FabSwingers.com forum: Single bi fem profile??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm losing count of the " single bi fem " profiles I come across, read further and discover they have a partner who is willing to participate if required!

I'm sorry, is it me or is that a couples profile?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Your right in my opinion if your a single bi fem then you meet alone and dont have a partner.

I will often meet up with a single guy and go to a club and play as a couple but am very much single.

Wish people would be honest what they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your right in my opinion if your a single bi fem then you meet alone and dont have a partner.

I will often meet up with a single guy and go to a club and play as a couple but am very much single.

Wish people would be honest what they are x"

agreed. I regularly report these profiles as being the wrong sex (ie single when should be a couple).

Wether admin take any action is up to them and I know there are a variety of people who dont like me doing it (from comments on previous threads) but I am a masculinist and if men advertising as couples should be reported so should these people. Whats good for the goose.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

..... Is good for the gander!

I am what it says on the tin x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they know bi females are highly sought after and maybe using this approach to heighten their chances.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am single...No fucker will put up with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate the line

hi my gf is bi if you want her to join she can

turns me off instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats not a couples its a single desperate male looking to lure you in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I am listed as a 'single bi female' but I also say that hubby is ok with me swinging alone. He may join me at sOme point but for all effects and purposes I am a single bi female who only meets in clubs. We do exist, I do not say I am bi to get more attentIon, I mainly swing because I am married to a (very cool open mInded) man and i miss playing with woman not because I think it is cool. Hubby will join me one day but for now I guess I am in the minority? Just putting an opinion out there to give a perspective. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am single...No fucker will put up with me...

Maybe it's Mel Gibson down ya lovely boobs that's off putting, he is such a gobby twat! Happy to pop round with a jar of chicken tonight n a le cruset casserole dish to level the playing field xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am single...No fucker will put up with me...

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I bet Colin would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, I am listed as a 'single bi female' but I also say that hubby is ok with me swinging alone. He may join me at sOme point but for all effects and purposes I am a single bi female who only meets in clubs. We do exist, I do not say I am bi to get more attentIon, I mainly swing because I am married to a (very cool open mInded) man and i miss playing with woman not because I think it is cool. Hubby will join me one day but for now I guess I am in the minority? Just putting

opinion out there to give a perspective. Xxxx

Hmm then I'm confused, do u also have a couples profile? No offence, I av a few couples that I chat to on fab that have become friends , but we know that's all it is, my profile is very clear on this as I am a single bi fem, looking for the same. Surely a single bi fem is, or should be just that? I'm happy to be educated so please don't take offence as none is meant x I'm just curious

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If they play alone, but have a male partner who MAY join if required, then no, they shouldn't have a couples profile.

If they have a single fem profile and only play with partner present, then yes they should have a couples profile.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I am single...No fucker will put up with me...

I bet Colin would

He was not complaining.. though its looks like he was having fun in your pic..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they play alone, but have a male partner who MAY join if required, then no, they shouldn't have a couples profile.

If they have a single fem profile and only play with partner present, then yes they should have a couples profile. "

But if partner plays if req then theyre a couple surely?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I am single...No fucker will put up with me...

Maybe it's Mel Gibson down ya lovely boobs that's off putting, he is such a gobby twat! Happy to pop round with a jar of chicken tonight n a le cruset casserole dish to level the playing field xx"

mmmmmm yummy...

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

im a single bi fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband knows some of my swinging friends socially (cam, non sex and spoken on the phone with them in a friendly type way) but he does not feel ready to join in. He is coming around to the idea but do not want to push him. When I play I do it on my own only in a club setting but I do it as a single. If hubby ever chooses to join in on the sex side I will change me profile to couple. Hope that makes sence x (cant think at this minute how to spell that last word please forgive me x)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im a single bi fem

What's ur fave chicken tonight flava?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"If they play alone, but have a male partner who MAY join if required, then no, they shouldn't have a couples profile.

If they have a single fem profile and only play with partner present, then yes they should have a couples profile.

But if partner plays if req then theyre a couple surely? "

But they don't play as one. I have a ff profile on here with my best friend. I play alone, but occasionally we meet the same person together. We are not a couple, we just play together.

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

something creamy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they play alone, but have a male partner who MAY join if required, then no, they shouldn't have a couples profile.

