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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage." I’m confuzzled  | |||
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"I just put a pin in it " Quick and easy  | |||
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"Sparkle is on the wine already "I wish! | |||
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"I’m looking for a lady to be in my spunk bubble  "How is that quest going  | |||
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"Sparkle is on the wine already
I wish! "Is that because the lockdown will be over soon?? Explain please beautiful soul | |||
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"I’m looking for a lady to be in my spunk bubble "Don’t be gross | |||
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"Great to see another forum wind up thread  "A wind up how? | |||
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"Clearly I've missed something lol" .you and me both | |||
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"Am I right in thinking that you're saying you enjoy watching people falling out on here OP? "Not at all. Totally different aspect I've saw lately | |||
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"Am I right in thinking that you're saying you enjoy watching people falling out on here OP? ".sparkle is not like that. | |||
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"Great to see another forum wind up thread
A wind up how? "Maybe I misread it and a bubble bursting and fall out for someone or something is a good thing? Apologies for that | |||
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"I’m looking for a lady to be in my spunk bubble
How is that quest going "Not very well TBH. I’ve no idea why?? | |||
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"Am I right in thinking that you're saying you enjoy watching people falling out on here OP?
Not at all.
Totally different aspect I've saw lately "Still none the wiser | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage." Is everything ok? | |||
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"Are you talking about being in the popular crowd, then being sent to Coventry?" If anything I'd rather be in Coventry  | |||
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"Ahhh….I love Dr Pimple Popper! Some of those beauties go off like Mount Vesuvius. It’s most curiously, extraordinarily satisfying "Just like this place | |||
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"I’m looking for a laddie to be in my spunk bubble
How is that quest going
Not very well TBH. I’ve no idea why?? "I would have thought you were inundated with spunky bubbles | |||
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"Ahhh….I love Dr Pimple Popper! Some of those beauties go off like Mount Vesuvius. It’s most curiously, extraordinarily satisfying
Just like this place "You need to elaborate. | |||
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"Ooooh now if we were talking bubble wrap, then that's orgasmic. "I have a whole role of the stuff for emergency. | |||
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"Ooooh now if we were talking bubble wrap, then that's orgasmic.
I have a whole role of the stuff for emergency. "Can I come round to play?? | |||
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"Ooooh now if we were talking bubble wrap, then that's orgasmic.
I have a whole role of the stuff for emergency.
Can I come round to play?? "Absolutely! I have plenty and I'm a sharer. | |||
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"See....wind up thread.
It does feel like it.
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! " Well you haven't given anyone much to work with? | |||
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! " Well what do you expect people to do when you post a vague topic and then just cryptic clues. | |||
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"I’m looking for a laddie to be in my spunk bubble
How is that quest going
Not very well TBH. I’ve no idea why??
I would have thought you were inundated with spunky bubbles "No, just tribute pics these days | |||
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"43 posts in and NTFW what the hell this is supposed to be. Guess I’m not in the know/bubble "I don't think any of us are. | |||
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! Well you haven't given anyone much to work with?" Exactly... | |||
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! Well you haven't given anyone much to work with? Exactly..." So a windup thread and them criticise people for making assumptions which is what has happened. | |||
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"I'm double jabbed...I don't need bubbles anymore "Neither do I | |||
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! Well you haven't given anyone much to work with? Exactly..." Is this like a fab version of vaguebooking?  | |||
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"Seen it on other threads how quick people are to make assumptions. It makes interesting reading. " People are quick to judge when people put out things intending to make people judge which is what you have done so I think its actually quite unpleasant and unnecessary. | |||
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"I'm double jabbed...I don't need bubbles anymore "Ah, so you’re a mobile 5G mast for the government now  | |||
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"Funny how people are quick to judge and make up their own theories!!! Well you haven't given anyone much to work with? Exactly... Is this like a fab version of vaguebooking? " | |||
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"Seen it on other threads how quick people are to make assumptions. It makes interesting reading. People are quick to judge when people put out things intending to make people judge which is what you have done so I think its actually quite unpleasant and unnecessary. " | |||
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"Seen it on other threads how quick people are to make assumptions. It makes interesting reading. People are quick to judge when people put out things intending to make people judge which is what you have done so I think its actually quite unpleasant and unnecessary. " Is it......thank you for your observation | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice?" Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage." I was just thinking the same. | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. " He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail "He would have started a thread Peace and love  | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail "Nah, he would have dared you to | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice?" Some bubble may have broken but who's too say it's about any one else on here!!!! People don't need all the facts laid bare...I wasn't asking for advise!!!!! | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Some bubble may have broken but who's too say it's about any one else on here!!!! People don't need all the facts laid bare...I wasn't asking for advise!!!!!" So a pointless thread aimed at causing drama and then you have judged people for commenting on the thread that you have created with the intention of winding people up that is not OK! | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail
He would have started a thread
