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Are my expectations too high ?
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"Who cares "Clearly not you Yasmeen Please move away from the door, as you are in fact blocking the traffic
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"Who cares
Clearly not you Yasmeen
Please move away from the door, as you are in fact blocking the traffic
No offense "Any attention is good dont you think??? | |||
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"Who cares
Clearly not you Yasmeen
Please move away from the door, as you are in fact blocking the traffic
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Any attention is good dont you think???"Most definitely not Quality over quantity all day every day | |||
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"Who cares
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Any attention is good dont you think???
Most definitely not
Quality over quantity all day every day "Then good luck | |||
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"Who cares
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. " I'm meaning in the ways of thoughts and feelings and stuff not physically the same | |||
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. I'm meaning in the ways of thoughts and feelings and stuff not physically the same" What does that mean? Don't quite understand | |||
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Clearly not you Yasmeen
Please move away from the door, as you are in fact blocking the traffic
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Any attention is good dont you think???
Most definitely not
Quality over quantity all day every day "Is that a 50/50 ratio? | |||
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"What im looking for a 50/50 in absolutely everything Equality in every respect of I'm simply not interested
Are my expectations too high ?
Think about this ladies because I can guarantee there's at least 1 of you about to lie "Yes your expectations are too high. | |||
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. " By asking to use his power, you shift his to yours as he will do what you asked | |||
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"More importantly! Why does my Air con need recharged already on a 2018 Touraeg "Could have a leak They will check for leaks before filling | |||
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"What im looking for a 50/50 in absolutely everything Equality in every respect of I'm simply not interested
Are my expectations too high ?
Think about this ladies because I can guarantee there's at least 1 of you about to lie
Yes your expectations are too high. "I know, it's something I have always known I am special And I won't accept anything less than I know what I deserve | |||
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"More importantly! Why does my Air con need recharged already on a 2018 Touraeg
Could have a leak
They will check for leaks before filling "Gracias mate | |||
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"I believe in everything being fair. With my significant other at one point she earned more than me, then later I earned more than her. Our contribution to joint affairs was proportional. That’s fair isn’t it? " I'm not meaning material things at all, I'd lost everything more than once and rebuilt my entire life from scratch And I don't need anyone or anything in that department
She could be penniless for all I care
The things in stated are what matters to me | |||
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. By asking to use his power, you shift his to yours as he will do what you asked " But then in turn when I'm asked to do something I'm better at it's the same. Isn't the point of being a couple is to be a better and stronger unit than being individuals? | |||
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"More importantly! Why does my Air con need recharged already on a 2018 Touraeg "Every three years, also need to use it during winter otherwise it might end up not working anymore… | |||
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"Buying me things does not show me a thing " 100 percent agree | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you " Very few people are self aware enough to be 100% honest to themselves; that's not a gendered thing, that's a human thing. Very few people are willing to be 100% honest to another person; the ones who are tend to be awful to be around. There's a level of harmless partial truth-telling that greases the wheels of social interaction - thoughts left unexpressed, opinions toned down to be tactful, the fundamentals of living around other people without being a dick to them. | |||
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"I believe in everything being fair. With my significant other at one point she earned more than me, then later I earned more than her. Our contribution to joint affairs was proportional. That’s fair isn’t it? I'm not meaning material things at all, I'd lost everything more than once and rebuilt my entire life from scratch And I don't need anyone or anything in that department
She could be penniless for all I care
The things in stated are what matters to me "Have had the same experience. And I can function well enough as an individual, I didn't actually want a relationship with anyone, then M came along. | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you Very few people are self aware enough to be 100% honest to themselves; that's not a gendered thing, that's a human thing. Very few people are willing to be 100% honest to another person; the ones who are tend to be awful to be around. There's a level of harmless partial truth-telling that greases the wheels of social interaction - thoughts left unexpressed, opinions toned down to be tactful, the fundamentals of living around other people without being a dick to them." I totally agree That's why I won't accept nothing less than whatnot know I deserve | |||
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. By asking to use his power, you shift his to yours as he will do what you asked But then in turn when I'm asked to do something I'm better at it's the same. Isn't the point of being a couple is to be a better and stronger unit than being individuals? " It’s about the right balance. Also some couple prefer old fashion rather than “equal” style. Even the most perfect couple have their little fight of ego, it’s human nature. Myself I could do anything a woman can, except giving birth of course. And I am not afraid to do washing, ironing, hoovering. In these days women are as busier than men and can’t be expected doing all the house chores also! | |||
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"There is no equality in everything. Most of us are just looking for equal opportunities. For example I presume (you can correct me if I'm wrong) that you are stronger than me. That means I'd probably ask you to lift something heavy for me as you are the best person out of the both of us. However, if it was running the hoover around the house neither of us has an advantage over the other. So it shouldn't be left for one person to do all the time. By asking to use his power, you shift his to yours as he will do what you asked But then in turn when I'm asked to do something I'm better at it's the same. Isn't the point of being a couple is to be a better and stronger unit than being individuals? It’s about the right balance. Also some couple prefer old fashion rather than “equal” style. Even the most perfect couple have their little fight of ego, it’s human nature. Myself I could do anything a woman can, except giving birth of course. And I am not afraid to do washing, ironing, hoovering. In these days women are as busier than men and can’t be expected doing all the house chores also! " I'm not actually talking about things like this I don't think many of you fully understand where I'm coming from That could be because your happy with what evers on offer I'm not | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? " Fanswingers not landowners wtf haha | |||
