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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Is it your business???

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Could be just socials, there doesn't have to be sexual contact to get a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to be able to pick who they meet keeps the messages down

As long as they not string you along then don’t see a problem to it

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Just reverified a guy I met several years ago and I’m not meeting. Don’t see the issue.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Maybe the what to look for the selfs not have people fit there inbox with bullshit

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By *issChief 200Woman
over a year ago

South West

Im not meeting either but have re-verified people returning to Fab. Always good to mention in the verification it was a previous meet pre Covid tho as I am definately put off by anyone meeting during Covid, especially during any lockdowns.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

What others do and say is none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be old verifications.

Could be that they now have someone so they aren’t meeting new people.

Could be that they aren’t meeting until they find someone they do want to meet.

Could be to ward off desperate folk.

Could be a combination of all of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be by cam?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

They're not meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#facepalmGIF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be booked up already, we have limited meet times and can be essentially booked up for a couple of months so don’t want to make any more until nearer the time- if we say we’ll meet we will, some might choose to cancel instead but not our style

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Their business, take them at their word and don't message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People might not want to widen their circle, but may have multiple meets lined up already over the next few months.

I'm currently meeting someone regularly, but I say 'not meeting' in my profile as I'm not looking to meet anyone new right now.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

Their choice!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Could be a social, could be pre Covid, could be a club/spa, could be none of your beeswax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The veri police again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be through webcam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not meeting OP yet have recent veris. Do you have a issue with that?

Ive been here before, infact on and off for over 10 years. I am here to purely keep in contact with my friends that I have met through here.

I am definitely not meeting because

A: wouldn’t put my baby at risk and B: I’m currently so huge that it takes a age for me to roll over in bed never mind have bedroom acrobatics.

And also I’m not sure when I’ll be meeting again in future because again there is the little issue of having a little person to take care of and most likely a fanny like a wizards sleeve while awaiting it all to bounce back to its usual self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

It means they aren't meeting you!

And can say what they want, site rules permitting!

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

Why not just let members run their profile the way THEY want to and not how YOU want them to?

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Maybe the what to look for the selfs not have people fit there inbox with bullshit "

What?

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not meeting. Absolutely NOT. Yet I still did. Does this mean I need a priest.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"I am not meeting. Absolutely NOT. Yet I still did. Does this mean I need a priest. "

Were you possessed, was there ectoplasm, did you go into uncontrollable spasms?

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not meeting. Absolutely NOT. Yet I still did. Does this mean I need a priest.

Were you possessed, was there ectoplasm, did you go into uncontrollable spasms?

E"

All of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People lie to cut down on traffic and nosey parkers

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"I am not meeting. Absolutely NOT. Yet I still did. Does this mean I need a priest.

Were you possessed, was there ectoplasm, did you go into uncontrollable spasms?

E

All of the above. "

Lucky bitch.

E

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Bet you’re glad you asked op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile, their rules.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

Maybe they just forgot to update their profile?

If it bothers you OP, why don’t you block them?

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By *OT DOG 1982Man
over a year ago

Skegness work at butlin's

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Some nee verifications are from old meets or old profiles.

I wouldn’t worry about it. People fab as people fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 3 recent veri’s from socials but we ain’t meeting sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People might not want to widen their circle, but may have multiple meets lined up already over the next few months.

I'm currently meeting someone regularly, but I say 'not meeting' in my profile as I'm not looking to meet anyone new right now."

This they might not be meeting new and catching up with friends

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Does it really matter? Pretty much everyone above has given reasons as to why. There's cam veris, social veris doesn't mean they're having meets

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

They may have had an offer they couldn't refuse.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It seems to be a way of further filtering to limit messages and give them the choice to contact you or not. I have many profiles I've checked out and I've been older than their age range and saying not looking for single guys but then they look at your profile anyway and once or twice they have messaged me so it was their choice and they were in control. Reading the forums it does seem a lot of guys are pushy so I don't really blame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

Thanks Random ‘Quote’ Guy, it’s quite the conundrum, but my guess is they’re trying to keep some people from messaging, while they totally work undercover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But, saying on their profile, that they are 'NOT' meeting.

But, displaying daily new 'verifications' work that 1 out? lol."

And that's why I hide my verifications. It's none of your business. They're probably not interested in you. There you go. I worked it out for you.

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