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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Most hide i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most hide i think "

Thank god for that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide. Saves abuse from guys you looked at and didn't message

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes a lot of women use stealth mode, I do as well as you get messages after you’ve viewed some guys.

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Wow do they really do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide learned from early on if like will wink or fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was starting to think im doin somthing wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hide and seek.

A lot of people hide but if they are interested they will message.

Unfortunately just like you you I get a lot of male/tv attraction and messages.

Maybe I need to convert

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

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By *akeyFunTimesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Mexborough


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??"

I hide it on my personal profile. I don’t want you knowing I’m looking at your pics 10 times a day.

- Layla

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

I hide it on my personal profile. I don’t want you knowing I’m looking at your pics 10 times a day.

- Layla "

Id be happy knowing that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them "

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh I viewed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ohhh I viewed "

On the sly tho lol

At least thats one i know of thanks lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??"

You have a certain look OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

You have a certain look OP "

Anyone can look lol

OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages "

Ive looked at yours countless times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women are very sneaky at peeking on profiles.

Stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages

Ive looked at yours countless times lol"

And I've never sent you a FAF message lol. You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use ninja mode... makes my fab time more enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"

I can’t speak for everyone but a view doesn’t equal a message back from me. I’ll happily take as many casual views as I can get!

I’ll more than likely have a perv back and may well drop a Fab (or seven ), but I generally only message back if there’s a point to it, i.e. a specific compliment, something in common on our profiles or an interest in potentially meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages

Ive looked at yours countless times lol

And I've never sent you a FAF message lol. You're welcome "

Thanks lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most hide i think "

Really? Are you saying you may have viewed me after all??

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm weird i don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"

I think most men would view back and send a wink

Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?

I think most men would view back and send a wink

Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages"

I have previously viewed you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?

I think most men would view back and send a wink

Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages

I have previously viewed you. "

Really ? See that wouldve been nice to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've viewed you now OP. Nice body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always in as I don’t want lots of begging letters in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"

Tbh yes. Generally I don't send the first message because I understand that women get bombarded with dick pics and ridiculous requests. So I let people message me first and then I will reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've viewed you now OP. Nice body "

Wow thats made my day thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get why women do it but it's a shame. Since joining the forums and getting better understanding of how fab works I don't message anyone unless they message first.

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

You’ll find most people hide their views - as well you might just be having a view & someone might see that as something else

(Guys on fab seem to think if a woman says hello, she wants to fuck you. So I’m not surprised)

Having said that - I do notice some people constantly viewing my profile…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've viewed you now OP. Nice body

Wow thats made my day thanks "

U can look anytime

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them "

Why would it? Surely if they've not followed it up with a message or even a wink, then it suggests they looked, weren't interested enough to find out more and moved on, which potentially would be quite the opposite.

Personally I don't see that the "Who's Looked At Me" function serves any purpose other than frustrate those who try and find meaning in it - especially as a lot of users (not just women) go for the stealth option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

Why would it? Surely if they've not followed it up with a message or even a wink, then it suggests they looked, weren't interested enough to find out more and moved on, which potentially would be quite the opposite.

I get wat your saying and i wouldnt message anyone that had looked and did not at least wink

Maybe women only view men whove viewed them first then

Otherwise i do only attract men or have a terrible profile lol

Personally I don't see that the "Who's Looked At Me" function serves any purpose other than frustrate those who try and find meaning in it - especially as a lot of users (not just women) go for the stealth option."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't stealth view, but I do have my message filters up. I like seeing who's looked at me.

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By *untimeabcWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

I hide..It makes life easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them

But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"
not sure about most, I tend to(on the rare occasion I get a look) have a look back. Then if I get nothing more I leave well alone. Had a wink back before which lead to a few massages back and forth. Wasn't going anywhere but was nice to know that they fancied me. Unfortunately the majority ruin for the few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh I viewed

On the sly tho lol

At least thats one i know of thanks lol x"

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt me

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By *our HeroMan
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire


"Most hide i think

Thank god for that lol"

My thoughts exactly! I was starting to think I was becoming some sort of guy/TV idol or something!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible for them to hide in fairness. I can imagine the curiosity (abuse) they get otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??"