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Some bubble may have broken but who's too say it's about any one else on here!!!! People don't need all the facts laid bare...I wasn't asking for advise!!!!!" Ouch... where's the exit | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail
He would have started a thread
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Some bubble may have broken but who's too say it's about any one else on here!!!! People don't need all the facts laid bare...I wasn't asking for advise!!!!! So a pointless thread aimed at causing drama and then you have judged people for commenting on the thread that you have created with the intention of winding people up that is not OK!" All so you have just said it wasn't necessarily about people on fab that the title of the thread suggests otherwise. | |||
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"Ahhh….I love Dr Pimple Popper! Some of those beauties go off like Mount Vesuvius. It’s most curiously, extraordinarily satisfying "Me too. I love squeezing spots | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail
He would have started a thread
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Errr it’s bubble gum from my japs eye actually so nurrrrrrr "Bubblegum and spunk everywhere! The carpets will never be the same again! | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Maybe Mr Mystique blew a giant bubble gum bubble from his anus. He would certainly have told us so, in graphic detail
He would have started a thread
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Errr it’s bubble gum from my japs eye actually so nurrrrrrr
Bubblegum and spunk everywhere! The carpets will never be the same again! "Brings a whole new meaning to Hubba Bubba | |||
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"I feel the post is more an observation on Fab forum in general rather than about anything in particular. Seeing a carnage thread is a bit like rubberneckers at a car crash. Can't do anything about it but fascinating to watch." Is that not the course of most threads on here? Though this took more of an incoherent tangent than many. But maybe that was the intent. Quite clever …. Maybe it was intended as a piece of performance art! | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx" People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others." yes but do we know shes going through?? | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. yes but do we know shes going through??" What *** | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. yes but do we know shes going through??" I dont because I dont read every thread and post and I'm sure others don't either. | |||
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"I feel the post is more an observation on Fab forum in general rather than about anything in particular. Seeing a carnage thread is a bit like rubberneckers at a car crash. Can't do anything about it but fascinating to watch. Is that not the course of most threads on here? Though this took more of an incoherent tangent than many. But maybe that was the intent. Quite clever …. Maybe it was intended as a piece of performance art! " I quite like the more tangenital threads and ones which take a surreal turn. Most threads aren't car crash carnage but when they are they can be spectacular. | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. yes but do we know shes going through?? I dont because I dont read every thread and post and I'm sure others don't either." Xxx | |||
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"What have I missed now? "If you figure it out can you tell me too | |||
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"Do you think you guys are thinking of bubble in the Covid sense of the meaning where people can pair up? Perhaps she meant someone's bubble bursting in terms of their own bubble, what they expected from Fab and being brought down to earth a bit for their arrogance? Just my theory though "Unless it’s the ops bubble I don’t see how it’s anyone else’s business. | |||
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"Do you think you guys are thinking of bubble in the Covid sense of the meaning where people can pair up? Perhaps she meant someone's bubble bursting in terms of their own bubble, what they expected from Fab and being brought down to earth a bit for their arrogance? Just my theory though "Wibble | |||
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"Do you think you guys are thinking of bubble in the Covid sense of the meaning where people can pair up? Perhaps she meant someone's bubble bursting in terms of their own bubble, what they expected from Fab and being brought down to earth a bit for their arrogance? Just my theory though
Unless it’s the ops bubble I don’t see how it’s anyone else’s business. "True, I was just speculating though like most on this thread | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. yes but do we know shes going through??" Does she know, or indeed care, what anyone else is going through? The way the OP was worded could have really upset someone that has just had a falling out with a fab friend! Most people weren't judging, just asking for more information or if their interpretation was correct. | |||
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"I think on here drama is at the forefront for some people whether they are creating it or thriving on the back of others however if your going to start a thread with little clarity on the subject in this case the ‘bubble’ expect people to question what you are referring to - the responses of the OP have been on the defensive side when people have made there own assumptions on the topic yet she seems reluctant to divulge what this thread is actually about Maybe it’s meant to be cryptic but if that’s the case people can and will make there own conclusions on the topic and your supposed enjoyment of it " Of course it’s meant to be cryptic. These type of threads always are | |||
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"Can we please be a bit considerate and nice to OP xx Remember behind words are feelings and people xxx People have been considerate to the OP but she has started a thread which she has admitted was an experiment to prove people judge and has criticised them for it so I actually think the OP needs to have some consideration for others. yes but do we know shes going through?? Does she know, or indeed care, what anyone else is going through? The way the OP was worded could have really upset someone that has just had a falling out with a fab friend! Most people weren't judging, just asking for more information or if their interpretation was correct. " | |||
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"OP. These kind of musings should be had with friends that you can trust, not posted on the fab forum where too many people jump to too many conclusions. Uncertainty about what is being talked about can make many insecure in the current climate. I don’t really get why but it is what it is. "You are right. I was going to explain but do you know what...people have and always will jump to conclusions. | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage." O yes! It's compelling viewing! I came across another pimple popper...I then branched off to ear wax removal! | |||
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"OP. These kind of musings should be had with friends that you can trust, not posted on the fab forum where too many people jump to too many conclusions. Uncertainty about what is being talked about can make many insecure in the current climate. I don’t really get why but it is what it is.
