FabSwingers.com forum: What inspires you to be a better human being

By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried it’s not really worth it.

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I’ve tried it’s not really worth it. "

But your there already x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Just simple common decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having spent half a life not being one and the second half realising that the more I give back the happier I am. Being nice feels nice.

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"My friends"

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Just simple common decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve tried it’s not really worth it.

But your there already x"

Thank you!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To be totally honest I think I am anyway. I’m probably the other way round and perhaps need to not care so much!

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Having spent half a life not being one and the second half realising that the more I give back the happier I am. Being nice feels nice."

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"To be totally honest I think I am anyway. I’m probably the other way round and perhaps need to not care so much! "

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I actually think that most humans get better rewards from giving than from taking. Carl Rogers said this I think, in his book "On becoming a person" - written in the sixties it is still a great starter for anybody interested in the field of counselling / therapy.

It is lovely to know I made somebody happy, even for a short moment.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Other people, their enthusiasm but also challenges and how they deal with them

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I’ve tried it’s not really worth it.

But your there already x

Thank you!

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I actually think that most humans get better rewards from giving than from taking. Carl Rogers said this I think, in his book "On becoming a person" - written in the sixties it is still a great starter for anybody interested in the field of counselling / therapy.

It is lovely to know I made somebody happy, even for a short moment. "

Yes x

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

After years of reflection and therapy I have concluded I will never be perfect. Sadly I am just too humble for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"After years of reflection and therapy I have concluded I will never be perfect. Sadly I am just too humble for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A trip to the barbers !

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I am nice .but do av a dark streak in me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you see first hand the impact that negativity and other nasty things have on people.

That and it's better than acting like a dick.

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Having spent half a life not being one and the second half realising that the more I give back the happier I am. Being nice feels nice."

What made you change

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice."

Stay nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice."

In real life ? Ha Or this place ?

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person. "

Your not

Grieving is different for everyone it can take years xx

To deal with that pain xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice."

This. I’ve been walked over so much. Helped so many people over the years and now I have a I don’t give a shit attitude and although I will still help people I’m much more cautious and no longer take things at face value

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person. "

You do not sound like a terrible person to me - in fact, I just looked at your profile and you do sound like somebody who puts other people's needs before his own. That is a lovely trait as long as it does not deplete you of enough energy and care for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Stay nice x"

I’m not sure what side Yasmeen got out of bed yesterday/ today but you should keep doing it

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

Your not

Grieving is different for everyone it can take years xx

To deal with that pain xxx "

Absolutely this - grief is not linear and varies from person to person.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

In real life ? Ha Or this place ?

Both real life and on here!

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

Your not

Grieving is different for everyone it can take years xx

To deal with that pain xxx

Absolutely this - grief is not linear and varies from person to person.

Xxx

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Stay nice x

I’m not sure what side Yasmeen got out of bed yesterday/ today but you should keep doing it

I'm in your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

Your not

Grieving is different for everyone it can take years xx

To deal with that pain xxx "

I think my heads full and I can’t process it

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

Your not

Grieving is different for everyone it can take years xx

To deal with that pain xxx

I think my heads full and I can’t process it"

Small steps xxx

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Stay nice x

I’m not sure what side Yasmeen got out of bed yesterday/ today but you should keep doing it

I'm in your bed"

But your not sleeping with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person. "

You are not a terrible person, you are just doing what is easiest for your brain to process... It's far easier to deflect and distract than deal with the pain and the hole

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I’ve always helped others around me and put loved ones first to the point that I stopped thinking about what I need.

This year as been a shit one to start with lost three really close people already. And failed to spot that I hadn’t grieved over any of them. I think sometimes I’m a terrible person.

You are not a terrible person, you are just doing what is easiest for your brain to process... It's far easier to deflect and distract than deal with the pain and the hole

Xxx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Totally this. Sick of giving people chance after chance to prove me wrong and they never do.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

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Good question.

Hard to say,I've always tried to be a decent human being and have respect for others,be polite and honest, trustworthy true to myself.

