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I’m largely very happy with my lot in life.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m not showing off and I feel deeply for people who are not in a happy place.

I just thought I’d put something out there to say be thankful for what you have and for those who are struggling, I hope you find peace soon.

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By *incskittenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *incskittenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't say im in a good place right now but trying to be positive and looking forward to better times.

Good post OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not showing off and I feel deeply for people who are not in a happy place.

I just thought I’d put something out there to say be thankful for what you have and for those who are struggling, I hope you find peace soon. "

It could be better though.... your hands could be wrapped firmly around my arse cheeks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say im in a good place right now but trying to be positive and looking forward to better times.

Good post OP "

Huge hugs xxx

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I can't say im in a good place right now but trying to be positive and looking forward to better times.

Good post OP "

I hope they’re round the corner for you, just try to find the right corner

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I’m not showing off and I feel deeply for people who are not in a happy place.

I just thought I’d put something out there to say be thankful for what you have and for those who are struggling, I hope you find peace soon.

It could be better though.... your hands could be wrapped firmly around my arse cheeks... "

That would make it happier, that’s true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contentment in life is bliss, I work hard, have a few hobbies and good friends.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I am in the best place I have ever been.

I feel very sorry for people who are not because I have been there and it was a long slog out of it. But I got out of it and I hope others can find the strength and support as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am, I have a plan and I want to get to that place. And It’s not unattainable. I just need to focus and go do it.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm really pleased to read this Fiddles.

I'm getting better and in a much healthier place than I was a year ago. Still a long way to go before I am fighting fit but I can see the improvements. My family are well and I am loved. I wouldn't ask for anything more.

Hoping the future is bright for everyone.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maslow's hiearchy of needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am, I have a plan and I want to get to that place. And It’s not unattainable. I just need to focus and go do it."

I have one of those, there's an awful lot of work involved and I'm rather tired at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been up and down over the years both personally and financially. Learnt from the ups & downs over the years and right now I’m in the best place I’ve ever been on all counts. But always looking upwards still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really glad to hear that OP, it's something everyone can aspire to.

Personally, I would say I'm more grateful than happy with my lot in life at the moment as there's always things I feel I should improve on

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By *ung fun walesMan
over a year ago

up the road

I have a few limitations because of health which forced massive changes in my life over the last couple of years, i am not where i used to be in life but i make the best of where i am now and although i could always say i want more i can say i have most of what i need in life so its not to bad on reflection.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’m not showing off and I feel deeply for people who are not in a happy place.

I just thought I’d put something out there to say be thankful for what you have and for those who are struggling, I hope you find peace soon. "

Me too OP, and I like to think I’m resilient but I never lose sight that things can and often do change very quickly for any of us, health, loss of job, friends family etc.

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I lost my love to cancer after caring for her for almost 7 years, we'd been together 27 years. I miss her immensely, but I draw comfort from the fact that she's no longer suffering. I also had to retire due to the trauma of her illness and death.

I went out and bought a campervan and now I'm living my life like there's no tomorrow, life is too short.

Despite my loss I'm content.

You only get one life, live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to hear it, I've had possibly one of the worst years of my life this year but I'm actually content for the first time in a long time in myself.

I've learnt to take and seek happiness in the smaller things recently

Mrs x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"I lost my love to cancer after caring for her for almost 7 years, we'd been together 27 years. I miss her immensely, but I draw comfort from the fact that she's no longer suffering. I also had to retire due to the trauma of her illness and death.

I went out and bought a campervan and now I'm living my life like there's no tomorrow, life is too short.

Despite my loss I'm content.

You only get one life, live it.

"

Fair play for having such strength mate I wish you all the best on the road.

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"

Fair play for having such strength mate I wish you all the best on the road. "

Thank you my friend.

Stay safe.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Glad to hear OP.

I am in the worst possible place I can be right now. I don't know if things will improve or not but hey life goes on regardless x

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Contentment in life is bliss, I work hard, have a few hobbies and good friends.

"

Sounds enough to me

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I am in the best place I have ever been.

I feel very sorry for people who are not because I have been there and it was a long slog out of it. But I got out of it and I hope others can find the strength and support as well. "

Good to hear.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I think I am, I have a plan and I want to get to that place. And It’s not unattainable. I just need to focus and go do it."

It starts with a plan

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I'm really pleased to read this Fiddles.

I'm getting better and in a much healthier place than I was a year ago. Still a long way to go before I am fighting fit but I can see the improvements. My family are well and I am loved. I wouldn't ask for anything more.

Hoping the future is bright for everyone.

Jo.Xx "

That is great to hear. Knowing you are loved is invaluable.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Maslow's hiearchy of needs"

It starts with food and water but I think happiness can sit between relationships and self actualisation.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I’ve been up and down over the years both personally and financially. Learnt from the ups & downs over the years and right now I’m in the best place I’ve ever been on all counts. But always looking upwards still "

As long as we learn.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Really glad to hear that OP, it's something everyone can aspire to.

Personally, I would say I'm more grateful than happy with my lot in life at the moment as there's always things I feel I should improve on "

True, hopefully though you can be happy as you are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm inbetween. Sometimes I am. Sometimes I'm not.

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Glad to hear OP.

I am in the worst possible place I can be right now. I don't know if things will improve or not but hey life goes on regardless x"

Hang in there Sparkle, life is like a roller coaster.

Hope you reach an upward curve soon. x

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I lost my love to cancer after caring for her for almost 7 years, we'd been together 27 years. I miss her immensely, but I draw comfort from the fact that she's no longer suffering. I also had to retire due to the trauma of her illness and death.

I went out and bought a campervan and now I'm living my life like there's no tomorrow, life is too short.

Despite my loss I'm content.

You only get one life, live it.

"

Good for you. And you have felt that love.

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Glad to hear it, I've had possibly one of the worst years of my life this year but I'm actually content for the first time in a long time in myself.

I've learnt to take and seek happiness in the smaller things recently

Mrs x"

That’s a very good approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maslow's hiearchy of needs

It starts with food and water but I think happiness can sit between relationships and self actualisation. "

I concur, defo a self actualisation, thing is the times we reach there usually means a new beginning, starting again further down. As it should. We change as such our goals wants needs change

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