FabSwingers.com forum: Stood up twice, should you give them another chance?

By *ild-m OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Nope....walk away as there are plenty more who would meet when they say they will.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, move on.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No he never sent a message to explain why he didn't turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if he goes AWOL like that. Bin him off and forget him.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have a lot of empathy for people and reasons that stop them from keeping a promise. On fabs, in the scene I am a bit harder and I d say twice is enough of YOUR time wasted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been stood up by this guy twice now, first time it was due to work issues so I was fine with that...this time however he arranged the meet but on the day never messaged back?

Should I waste my time anymore ?"

Nope call me instead

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Do as I've done.... Block and move on

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By *ild-m OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Aww thanks everyone I'm blocking and moving on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you're time is worth more than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely don't waste your time.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Been stood up by this guy twice now, first time it was due to work issues so I was fine with that...this time however he arranged the meet but on the day never messaged back?

Should I waste my time anymore ?"

Nope.

NEXTTTTT.

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

No! Once, shame on you. Twice shame on me - that ole expression.

Obviously gets pleasure in it, just block. Owe them no explanation or nothing.

Too many people worried about hurting peoples feelings - what about the feeling of being stood up twice OP?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Been stood up by this guy twice now, first time it was due to work issues so I was fine with that...this time however he arranged the meet but on the day never messaged back?

Should I waste my time anymore ?"

3rd time lucky perhaps? Plenty of good reliable guys out there though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been stood up by this guy twice now, first time it was due to work issues so I was fine with that...this time however he arranged the meet but on the day never messaged back?

Should I waste my time anymore ?"

No, Fuck him off. Couldn’t even be bothered to cancel… wtf

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nope. Unless you wish to be controlled? Because that is what he is doing.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Been stood up by this guy twice now, first time it was due to work issues so I was fine with that...this time however he arranged the meet but on the day never messaged back?

Should I waste my time anymore ?"

A big fat NO! You're obviously a kind, patient and forgiving person OP but from what you've told us, he doesn't deserve a third chance... Move on and have fun.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not and unless they had a water tight reason we would of moved on after one let down.!!

Tony

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No. Standing someone up is inexcusable. Things happen but we live in a connected world so let the person know. Twice though absolutely not. Block. You were generous enough to give them a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use this handy flowchart:

Are you a female?

If yes... absolutely not!! How dare he waste your time. Bin and move on.

If no .. of course!! There may be many valid reasons why they had to cancel, talk to them understand their reasons and give them benefit of the doubt.

Hope that helps, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use this handy flowchart:

Are you a female?

If yes... absolutely not!! How dare he waste your time. Bin and move on.

If no .. of course!! There may be many valid reasons why they had to cancel, talk to them understand their reasons and give them benefit of the doubt.

Hope that helps, OP

Hahahaha

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By *ild-m OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Thanks everyone now blocked, I'm not here to waste my time on some idiot who obviously doesn't deserve me xx

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Nope… once possibly if it was a legitimate reason with notice, but twice? Not a chance

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Once maybe but twice ? Lightning doesn’t tend to strike twice unless Lightning is his Mrs?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Hell no.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

No. I probably would have thought hard about giving a second chance, let alone a third!

Gbat

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

On to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 07/07/21 11:49:50]"

No.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Once maybe but twice ? Lightning doesn’t tend to strike twice unless Lightning is his Mrs?

Or juggling lots of balls and went for the better option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have already given them another chance which is more than most would do x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Thanks everyone now blocked, I'm not here to waste my time on some idiot who obviously doesn't deserve me xx"

Go you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I give one chance only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 chance unless i know them

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

First time I get stood up with no message is the last time I meet them. Life's too bloody short to spend it waiting around in the hope that he'll bother turning up.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Nope xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Thanks everyone now blocked, I'm not here to waste my time on some idiot who obviously doesn't deserve me xx"

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

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No. Were you actually stood up or did they cancel a meet in advance?.

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Not a chance

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

No, 1 let down and that’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just the once is enough for me

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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Once, if it’s an excuse that sounds at least believable, but second time, on the block list you go.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Ummm nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Absolutely not

Stand us up once and no more chances

No need for it at all

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move along nothing to see here.. Or jog the fuck on butty.

Not worth your head space

Jo xx

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope never ...block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No, two strikes and you’re out

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone now blocked, I'm not here to waste my time on some idiot who obviously doesn't deserve me xx"

mwah xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, once is bad enough!

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not even a second thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not...Once ok things do happen. Twice no way!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope.... there's loads of lovely blokes who'd love to meet you I'm sure

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

100% no. If you've even considered it you should give your head a wobble!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Sure. Give him three more chances if he fails to turn up for the next one just to be sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not...

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most people deserve a second chance, most of the time.....

But If they waste that then they def don't deserve another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nawww.... " if a person makes a fool out of you once...shame on them ...if they make a fool out of you twice...shame on you "

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