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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those things are earnt in my opinion and they don't get given away easily

I feel it's a 2 way street

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I trust and respect people from the get go until they prove otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect? "

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I trust and respect people from the get go until they prove otherwise."

I'm a bit more reserved myself

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust "

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect."

Respect for myself yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust "

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Those things are earnt in my opinion and they don't get given away easily

I feel it's a 2 way street

"

Might just be your experience like most people but I myself have always been lucky and so have they to cross paths and it's lovely to experience that their are some very decent amount of people.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Loyalty is earned, trust and respect are given freely

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes "

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!"

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?"

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually agree with you OP I don't trust anyone straight off the bat.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before "

Yes I'm looking for the same in a man.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person "

Oh god you’ll be telling us to be kind next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before

Yes I'm looking for the same in a man."

Well if I say I can show you things no man has before that makes me arrogant lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

Oh god you’ll be telling us to be kind next "

Eat out to help out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person "

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is built, loyalty is built but I’d be respectful to everyone I met until proven otherwise. I’d never be disrespectful to a stranger just because they were a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation. "

Big words don't impress me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me "

In other words you have no comeback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect? "

Bingo!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Xx

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before "

Like their fanny

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry "

Really? You don't care at all what people think of you? Not one bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understanding withholding trust… but everyone deserves respect.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback. "

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry "

Let me know if you need some tissues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league "

Yep, you’ve just been relegated from the Vauxhall conference,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op? "

Be real

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league "

No. You just lost the game.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry

Really? You don't care at all what people think of you? Not one bit? "

Nope. Not one ickkle bit. They either like me (they spend time with me, seek me out, enjoy my company) or they don’t (in which case I will seldom encounter them). Worrying about things you cannot control is bad for your mental health.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before "

I have a third nipple. Bet you haven't seen that!!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry

Let me know if you need some tissues "

You look like a man that uses a lot of tissues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league

Yep, you’ve just been relegated from the Vauxhall conference, "

Footy ain't my game

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The minute I give a flying waffle what people think of me, is the minute I have given up. So you don’t respect or trust me? Okay. I’ll try not to cry

Let me know if you need some tissues

You look like a man that uses a lot of tissues "

I use a lot of blue roll, close enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

But you have enough respect for them to be nice,that shows a level of respect.

Respect for myself yes

Will you have trust and respect for that exceptionally imaginitative woman you're looking for when you find her?

Hopefully she will show me things if never seen in a woman before

I have a third nipple. Bet you haven't seen that!! "

Only on a Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust and respect people from the get go until they prove otherwise."

Pretty much this, until they do something to make me think they dont deserve it there's, once its gone there's basically no way back.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

Be real "

As in flesh and bones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loyalty is earned, trust and respect are given freely"

Exactly this.

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

A Pharaoh Way

I treat people the way I'd like to get treated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

Be real

As in flesh and bones? "

As in honesty is a very expensive gift

I don't expect it from cheap people

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

Be real

As in flesh and bones?

As in honesty is a very expensive gift

I don't expect it from cheap people "

So if someone is honest with you, regardless of whether it's positive or negative, you respect that?

Because you certainly don't exude that quality in your posts lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

Be real

As in flesh and bones?

As in honesty is a very expensive gift

I don't expect it from cheap people

So if someone is honest with you, regardless of whether it's positive or negative, you respect that?

Because you certainly don't exude that quality in your posts lol "

Absolutely

Hit me with it I say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does someone have to do to earn your trust and respect, op?

Be real

As in flesh and bones?

As in honesty is a very expensive gift

I don't expect it from cheap people

So if someone is honest with you, regardless of whether it's positive or negative, you respect that?

Because you certainly don't exude that quality in your posts lol "

We must also think about alterior motives though

Not everyone that smiles in your face is your friend

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I treat people the way I'd like to get treated "

Snap, bites me on the arse quite often though

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes and no. Superficial trust is given until it’s called into doubt. Respect can be given for a multitude of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only trust/trusted 1 person completely in my life and it took 38 years to trust that one so there will likely never be another

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally"

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees "

52 weeks = 104 knees

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees "

and that is obviously why you have so many verifications on your profile.

Sorry my friend, but a man doesn't need to boast or big himself up.

Keep up the good work work though as it is quite entertaining

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees

52 weeks = 104 knees "

I'd have you feeling legless youd be trembling that much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees and that is obviously why you have so many verifications on your profile.

Sorry my friend, but a man doesn't need to boast or big himself up.

