silence on top of a mountain somewhere but unfortunately the lockdown Insta crew have stolen that silence.

Never understood the point of wearing headphones in the countryside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was sitting the last five minutes at work today alone and in glorious silence. I almost considered just sitting there for rest of the afternoon rather than do all the other things that needed doing. Quite partial to a radio though. Unless I am trying to sleep and then its silence, or the rain.

I love the sound of rain on windows, and the noise of waves breaking on pebbles. Or even better than pebbles, Dead Horse Bay, where the waves lapping against all the broken bottles sounded like eerie windchimes. Madly soothing.

That sounds amazing, where is that, I may need to go.

It's in Brooklyn, but if you're ever there for any length of time I'd definitely take a morning out to visit it. It's a slog to get to from Manhattan but is one of the most interesting places I've been to."

I was hoping you might say Wales. I will put it on the travel bucket list. I love finding the tiny bits of beach glass on our beaches. Wonder if Brooklyn is were it is all born

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Its suddenly very quiet …..

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Not had silence for years now. Fucking tinnitus...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

Yes.

I Sing to it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love silence. I walk on my on a lot to get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you say something..

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Did you say something.. "

Shhhh

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Ahhh don't take silence for granted. There are many ways to find peace. Silence isn't always the way for everyone. But I miss it very much. I doubt I'll ever experience silence again in my lifetime. That's a scary and strange reakity I never imagined I would experience.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Can you handle silence ?

What do you do with it ?"

Enjoy it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I love it. It's so healthy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's really really really really really really really silent, you start hearing your heart beat

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over a year ago

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Ahhh don't take silence for granted. There are many ways to find peace. Silence isn't always the way for everyone. But I miss it very much. I doubt I'll ever experience silence again in my lifetime. That's a scary and strange reakity I never imagined I would experience.

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Another tinnitus sufferer?

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Complete silence is something I love unfortunately I suffer from tinnitus so silence is a thing of the past."

I am in exactly the same situation

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