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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for.

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I am always up for making friends

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We've made some fantastic friends through fab

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve been fortunate to make some lovely friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "

Oh definitely. I used to have loads of male friends as a teen, but not after marraige and I missed that. I enjoy male energy and humour and its not limited to the sexual.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Mist of the people on my friends list are platonic, which is cool.

It's not all about sexy times.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I have made some amazing friends on fab that I have met at clubs, these are people that I would not play with, I'm not their cup of tea or they are not my go to naughty fun, but I can laugh and chat for hour with them.

So "yes" is an honest answer x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been lucky I've found some great friends on here it's not all about the sex .But an added bonus when you have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sad at all OP, well I hope not anyway seeing as I'm hoping for this as well. I don't really know many people where I live since splitting with my ex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for your responses it does give me hope I’m just always working so fab for me is an escape and will be very much about the social friendship aspect as much as the fun, again I’d need a connection to even consider fun. I’m very optimistic and excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't come on this site looking for Friends as such however I have made some amazing friends on this site and some of them will be friends for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think making friends is an inevitable part of social interaction

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Not sad OP! I’ve met some incredible women on here over the years - some of them I even just meet for lunch & a catch-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and very much looking for friends. Friends that can come round after we have been out for dinner and fuck to the small hours, but still friends. M

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It wasn’t what I expected at all but I have over the years. Some I don’t even really associate with fab anymore. They’re in my real life for good x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're very open to making friends. The problem we've encountered is that the people we've met haven't been. Probably that says more about us than them.

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By *llabouttheboobsCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Absolutely

I’ve made awesome friends through fab. Having moved across country just before the first lock down my fab friends have helped me get a job, supported me through having covid, parents death and work drama. Given me great advice as well as multiple orgasms

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I've made some very good, purely platonic friends on here. It's just another medium for meeting people, just like the pub, work, or anywhere...the more people you meet, the more chance you have of clicking with some and building friendships.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It doesn't sound sad at all Op. I've made some brilliant friends and I'm very lucky and happy to have done so, it's really nice being able to talk openly to people. I'm meeting a friend this weekend and I'm at Tigger level of excitement already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made some friends also some I thought we friends and had lots of fun so bit of everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Such wonderful people, thankyou. My faith has definitely been restored in the site as I was actually losing a little bit of hope thinking my approach just wasn’t cut out for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made some amazing friends through fab. Men and women, some who I have played with and some that I haven’t.

For me, this is a lifestyle that hinges on the social aspect more than the play aspect. X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The last thing I expected to find when I signed up was friendship of any kind - yet that's exactly what I have found - there are people I've met through here that I'd consider just as good a friends as any of my others, some of whom I've never met face to face, but have found a strong connection and friendship with, even if there is nothing sexual there.

As someone else said, it's possible to find friends anywhere that you interact with others, whether that be at work, doing a hobby, or even on a sex site.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes i have a couple of friends and several fwbs

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm hoping for both in one! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I definitely looking for both, a friendship and intense fun surely that’s the dream x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I never anticipated making friends on here, but I have to say that's been the most rewarding thing about it. I've had some amazing sex, don't get me wrong, but the non-sexual connections are more precious by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I never anticipated making friends on here, but I have to say that's been the most rewarding thing about it. I've had some amazing sex, don't get me wrong, but the non-sexual connections are more precious by far."

I completely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m really looking forward to that aspect of being here, a coffee and a conversation with good company is something I definitely miss. I do occasionally have a coffee and chat with customers before or during carrying out work for them that’s as wild as my social life gets x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did actually put up a thread last night regarding a handyman service I’d be happy to offer in the northeast and Yorkshire area but maybe that’s me sounding a little desperate despite it not wanting to come across that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always down for friends with benefits

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes, we love the social side of fab too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have both! Don't see anything wrong with that, it's what you want from fab too each to their own

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So refreshing reading these comments thank you for taking time to respond x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a good friend through here that started of as fun led to just friends and a gf that started as fun then led to a relationship, it’s a good place to meet people that don’t look down on our filthy minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sad at all OP. A connection is still a connection. I'm here for whatever connections I can make.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It is a lovely idea OP, not sad at all. I envy those who have managed to find such good friends on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Who’d have thought some great connections could be made amongst a bunch of wankers, pervs and dirty fuckers!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I value the friendships I’ve made way above anything else.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We very much enjoy meeting people from here socially and if it develops to sex that’s a bonus but it doesn’t always happen. I spend a long time chatting to people to build a connection. That’s not what everyone is looking for and that’s fine but it’s what works best for us.

Kx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had no idea what would happen when I was signed up to the site by a friend at the time.

I am still good friends with the third chap I met. I only do socials first anyway.