Keep up the good work work though as it is quite entertaining"

As I have previously mentioned I like straight talk and honesty no matter of its harsh towards me or not lol

It's who I am

Be real or go home I say

Story of my life

Sex ain't the be all and end all they say

But if your so good in bed then how comes your single

Thinkers is what I'm seeking

Confident woman who's intelligence is more about life than textbooks

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees and that is obviously why you have so many verifications on your profile.

Sorry my friend, but a man doesn't need to boast or big himself up.

Keep up the good work work though as it is quite entertaining

As I have previously mentioned I like straight talk and honesty no matter of its harsh towards me or not lol

It's who I am

Be real or go home I say

Story of my life

Sex ain't the be all and end all they say

But if your so good in bed then how comes your single

Thinkers is what I'm seeking

Confident woman who's intelligence is more about life than textbooks "

I am single because I made that choice.

I have an active sex life that I have no need to brag about, neither do I have the need to advertise, how good I am in bed, nor the size of my penis, to be honest I find it very childish and immature, but that is my my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees and that is obviously why you have so many verifications on your profile.

Sorry my friend, but a man doesn't need to boast or big himself up.

Keep up the good work work though as it is quite entertaining

As I have previously mentioned I like straight talk and honesty no matter of its harsh towards me or not lol

It's who I am

Be real or go home I say

Story of my life

Sex ain't the be all and end all they say

But if your so good in bed then how comes your single

Thinkers is what I'm seeking

Confident woman who's intelligence is more about life than textbooks I am single because I made that choice.

I have an active sex life that I have no need to brag about, neither do I have the need to advertise, how good I am in bed, nor the size of my penis, to be honest I find it very childish and immature, but that is my my opinion"

Standing out

Ps

I'm not for sale

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Do you spend you day thinking how you can wind people up, or is it something that just comes naturally

I'm oblivious that it happens

I cant control other people

Tell you what does come naturally

Making women week at the knees and that is obviously why you have so many verifications on your profile.

Sorry my friend, but a man doesn't need to boast or big himself up.

Keep up the good work work though as it is quite entertaining

As I have previously mentioned I like straight talk and honesty no matter of its harsh towards me or not lol

It's who I am

Be real or go home I say

Story of my life

Sex ain't the be all and end all they say

But if your so good in bed then how comes your single

Thinkers is what I'm seeking

Confident woman who's intelligence is more about life than textbooks I am single because I made that choice.

I have an active sex life that I have no need to brag about, neither do I have the need to advertise, how good I am in bed, nor the size of my penis, to be honest I find it very childish and immature, but that is my my opinion

Standing out

Ps

I'm not for sale "

Well yes you do stand out, but not in the way you think. I doubt anyone would be willing to buy you if you were

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

A Pharaoh Way


"I treat people the way I'd like to get treated

Snap, bites me on the arse quite often though "

Sometimes that the risk we have to take in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you don't trust or respect a person they are not going to go out of there way to earn your trust and support... Its a two way street

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I’ll always trust & respect people to a certain point, it’s just each person I have different levels of respect for.

Then through time it’ll either go up or down. Cant be too defensive

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

Whilst I believe trust can be earned, I believe there's a baseline that we individually default to. For example, there's an inherent trust that by putting a profile on this site that it won't succumb to abuse.

Similarly, there's a baseline level of respect, however I believe this is set higher and based upon cultural and experiential differences. Again, for example, I respect the right of people to practice their sexual preferences in a safe, sane, and consensual manner.

Infringement on these can effect individual levels of trust and respect, and similarly getting to know someone can potentially earn a higher level, but meeting someone new would start from the baseline.

Now I'm gonna go back to sleep.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I trust and respect everyone until they give me cause not to. Admittedly quite often people give me cause not to. Then they get cut from my life.

I have enough friends and family that I do trust and respect not to worry about others.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Disagree. We'd be an awful society if everyone behaved that way. And it ignores that there are degrees of trust and respect that we give others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll always trust & respect people to a certain point, it’s just each person I have different levels of respect for.

Then through time it’ll either go up or down. Cant be too defensive "

I feel been to trusting snd my old ways creeping back sadly, so need to be more careful who trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me "

I don’t understand them ether !

You have a strange perspective on how to gain respect !

But sure look if you think this works for you then good for you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me:

I treat others respectfully as befitting a civil society, unless they aren’t civil.

I have deep respect for those that make a positive difference in the World and reverence for those who make a positive difference in my life.

This need not always be a 2 way-street.

Trust is not in question until it is in question. This is, definitely, a 2-way street when it is on a deeper personal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league "

Yep just games your 100% correct and You said it lad you wanna get up early to catch you on the hop with ur whole different league of comebacks ! Your funny !

