FabSwingers.com forum: Fake account

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Easy - meet and fuck everyone that sends a message apparently

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I would hazard a guess it’s guys accusing you of being fake as you won’t meet, reply to them and rather than them accept that you just don’t want to, they look for another reason.

She won’t fuck me, must be a fake

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Can I see your passport?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

Try to ignore them.

If they can't take you at your word then they're not worth knowing. IMO

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Send pic doing a handstand with a spoon balancing off your nose or you’re fake.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts? "

The answer is clear..... Fuck them all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo copy your buttocks and post as your avatar. The only sure proof for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thanks all. It’s just annoying and it’s kinda getting me down a bit. These aren’t guys that I have declined, they have literally come into my inbox purely to give me abuse about being “fake”

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Reading your profile, why do they bother contacting you as you clearly state your not meeting. Just totally ignore them and enjoy the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Photo copy your buttocks and post as your avatar. The only sure proof for me. "

Haha I’d need to put my username on each cheek to prove that they are my buttocks

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

You know you are real, the people you have met know you are real, the ones you choose to meet in the future will know you are real.

Those you ignore or reject will claim you to be fake because you didn't drop what you were doing and fuck them there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts? "

Well you don't look fake to me.

A the one's that do say it is because they know you're out of their league.

There is punching above your waist and there's I want to be an astronaut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha thanks all. It’s just annoying and it’s kinda getting me down a bit. These aren’t guys that I have declined, they have literally come into my inbox purely to give me abuse about being “fake” "

You should report any abusive messages to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna meet a cake account.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should ignore them and I will report them from now on but omg it’s annoying as hell and spoils the experience of using the site quite a bit for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your pics I can sort of see why they assume that. No excuse for abuse though. I agree you should report nasty comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That probably it is because a guy can’t accept that u don’t want to fuck them every body as they own taste in men or women don’t let it get too u I had it too in the pass hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually message just to call someone fake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than say no to the men , start saying yes most of not all will either, block you or disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probs a rubbish way to make you engage with them. Much the way of:

'can i ask a Q' or 'i kow you won't reply to this' Or 'hi again, great to see you' Or 'i saw you at the weekend'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do people actually message just to call someone fake??"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looking at your pics I can sort of see why they assume that. No excuse for abuse though. I agree you should report nasty comments."

Why though? Because I have nice pictures or because some are professional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing btw OP

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think your only solution is to stop being gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You look amazing btw OP

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think your only solution is to stop being gorgeous

Aww thankyou. I might add some photos of me strolling around Asda in my scruffs, they definitely wouldn’t think I was fake then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I would think that would make someone say your fake is because you have a professional pic or 2. But they are all clearly off you and the videos are clearly all of you. If you don't mind me saying your beautiful btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts? "

In my opinion...These people who are accusing you of being fake...Think you're too hot to be real. Don't mind them or waste your positive energy on these type of people...As I call them Doubters. Yes I know it can be upsetting when accused of being fake & very annoying also. Very hot pics OP...X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts?

Thankyou.

It’s just really frustrating when you’ve done everything in your power - have meet verifications, have a photo verification, paid for site supporter but no, still fake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only reason I would think that would make someone say your fake is because you have a professional pic or 2. But they are all clearly off you and the videos are clearly all of you. If you don't mind me saying your beautiful btw "

Lots on here have professional pics though.

Maybe I’ll take them down, it wouldn’t bother me to do that but then I’ll be accused of being fake as I don’t have many photos - can’t win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots on here have professional pics though.

Maybe I’ll take them down, it wouldn’t bother me to do that but then I’ll be accused of being fake as I don’t have many photos - can’t win!"

As someone above said its folk who are doubters. Don't let them get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading your profile I guess it’s confusing for some:

You can’t accommodate, can’t travel, not looking to meet but have verified meeting within two months…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots on here have professional pics though.

Maybe I’ll take them down, it wouldn’t bother me to do that but then I’ll be accused of being fake as I don’t have many photos - can’t win!

