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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam or club when they open back up

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance "

In person.. as a single woman a wouldn’t trust a cam veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance "

Still keep an open mind, that it might not work that way either.

It's not necessarily an answer to your problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance

In person.. as a single woman a wouldn’t trust a cam veri "

Thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance

Still keep an open mind, that it might not work that way either.

It's not necessarily an answer to your problem.

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Completely get that, just 1 less hurdle to overcome lol. Thanks x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance "

Make your first few meets for socials only e.g. 30 mins to 1 hour having coffee.

Let the woman choose the place.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Chat to someone local to you ...male, female or couple. Explain you haven't had chance to be verified and ask if you could meet in a public place like a cafe or pub, have a chat and would they leave you a veri. I've written a few for single guys...saying they turned up on time, looked like their photo, pleasant, friendly etc. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet or club

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance

Make your first few meets for socials only e.g. 30 mins to 1 hour having coffee.

Let the woman choose the place. "

This, it's easy enough and no pressure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To asnswer your question specifically OP, the best way to get verified is to meet with someone who is already verified and then have them leave you a verification.

I think your question really though, is how to go about meeting such a person - given, as you say, that many on here insist on you being verified before they would consider meeting.

Not everybody insists on it.

We all start off unverified. I lost all mine when I took a break from the site due to Covid and have got to start again.

There have been a number of suggestions but I think the best advice I could offer is to not focus on that green tick. The more you let it dominate your thoughts on fab, the less likely you are to acheive it.

The more you mention it, the more others will think that you'd only be interested in them in order to get it and less about them personally - and it will put people off.

Better to simply pour your energies in to making connections and getting to know people.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Meet a Man.

This has been a common sense post from DD. (You’re welcome)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To asnswer your question specifically OP, the best way to get verified is to meet with someone who is already verified and then have them leave you a verification.

I think your question really though, is how to go about meeting such a person - given, as you say, that many on here insist on you being verified before they would consider meeting.

Not everybody insists on it.

We all start off unverified. I lost all mine when I took a break from the site due to Covid and have got to start again.

There have been a number of suggestions but I think the best advice I could offer is to not focus on that green tick. The more you let it dominate your thoughts on fab, the less likely you are to acheive it.

The more you mention it, the more others will think that you'd only be interested in them in order to get it and less about them personally - and it will put people off.

Better to simply pour your energies in to making connections and getting to know people."

Fully taken on board, thanks

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"A lot of profiles say they won't meet with anyone not verified, with the ratio of men to women what's the best way to get verified? Thanks in advance "

Be interesting

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