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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..

It did make me chuckle .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Did they actually say “can’t stand”?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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They like/play with Bi Women and don't like playing with Bi Men, Nothing wrong with that

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A double standard found on fab - Shock horror!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Why did it make you chuckle? And why is it a double standard? It’s a totally different thing.

I don’t understand.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Yes some profile's are like that, states NOT meeting due to Covid-19, then posts a verifying meeting from last night in person saying had a great time playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t see a problem with that. Some people love beef and hate lamb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I can almost gartee they have had meets with some

Someone should tell them there’s something called fab straight ha ha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Don’t see a problem with that. Some people love beef and hate lamb! "

I had pork tonight. Was yummy

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.

Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.

Mr

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why did it make you chuckle? And why is it a double standard? It’s a totally different thing.

I don’t understand. "

Pretty much this - not in the slightest bit double standardy - is like comparing apples and oranges

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Don’t see a problem with that. Some people love beef and hate lamb!

I had a porking tonight. Was yummy "

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.

Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.

Mr "

Brilliant and totally agree

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Did they actually say “can’t stand”?"

Words to that effect but more forthright..

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

How is that a double standard?

It is a preference, nothing more, nothing less.

If the female is bi, are you saying the male must be bi in order not to be implicitly judgmental?

I do not understand the point you are making - could you please explain?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..

It did make me chuckle . "

Meet how they want we would never meet with a bi guy and you know what make me sad people make fun of people preferences.

Why put yourself in a situation that make you uncomfortable.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

All I can say is this. It made me laugh and spit out my cornflakes.. who knows why?

Analyse that x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Don’t see a problem with that. Some people love beef and hate lamb!

I had a porking tonight. Was yummy

"

! Cheeky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one who doesn't see the issue. Hubby and I won't meet bi women yet he is bi. In fact that just makes logical sense to me.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"All I can say is this. It made me laugh and spit out my cornflakes.. who knows why?

Analyse that x"

All choices deserve equal respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say is this. It made me laugh and spit out my cornflakes.. who knows why?

Analyse that x"

Are you 12?

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"All I can say is this. It made me laugh and spit out my cornflakes.. who knows why?

Analyse that x

Are you 12?"

Awe shucks...big but not that big...

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Meh.

It’s not even nearly a double standard.

There isn’t a secret pact amongst all bisexuals to state that we all must treat each other the same! To be honest, I don’t think that I’d be able to put up with the performative expectation and fetishising of my sexuality.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Meh.

It’s not even nearly a double standard.

There isn’t a secret pact amongst all bisexuals to state that we all must treat each other the same! To be honest, I don’t think that I’d be able to put up with the performative expectation and fetishising of my sexuality.

"

Don't blame you.. perhaps best to leave the site

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By *iguy for funMan
over a year ago

CIRENCESTER


"Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.

Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.

Mr "

well i don't like showtunes but am partial to strictly - does that count?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Ha ha I can almost gartee they have had meets with some

Someone should tell them there’s something called fab straight ha ha "

This is an attitude that puts me as a straight man off a bi male (couple) meets.

If our preferences aren’t respected, why risk it.

We all have rights to our preferences, that also includes straight men.

My wife is bi, I’m not into bi men, nor is my wife, bi men are not a preference for either of us.

Also didn’t like cornflakes, suddenly warming to them.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's not a double standard as no doubt the man in the couple is straight and he doesn't want a guy touching him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi... i have on my profile that im not interested in bi men... does that make me out of order and prejudice?? Or does that make me free to have a choice as to who touches my body, bearing in mind i also have an age range preference and refuse point blank to meet those under 35, so should i let any old random 18 year old crawl all over me? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..

It did make me chuckle . "

Why?

I don't get it.

So the lady likes cock and pussy, but the bloke only likes pussy.

What's wrong with that?

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By *tormexexexMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Bi men are just men who like both,doesn't mean they have to have sex with both if your meeting is a couple surely it makes sense to state boundaries at the start. You could be missing out if you avoid bi because of an assumption they have no self control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha I can almost gartee they have had meets with some

Someone should tell them there’s something called fab straight ha ha

This is an attitude that puts me as a straight man off a bi male (couple) meets.

If our preferences aren’t respected, why risk it.

We all have rights to our preferences, that also includes straight men.

My wife is bi, I’m not into bi men, nor is my wife, bi men are not a preference for either of us.

Also didn’t like cornflakes, suddenly warming to them."

There’s no attitude at all it’s just the sad truth ask any tv/ts and they tell you the same more than willing to open my mail box I get a real kick out this stament we don’t meet bi guys

And further more I not the one you should be mad at I not the one trying to trick people I am just the one telling you the true hard facts as I see them from my mail box

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