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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive noticed that most people want to chat first before meeting, which makes sense. But i wondered if sometimes people just go straight for meeting ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Never. It's a safety thing.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Ive noticed that most people want to chat first before meeting, which makes sense. But i wondered if sometimes people just go straight for meeting ?"

They would have to be crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never.

Her x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope, not even as a couple and deffo never on my single profile.

Like to know there's a connection and attraction for all of us, before we'd consider a meet.

Miss

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I chat for a while before I meet .The one and only time I met within 48 hours of a first message was the worst and scariest meet I've had .So now I chat for a good while you usually get a pretty good idea what the person is really like then.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

As in all walks of life, there will be some x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

You should never say never but this is one exception.

1. It is safer to do so (And I always tell at least 1 friend where I will be, address and all)

2. I want to reduce the risk of meeting someone with whom I have nothing more in common than membership on this site.

Oh - and at least one social ... always!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As i thought, it makes sense to chat first but i do find the first meet can still be akward. Maybe thats just me though lol

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By *atch0101Man
over a year ago

Here

No I would prefer a chat. I enjoy the teasing and banter that goes with it.

Over the time I've been on this site I've been just happy to chinwag. It can break a ho-hum or miserable day up.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Ive noticed that most people want to chat first before meeting, which makes sense. But i wondered if sometimes people just go straight for meeting ?"

If they happen to be at the same club as me, no issues but it doesn’t mean either of us will take anything further.

But I’m not keen on meeting without some dialogue first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but, after a nasty incident, I don’t anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I’d never even consider it.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

A little chat first . Saying that I have just had a confidences hit here so let’s go with meet straight away.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We always like to have a good chat on here before we arrange anything like a meet and then will not meet without a phone conversation beforehand

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never and allways a social first! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what clubs are for. Can’t imagine what would lead someone to meet a random with no checks unless they fancy the risk of being an organ donor.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Some do, I never would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt do this no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not a wise idea.

Some might enjoy the thrill of it but we would always chat first to build up a connection.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

Chats first but remember bad people hide behind chat, make sure there verified, social meets in public ie coffee shop or pub

Lets be safe all as fun comes later

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In 4 years I've only ever met once without chatting and getting to know someone.

That was a spur of the moment decision one Sunday morning and while it was different for me and I've no regrets, it was purely for her pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout.

She messaged that night to thank me and then blocked me and I've never spoken to her since.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

What if you meet and there is no attraction? What if what you want different things? Just can’t imagine it.

Lily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if you meet and there is no attraction? What if what you want different things? Just can’t imagine it.

Lily "

Thats very true but i can imagine some people would just meet for random sex and not be fussed about being compatable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done

I've met some I've never seen a photo of

I had more pleasant surprises than nasty shocks

Can't say those I met thought the same though

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I've had a quick chat and peruse of profile and met within an hour , turned into a regular couple meet for a while, so I guess you have to feel the vibe. I wouldn't advise it for single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they do. No different to having a night out, seeing someone you fancy and having sex. I'd never condone that though.

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