If they have a single fem profile and only play with partner present, then yes they should have a couples profile.

But if partner plays if req then theyre a couple su

But they don't play as one. I have a ff profile on here with my best friend. I play alone, but occasionally we meet the same person together. We are not a couple, we just play together. "

But u av a ff profile, not a single f one, with a guy waiting in the wings

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I suppose it depends how its worded... If it says Iv got a male/female that could or may join us then its an option. How does it make em a cpl ??

Im single or I was...... I met a single bi fem and sent messages to couples that had a bi fem that my single bi fem friend might join us...... At the time we wernt a cpl so why would we change our profile to that of a couple when we'd had fun just the once or twice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's in the profile shouldn't be a problem. There's some that play as single bi fems but let the guy watch or the guy has a say in who they meet(possibly for safety reasons). I figure the profile should be centred on who's playing.

If they play alone then single profile w/mention of others such as a partner that doesn't join in but knows.

If they play together then a couples profile.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If they play alone then single profile w/mention of others such as a partner that doesn't join in but knows"

You been pervin ma profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here get far too upset over what everyone else is doing.

I have a partner but he doesn't play. Occasionally he will watch but more often than not I play alone and away from the house. Hence I am not strictly single, but there's very little point in making a couples profile when I am the only one who plays - then I'd get someone moaning that I shouldn't be masquerading as a playing couple when he is inactive. You can't win on here so just do whatever makes you happy and ignore the inevitable moaners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a single person profile it should be a single person playing. Fair enough if they make it clear in the profile that there will be someone else watching/ looking after them. Then people know and can choose whether to meet them.

Single fem profile for a couple- report it. To me that's false advertising. You search for what you want, if it's a couple pretending to be a single they are wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People on here get far too upset over what everyone else is doing.

couple when he is inactive. You can't win on here so just do whatever makes you happy and ignore the inevitable moaners

Was that u not moaning then?

shouldn't we be wot we say we are on the tin? A single profile surely means just that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference does it make to the people I meet if I have a partner at home or not? By your reasoning should the married men playing away make couples profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I single and meet alone. I have a male friend who likes to watch only not participate and only men who agree and only if I want him there so fair to say most meets I alone so no I no intention of do a couples profile as we don't actually have sex or even play together anymore but still likes to watch me. I guess Its how much the male participate that defines if a couple or not and I don't think I deceive anyone having a single profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What difference does it make to the people I meet if I have a partner at home or not? By your reasoning should the married men playing away make couples profiles?

I think we're at crossed purposes , my problem is with "single bi fem looking to meet single bi fem" swop messages, mobile nos etc arrange to meet then to get dropped on me the message " my bloke wants to join in too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Im a single bi-fem and its really hard trying to find another like myself just wanting some girl playtime alone, like you say, you get half way down the profile and then you read about the "other half" wants to watch/join in. Annoys me thinking im looking at a single profile when it clearly isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi,

I would like to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi,

Sorry! Seriously , it's very frustrating x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ok, I promise to stop in the wardrobe practising how to use the video function on ma new phone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, I promise to stop in the wardrobe practising how to use the video function on ma new phone

U won't be able to close wardrobe door with that hat on !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

[Removed by poster at 26/08/12 00:56:57]

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Hopefully you have a fully functioning slide wardrobe with 2 way mirrors so I can get "up close & personal" with you and your desired partner.

At least I'd have somewhere to hang ma hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bi female looking for another I have also come across this far too many times. Even those that don't mention their partners seem to suddenly have one who would want to be there after exchanging a few mails. I have even been told that I wouldn't be permitted to have a male friend accompany me for safety when one specified her male partner would be there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I would like to

mmm shame you so faraway Butterfly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single bi female looking for another I have also come across this far too many times. Even those that don't mention their partners seem to suddenly have one who would want to be there after exchanging a few mails. I have even been told that I wouldn't be permitted to have a male friend accompany me for safety when one specified her male partner would be there!

anyone who does not allow what ever you need to feel safe is not worth your time and body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed - if OH have to be there that counts as a couple. I say that I am looking for single bi-fems for fun, and only play alone with girls. However, I have a silly amount of offers from bi-fems wanting to play ... but they only play with their OH in the room ... BF needs to be there ... would be good if they can bring their partner along to play too ... etc