As someone above said its folk who are doubters. Don't let them get to you "

Thanks

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I used to get it all the time until I did a video.

Originally I would reply with something like "cool, if you see me in a club you'll leave me the fuck alone then coz you'll think I'm a figment of your imagination" but I got bored of responding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to get it all the time until I did a video.

Originally I would reply with something like "cool, if you see me in a club you'll leave me the fuck alone then coz you'll think I'm a figment of your imagination" but I got bored of responding.

Haha that’s a great come back! I’ll try that!

Even worse is when they leave you a nasty inbox but block you immediately after it so you can’t respond!! I’ve had that too!

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"I used to get it all the time until I did a video.

Originally I would reply with something like "cool, if you see me in a club you'll leave me the fuck alone then coz you'll think I'm a figment of your imagination" but I got bored of responding.

Haha that’s a great come back! I’ll try that!

Even worse is when they leave you a nasty inbox but block you immediately after it so you can’t respond!! I’ve had that too! "

My solution is to see any such messages as spam. I get plenty of irrelevant nonsense so I just see it the same way as I see random marketing emails for Viagra or such - I block and delete them right away, that way they are instantly gone from my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to get it all the time until I did a video.

Originally I would reply with something like "cool, if you see me in a club you'll leave me the fuck alone then coz you'll think I'm a figment of your imagination" but I got bored of responding.

Haha that’s a great come back! I’ll try that!

Even worse is when they leave you a nasty inbox but block you immediately after it so you can’t respond!! I’ve had that too!

You’re right. I will do that from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get accused fairly often when my filters are off and people can message.

It doesn't bother me at all. I've proved myself to those who I like and that's all that matters to me.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I am happy to check in person and feed back to the forum if it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts? "

I'm afraid it has to be a utility bill.less than 3 months old.

A passport photo.

Shoe size

Favourite fruit

Mothers aunt Moira's maiden name

And

3 digits on the back the card.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am happy to check in person and feed back to the forum if it helps.

Haha you’re my hero

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts?

I'm afraid it has to be a utility bill.less than 3 months old.

A passport photo.

Shoe size

Favourite fruit

Mothers aunt Moira's maiden name

And

3 digits on the back the card.

Thanks "

Sounds about right haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of us females have had this happen, I've also been called a fantasist because I've ignored their message

I use it as a good filter

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"I am happy to check in person and feed back to the forum if it helps.

Haha you’re my hero

It's a tough job but I'll shoulder that burden for the good of the community. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots on here have professional pics though.

Maybe I’ll take them down, it wouldn’t bother me to do that but then I’ll be accused of being fake as I don’t have many photos - can’t win!"

As others have said, just carry on being you. Keep your pics up…..they’re fantastic and you’ve taken the care to get professional ones whether they were primarily for here or not.

As with any Internet site, there’s a never-ending supply of keyboard warriors and the vastly opinionated.

Someone will find a reason to dislike you/what you do regardless.

Treat their views as a free filter for you….chances are they’re not your type. Move on, have fun!

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

That's what the block button is for!!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley, Surrey

It’s because you have a phenomenal body.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I’m more than happy to meet you and validate you aren’t fake - it may take us 20 or 30 meetings but after that I’d happily validate you aren’t fake … maybe 50 but no more than 200 tops!! Ok 250!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great, dont let them get you down, be who you want to be and ignore the negativity. I myself can never understand people who want to just message and abuse someone you've never spoke too, nevermind met, i mean its not exactly going to help there pursuit in meeting you is it. Keyboard warriors with nothing better to do with their lives, ignore that negativity and focus o n the good on here, like myself hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry that happens.

All I can suggest is block and report anyone being abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

Invite me round and I'll happily confirm it 'once and for all'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

Invite me round and I'll happily confirm it 'once and for all'.

Chancer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Develop thicker skin, and worryess about what strangers on the net think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worry less*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do anything if I were you, if they don't believe you then their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

Hopefully the only time you would block me it’s inside your home

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

Invite me round and I'll happily confirm it 'once and for all'.

Chancer!