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" All the fun of the fair. Fairness is something to strive for. " It Is indeed | |||
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"Male suicide is through the top and we live by the idea that women hold the power in every respect accept the physical side of things If women hold the power then tel your man his worth Ask about his mental health Don't go on to them use his mental health to manipulate him Is your relationship really as concrete as you might think ? " Yes it is, we are both survivors of emotional and mental abuse by former partners. We actually talk about each others feelings even though it's sometimes it's beyond difficult, for example my ectopic pregnancy last year. Even though I was devastated and nearly died. I appreciate the mental anguish it caused my partner even though I wasn't able to help in that moment in time. Not all women emotionally manipulate men same as not all men physically abusive women. | |||
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That's life folks
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"Male suicide is through the top and we live by the idea that women hold the power in every respect accept the physical side of things If women hold the power then tel your man his worth Ask about his mental health Don't go on to them use his mental health to manipulate him Is your relationship really as concrete as you might think ? Yes it is, we are both survivors of emotional and mental abuse by former partners. We actually talk about each others feelings even though it's sometimes it's beyond difficult, for example my ectopic pregnancy last year. Even though I was devastated and nearly died. I appreciate the mental anguish it caused my partner even though I wasn't able to help in that moment in time. Not all women emotionally manipulate men same as not all men physically abusive women. " Firstly I am deeply sorry to you And your fella for your loss, life can be very very cruel Not all physical abusers are men, I totally get that as much as some men are manipulating liars | |||
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"Male suicide is through the top and we live by the idea that women hold the power in every respect accept the physical side of things If women hold the power then tel your man his worth Ask about his mental health Don't go on to them use his mental health to manipulate him Is your relationship really as concrete as you might think ? " You have met some fucked up women if they used your mental health against you. | |||
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"Male suicide is through the top and we live by the idea that women hold the power in every respect accept the physical side of things If women hold the power then tel your man his worth Ask about his mental health Don't go on to them use his mental health to manipulate him Is your relationship really as concrete as you might think ? You have met some fucked up women if they used your mental health against you. " You'd be very surprised what some women's minds work like My expectations are too high though | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? " You've built up some pretty big walls. | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? You've built up some pretty big walls. " When your as unforgettable as me you've got to have your walls high | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you " I think alot of people struggle with that. I'm getting better with age, more so at being honest with myself. | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? You've built up some pretty big walls. When your as unforgettable as me you've got to have your walls high "Resistence is futile. It all comes crashing down eventually and our ego with it. When the right person comes along for you that is. In the meantime you keep pushing out from your safe place. (Or something philosiphical along those lines)  | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you I think alot of people struggle with that. I'm getting better with age, more so at being honest with myself." Has my thread had you thinking at all ? | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? You've built up some pretty big walls. When your as unforgettable as me you've got to have your walls high
Resistence is futile. It all comes crashing down eventually and our ego with it. When the right person comes along for you that is. In the meantime you keep pushing out from your safe place. (Or something philosiphical along those lines) "God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? You've built up some pretty big walls. When your as unforgettable as me you've got to have your walls high
Resistence is futile. It all comes crashing down eventually and our ego with it. When the right person comes along for you that is. In the meantime you keep pushing out from your safe place. (Or something philosiphical along those lines)
God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers "Bless you. You just need a hug like the rest of us. | |||
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"Example Landowners ideology I don't want a women that believes because she's a woman she holds all the power Get where I'm coming from now ? I know my expectations are too high Ladies and gents my cockiness is in fact a by product of ideology and I fucking thrive of it Where is my match ? You've built up some pretty big walls. When your as unforgettable as me you've got to have your walls high
Resistence is futile. It all comes crashing down eventually and our ego with it. When the right person comes along for you that is. In the meantime you keep pushing out from your safe place. (Or something philosiphical along those lines)
God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers
Bless you. You just need a hug like the rest of us. "The saddest of realities these days is that even a hug tends to come at a cost | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you I think alot of people struggle with that. I'm getting better with age, more so at being honest with myself. Has my thread had you thinking at all ?" Very much so. As a woman in her 40's, I was brought up with the old fashioned view on things, but I'm learning lots from younger friends and my outlook is a million miles from my parents. I try to be self aware and I care deeply for my male friends, also trying to bring my son up to be more open. I'm not very good at getting over what I mean, I wish I was more eloquent! | |||
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"Basically a women that's not afraid to be 100% honest to not only myself but to herself also I know I'm asking for the moon and the stars there but that's that Like it said I don't think she exists No offense to you women but I don't know a thing about you I think alot of people struggle with that. I'm getting better with age, more so at being honest with myself. Has my thread had you thinking at all ? Very much so. As a woman in her 40's, I was brought up with the old fashioned view on things, but I'm learning lots from younger friends and my outlook is a million miles from my parents. I try to be self aware and I care deeply for my male friends, also trying to bring my son up to be more open. I'm not very good at getting over what I mean, I wish I was more eloquent!" I don't wish I was anything different I'm me and I bloody adore that | |||
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