Good that they are upfront and ask rather than just bring him along to the meet, but from my point of _iew a waste of time.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I feel if there is an OH in any way then the profile needs to be a couple but state that the female plays and the man watches or whatever. If your a single fem then you wont have an other half to take with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i wanted to meet a couple i would

if i wanted to meet a single man thats the whole point a single man not with a fuck buddy partner wife or whatever he terms her as

the same for a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We clearly state that we are looking for a bi fem as im curious to be with a woman but have put husband is present but we are getting no joy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We clearly state that we are looking for a bi fem as im curious to be with a woman but have put husband is present but we are getting no joy

But your being honest and have a couple profile. X

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We clearly state that we are looking for a bi fem as im curious to be with a woman but have put husband is present but we are getting no joy

Your competing against so many others for a single bi fem. So you will find it very hard. You would have to search for the one that are happy to have your husband sit and watch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butterfly is like so many singles on here-mega judgemental and abrasive. Ffs, leave people alone, everyone is grown up enough to decide if they want to meet a woman with a partner.

My fiancee had a single profile, we messaged you stating you would meet only her, me not present ever etc and all we got was the lines you have spouted in here.

If a woman meets alone with other women on a sex site, then she is single, her being married etc is of no import as it does not effect the sex meet. You may well be looking for a relationship, in which case your points may make more sense, although the wrong site for that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I'm losing count of the " single bi fem " profiles I come across, read further and discover they have a partner who is willing to participate if required!

I'm sorry, is it me or is that a couples profile? "

Guilty as charged

Having said that I do believe I can be both?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I think that message would have been suited to a pm not in the forum.

Aside from that...if I meet a couple as a coupkes profile I expect them to be a couple. If I meet a single guy I am wanting him to be a single guy...not one with a girlfriend that just watches or vice versa.

I would rather a couple be honest and say that one part of the couple just watches or sits in the lounge while the other is busy. But state that on your profile.

Everyone can meet who you want but its still dissapointing to me that people refuse to be honest.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I would rather a couple be honest and say that one part of the couple just watches or sits in the lounge while the other is busy. But state that on your profile.

Everyone can meet who you want but its still dissapointing to me that people refuse to be honest."
I think you have a point there - as long as it states on the profile what you are/ are not... then you are open and honest.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Just reading some of the other posts and yes everyone needs to feel safe but if they need to bring their boyfriend or OH to the meet to make them feel safe then their not a single fem ffs! They are a couple.....thats the definition of a couple lol. I take my safety serious of course but wouldnt suddenly turn up with an OH or ask if I could bring my OH....caus I dont have one as I am single!!!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Just reading some of the other posts and yes everyone needs to feel safe but if they need to bring their boyfriend or OH to the meet to make them feel safe then their not a single fem ffs! They are a couple.....thats the definition of a couple lol. I take my safety serious of course but wouldnt suddenly turn up with an OH or ask if I could bring my OH....caus I dont have one as I am single!!!!"
I would not simply turn up with another guy if I had agreed to meet one on one. That is what I meant about being honest.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If I want to meet two people I will search for a couple. If I want to meet one person at a meet I look for a single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sense a lot of bitterness towards those who have partners, which is strange considering the nature of the site! I have a partner, I play alone, I make no apologies for having a single profile nor do I feel like I am in any way being dishonest.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If I want to meet two people I will search for a couple. If I want to meet one person at a meet I look for a single profile.

If a couple wishes to meet with OH but them not active but still there then have a couple profile and state clearly who takes part and who doesnt. But dont form a single profile and then mention an OH"
Nothing wrong though in my opinion having a single profile and playing single at times, other times referring to couple profile and playing as couple. AT the end of the day as long as you are honest about what you are looking for... it is not an issue or am I misreading your post?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I sense a lot of bitterness towards those who have partners, which is strange considering the nature of the site! I have a partner, I play alone, I make no apologies for having a single profile nor do I feel like I am in any way being dishonest."
You beat me to it... only more succinct than I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm losing count of the " single bi fem " profiles I come across, read further and discover they have a partner who is willing to participate if required!

I'm sorry, is it me or is that a couples profile? "

Defo couple

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

In my opinion if someone else is going to attend on a single profile then they should have a couple profile.

Its about being honest to me. I have met many couples iver the past 6 years or so. But I search for them under the couples search....not the single search x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with you _ruit, as long as it states on the profile what is on offer then that shouldnt be an issue.