It was in the interest of putting those guys minds to rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probs a rubbish way to make you engage with them. Much the way of:

'can i ask a Q' or 'i kow you won't reply to this' Or 'hi again, great to see you' Or 'i saw you at the weekend'

My god the amount of times I have men msg me to say "Can I ask a Question?" and I respond with "You already have." and they just don't get it and I can literally hear the HUH???? over cyberspace....

Depressing!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Thanks everyone, you’re all lovely

Future idiots will be blocked without second thought. Thankyou

Invite me round and I'll happily confirm it 'once and for all'.

Chancer!

It was in the interest of putting those guys minds to rest.

#publicspirited #takingonefortheteam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe already been said but CBA reading all posts. In summary could be;

1) Super gorgeous (so might trigger jealousy or rejection rage) - maybe some think you’re fake as too good to be true?

2) Photos are very glam and not entirely ‘consistent’ - potential ref flag to those think that way. (They could be off the net in other words).

3) not a lot of profile content

4) veris can be faked as well as accounts.

All the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, it's the internet and there's a lot of people that don't know how to behave around these parts! Wouldn't surprise me if people believe that by saying you're fake, they put themselves on "high ground" and expect you to want to prove you're not fake and engage with them in that nonsense.

Like some other people said on here, just see it as spam and ignore it. It'll do wonders for your mental health

at the end of the day, you know you're real and that's that!

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By *rs BxxWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire. Gran Canaria

There's a guy on here who regularly makes and deletes (or taken off site?) a profile. He uses the same name and puts up the same pics every time. He gets off on telling you your fake unless you go onto WhatsApp to prove it. When you refuse he then gets abusive.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I had this the other day, wanted me to send a live pic to prove I was real.

Told him to msg the guys I'd met

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a guy on here who regularly makes and deletes (or taken off site?) a profile. He uses the same name and puts up the same pics every time. He gets off on telling you your fake unless you go onto WhatsApp to prove it. When you refuse he then gets abusive. "

Pretty sure I’ve experienced him! What a very sad life he must live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, it never changes either.... Always enjoy the stupid prove your real requests tho lol, best one was someone asking me to write his username on my forehead and take a pic... Pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same, it never changes either.... Always enjoy the stupid prove your real requests tho lol, best one was someone asking me to write his username on my forehead and take a pic... Pass thanks

As if! Guys are constantly complaining that they have a hard time connecting with females on here so why make it harder for themselves? I’ll never understand do men

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Been on here a couple of months.

I have six meet verifications and I’m photo verified.

I take part in the forums and generally get involved.

Yet I’m still accused of being a fake account on a daily basis.

What more can I do? What would an account need to make you believe that it is real?

Thoughts? "

Ignore, report and block them. If that's what they think then that's there problem. More than likely they have messaged and you have not responded!

Take it like a man and move on, i messaged you and had no reply does not mean i can accuse you of being fake or give you any form of abuse, just means i'm not for you

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

If it’s really getting to you I suggest that you turn on your message filters. You can still message or wink those profiles that you like the look of, which then bypasses the filter. My fab life is so much easier since I have my filters on.

I sometimes get bored and turn them off for a while, just to remind myself how much crap I am avoiding

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By *rs BxxWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire. Gran Canaria

I've tightened mine up considerably and loving it. Makes fab a lot calmer... now where's the fakes and dreamers button?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s a good idea actually, I think I will just turn it all off and not allow messages at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why you would care. Plenty of people on here and I've no intention of explaining or justifying anything to strangers. They can think whatever they like.

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By *iscretefuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Blackheath

They are just very sad insecure individuals ! Just block them, that will really upset them whilst making you feel good by your positive actions !

What they think doesn’t matter, so please don’t let it bother you ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure why you would care. Plenty of people on here and I've no intention of explaining or justifying anything to strangers. They can think whatever they like. "

I shouldn’t and I won’t from now on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are just very sad insecure individuals ! Just block them, that will really upset them whilst making you feel good by your positive actions !

What they think doesn’t matter, so please don’t let it bother you ??"

