FabSwingers.com forum: So today

By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Now I’m a big girl and that but seriously why is this necessary? You don’t like me or the colour of my skin then pass me by. I don’t know the purpose of this thread think I’m just a bit peeved by it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

That's disgusting xxx just ignore I knows it's hard x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not surprised you are peeved. It's disgraceful behaviour.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Wtf.. I hope you reported him!!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You have a fantastic body OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block

Your gorgeous by the way

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Today I was offered £100 to spank someone and I reported him.

So you definitely should OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Absolutely disgusting behaviour

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

So sorry to hear this. Stay strong. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely unacceptable please report them. X

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

What an utter moron. I'm sure you are far too gorgeous for him.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

there's always people that want to make themselves feel better by trying make others feel worse. I know it's difficult but don't let them get to you.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

That's entirely unacceptable and you do not need to tolerate it. I hope you have reported the person and that admin bam them. I'm so sorry you have experienced this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Totally disgraceful...no one should be subjected to anything like that.Best wishes to you.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some people on here know they haven't got a cat in hell's chance of spending time with you,in their teeny tiny little brains they think it's one way of getting your attention,sick I know. They need to be pity'd

Your photo's are great by the way.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Just hope you have reported them and utterly disgusting

Obviously they do not appreciate a great body that you have, I know I do

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's not necessary OP. They sadly want some sort of reaction because some are twunts.

Report, block and take some time to remind yourself that as twatty comment as it was, it's not a commonly held belief nor worth too much energy.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

That’s disgusting and they should be kicked off the site. You look and sound like a lovely lady and I hope you find someone who will treat you properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today I was offered £100 to spank someone and I reported him.

So you definitely should OP

I agree, report him, that is totally disgraceful.

This site is about meeting new people, making new friends and enjoying time together, not a place for prejudice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to let insults get to you up

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By *ightmovesTV/TS
over a year ago

Ipswich

Whoever it was is a fuckwit.

You are gorgeous beyond measure.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

I've had it a couple of times on here, still quite rare I must say, don't dwell on it, just report and block, mustn't let it upset you !!

If it does I'd be more than happy to offer you some comfort !

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

Wtf.. I hope you reported him!!"

I did yes, but he will be back probably

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Disgraceful...I am disgusted

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

That's horrible, sorry you had that x

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute shitstain, glad you reported him but I doubt it’ll teach somebody like that a lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block.

I am sorry you had this happen, its a disgrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today I was offered £100 to spank someone and I reported him.

You can do me for a fiver if you like, kinky.

Sorry OP; it's amazing what bile people spit. I don't blame you for being pissed off. The haters seem to be emboldened lately and they're backed by the media and our own PM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today I was offered £100 to spank someone and I reported him.

So you definitely should OP

This made me laugh more than it should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racial abuse is a criminal act. Report to Admin asap.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"You have a fantastic body OP xxx"

Aww thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's vile, get the individual reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re peeved and rightly so, it’s rather disgusting behaviour. There are some properly shit people in this world.

On a side note, I find interesting that several comments refer to your abuser as ‘him’ when nothing in your op suggests the gender of that person. Prejudice is rife on Fab.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

The worst thing for me is it takes a hell of a lot for me to post a face pick so not only ass that test just kissed me off with a ridiculous comment I’m now once again feeling like I have to hide my face

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

That’s sad to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you are a absolute beauty. In our hotlist.

That is a horrible ahorrant thing to say.

Report and move on. We certainly hope this vile behaviour is stamped out. Remain strong

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"The worst thing for me is it takes a hell of a lot for me to post a face pick so not only ass that test just kissed me off with a ridiculous comment I’m now once again feeling like I have to hide my face "

Whilst I'm certainly not going to tell you what you should do, or feel, I will say that you are a stunning young lady that anyone should be proud to meet.

Wishing you a peaceful evening & that you can put this racist scum behind you xx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Never hide that beautiful face.

I’m so sorry you got that message, some people are ignorant vile pri cks, nothing better to do than be a keyboard warrior.

You are a stunning woman with a beautiful soul, and know there are lots here who think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, I have seen you face before, you’re really beautiful.

Someone who makes comments like that, it says nothing about you, and everything about them, and the kind of person they are.

My inbox is open, lovely

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Wankers. This is when naming and shaming should be allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that prick, you look amazing.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Thank you all for such nice comments and yes I reported him. I’m proud of my features by the way, and the colour I was born with. Just kind of disgusts me on such a personal attack that people can be so mean. I don’t even know why I’m surprised maybe because I’ve been here for over 2 years and this is the first time someone has said anything of this nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wankers. This is when naming and shaming should be allowed

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I hope you have reported him.

You look stunning BTW

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Wankers. This is when naming and shaming should be allowed

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

In this situation I would name and shame.. And that's after reporting them.. More in the respect to warn others of the potential for the offender of possibly repeating thair actions on other unsuspecting individuals.

Down right poor behaviour

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As others have said, disgusting and deplorable behaviour.

Report them.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"In this situation I would name and shame.. And that's after reporting them.. More in the respect to warn others of the potential for the offender of possibly repeating thair actions on other unsuspecting individuals.

Down right poor behaviour"

Unfortunately I’m not allowed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

It isn't necessary, nor is it acceptable

Please report it

You are a self titled 'big girl' and it's rattled your cage

Imagine the effect of such an attack (cos that's what it is) on someone who isn't feeling great

It could be life changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry to read this has happened to you. There are some spiteful and nasty people on here. Some of the comments in the forums show that and we should all report offensive behaviour, posts and profiles.