We have allways stated that my husband would be present and wouldnt be involved unless everyone was in agreement!

All I am looking for is to have my fix of a woman

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Surely it is ok to havea single profile and refer in that profile to having a joint profile also? I really cannot see what the issue is with that - at the end of the day whoever meets "her" or "them" is not left under any illusion as to whom they are meeting? I would agree that meeting as single and bringing along, without warning, another person is a bit deceiptful though

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I guess if people play as a couple or a single then have profiles accordingly then everyone is being honest and state on the couples profile that whichever plays a single too on."......." profile.

I just wish people were honest at the end of the day x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I just wish people were honest at the end of the day x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages asking if the single fem can have someone with her for safety...I agree as know what its like but they stay downstairs and away from the action...if a single fem said her fella wanted to watch that then becomes a couples request...I'm here for bi fem fun if meeting single women not to satisfy someones partners voyeristic tendencies...if a couple are honest its possible but id have to have social meet first so it didn't feel weird having someone on sidelines...that's what clubs are for...nothing stopping u watching there...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Cheeky...I agree totally.

I am one of those people who belueves in honesty and do accept that not everyone is a honest as me. But dont like to spend time getting to know a person so we both feel happy to then find an OH added to the.mix. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh its odd this is one of the few sites u can be honest about what u want yet so many lie...unneccessary and annoying...anyway how r u gorgeous....good holiday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they play alone, but have a male partner who MAY join if required, then no, they shouldn't have a couples profile.

If they have a single fem profile and only play with partner present, then yes they should have a couples profile.

But if partner plays if req then theyre a couple surely? "

No they are not. I have a single profile but I have a friend who I go to clubs, parties etc with and he is someone who I meet regularly, not just for sex. If I was contacted by a couple that wanted to meet me and one other, I would suggest bringing him along but primarily he and I meet as singles. If we decided one day that we only wanted to meet only as a couple, then we would create a couples profile as that then would be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages asking if the single fem can have someone with her for safety...I agree as know what its like but they stay downstairs and away from the action...if a single fem said her fella wanted to watch that then becomes a couples request...I'm here for bi fem fun if meeting single women not to satisfy someones partners voyeristic tendencies...if a couple are honest its possible but id have to have social meet first so it didn't feel weird having someone on sidelines...that's what clubs are for...nothing stopping u watching there..."

If it's a single profile I'd be expecting to meet with a single person. Unless it was clearly stated that someone would be around for 'safety', but as you said they would have to be away from the room we were in. If someone wants to watch, that is a couple request not a single request.

If a couple plays separately then of course it's fine to have single profiles. But I don't think that's the issue here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

3 days later and still experiencing the same crap! Fab should act! I buy a tin of carrots n that's wots in there , not carrots n peas..... Peas get ur own profile ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Butterfly is like so many singles on here-mega judgemental and abrasive. Ffs, leave people alone, everyone is grown up enough to decide if they want to meet a woman with a partner.

My fiancee had a single profile, we messaged you stating you would meet only her, me not present ever etc and all we got was the lines you have spouted in here.

Hi sorry not been around to pick up messages but I have not been messaged by you, I don't know if we're at crossed purposes or just a mix up? I haven't spouted any lines to u or a single fem profile, maybe fab has had a tech fault... I hope so

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"I'm losing count of the " single bi fem " profiles I come across, read further and discover they have a partner who is willing to participate if required!

I'm sorry, is it me or is that a couples profile? "

report the profile to Admin, selecting the "chosen wrong sex" option and provide some reason based on the profile text

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have six occasions n counting x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"I have six occasions n counting x

cant say have counted , but in most cases have seen Admin react (we Hotlist thge profile before reporting ) so can see if a change in status has happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have six occasions n counting x

cant say have counted , but in most cases have seen Admin react (we Hotlist thge profile before reporting ) so can see if a change in status has happened"

Will give it a try, thanks for the support ... Feel like its me against the world. X

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

before you click 'report', highlight then copy the text in the profile that say words to effect of "only play with hubby/FB then paste that into your report ... help Admin to help you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"before you click 'report', highlight then copy the text in the profile that say words to effect of "only play with hubby/FB then paste that into your report ... help Admin to help you"

Thanks so much x

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