Thankyou

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your pics are questionable, and are red flags to me. That's not me saying you are fake but generally when I see 1-5 pics only that are styled in such ways without any "normal" pics, I tend to just back off because I have some reason to question them.

Obviously the veris help discredit the fake accusations for the most part anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your pics are questionable, and are red flags to me. That's not me saying you are fake but generally when I see 1-5 pics only that are styled in such ways without any "normal" pics, I tend to just back off because I have some reason to question them.

Obviously the veris help discredit the fake accusations for the most part anyway. "

What’s wrong with my photos? Two are modelling pics and the other two were taken at home on my phone. What “normal” pics would you like to see? Me pushing a trolley around Iceland?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Obviously the veris help discredit the fake accusations for the most part anyway.

What’s wrong with my photos? Two are modelling pics and the other two were taken at home on my phone. What “normal” pics would you like to see? Me pushing a trolley around Iceland? "

Ooft now you’re talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously the veris help discredit the fake accusations for the most part anyway.

What’s wrong with my photos? Two are modelling pics and the other two were taken at home on my phone. What “normal” pics would you like to see? Me pushing a trolley around Iceland? "

Brilliant response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do look kinda too good to be true tbh. I would be suspicious at first too. Got to remember if men have experience on other sites they are filled with amazing looking fake profiles. My first meet on here was with a much younger stunningly attractive woman. I thought she was fake at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You do look kinda too good to be true tbh. I would be suspicious at first too. Got to remember if men have experience on other sites they are filled with amazing looking fake profiles. My first meet on here was with a much younger stunningly attractive woman. I thought she was fake at first. "

Surely this mindset is massively offensive to the women on here though isn’t it? It’s as if guys are saying that attractive women shouldn’t/aren’t/can’t be on here.

I’ve seen loads of gorgeous ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the problem to be honest that people have a preconceived idea of what they think women on here should look like and if they dont conform to that then some how they are fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x"

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then that is entirely the guy's issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Be you, be amazing, be beautiful

Fuck them they aint worth your beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the problem to be honest that people have a preconceived idea of what they think women on here should look like and if they dont conform to that then some how they are fake."

Possibly yes, mine was more why are you interested in me, too good to be true I thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Be you, be amazing, be beautiful

Fuck them they aint worth your beauty

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the problem to be honest that people have a preconceived idea of what they think women on here should look like and if they dont conform to that then some how they are fake.

Possibly yes, mine was more why are you interested in me, too good to be true I thought."

Then surely that is your issue.

I just do not understand why people feel the need to message and tell someone they are fake I just think that is unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Bars will be back to normal soon. Can’t imagine you’ll have such issues and be called fake in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Be you, be amazing, be beautiful

Fuck them they aint worth your beauty

Thank you

Pleasures mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Bars will be back to normal soon. Can’t imagine you’ll have such issues and be called fake in the real world.

My philosophy as if you wouldn't say something in the real world then don't say on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think this is the problem to be honest that people have a preconceived idea of what they think women on here should look like and if they dont conform to that then some how they are fake.

Possibly yes, mine was more why are you interested in me, too good to be true I thought.

Then surely that is your issue.

I just do not understand why people feel the need to message and tell someone they are fake I just think that is unnecessary. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then that is entirely the guy's issue. "

Absolutely agree, just explaining the reality, I would never be nasty about asking though. My approach was more, I don't mean to be rude but your stunning, are you actually real?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why worry about people accusing you of being fake,I’m sure plenty of fabbers would be more than happy to chat with and meet you x

I shouldn’t be bothered but when you’re getting it daily and you’ve done everything in your power to verify yourself as genuine, it’s frustrating.

Bars will be back to normal soon. Can’t imagine you’ll have such issues and be called fake in the real world.

Very true! Only ever been called fake on here, in real life I’m very much a real human being

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I am not sure why it bothers people, if you know you are not fake, what is the issue?

We had a man write on his profile header that Rugby does mfm are big fat fakes, it was there for months...who cares.It is hardly the biggest "insult" people can say

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Report any abuse, if they are calling you fake just block

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