This is an attitude that I've tried to maintain since I was around 20

Before that I was a total dick and off the rails.

Now for me I see all the arrogance and selfishness in the world so now more than ever I think it's important to try and be better, be caring and sensitive and live by certain standards rather than doing whatever the hell I want.

So I guess other people Inspire me to be better. People like Sir Tom and the like.

I wish I was a better person and not so judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

In real life ? Ha Or this place ?

Both real life and on here!"

Let’s just touch on here ?

But we’r on a thread so I’ll use my words carefully?

Who the fuck is annoying ye ? I’m kidding !

Thought you where always nice since we first talked !

And that’s saying something!

I’m hard to get a long with so I’m told daily when I’m

On here ! Is someone on your case ? You can DM if you wanna waffle !

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Good question.

Hard to say,I've always tried to be a decent human being and have respect for others,be polite and honest, trustworthy true to myself.

This is an attitude that I've tried to maintain since I was around 20

Before that I was a total dick and off the rails.

So I guess other people Inspire me to be better. People like Sir Tom and the like.

I wish I was a better person and not so judgemental."

I admire people who can state that they have been a "total dick" before - that takes self awareness and humility.

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Good question.

Hard to say,I've always tried to be a decent human being and have respect for others,be polite and honest, trustworthy true to myself.

This is an attitude that I've tried to maintain since I was around 20

Before that I was a total dick and off the rails.

So I guess other people Inspire me to be better. People like Sir Tom and the like.

I wish I was a better person and not so judgemental."

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question.

Hard to say,I've always tried to be a decent human being and have respect for others,be polite and honest, trustworthy true to myself.

This is an attitude that I've tried to maintain since I was around 20

Before that I was a total dick and off the rails.

So I guess other people Inspire me to be better. People like Sir Tom and the like.

I wish I was a better person and not so judgemental.

Xxx

That my cue

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Stay nice x"

I think the secret is to be nice but not a mug.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Nothing, the state of most people going around being dicks is ridiculous so I just look good in comparison

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Just simple common decency.

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this

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I'm going the opposite way. Think I've been way too nice.

Stay nice x

I think the secret is to be nice but not a mug."

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

I try to be the person I needed when I was struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to be the person I needed when I was struggling. "

Well that’s lovely.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"What inspires you to be a better human being"

My morals, my work ethic, my desire to treat people as I would want to be treated, my sense of social responsibility, the responsibilities I have over those people in my care.

Oh and so I can lord my sense of superiority over other people....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might be a bit too deep.

But bad parents, bullies and many other Arseholes.... Because I just don't want to be anything like them and prove them wrong at the same time for my own sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inate sense of self righteousness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question.

Hard to say,I've always tried to be a decent human being and have respect for others,be polite and honest, trustworthy true to myself.

This is an attitude that I've tried to maintain since I was around 20

Before that I was a total dick and off the rails.

So I guess other people Inspire me to be better. People like Sir Tom and the like.

I wish I was a better person and not so judgemental.

Xxx

That my cue

Who just left

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've been told that I'm too nice but i don't care if i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see some of the struggles people face with issues in life it certainly does make you take a step back and think about things, so basically others inspire me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen, witnessed, lived he worst of human nature. I saw the silver lining and reach for the sun since…

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"I've been told that I'm too nice but i don't care if i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to physically see the vast improvements in life and education opportunities you gave to people, specially in a nation not so well off

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Hanging heavy weights from my foreskin on a daily basis

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Hanging heavy weights from my foreskin on a daily basis

That's why your balls drag behind you

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Can I list Joe Manganiello again here please?

As you’ve probably guessed - I’ve got a dude crush on him

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Hanging heavy weights from my foreskin on a daily basis

That's why your balls drag behind you "

But it makes me a better person

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Can I list Joe Manganiello again here please?

As you’ve probably guessed - I’ve got a dude crush on him

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By *asmeen OP TV/TS
over a year ago

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"Hanging heavy weights from my foreskin on a daily basis

That's why your balls drag behind you

But it makes me a better person

With a bad back???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have humanity but i do have a drive to prove my honour

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