Also have another friend from way back as well.

It is totally possible OP

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Plus all the great friends met from doing the STPs

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

As friendships come & go I always say you can never have enough friends.

If lockdown shows us something - bein' alone ain't good for you either....

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Made some amazing friends through fab, some will always be purely platonic but each are just as important as playmates. It's that smorgasbord of like minded perverts and people you'd never have met otherwise that makes fab great.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm here for both, sex with someone you get on well with is always a bonus and tbh who doesn't want more friends in their life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We weren't looking for friends but have met some lovely people along the way who are fast becoming that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m not really friendly as such. I’ll be your friend whilst the dick is available but otherwise I tend to lose interest (on here).

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Some of my best friends I met via fab, no sexual interest. We have days/nights out together, go on holidays and attend swingers clubs. I'd be lost without some of them.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Friendship with maybe some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I value the friendships I’ve made way above anything else. "

Can I just say Saffron , you have gorgeous looking eyes

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The friends I've met from clubs and venues are the most important part of the lifestyle to me

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Both would be lovely

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have made some great friends from fab and some great friends with benefits.

I look forward to making more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both would be lovely "

^this^ but I'm not sure I'd sleep with my friends, I haven't yet

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

It would be ideal for me if the people I have fun with also end up being friends … I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "

I didn't come here looking for friends, but I have gravitated more to the forums and really enjoy some of the posts, the wit, cleverness. It's quite refreshing

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"We've made some fantastic friends through fab "

Same here.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have made some good friends through Fab but I never set out to find friends this way. I am however convinced by some profiles that some members use Fab more as a friend finding site than a casual sex site.

[Comment by the FMSBO* - "People can use the site for whatever reason they want within the site rules"]

* Fab Minstry for Stating the Bloody Obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can only hope to become friends with some of you wonderful people, please don’t hesitate to say hello from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New friends are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd like to make new friends for sure

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m only really after a few specific types of meets on here. So more than happy to create a few friendships that are purely platonic.

I actually prefer a good night out than a steamy night in, so friendships are as important.

*edit A steamy morning in can happen after the crazy night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely friends first then see where it leads..

Think connections are important

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "

For me it's about trust. So definitely got to get on with them on friendship level before giving my body to them. I really don't like messages from blank profiles asking to meet tonight. not my thing

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We have made some great friends thanks to fab. They helped us through very dark times and we’ll always be grateful for that x

J x

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Made some good friends here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought I’d actually connected with somebody on a friendship level after a social coffee, unfortunately I didn’t feel the chemistry between us but was honest and polite and agreed to be friends, now she’s left the site and I feel terrible about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I’d love to make some more open minded like minded friends, it’s definitely not all about the sex for me. I like people and guess it’s nice to have friends who get you and that you can share this side of with.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here"

Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been lucky I've found some great friends on here it's not all about the sex .But an added bonus when you have both "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made some really good friends on here and we feel it's all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made some new friends through fab

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've got some amazing friends from fab. They have been a lifeline for me and both figuratively and literally have saved my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I am not looking to make friends on here, for me it's only about having fun.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

There are some lovely people on here I like to chat with and have silly conversations…covid led us to this situation and places like this keep the sanity!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have made some really good friends (some non sexual).

You can literally find whatever you are looking for on here x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here

Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour "

They sound like awesome folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure what i want

i cant have what i had so i must take what i need i have no choice

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Yes to friends, I joined for the fun aspect but quickly realised both were on here

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here

Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour

They sound like awesome folk "

I’d don’t know? Nora knows some dodgy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes looking for friends and fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, why not. I've made a few already.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Friends you can never have enough of and anything that escalates is also a bonus in the same field of enjoyment.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I wasn't looking for friends but I've found a handful of good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only looking for friends at the moment, I’m here for the friends I already have.

It’s going to take a long time for me to trust anyone enough to open up for more anyway but it’s better if it comes from friendship anyway

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here

Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour

They sound like awesome folk

I’d don’t know? Nora knows some dodgy people "

Only the fellas… the birds are ace!!!

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I have made some great friends on here. In fact I met one of them for the first time on Tuesday and we had afternoon tea

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I didn’t come looking for friends in that way but I found some along the way. They keep me sane and laughing, respect who I am my boundaries but I know they are there if I need them and vice versa. Can’t wait to catch up again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think il just be here to be found

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I've found all flavours of friends on Fab, it's been most unexpected, and so very welcome! There are some fabulous folk here

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Let us be honest, not too many couples will tell their pure vanilla friends they are swingers so there will always be a bit held back.

With Fab friends you can tell the full gory details of last night's gangbang and feel totally comfortable. So good friendships can be even better if those involved get on well.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

love to make more fab friends. message me

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