But if they don’t work as you know you can always report them

Anyway Your consistent mate I’ll give you that keep it up

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league

Yep just games your 100% correct and You said it lad you wanna get up early to catch you on the hop with ur whole different league of comebacks ! Your funny !

But if they don’t work as you know you can always report them

Anyway Your consistent mate I’ll give you that keep it up "

I'm always consistent

Can't kidd a kidder

What goes up must come down

When your honest then you don't have to remember what you've said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat everyone how I'd like to be treated

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Respect allways! Trust comes or not over time x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo you're shitty to people until you feel they've earned your respect?

No not at all

We can be nice to folk and have no respect for them or trust

Really, why would I be nice to someone I didn’t respect or trust, I’d be neutral or indifferent to them ?!

Because it's nice to be nice and it defines who we are as a person

I don’t do performative niceness, cause it smacks of Insincerity and I find it saccharine and Nauseating when it’s done with proclamation.

Big words don't impress me

In other words you have no comeback.

Comebacks are games

And I'm in a whole different league

Yep just games your 100% correct and You said it lad you wanna get up early to catch you on the hop with ur whole different league of comebacks ! Your funny !

But if they don’t work as you know you can always report them

Anyway Your consistent mate I’ll give you that keep it up

I'm always consistent

Can't kidd a kidder

What goes up must come down

When your honest then you don't have to remember what you've said "

Yeah and ? What’s ur point ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before everyone writes what I can see are genuine comments so far please take the time to read this whole thread op is a character alright !

Aren’t ye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before everyone writes what I can see are genuine comments so far please take the time to read this whole thread op is a character alright !

Aren’t ye "

My actions speak much louder than my words and my words never fail

Oh I'm a clever little sausage

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over a year ago


"Before everyone writes what I can see are genuine comments so far please take the time to read this whole thread op is a character alright !

Aren’t ye

My actions speak much louder than my words and my words never fail

Oh I'm a clever little sausage "

Your to easy lad

and your little cocky act might get a rise out of some people and yeah usually me but not today look what happened Saturday ! Your far from witty and most definitely not intelligent!

Can’t knock your cockiness but you need wit and banter to back that up !

Mate you got nether !

I read this whole thread and how you spoke to that gentleman was in my opinion disrespectful!

Try talk to me like that........

But my only point here is don’t preach on one thread I’m belittling you then you spent your time here doing the same !

I’d rather leave this here and end on a good note ???? Fair ??

Happy Tuesday mate it’s just games remember

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over a year ago


"Before everyone writes what I can see are genuine comments so far please take the time to read this whole thread op is a character alright !

Aren’t ye

My actions speak much louder than my words and my words never fail

Oh I'm a clever little sausage

Your to easy lad

and your little cocky act might get a rise out of some people and yeah usually me but not today look what happened Saturday ! Your far from witty and most definitely not intelligent!

Can’t knock your cockiness but you need wit and banter to back that up !

Mate you got nether !

I read this whole thread and how you spoke to that gentleman was in my opinion disrespectful!

Try talk to me like that........

But my only point here is don’t preach on one thread I’m belittling you then you spent your time here doing the same !

I’d rather leave this here and end on a good note ???? Fair ??

Happy Tuesday mate it’s just games remember

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I'd course it is games

My game play ain't to impress you though

Your thoughts and opinions on me are irrelevant

Fun and games

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Now now boys. Do I have to slap some arses?

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over a year ago


"Before everyone writes what I can see are genuine comments so far please take the time to read this whole thread op is a character alright !

Aren’t ye

My actions speak much louder than my words and my words never fail

Oh I'm a clever little sausage

Your to easy lad

and your little cocky act might get a rise out of some people and yeah usually me but not today look what happened Saturday ! Your far from witty and most definitely not intelligent!

Can’t knock your cockiness but you need wit and banter to back that up !

Mate you got nether !

I read this whole thread and how you spoke to that gentleman was in my opinion disrespectful!

Try talk to me like that........

But my only point here is don’t preach on one thread I’m belittling you then you spent your time here doing the same !

I’d rather leave this here and end on a good note ???? Fair ??

Happy Tuesday mate it’s just games remember

I'd course it is games

My game play ain't to impress you though

Your thoughts and opinions on me are irrelevant

Fun and games "

Good stuff !!!!

Glad you see the funny side !

And your correct completely irrelevant!

Your a good laugh try not go so low when addressing people

it’s just my advice cause I’ve been there and your definitely not the worst

Right now you gained my respect hahaha your thread wasn’t a total waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now now boys. Do I have to slap some arses? "

Bollox I’m off to bed !

Don’t need this shit !

Night Nora

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now now boys. Do I have to slap some arses? "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now now boys. Do I have to slap some arses?

Yes please "

Cmon now Nora ???

Fair is fair

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