I’ve just viewed, very nice profile did it show up that I viewed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i dont hide, will that mean ill get loads of faf messages? Maybe i should change it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

I’ve just viewed, very nice profile did it show up that I viewed?"

Yes it did thanks yours too

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By *dul147Man
over a year ago

Whitehaven

Cheeky cheeky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a way to get people to view me !! Im a genius lol ssshhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women and a fair few couples browse in mode, so you'll never know if, when or how often they've been perving your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you chase after everyone who smiles at you in the street? Maybe on the odd occasion but it's very rare.

Don't know why anyone presumes because they've been looked at there's an interest, if there was then that person would surely message you.

I check out people I don't see any of them messaging me back & wouldn't expect them to either, as welcomed as they would be, whether there's an interest on my side or not. A polite no thank you or lets chat is all that's needed. If you're unlucky & keep getting bombarded then put a note on your profile to say something about it, can't hurt. As for those who continue to bombard or send insults I think it's sad that some people have to result to abusive behaviour & bad manners.

Of course I presume anyone who is abusive, threatening or such can be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh maybe I should turn mine off

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I hide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide"

So if u see someone u like do u send a wink ? Or message ?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dunno

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes"

Well im doing somthing wrong lol

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

I hide

I got fed up of the, 'saw you looking, don't be shy' messages.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset. "

This made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset. "

Lol i hope thats not my case

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

Lol i hope thats not my case "

Nah, your pics are good

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

This made me giggle. "

Some pics are truly vile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide

I got fed up of the, 'saw you looking, don't be shy' messages. "

Those are the best! “Don’t be shy”

Yes I’m a regular wall flower over here with my pictures of me in my lingerie for all to see. Don’t look at me I’m shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

Lol i hope thats not my case

Nah, your pics are good "

Shucks thanks

Still dont get a wink tho lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

Lol i hope thats not my case

Nah, your pics are good

Shucks thanks

Still dont get a wink tho lol"

No cos you live miles away, what would be the point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'

I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.

Lol i hope thats not my case

Nah, your pics are good

Shucks thanks

Still dont get a wink tho lol

No cos you live miles away, what would be the point? "

Moral ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics

Dont expect a reply

Just bein nice

Maybe thats just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its like fabbing the hot photos you do it just say nice pic without expecting to meet them

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago


"I hide

I got fed up of the, 'saw you looking, don't be shy' messages.

Those are the best! “Don’t be shy”

Yes I’m a regular wall flower over here with my pictures of me in my lingerie for all to see. Don’t look at me I’m shy "

Yes!! I'm a prude, I was truly horrified by such filth. I thought sure was for the shy and retiring type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But i do realise women are weary of being bombarded

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I hide

So if u see someone u like do u send a wink ? Or message ?"

Yes I do

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

always on a stealth mode strangers don’t need to know how pervy I am

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics

Dont expect a reply

Just bein nice

Maybe thats just me"

Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always on a stealth mode strangers don’t need to know how pervy I am "

this for me too

NBVN x

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

Plymouth/March PE15


"always on a stealth mode strangers don’t need to know how pervy I am

this for me too

NBVN x"

But looking very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always hide. When I didn’t, a few minutes later I’d get “did you like what you saw? Wanna fuck?”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics

Dont expect a reply

Just bein nice

Maybe thats just me

Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages. "

Oh to be popular aye lol

Nah i get that

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

Plymouth/March PE15


"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics

Dont expect a reply

Just bein nice

Maybe thats just me

Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages. "

Cannot wink as out of age range but looking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always hide. When I didn’t, a few minutes later I’d get “did you like what you saw? Wanna fuck?”"

You mustve been looking at some fit fellas to have the front to say that to u lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide"

God u werent messing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide

God u werent messing lol"

Champion hider here, I'd say hide and seek but I've never been caught for it to be my turn to seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??"

Viewed in mode

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

Viewed in mode"

U always do xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??

Viewed in mode

U always do xxx"

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