You look absolutely fabulous - totally gorgeous and and your posts show you to be a kind, funny and intelligent woman. You are 100 times the person that pathetic individual is.

Hugs and love to you from my part of the web

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible hun. Why do people feel the need to hurt people be it for any reason they feel necessary. Try to ignore the small minded idiot

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Op, you're on my hotlist too because your photos are always really sexy and those boobs! Hope you're OK and taking some solace and encouragement from the many positive posts to you on this thread. Definitely report the racist and get them off the site.

There's a lot of casual and overt racism on Fab tbh. Last year I started a thread about the fact that I thought people requesting or specifying 'BBC only' was using a racist trope about black men. It didn't go down well, particularly with white women! Anyway, I sincerely don't want to take the emphasis of this thread away from you and the shitty experience you had. I wish you well and hope you are feeling better now. X

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"That's terrible hun. Why do people feel the need to hurt people be it for any reason they feel necessary. Try to ignore the small minded idiot "

Think this is what gets to me the most, he went out of his way to send that message, for no reason what so ever. I wasn’t even nasty back because that’s not the kind of person I am.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I hope you have reported him.

You look stunning BTW "

I did and now he’s gone. Thank you

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I hope you have reported him.

You look stunning BTW

I did and now he’s gone. Thank you "

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Wow your pics are amazing

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

So sorry that you had this happen, hope you reported and blocked. Some people are just vile.

Hope you aren't too badly affected. You're a beautiful woman OP xxx

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"So sorry that you had this happen, hope you reported and blocked. Some people are just vile.

Hope you aren't too badly affected. You're a beautiful woman OP xxx"

I did but if he’s like the guy who wished me and my kids got covid and died he will be back. Wouldn’t surprise me if it’s the same guy.

Thank you

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"So sorry that you had this happen, hope you reported and blocked. Some people are just vile.

Hope you aren't too badly affected. You're a beautiful woman OP xxx

I did but if he’s like the guy who wished me and my kids got covid and died he will be back. Wouldn’t surprise me if it’s the same guy.

Thank you

WTF? I really don’t understand some people!!

Just remember you are a beautiful woman and these “people” and I use that term loosely are just unpleasant arseholes

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"So sorry that you had this happen, hope you reported and blocked. Some people are just vile.

Hope you aren't too badly affected. You're a beautiful woman OP xxx

I did but if he’s like the guy who wished me and my kids got covid and died he will be back. Wouldn’t surprise me if it’s the same guy.

Thank you

WTF? I really don’t understand some people!!

Just remember you are a beautiful woman and these “people” and I use that term loosely are just unpleasant arseholes

That’s the thing, trying to understand peoples vile mentality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

So difficult to answer something like this, so to answer the question you asked… for most people it’s not necessary.

Some people get joy out of deliberately antagonising others with comments they know will upset people.

I wish it was as simple as saying forget it, or to remind you how beautiful you are, but that doesn’t help the abuse you received for no reason at all.

I suppose in all walks of life you will get uneducated, morons with a lack of empathy. Hopefully life catches up with these people someday soon and changes their views and actions.

Big hugs from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s completely unacceptable and I hope whichever cretin it was doesn’t get back in here.

You come across as absolutely lovely and your pics are a delight…..trust me, I check regularly

….so although I’m sure you’ve not taken his abject ignorance to heart, I’ll just reinforce the message that you shouldn’t. xxx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

You are right to be peeved, there is never a reason to be rude and any type of prejudice is unacceptable.

Judging by how often you appear in "hot pics" the majority of the site thinks you look hot... I know we do.

Cal

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Awful, what a racist tosser!

Sorry for the hurt you must be feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not gonna hit on you.

I hope you’re not too upset by the shitty words of a troll.

As with everything on this site… harvest the good stuff, delete and block out the bad.

Have a great evening.

From

Sam

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

So difficult to answer something like this, so to answer the question you asked… for most people it’s not necessary.

Some people get joy out of deliberately antagonising others with comments they know will upset people.

I wish it was as simple as saying forget it, or to remind you how beautiful you are, but that doesn’t help the abuse you received for no reason at all.

I suppose in all walks of life you will get uneducated, morons with a lack of empathy. Hopefully life catches up with these people someday soon and changes their views and actions.

Big hugs from me "

It’s the fact he sought me out to say that, he could of passed me by, I’ve not even chatted with him. The fact he would purposely want to hurt someone for the sake of it really doesn’t sit well with me. It’s more than what he said, that’s sticks and stones it’s the why.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I experienced my first bit of real racism on fab, not the innocent ignorant sort but an actual “monkey features” name calling kind

You are right to be peeved, there is never a reason to be rude and any type of prejudice is unacceptable.

Judging by how often you appear in "hot pics" the majority of the site thinks you look hot... I know we do.

Cal"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only add my voice to others OP. That's disgusting behaviour. He seen something beautiful (I have seen your face) and tried to make it go away because of a lack in him.

Stay strong

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

The person that sent you that message is pond life, happenstance one day he evolves legs and leaves the soup of his own rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really sorry to hear this OP xx

It is 100% completely unacceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really sorry. It shouldn't happen to anyone.

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I can only add my voice to others OP. That's disgusting behaviour. He seen something beautiful (I have seen your face) and tried to make it go away because of a lack in him.

Stay strong "

Aww thank you. People like that just deserve to be lonely, imagine how hard your life must be when you are filled with racism

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By *inkylips OP Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I'm really sorry. It shouldn't happen to anyone.

Nope, no abuse of any kind. Unfortunately it does

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