You are right. I was going to explain but do you know what...people have and always will jump to conclusions. "But people can only judge on the information they have. If you dont want people to have an opinion or judge then maybe it's best not to put it out there in the 1st place and as incandescent said talk to trusted friends. | |||
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"Ahhh….I love Dr Pimple Popper! Some of those beauties go off like Mount Vesuvius. It’s most curiously, extraordinarily satisfying
Me too. I love squeezing spots "I prefer blackheads | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage. O yes! It's compelling viewing! I came across another pimple popper...I then branched off to ear wax removal!" Oh I couldn't watch that... | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage. O yes! It's compelling viewing! I came across another pimple popper...I then branched off to ear wax removal! Oh I couldn't watch that..." Off topic Looking at it will be my job soon  | |||
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"OP. These kind of musings should be had with friends that you can trust, not posted on the fab forum where too many people jump to too many conclusions. Uncertainty about what is being talked about can make many insecure in the current climate. I don’t really get why but it is what it is.
You are right. I was going to explain but do you know what...people have and always will jump to conclusions.
But people can only judge on the information they have.
If you dont want people to have an opinion or judge then maybe it's best not to put it out there in the 1st place and as incandescent said talk to trusted friends. "But surely the judgment base of which they jump is theirs? And why jump, why not enquire? It's like someone saying... my dad died... people automatically respond with I'm so sorry to hear that... no my dad was a prize cunt and we can now live without fear. Just an example of course. But I think it shows how we project our inference. People are fascinating creatures don't you think? | |||
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"Not nice to see it burst but its like Dr Pimple Popper...you can't help but watch the carnage. O yes! It's compelling viewing! I came across another pimple popper...I then branched off to ear wax removal! Oh I couldn't watch that..." No I didn't think i could! But it has that strange grossed out satisfaction! Trust me my face and body is recoiling whilst watching! | |||
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"OP. These kind of musings should be had with friends that you can trust, not posted on the fab forum where too many people jump to too many conclusions. Uncertainty about what is being talked about can make many insecure in the current climate. I don’t really get why but it is what it is.
You are right. I was going to explain but do you know what...people have and always will jump to conclusions.
But people can only judge on the information they have.
If you dont want people to have an opinion or judge then maybe it's best not to put it out there in the 1st place and as incandescent said talk to trusted friends.
But surely the judgment base of which they jump is theirs?
And why jump, why not enquire?
It's like someone saying... my dad died... people automatically respond with I'm so sorry to hear that... no my dad was a prize cunt and we can now live without fear.
Just an example of course. But I think it shows how we project our inference.
People are fascinating creatures don't you think?
"True, but lots of people did ask. Anyway, I get the sense this has escalated more than it needed to. I've no intention of making it worse. I didn't mean to make assumptions, but a bit more info would have helped too. C'est la vie! Hope you're ok OP, I see from another thread you might be having a tough day, so I'm not wanting to make it any worse. X | |||
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"The only clues you gave was that a 'fab bubble' had broken, that there had been carnage, and that you were enjoying it. Those clues alone were sufficient to make most people think something upsetting might have occurred, but you wouldn't give more than that. You just let people stew. I'm not sure how that's very nice? Some bubble may have broken but who's too say it's about any one else on here!!!! People don't need all the facts laid bare...I wasn't asking for advise!!!!!" It sounds really personal to you though. Don't think this is the place for it. Maybe sign out for a bit and see how you feel. It's not meant to sound patronising btw xxxxx | |||
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